"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[FyrGuy33]

SD4 M choices.

Slim. Most are, but if they are AA they might be more athletic.

Athletic. Could be in great shape up to thick but firm.

Average. Usually at least 20 lbs overweight.

Ample. Confusing because many girl relate this word to bust size not body size.

Cuddly. Always overweight.

Very cuddly. Grossly overweight.

Nationwide the average height and weight of the american woman is 5' 4" and 162 lbs. So at least 40 lbs overweight.

I would imagine the average height and weight of a viable SB is closer to.

5' 4' and 132 lbs. Even at 132 she would have to be an athlete not to be overweight.

I have a scale in my dining room that every girl has to step on, no exceptions.

I like that. I'm going to get a small scale I can keep in the trunk of my car and take into the no tell. I'll let you guys know how that works out for me...

[FyrGuy33]

Hi Guys! With all the talk about pics and SBs I ran into a rarity this week. Generally I don't ask for picks before a M&G but always appreciate it if they offer them. I had one I was texting with recently who only sent me face pics. I could tell she was probably a little heavy, but I don't mind a little thickness if the price is right and she has a pretty face. We had the M&G set and I was just texting her details when she texts back "I'm a little nervous, I'm not exactly skinny and I'm afraid you won't like me". She attached a full length pic and she was waaay beyond what even I find acceptable for weight. I don't see how she could describe herself as "average" on SA, LOL I texted her back declining our M&G as diplomatically as possible. I told her I appreciated her honesty... And I really did.

Good Hunting,

Travelin.

I find MOST of the women on SA that describe themselves as "average", and don't provide a full body pic, are FAT. Plain and simple. Personally, I pass them by. They are either in denial or have no concept of what average is. Unless it's me. Perhaps "average" is now fat and I am just living in the past.....

Good thing you were able to bail out before the M&G. It's just too uncomfortable to sit there with a girl who you do not find attractive because she is bigger than you thought she would be. I had that happen 5 years ago. It was hard to tell her that I liked talking to her but I cannot get intimate with her. She didn't take it very well...

NEXT!

[HollywoodGuy]

Hi Guys! With all the talk about pics and SBs I ran into a rarity this week. Generally I don't ask for picks before a M&G but always appreciate it if they offer them. I had one I was texting with recently who only sent me face pics. I could tell she was probably a little heavy, but I don't mind a little thickness if the price is right and she has a pretty face. We had the M&G set and I was just texting her details when she texts back "I'm a little nervous, I'm not exactly skinny and I'm afraid you won't like me". She attached a full length pic and she was waaay beyond what even I find acceptable for weight. I don't see how she could describe herself as "average" on SA, LOL I texted her back declining our M&G as diplomatically as possible. I told her I appreciated her honesty... And I really did.

Good Hunting,

Travelin.

SD4 M choices.

Slim. Most are, but if they are AA they might be more athletic.

Athletic. Could be in great shape up to thick but firm.

Average. Usually at least 20 lbs overweight.

Ample. Confusing because many girl relate this word to bust size not body size.

Cuddly. Always overweight.

Very cuddly. Grossly overweight.

Nationwide the average height and weight of the american woman is 5' 4" and 162 lbs. So at least 40 lbs overweight.

I would imagine the average height and weight of a viable SB is closer to.

5' 4' and 125 to 132 lbs. Even at 132 she would have to be an athlete not to be overweight.

I have a scale in my dining room that every girl has to step on, no exceptions.

A booty call girl I recently met was 5'8' and 135. Not a spinner, just average and tight. Saw her a few days ago, she says i gotta weigh myself. She was at 140 and so happy because she is trying to gain weight especially in her butt. Very common with a lot of girls watching too many music videos and thinking all guys want nikki minaj/ kim kardashian shaped girls. Remember when dating spinners to always comment on how perfect their body is (tell them over and over and over). Many have low self esteem due to so many haters telling them they are anorexic. My 5'4" and 105 MILF recently told me she wanted to go up to 120. I told her that would be a real turn off for me. In general society, spinners are out and big booty girls are in.

I have been a spinner lover since high school. Back then I was sometimes ashamed (and even stopped seeing girls) as I knew my friends were into big boobs and butts and i didnt want to hear their comments. After HS all that changed and I have never looked back. if you have a spinner never stop telling her how perfect she is because the pressure is on her to gain weight. I call it the Oprahfication of America. Once she made it OK to be fat, many women just gave up. Thank god I live in L.A. where thin is OK. But in the AA and Hispanic communities the pressure to be thick in all the right places is overwhelming.

[TravelinSD]

Hi Guys! With all the talk about pics and SBs I ran into a rarity this week. Generally I don't ask for picks before a M&G but always appreciate it if they offer them. I had one I was texting with recently who only sent me face pics. I could tell she was probably a little heavy, but I don't mind a little thickness if the price is right and she has a pretty face. We had the M&G set and I was just texting her details when she texts back "I'm a little nervous, I'm not exactly skinny and I'm afraid you won't like me". She attached a full length pic and she was waaay beyond what even I find acceptable for weight. I don't see how she could describe herself as "average" on SA, LOL I texted her back declining our M&G as diplomatically as possible. I told her I appreciated her honesty... And I really did.

Good Hunting,

Travelin.

[FyrGuy33]

Good job skin! It sounds as thought this young lady has some potential. I would not be so quick to kick her to the curb. This sounds like the kind of girl that you can mold into the perfect sb for you. As long as she takes direction well, I would suggest you continue to see her and get her to where you want her. The price is certainly good and you would not spend too much to find out if she is worth the time and expense.

[HollywoodGuy]

Met 22 year old massage therapist this morning at Starbucks. We hit it off and talked for 45 minutes. I got a couple hints during that she was ready to move to more.

I didn't want to be pushy so I kept beating around the Bush and then we finally started talking about going to a hotel.

She was immediately asking siri about hotels. I just picked the closest and nicest. I get a 1 1/2 hour workout before I paint her face. She is a little freakish and very vocal. Very nice girl but my spidey sense is tingling. She says she hasn't went all the way yet with a sd due to their age. I'm only 39 and good looking so maybe everything she said and did were true. But I'm very skeptical. Worried she might be utr.

I don't know exactly how your rating goes but she was looks.

Face 8 very cute sweet look with freckles and tiny nose.

Body 7 short and well sized but her shape wasn't perfect for some reason, awesome tan lines but no boobs.

Personality 8 too hippie for me but very outgoing.

Sex 8 I'm kind of strict here. She was awesome and very vocal and very submissive. And she could deep throat forever. But she could get lazy, wasn't great on top, and wasn't technically skilled at oral. I gave a few pointers before blasting her eye.

But, big but, she took it like a champ while talking dirty and sucking it clean. May need to make that a 8.5.

Gave $.

It is supposed to be one a week.

Skin.

Definitely a keeper for now.See her 3 to 5 times till you find someone better.

[FredMoore]

Good job brother Skin Jr.

Worried she might be utr? Did she call you Hun or Babe? That would be diagnostic.

[Colgado]

Met 22 year old massage therapist this morning at Starbucks. We hit it off and talked for 45 minutes. I got a couple hints during that she was ready to move to more.

I didn't want to be pushy so I kept beating around the Bush and then we finally started talking about going to a hotel.

She was immediately asking siri about hotels. I just picked the closest and nicest. I get a 1 1/2 hour workout before I paint her face. She is a little freakish and very vocal. Very nice girl but my spidey sense is tingling. She says she hasn't went all the way yet with a sd due to their age. I'm only 39 and good looking so maybe everything she said and did were true. But I'm very skeptical. Worried she might be utr.

I don't know exactly how your rating goes but she was looks.

Face 8 very cute sweet look with freckles and tiny nose.

Body 7 short and well sized but her shape wasn't perfect for some reason, awesome tan lines but no boobs.

Personality 8 too hippie for me but very outgoing.

Sex 8 I'm kind of strict here. She was awesome and very vocal and very submissive. And she could deep throat forever. But she could get lazy, wasn't great on top, and wasn't technically skilled at oral. I gave a few pointers before blasting her eye.

But, big but, she took it like a champ while talking dirty and sucking it clean. May need to make that a 8.5.

Gave $.

It is supposed to be one a week.

Skin.

I love the eye blasting comment. If you find out she is a UTR, I would be interested in hitting her up. Sound like fun.

[SkinJr]

Met 22 year old massage therapist this morning at Starbucks. We hit it off and talked for 45 minutes. I got a couple hints during that she was ready to move to more.

I didn't want to be pushy so I kept beating around the Bush and then we finally started talking about going to a hotel.

She was immediately asking siri about hotels. I just picked the closest and nicest. I get a 1 1/2 hour workout before I paint her face. She is a little freakish and very vocal. Very nice girl but my spidey sense is tingling. She says she hasn't went all the way yet with a sd due to their age. I'm only 39 and good looking so maybe everything she said and did were true. But I'm very skeptical. Worried she might be utr.

I don't know exactly how your rating goes but she was looks.

Face 8 very cute sweet look with freckles and tiny nose.

Body 7 short and well sized but her shape wasn't perfect for some reason, awesome tan lines but no boobs.

Personality 8 too hippie for me but very outgoing.

Sex 8 I'm kind of strict here. She was awesome and very vocal and very submissive. And she could deep throat forever. But she could get lazy, wasn't great on top, and wasn't technically skilled at oral. I gave a few pointers before blasting her eye.

But, big but, she took it like a champ while talking dirty and sucking it clean. May need to make that a 8.5.

Gave $.

It is supposed to be one a week.

Skin.

[John G Smith]

I try to be pretty casual with requesting pics similar to Hollywood. But my time is also valuable and limited, so I don't want to waste potentially 1-2 weeks setting up a date and FC visit, only to be underwhelmed by her misrepresented physical appearance.

Not to sound like a jerk, but it's one of the main reasons I tend to shy away from women who have had kids. Some women are able to bounce back nicely from pregnancy, but far too often most women have after effects from pregnancy, which are hard to see in normal pics. Woman who had kids could look decent in a normal picture, but once you see her naked without a push-up bra, you often see flabby / droopy tits and loose cottage cheese stomach. All of a sudden you're now relying 100% on Vitamin V to pull you through the rest of the encounter, so you can pop, go home and text the next SB on the rolodex. Whereas girls who don't have kids yet, a normal pic will do because generally once you see their body type, you have decent idea what's underneath and there's not too many bad surprises.

So if the girl has a kid, I may be a little more insistent on getting a full body picture that shows a little bit of skin. If they're not comfortable showing me this, then most likely I would have been disappointed anyway and it's better to end it early.

Remember it's your hard earned money. Yes you may not always get a model 10 girl but that doesn't mean you should roll the dice too much and end up paying money on a homely girl below your standards. Having a girl take a picture holding a sign with your name on it might be a little excessive if you just started chatting. However I think it's a reasonable request if things have advanced far enough and you're getting ready to meet, especially if it requires you to drive a decent distance. And I think it's reasonable to request a full-body picture early on. Often times I'm able to find a full-body pic by doing a FB search or the girl already provides it, so I don't have to request it. But if she's just given me zoomed in face pictures and I can't find a full-body pic by sleuthing, then I'll ask her for one. Especially if they start talking about allowances, then I'll insist on them sending me fully representative (non-nude) pictures. I tell them if they're not ready to be evaluated by their looks, then they're not ready to be a sugar baby.

Yes with me being a little more strict with pics may mean I lose out on a few good ones, but it also means I avoid the definite disappointments (physically speaking). And I only spend my time and money on girls who appeal to my predilections without the bitter after-taste of loose belly fat.

PS. I don't do it often, but a few times I have requested for a girl to take a fresh pic holding a piece of paper. I may do this if my spidy sense tells me the pics she's currently showing may be outdated or sometimes I do it just to test how agreeable she is to such a request and gauge her reaction. Here's a secret tip though. Don't have her write your name. Instead have her write something related to a funny conversation you guys had or hold up a particular object that you guys previously spoke about. That way she sees the picture request as something humorous instead seeing you as being on a power trip. If she's able to re-use the photo for other purposes all the better. You get a custom fresh pic and she doesn't feel like she's being pulled through hoops by a stranger.

[JZLizard]

I sort of use a reverse psychology method when it comes to photos. Knowing that every guy always asks for more, more and more photos. I never ask for any. If they don't have a full body shot on their profile you can just assume they are not in perfect shape. Because the ones that are can't post enough pictures of how hot they are.

But what I will do is say "please email me at whatever.com and I will send you a few pics" Thats it. Of course they always email me and now I have their email address as well. When I send the pics I will normally say something like "and you can reply with a few of your own if you want"... 9 out of 10 times they do.

I do something similar, I try to get them to e-mail me sooner rather than later, and I say if they do, and will please include a couple more photos (or more depending on how well I can see them on their site photos) then I will do same. I always have 5-6 recent pics ready to send that give them a better idea than the pics I put on the website, because I usually put pics that are intentionally hard to identify me if someone else sees me there (facial features hard to make out). Usually from there it's smooth sailing.

I will say though that sometimes a little FB research goes a long way toward preventing getting meeting someone who misrepresents themselves in photos. I recently had a case where one girls website pics looked delicious, but the follow up pics she sent me made it look like she might be strategically shooting photos and sending me the "best of" in order to hide a little bit of extra weight. I was able to find her on FB using only her first name and city, and while her own photos didn't reveal much, looking at her ex-bf's photo album revealed a lot. Both before and after the kid she had with him, she didn't really seem to try hard enough to exercise or stay lean. She might be lean now but she looked like someone who has an ongoing struggle with extra weight. That might not be a problem for some but I like them slim. I could tell she's the type that got down to her fighting weight just to hook an SD or two then she would start back on the donuts or whatever, and next thing I know I would be left feeling let down. It's amazing how quickly some of them can put on a few pounds, going from desirable to not-so-much in the course of a couple of weeks. Especially at her height (like 5'1") where it only takes a few pounds. So, when I see pics that are consistently waist-up only or some other red flag, my radar is on full tilt until they send me some pics that proves me wrong.

[HollywoodGuy]

Yes, these girls take photos of themselves all day long with their phones, and will spam you with them constantly after they know you a little. But before you've ever met them, I think you're up against the laws of supply and demand there, and even that may vary between different geographical areas.

They don't mind to do selfies they just mind to do favors for guys they don't know on a website where they think they are signing up to "get spoiled". You have to warm them up to our idea of what being spoiled means. They start out assuming they are a princess in a land of opportunity.

I sort of use a reverse psychology method when it comes to photos. Knowing that every guy always asks for more, more and more photos. I never ask for any. If they don't have a full body shot on their profile you can just assume they are not in perfect shape. Because the ones that are can't post enough pictures of how hot they are.

But what I will do is say "please email me at whatever.com and I will send you a few pics" Thats it. Of course they always email me and now I have their email address as well. When I send the pics I will normally say something like "and you can reply with a few of your own if you want"... 9 out of 10 times they do.

[JZLizard]

I understand your opinion and that may be correct. But I think it would have to be more along the lines of they just don't want to. Not an issue of actually coming up with the photo. Cause I've been dating a 23 year old for two years, and banging many 20 year olds for nine years, and they all were very proficient photogs with their phones. I didn't know a single one that didn't do multiple selfie a day.

So in my mind it's no big deal to take a minute and provide a selfie. Especially if they have posted photos on the site.

But I'm not a woman. I use reason and accountability.

Skin.

Yes, these girls take photos of themselves all day long with their phones, and will spam you with them constantly after they know you a little. But before you've ever met them, I think you're up against the laws of supply and demand there, and even that may vary between different geographical areas.

They don't mind to do selfies they just mind to do favors for guys they don't know on a website where they think they are signing up to "get spoiled". You have to warm them up to our idea of what being spoiled means. They start out assuming they are a princess in a land of opportunity.

[SkinJr]

22 year old legit massage therapist came around quick and provided several personalized photos. She is eager to meet tomorrow morning for m / g. I can't tell if she is just excited, hard pressed for money, or a utr. She's very eager.

35 year old provided a link to her private photos quick. And they were racy. She also provided a personalized innocent selfie immediately. The racy photos and her desire to meet tomorrow throw up red flags of a pro. But she has a clean innocent look so I'm going to see her regardless.

Skin.

[SkinJr]

I understand your opinion and that may be correct. But I think it would have to be more along the lines of they just don't want to. Not an issue of actually coming up with the photo. Cause I've been dating a 23 year old for two years, and banging many 20 year olds for nine years, and they all were very proficient photogs with their phones. I didn't know a single one that didn't do multiple selfie a day.

So in my mind it's no big deal to take a minute and provide a selfie. Especially if they have posted photos on the site.

But I'm not a woman. I use reason and accountability.

Skin.