"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[FredMoore]

The talent is decidedly lacking. I have never seen such a paucity of reasonable candidates and have not even bid on anyone lately. Right now I have a regular who is very reasonable and am sticking with her for the moment. You never know when they will flake away.

SDFM is also light. It used to be 5 or 6 panels of names and is now 3 ,many of whom are in Fredericksburg.

There is a cure for GPS. Follow Hollywood's lead and stick to your guns. Offer what you can afford and move on. When the big spenders are stripped of their assets then the price will come down. My take on it is the escort market is becoming more highly watched by LE so some of the Mongers are spilling over into PTP SB market offering escort rates. Mid level escorts get $300/ hour. Lower end $100 to 200 / hr and offer half and QTR hours. No escort in Rich that I know of is commanding $500 + / hour.

The other possibility is the time of year. College girls are making summer plans and maybe are not wanting to commit to a Daddy.

Finally, is the economy improving? I don't see it but maybe the girls are not as desperate lately.

[AliasSM]

I completely agree. I usually hunt in the northern VA or Baltimore market but have been doing some local Richmond hunting off and on due to a job assignment that brings me here often. I have run into some real GPS horror stories and continue to lose good Potentials due to high demand in this market area. I think we all run into this no matter where we live, but my opinion is that this forum may be part of the problem. Don't get me wrong, I love this site and have learned techniques that I would have spent years and years perfecting and probably never would have figured them out on my own. But its my opinion that the location of this thread being RVA has brought much more attention to the sport here than elsewhere, and that we have more SDs per capita, which is causing high levels of inflation locally.

I could be wrong, but I have had several outright turn-downs even at the 300 level, which is about double what I'm truly comfortable with paying. I'm encountering mid-quality SBs that just laugh at offers in the $$ or less range, and have received several quotes asking for 500 and above. The AA market here is a little more reasonable, but trying to get an 8 or above profile of any race to agree to less than 300 is getting tough. I can't help but thinking that I'm simply getting out-bid.

I just seem to have lost a mid-quality AA in her early 20's after a single successful visit to the FC. I thought I was being generous at the $$ level plus expenses, and she was very agreeable to making it a long term arrangement in the next few days of txting. But I noticed that she was still active on SA and has all of the sudden gone to complete radio silence. I'm pretty sure on this one that she has found a better deal elsewhere.

What is the average SD to do? Too late to go back to BP...I'm hooked on the chase of the SD world.

Alias.

Well, Richmond and surrounding has been tough. SBs are demanding high allowance. Are there anyone recently found SBs, want to get opinion. Also, I met someone thought is good. But after getting phone number, google search found that she has been an escort. Damn...

Another VCU SB, high demand...initially agreed for 0.25 and then at the meet...she said it was just for dinner...LOL.

[GeorgeRichmond]

Well, Richmond and surrounding has been tough. SBs are demanding high allowance. Are there anyone recently found SBs, want to get opinion. Also, I met someone thought is good. But after getting phone number, google search found that she has been an escort. Damn...

Another VCU SB, high demand...initially agreed for 0.25 and then at the meet...she said it was just for dinner...LOL.

[CaneBay]

I say possible as I have not met with her yet. I understand she is in a tough spot and needs some help. I can not get to her location till later in the month. I have the OK to share her number with trusted / senior members. Fair Warning. I have not met and not 100% sure she is legit. Pics (could be fake) are just my type. Petite spinner. Says she has been a SB before but her SD left for Europe... Message if you want the digits. She has a profile on WYP, Macon, GA. Blueeyedbaby1989. She is looking for now. Not sure why I am trying to help her.. Maybe just the little head is doing the thinking..

[Member #5055]

I think you mean <18 - but we get your drift! Completely agree!

You are correct, thank you very much for catching that.

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[Admin2]

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[Happy Lover]

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editor's note: this report was edited to remove references to **** persons.

i am aware that the vast majority of references to **** girls are legitimate attempts to warn other fellow members about how easy it is to accidentally pickup an **** girls, the potential dangers of being caught with **** girls, etc. however, past discussions in the forum has repeatedly demonstrated that the subject simply cannot be discussed intelligently, in any form or for any reason, without being misinterpreted, and without starting flame wars.

please do not post references to **** persons in the forum. thanks!

[HollywoodGuy]

Some very interesting reading here gentlemen. I feel the need to add some of my rules to all the good advice that has been offered. I always let a POT know that I do not pay for anyone to sit and have conversation with me. If I want to just do that, I can stay home with my wife. As Fred stated, no $$ until the panties hit the floor. I always meet them in public for a cocktail or lunch before taking them to the fc. I usually make that a separate date as I do not like to commit to the fc with them until I talk with them first. More than once they turn out to be mental patients I would rather not get involved with. The maximum I will start out with is $150. If they are looking for more, I tell them they can show me why they deserve more, but we are starting out at that. Only twice have I gone to $200, and that was because both ended up just being amazing. I also have some strict communication rules. If they are challenged with that, I move on. I will not spend any time trying to chase them down because they care little about my time. Also, they need to be able to tell time and be on time. Most of us have "windows of opportunity" to see them. Constant tardiness is an insult. Again, I move on to the next one.

Remember, the pool is full of new SB talent. None of them are so good that we need to accept any of their bullshit. I hope this is of value here.

All true, scheduling is definitely an issue, even being single, because I am married to my job.

[FredMoore]

Currently seeing my SB in a bonus (or boner) room in a friends office building. She is a little kinky anyway and likes the thrill of dangerous liaisons in odd places and is more of a hit and run sort of girl. The price is right at $ . Cost =$75 to 100 max. No refreshments or Notels. Just a hard dick and multiple positions and we are good to go. There is no connection to me at all and traffic is low there.

I have had 2 ex SBs come to the office several years ago. We have done the desk top, sofa, and a selection of comfortable chairs. Warbling orgasms are a problem so I don't recommend bring your more vocal virtuoso.

Welcome Fyrguy33 . Thanks for the input. Let us know about some of your experiences. We are a show and tell bunch of guys here.

[John G Smith]

I took her to my office. After ten minutes of chatting I suggested we had too many clothes on. She giggled and removed her top. I told her to lay on the desk and relax.

I want to open up a new thread of discussion on Office Romps. Obviously this isn't an option for everyone and it's something you have to be very careful about.

But if you own your business and have a fairly low-key office / office building with few or no other people around, an office space can make a good alternate FC location. You save on hotel fees and it's not as cheap feeling as the backseat of a car. And as Vasail mentioned in his report, quite a few girls get off doing it in an office and it's usually on their sex bucket list.

There's obvious risks such as the girl knowing your identity and business. But outside of the psychos, most girls do not want to stir up trouble at an office building. And again, if you own your business, even if she went temporarily crazy, your the boss and there is minimal collateral damage. Her making weird calls to the office or even showing up unannounced isn't going to do much unless she has keys to the building.

It's still a calculated risk and if you're trying to stay in total stealth mode, then you should avoid it. But I recently got some new office space myself and I've met a couple of SBs there. Before they came to the office, I had already met them previously and they were vetted. It worked out great. Having a SB come to me without having to really do anything was fantastic for several reasons. Not only was it hugely convenient but when one of my SBs flaked on me at the last minute, I didn't waste money on a hotel, gas, travel, or time. I just swiveled my chair and went back to work. And in terms of discretion, when the SBs do come I tell them to dress conservatively and carry a notebook or folder. If anybody asks I just say they are a client or salesperson. I'm also not chatty with the other businesses in the building, so they don't know exactly what's going on and can't draw any firm conclusions.

Even if your current job or office isn't practical for this, you could always just rent some office space somewhere and make it your makeshift FC location. I know a while back we had a discussion about renting apartments for permanent FC locations. But I think we came to the conclusion that it would be more trouble than it's worth, and it would set off huge red flags if the SO somehow found out about it on a credit report or something. Plus the temptation of letting a SB live there could also cause a lot of problems. The advantage with an office location is that you don't have to worry about any of those "live-in" issues and if the SO found out you had an office location it wouldn't set off any alarms of SB activity. In fact, you probably could tell your SO about the office and it likely wouldn't cause any issues. An office space is also easier to furnish than an apartment. Just make sure your office is big enough for a desk and decent sized couch, and you're good to go.

Again, I want to reiterate it's risky. But it's the same kind of risk if you were going to have a secret SB apartment anyway. And for me, while I'm raising the risk of SB knowing my identity, I'm actually lowering my risk of being exposed by my SO on a routine basis. Every time I go to a hotel, I'm dealing with small windows of time and I'm having to lie about my whereabouts. If something comes up and my FC location is too far from my supposed location, then yellow / red flags are raised. But with the office, I'm at my supposed location and my windows of time are larger and more flexible. You just have to make sure to not plan anything when the SO can make an unannounced visit while you're in the middle of your Office Romp.

If you do try this, you need to choose your office wisely. Your office should preferably be away from the areas of high foot traffic. You should have the ability to screen your visitors or at least block access, so someone can't just walk in on you without your permission. If you have windows, make sure they have blinds. Do a sound check and get an idea of how sound travels. You don't want to be in a building where even casual conversations can be heard through walls to other businesses. Avoid a building that has a front desk secretary for all the businesses. These secretaries will gossip or worse talk to the building owner if they don't approve of your behavior. So get a place where you can come and go without interacting with anyone.

I'd be glad to hear any other tips / cautionary tales from those who have successfully used their Office as a FC.

[Vasail]

I feel like I have just experienced a convergence of several discussions over the past few days.

First, like many I'm based in RIC. I have been in the bowl for over four years and have been fortunate to meet a couple exceptional ladies. Fred and I have lamented the loss of a couple superior SBs. One 10 that we both saw at different times, Fred's ATF from a nearby town and my MILF third grade teacher who saw me and one other then quit. As one who likes an emotional connection with the individuals we seek to bang, I found myself somewhat depressed after losing my MILF third grade teacher after only two amazing sessions.

Girls from CL.

There has been some discussion about the girls on CL. Most pros and fakes. I have had some luck on CL both from ads and responses. Recently the warden was out of town and I was looking for some strange. I answered an ad on CL from my area. She immediately answered saying she was looking for two or more guys. I responded that I was a generous white male and could help her. She responded positively. I suggested we meet at a local store halfway between us. She agreed. We met at the store and she jumped in my car. She is a beautiful 19 YO with an amazing smile and open disposition. I took her to my office. After ten minutes of chatting I suggested we had too many clothes on. She giggled and removed her top. I told her to lay on the desk and relax. I grabbed some lotion from my desk and gave her a back massage. After about ten minutes I reached around and unbuttoned her shorts and slid them down to her ankles and began working on her backside. She started moaning and moving her ass in my with each thrust of my hands. Long story short, I banged her on my assistant's desk to the satisfaction of both of us. There was absolutely no talk of sugar to this point.

When I dropped her off at her car I asked to see her wallet. She gave it to me without question. I opened it and there was only one dollar. I put in $ and gave it back to her saying I wanted her to be my SB. She just laughed and said fucking in the office got her off.

The next week I had a free afternoon and sent her a text asking what she was doing. She said she was about to take a shower. I asked if I could join her. She said to come on over and gave me her address. I went to a VERY upscale house near me. It was her mom's house that she shared with her brother. He mom mostly stayed with her BF. I too was expecting Chris Hanson except for the previous encounter. She met me at the door in a terrycloth robe and a smile from ear to ear. We went to her room and started where we left off. After the first session I suggested we take a shower together. We washed each other and concluded with an oral session the likes of which I have not experienced in years. We went back to her bed and finished with the best BJ I have ever had.

As we were laying in bed reflecting on the past two hours, she admitted that she was exploring her sexuality and wanted to experience new things. Sex in an office was checked off her list and she liked the idea of a SD. She told me of several other fantasies which I hope to fulfill this spring and summer.

It is so nice to be back in the game! Yes, you can find a diamond on occasion on CL...

Happy Hunting!

[GeorgeRichmond]

I don't even consider that type an SB, it's just an escort posing as an SB.

Yes, this was supposed to be a SB meeting as she said marketing director and come to Richmond every week.

[JZLizard]

I am back in bowl and now feel that I know some old tricks. Well...here is one SB ...

SB: I'm driving through Saturday, let's meet for lunch.

Me: ok.

SB: Are you interested in more than one girl? I have my friend I'm traveling with.

I don't even consider that type an SB, it's just an escort posing as an SB.

[GeorgeRichmond]

I am back in bowl and now feel that I know some old tricks. Well...here is one SB ...

SB: I'm driving through Saturday, let's meet for lunch.

Me: ok.

SB: Are you interested in more than one girl? I have my friend I'm traveling with.

Me: Well, tell me what you like to do. Also allowance info. I prefer to meet you only but if you send me info we will discuss.

- now I know what's coming next, after couple of back and forth text.

Me: I will give allowance only after our date is over.

SB: Well I am ok with allowance on nightstand, I should be able to see it.

Me: I can't keep it there. I can show the allowance and then will keep it in safe place! It will be given to you after the date. That's how it will work.

-- I said I had some bad experience with such situation.

No reply...no talk afterwards.

I guess someone else is getting into this trap..be careful...!

What's up with all SBs here...they are asking 0.5+ hmmm..getting tough to fish.

[JZLizard]

Did Fred hit the nail on the head or what?

Yep. You lay the ground rules, not her. Most women are attracted to authority (overwhelmingly true of SBs), and the more you can exert (while of course remaining tactful and charming) the more it will work to your advantage.

It's a delicate balance; you don't ask her what she wants to do, and you don't tell her what she has to do... You suggest what the two of you WILL do in a way that sounds like you've got it all worked out and she will respect you for it, be more attracted to you for it, and most of the time it will work out in your favor. Exceptions will occur but you take the losses with the wins. Women are women and the game is the game. Sharpen your skills in the sugarbowl and it will help you in general interactions with women and dating (and vice versa). It doesn't matter if there is money in an envelope on the table or not -- women just are what they are and it's about understanding what they think and respect.