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[BangaloreGuys]

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[Phantem]

Is there a site like this for Canada? Heading to Toronto in a few weeks.

Seek and ye shall find;

http://www.internationalsexguide.inf...php?102-Canada

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[ScShag]

I have a question for more experienced guys.

I live in So Paulo, Brazil and I 've been frequently traveling to the U. S since last year. Every time I am in the U. S (specially Vegas) I am tempted to get myself some company but I never do. I am to afraid of getting arrested.

The thing is. Here in Brazil I 'go out on dates' a lot. But in the U. S I'm a visitor. I read that, if arrested they can keep me from entering the U. S and I cannot afford to have that happen to me since most of my visits are on business.

So may you guys have any advice on how to avoid arrest when using Backpage and when getting company in hotel bars in Vegas.

Any advice from you guys will be much appreciated.

I can't speak for anybody else, but it doesn't sound like the risk is worth the reward to me. I live in Argentina and I know how awesome Brasilenas are, why risk going to jail and losing your job for a hamburger when you have steak waiting back home?

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Bon dia don BrazilianGuy! I love Brazil and brazilian women. The thong and the Brazilian bikini wax weren't bad things either.

I've had luck by looking for BP girls with multiple reviews on this site, with at least 1 review from more senior posters. It limits the options at first, but for me, this is OK. I'm starting to build a data base by name and reviews.

Also take a look at the rules of mongering.

http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/cu...MongeringRules

You'll also want to to do an LE or LEO check. I've seen several different comments, but generally it ranges on some form of contact before any discussion of the activity (sex,.) comes up.

Here's another good link for reference:

http://copsrcorrupt.********.com/201...d-not-get.html

Have fun in Vegas.

[ScShag]

I didn't see a separate thread, so I'll post here. Thanks for having the different lists on the top page.

In addition to providing good guidance for several situations, it saved me from getting caught by something I was not expecting.

After a date with a SW, I was checking the passenger area for hairs, crack pipes,. When my face was at the floor board, a suddenly got the scent of a women's perfume. I started sniffing around the seat, and realized the smell transferred from the SW's crotch! My sense of smell is not so good, but my SO is part bloodhound. She would have caught the scent and I would have had no explanation.

Thanks to the Rules of mongering, I was able to use Febreze to clean the whole inside of the car.

In case any of this is useful to anyone else, here are some other little things I've picked up:

Bacterial hand wipes.

Clearing out your GPS Recent places history.

Clear out recent phone calls, if you're not using a burner phone. It's still probably not a bad idea even then.

To keep reviews straight, I just started sorting them by name in Excel. Each tab has a recent ad, link, reviews. The file is hidden in a TrueCrypt dummy file.

[Viriato]

Hi all. As you might have noticed, I don't have many posts here yet. I guess I'm what you might call an amateur monger. I've lurked around her for a while, but only recently worked up the courage to go into a massage parlor and get the full package. In fact, so far I've only patronized one parlor, and I've stuck with the same masseuse every time, specifically calling to make appointments with her. Silly? I know, but what can I say? She's hot and she knows how to work my cock. I really like her. And as a repeat customer I'm hoping to work my way up to FS soon enough. But more on that later. Of course I'm going to try to find other women for variety but in the meantime, since it's still fresh in my heard, here's my advice for would-be mongers going at it for the first time:

First of all, RESEARCH. Before I made my first visit, I looked around the internet for reviews and advice. Eventually, I narrowed in on a relatively small selection of local MPs. Granted, going in I had some specific criteria, but I ultimately managed to find a masseuse who sounded up my alley, confirmed that she did in fact do HE, and found out her average price. Were all the reviews flattering? Not necessarily, but it least it gave me some idea of hat to expect going in. I was more than happy with the results. I walked in off the street with no appointment and, luckily she managed to squeeze me in on my first time.

I don't know if I would necessarily recommend doing that. If I had had the foresight (and courage) to make an appointment, at the very least I suspect I could have gotten a longer massage. Just something for you novice mongers to keep in mind. Also, I would recommend investing in a prepaid mobile phone if you plan on mongering. It helps to keep your work and. Pleasure contacts from getting mixed, and its especially helpful if you have a suspicious wife / girlfriend / SO. Of course, as I said, my preferred (and so far only) masseuse already knows me. I'm sure she recognizes my number at this point, even if its not my REAL number. Remember to register it from a generic e-mail address too, and not to leave it around where suspicious people can find it.

Anyway, my first massage went about as you'd expect. When she led me to the massage room, I quickly got undressed, and I made sure to "accidentally" let her see my package before taking the towel and lying down. She didn't give any objections at the time, which I SHOULD have taken as an obvious sign. English obviously wasn't her first language, but we made some small talk while she started. I'm sure she could sense I was nervous, but thankfully I didn't give off a LEO vibe. Part way through, she started to really rub my back and shoulders, not so subtly letting her boobs brush against me. Again, might be interpreted as an accident, but looking back it should have been an obvious sign she was game.

As she worked her way down my back, I took a little more initiative and started to groan and move my fingers. I know people are of mixed opinion on this sort of this, some viewing it as too forward (and possibly off putting if the woman doesn't offer HE) but she's the one who had to move her. And move she did. As I fiddled my fingers, she positioned herself so that they were rubbing against her thigh. After what felt like a minute or so of this, seeing as how she offered no resistance, I slowly moved my fingers towards her kitty. She didn't say anything, but after a few seconds of this, she moved around to the other side and started massaging my arm. To be honest, I was a little afraid that I had crossed a line and blown my chance for a HE, but thankfully she moved back within my reach, grabbed my right hand and moved it onto her kitty herself! Now that was hot!

We continued the small talk when she flipped me over, it being a little better as I could see her face (and, perhaps equally importantly, her fine ass body). She worked her way down my body, letting my towel fall aside as she rubbed my thighs. By this point, my cock with absolutely throbbing. She didn't say anything about it, carefully working her hands around it as she massaged my inner thigh. She also made sure to keep her kitty within reach of my toes, as if to continue tempting me. At the very end she asked if I wanted extras. I sort of tried to play coy here, but she let me know what was on the menu, and I was more than happy to take advantage of it. She took off her top, gave me a HJ and let my hands wander. Very nice breasts, and an even better ass. A little sucking on her tits too. I didn't do any kitty play that time, but pretty much it was everything you would have expected. Maybe a little more.

The only other piece of advice I would offer is to be calm. Your provider will probably be as nervous as you are, if not more so. Like I said before, thankfully I didn't give off a LEO vibe. I'm kinda out-of-shape (though looking to remedy that), have facial hair and. Well. Don't dress like a cop. I got lucky but I still got questions. Nothing too overt, but things like "what brings you here," and "where did you hear about us?" She DID ask if I had been there before, and I was honest. I said no. It didn't seem to be a problem. I get the feeling that she was probing me to find out if I was up to anything. Well, anything other than trying to get a release. Afterwards it was great. I paid her, gave her a tip, and was on my merry way. And that's pretty much my story. Hope it helps guys.

Also, don't feel any shame about it. I certainly didn't. It was a pleasant experience. A tad expensive maybe, but then its also not a daily occurrence either. Going in, my first time, I was a little nervous, a little afraid, but afterwards I was giddy and light-headed. I felt damned good about it. Hell, she gave me a better handjob than I ever got from any of my girlfriends. That alone was worthwhile.

[BrazilianGuy]

I have a question for more experienced guys.

I live in São Paulo, Brazil and I 've been frequently traveling to the U. S since last year. Every time I am in the U. S (specially Vegas) I am tempted to get myself some company but I never do. I am to afraid of getting arrested.

The thing is. Here in Brazil I 'go out on dates' a lot. But in the U. S I'm a visitor. I read that, if arrested they can keep me from entering the U. S and I cannot afford to have that happen to me since most of my visits are on business.

So may you guys have any advice on how to avoid arrest when using Backpage and when getting company in hotel bars in Vegas.

Any advice from you guys will be much appreciated.

I can't speak for anybody else, but it doesn't sound like the risk is worth the reward to me. I live in Argentina and I know how awesome Brasilenas are, why risk going to jail and losing your job for a hamburger when you have steak waiting back home?

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[Steve508]

So I have a date set up with a girl from BP. I have googled her # and email and only got other ads of hers. I have used tineye and nothing came up. She has been posting several times per week since December. After exchanging several emails and setting up a date (I did ask if she offered GFE and in a seperate email got a donation amount) she gave me her address and apt #. She seems legit and the apt is a legit add (I drove by) She sent me a couple additional pics (I told her to give me a thumbs up) she does not have any reviews but said she is a college student and only sees a limited # of people.

My question is, is there anything else I should be checking for / doing before I see her. Mostly nervoud about le.

Let them mention services first otherwise you can have discussion in person after the customary "cop check" (touching each other). I would rather waste my time with leaving a provider wanting $200 for a no touch HJ than get to meet the local cops.

[Steve508]

Any time a provider asks for "verification" it's just a way to scam you for money or to get an email address or CC number or something like that. I can assure you that $25 will disappear. And there will be no future sessions. Never give a provider money upfront for any future promises. Most are drug addicts and are looking for funds. That's why I never give any provider my phone number. I don't want calls looking for money and believe me that will happen sooner or later.

I agree that they will try calling to setup their next date if they need their next drug fix. Since a lot of provides will not take Private Calls buy a burner phone. Give them the number but don't setup or use the voicemail. I keep mine in the car (hidden from wife) and it's turned off unless I am using it to call out to setup a meeting.

[HeyILikeYou]

So I have a date set up with a girl from BP. I have googled her # and email and only got other ads of hers. I have used tineye and nothing came up. She has been posting several times per week since December. After exchanging several emails and setting up a date (I did ask if she offered GFE and in a seperate email got a donation amount) she gave me her address and apt #. She seems legit and the apt is a legit add (I drove by) She sent me a couple additional pics (I told her to give me a thumbs up) she does not have any reviews but said she is a college student and only sees a limited # of people.

My question is, is there anything else I should be checking for / doing before I see her. Mostly nervoud about le.

[Bluedee45]

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[GetLost]

It is a scam. They get you to put some money up front and then you never hear from them again. If you are going to do this, just pay for a webcam show. It is more satisfying.

Any time a provider asks for "verification" it's just a way to scam you for money or to get an email address or CC number or something like that. I can assure you that $25 will disappear. And there will be no future sessions. Never give a provider money upfront for any future promises. Most are drug addicts and are looking for funds. That's why I never give any provider my phone number. I don't want calls looking for money and believe me that will happen sooner or later.

[Greeekman]

I recently came across a provider that seemed legit from her pics, phone number (no hits and Tineye or google) and our text communication. We discussed donation via text and that wants to verify me via a webcam show for $25 and that once verified, the $25 will come off of the outcall cost. Has anyone come across this? I am waiting for her to get back to me as I could not meet up earlier when she was available. I am not sure how she will want me to pay for the webcam sow "verification" but I want to be mindful that it could be a scam to get my CC info.

Any of you long-timers ever heard of this?

It is a scam. They get you to put some money up front and then you never hear from them again. If you are going to do this, just pay for a webcam show. It is more satisfying.

[SouthernGent 1]

I recently came across a provider that seemed legit from her pics, phone number (no hits and Tineye or google) and our text communication. We discussed donation via text and that wants to verify me via a webcam show for $25 and that once verified, the $25 will come off of the outcall cost. Has anyone come across this? I am waiting for her to get back to me as I could not meet up earlier when she was available. I am not sure how she will want me to pay for the webcam sow "verification" but I want to be mindful that it could be a scam to get my CC info.

Any of you long-timers ever heard of this?

[Shyscott]

Is it common for an escort on CL to require online identity verification. She says it will come off the donation for the encounter but I'm afraid it's a scam.

I have had the same thing asked of me and I assume it is scam. Does anyone here know for sure? The girl in question seems to be TGTBT anyway, but damn I want it to not be a scam!

[Greeekman]

I personally would never do an outcall to my house or apartment. The problem with all escort type venues is that they probably keep some sort of record even if you don't think they do. Do you want your house address or even phone number a part of that. If you do the transaction to a hotel or motel in cash from a prepaid phone number, it is much harder to have it linked back to yourself. Look in the Maine forums about a year or so ago about a "exercise" place that was raided and then the johns who could be identified were arrested with the names made public. You don't want that.

Motel etiquette is the same as it would be if you were not using it as a hobby. Check into the hotel with two people using cash if possible. It is a normal thing to do. Often they want to see a driver's license so be prepared to show it.

Enjoy.

Alright guys, newbie here, a few questions.

1. I was wondering if an outcall to your place of residence is always a bad idea? Can it be done safely?

Follow up: should you always be using motels? Exceptions?

2. Motel etiquette: how to NOT make it look like what it is.

Thanks!