Massage Parlor Reports

[DontFailMeNow]

To those below.

My response was purely based upon being surprised by such an incident and reacting to it instinctually. It's also a response based upon experience, as it wouldn't be the first time I had dealt with someone pulling out a phone to make a call or take a photo (situations unrelated to mongoring). Could there be repercussions for my actions? Sure could. Is it a smart move? Probably not. But it just is what it is. No ones taking a picture of me without my consent. No one's making a phone call about me without my consent (obviously can't do anything about calls or pics being taken that I wasn't aware of). I'm not going to assault a woman over taking my photo, but one way or another, that data card in the camera is either getting snapped in half or it's coming with me. Simple as that.

I'm with those who think this is a really bad idea in practice, no matter how appealing it might be in theory. This poor woman apparently has so little to occupy her time that she has convinced herself that she is on a moral crusade that will bring lots of attention and assistance from the media. In fact, the media isn't about to post pictures from someone like her that appear to show someone in a slightly compromising situation. Imagine what the world would be like if they started doing that.

Some of you may remember the recent situation with Jennifer in S-dbury. A local station had film from outside a location where there had been a recent arrest, and they still blurred out the face and license plate of the guy entering / leaving the establishment. I'm no lawyer, but I suspect that for a media outlet to show a private person in a context that suggests lawbreaking (but with no evidence thereof) could verge on libel under the right circumstances. Even if it's not libel, there's a clear possibility that they smeared a guy who's completely innocent. Nobody likes to have to apologize for crap like that.

On the other hand, following the actions mentioned below could easily have generated a 911 call with a plausible accusation of assault, theft, and / or malicious destruction of property. That's clearly newsworthy, especially if there was an arrest to go with it. Unless you managed to leave without letting anyone see your license plate and having completely destroyed the memory card, it's hard to believe that you could avoid such an outcome. The resulting coverage would make a much larger stink than a picture of someone simply visiting a MP.

If this woman thinks her pictures will make the morning paper, she's delusional. If she doesn't really believe it, then she's just yanking your chain. It can be hard to walk away from something like that, but it's really for the best all around.

I agree with PW -- It is unlikely that in these circumstances I would have had the presence of mind to react. However, a good response would be to pull out your cell phone camera and take her picture. Sure, she could post spa customer pics online somewhere with a caption saying she noticed a few guys exiting a spa. If we had her picture, we could then reply in kind, posting it online with a caption: "A streetwalker crack *hore seen on our town!

It's very easy to try to put ourselves into another's shoes in a particular situation and say " I would've...". It is much harder to say with any accuracy what we REALLY would have done. Perhaps you have nerves of steel and would have done what you said. Me on the other hand probably would have followed suit with TBone and been caught so off guard that by the time I thought of something to do or say the moment is passed. While I assume we all prepare in our heads for what to do if LEO stops us coming out of a spa (STFU) I am willing to bet that no one here planned in their head for a bat shit crazy do gooder taking our pictures.

In terms of your action plan I would advise against it. First off, as unsettling as it is she has not broken any laws. Secondly if there is any struggle at all you can bet your ass that it will be viewed as some sort of assault. Lastly, keep in mind that this particular spa has no less than half a dozen businesses with direct sight lines to the front door and where TBone was photographed. How sure are you that none of those had video cameras that may happen to catch views next door or across the street. Huge difference if this women goes to LEO and reports TBone for leaving a spa as opposed to reporting you for accosting her and destroying her personal property.

At the end of the day, some woman took TBones picture I am pretty sure Fox is not waiting with baited breath for pictures of random guys doing nothing wrong to put on TV. The bigger issue is for the Spa itself as they are the ultimate target whether intended or not. We have been down this road before and it usually follows the same script, things are great until someone complains and the LEO is forced to act.

Just my .02 and maybe not worth even that.

[HappyDave]

I have to agree-I have been to many AMP's where a monger walks in off the street and sets up shop in the waiting room-when this happens to me-I leave, wait in my car and look for the other guy to leave and then go in-Monger courtesy. In other places where one girl is working and there are 2 or more rooms-they can put you in the room to wait-where I have fallen asleep a couple of times.

Of course-this never seemed to be an issue in the old days at Danish Health Club or Olde English Spa where you were in the locker rooms with other mongers and then in the line up room with just a towel on. I guess we are all getting up tight about visibility now rather than in the past. Just kind of funny.

I remember before the big crackdown in RI when Lily on admiral street was so popular it would have a dozen of us in a waiting room. I also remember at Angel & Amy's waiting in there entry for a monger to leave and having a monger wait while I left. Anyone ever pick up the curtain and look in the other room. .

[MeatMan]

I have tried asking the parlors why they do not service African Americans, and the response I get is that they are scared of ripping their tight clitz and have it loose. My fellow homiez walike Asians, but for some odd reason, they are scared to even open the door when I am with an OG visiting a parlor...

This is one of the reason why I dislike "donating" my time and money to those type of parlors...

Well, that's funny because when I was in Thailand, Laos, Cambodia, and a few other countries, I was welcomed with open arms. The women were at LEAST 90-110 stone, petite and here I am some 6 ft bald black dude being coerced, haggled, even PULLED to try them out!. Here in Mass, the game is entirely different. I'm going to research this a bit more.

[Mr Bao]

Fellow mongers,

Possibly within the next few weeks, I may try my first AMP(with extras)in the US since the early 1990's (most of my massages were in SE Asia). While that's no big deal, here's the thing, some of you may or may not know, I'm African-American. Aside from that, I severely lack experience and, I just don't know what to expect to the point it would make me nervous. I've heard stories such as black guys don't visit parlors, were this and that and most are not true. I'm looking for some information so if anyone can help me I appreciate it. If there's an AMP that you guys could recommend for me, that would be awesome.

I have tried asking the parlors why they do not service African Americans, and the response I get is that they are scared of ripping their tight clitz and have it loose. My fellow homiez want and like Asians, but for some odd reason, they are scared to even open the door when I am with an OG visiting a parlor...

This is one of the reason why I dislike "donating" my time and money to those type of parlors...

[MeatMan]

Fellow mongers,

Possibly within the next few weeks, I may try my first AMP(with extras)in the US since the early 1990's (most of my massages were in SE Asia). While that's no big deal, here's the thing, some of you may or may not know, I'm African-American. Aside from that, I severely lack experience and, I just don't know what to expect to the point it would make me nervous. I've heard stories such as black guys don't visit parlors, were this and that and most are not true. I'm looking for some information so if anyone can help me I appreciate it. If there's an AMP that you guys could recommend for me, that would be awesome.

[Heat Seeker]

What's up fellas! I'm visiting a friend in Waltham, any suggestions for a good AMP with extras? I went to Crystal Spa in Lexington, real cute chick but no extras, not even a HJ just a straight massage. The massage was legit though, I may go back before heading home on Monday. Not a lot of parking though.

http://boston.craigslist.org/gbs/thp/4360986838.html


Also I saw this ad on BP, anyone checked these ladies out?

http://boston.backpage.com/BodyRubs/...bs-23/25848327

[NoRush]

In recent months I've been taking a weird "bucket list" approach to AMP's west of the city. Although I've made good progress in Woosta and Mahlborough, I've fallen behind a little in F-Ham, and I've even missed a few that are closed now. Anyways, the other day I decided to check FBW off my list. Stopped by mid-afternoon at a dumpy basement facility. I got Maggie. Middle-aged, nothing special. As usual, I only had time for HH, but the rate there is 50. Massage was pretty bad, but I did leave happy, more or less. I was told there's no expanded menu. During the HH, she took two calls and at the end she stepped out to let another monger in. With all the activity she forgot to wipe the oil off my back before the flip. Standard tip. I wouldn't repeat unless in a very serious pinch or if there was better talent. YMMV, of course.

So, for my bucket list, it looks like 400 and Lavender are both closed (missed them) as is Myrtle (got it). I've hit FBW, Pink, 82, and 62 with mixed results. I saw one report that the place on route 9 that never advertised is closed now. Can you guys confirm that? Also, can anyone confirm first-hand that there are real, natural-born, DNA-confirmed, female women to be had at either J or H, also on route 9?

Thanks guys. Stay safe out there!

[NoRush]

I'm with those who think this is a really bad idea in practice, no matter how appealing it might be in theory. This poor woman apparently has so little to occupy her time that she has convinced herself that she is on a moral crusade that will bring lots of attention and assistance from the media. In fact, the media isn't about to post pictures from someone like her that appear to show someone in a slightly compromising situation. Imagine what the world would be like if they started doing that.

Some of you may remember the recent situation with Jennifer in S-dbury. A local station had film from outside a location where there had been a recent arrest, and they still blurred out the face and license plate of the guy entering / leaving the establishment. I'm no lawyer, but I suspect that for a media outlet to show a private person in a context that suggests lawbreaking (but with no evidence thereof) could verge on libel under the right circumstances. Even if it's not libel, there's a clear possibility that they smeared a guy who's completely innocent. Nobody likes to have to apologize for crap like that.

On the other hand, following the actions mentioned below could easily have generated a 911 call with a plausible accusation of assault, theft, and / or malicious destruction of property. That's clearly newsworthy, especially if there was an arrest to go with it. Unless you managed to leave without letting anyone see your license plate and having completely destroyed the memory card, it's hard to believe that you could avoid such an outcome. The resulting coverage would make a much larger stink than a picture of someone simply visiting a MP.

If this woman thinks her pictures will make the morning paper, she's delusional. If she doesn't really believe it, then she's just yanking your chain. It can be hard to walk away from something like that, but it's really for the best all around.

You handled it much differently than I would have. Without a doubt I would have grabbed the camera out of her hands, smashed it on the ground, and walked away, not uttering a single word. What she did wouldn't fly with me. And after everything was said and done, there would have been very little she could have done about it.

[Blambo McGee]

It's very easy to try to put ourselves into another's shoes in a particular situation and say " I would've...". It is much harder to say with any accuracy what we REALLY would have done. Perhaps you have nerves of steel and would have done what you said. Me on the other hand probably would have followed suit with TBone and been caught so off guard that by the time I thought of something to do or say the moment is passed. While I assume we all prepare in our heads for what to do if LEO stops us coming out of a spa (STFU) I am willing to bet that no one here planned in their head for a bat shit crazy do gooder taking our pictures.

In terms of your action plan I would advise against it. First off, as unsettling as it is she has not broken any laws. Secondly if there is any struggle at all you can bet your ass that it will be viewed as some sort of assault. Lastly, keep in mind that this particular spa has no less than half a dozen businesses with direct sight lines to the front door and where TBone was photographed. How sure are you that none of those had video cameras that may happen to catch views next door or across the street. Huge difference if this women goes to LEO and reports TBone for leaving a spa as opposed to reporting you for accosting her and destroying her personal property.

At the end of the day, some woman took TBones picture I am pretty sure Fox is not waiting with baited breath for pictures of random guys doing nothing wrong to put on TV. The bigger issue is for the Spa itself as they are the ultimate target whether intended or not. We have been down this road before and it usually follows the same script, things are great until someone complains and the LEO is forced to act.

Just my .02 and maybe not worth even that.

I agree with PW -- It is unlikely that in these circumstances I would have had the presence of mind to react. However, a good response would be to pull out your cell phone camera and take her picture. Sure, she could post spa customer pics online somewhere with a caption saying she noticed a few guys exiting a spa. If we had her picture, we could then reply in kind, posting it online with a caption: "A streetwalker crack *hore seen on our town!

[Member #4868]

You handled it much differently than I would have. Without a doubt I would have grabbed the camera out of her hands, smashed it on the ground, and walked away, not uttering a single word. What she did wouldn't fly with me. And after everything was said and done, there would have been very little she could have done about it.

It's very easy to try to put ourselves into another's shoes in a particular situation and say " I would've...". It is much harder to say with any accuracy what we REALLY would have done. Perhaps you have nerves of steel and would have done what you said. Me on the other hand probably would have followed suit with TBone and been caught so off guard that by the time I thought of something to do or say the moment is passed. While I assume we all prepare in our heads for what to do if LEO stops us coming out of a spa (STFU) I am willing to bet that no one here planned in their head for a bat shit crazy do gooder taking our pictures.

In terms of your action plan I would advise against it. First off, as unsettling as it is she has not broken any laws. Secondly if there is any struggle at all you can bet your ass that it will be viewed as some sort of assault. Lastly, keep in mind that this particular spa has no less than half a dozen businesses with direct sight lines to the front door and where TBone was photographed. How sure are you that none of those had video cameras that may happen to catch views next door or across the street. Huge difference if this women goes to LEO and reports TBone for leaving a spa as opposed to reporting you for accosting her and destroying her personal property.

At the end of the day, some woman took TBones picture I am pretty sure Fox is not waiting with baited breath for pictures of random guys doing nothing wrong to put on TV. The bigger issue is for the Spa itself as they are the ultimate target whether intended or not. We have been down this road before and it usually follows the same script, things are great until someone complains and the LEO is forced to act.

Just my .02 and maybe not worth even that.

[Smoke Screen]

You handled it much differently than I would have. Without a doubt I would have grabbed the camera out of her hands, smashed it on the ground, and walked away, not uttering a single word. What she did wouldn't fly with me. And after everything was said and done, there would have been very little she could have done about it.

My thoughts exactly, but I'm sure there would be more to come.

[Smoke Screen]

I love eating Chinese food but sometimes, I want to have some Pad Thai.

I can appreciate the different models of the AMP business. Yes you pay more for the Thai places because like many other businesses, it takes more money to run a better business. The common theme to these Thai places are:

1) They offer nicer and peaceful surroundings. They are better decorated and offer full walls for privacy.

2) They are better staffed. There is often someone answering the phones so no call interruptions. You get the full hour.

3) They cater to those mongers who are looking for the better massage experience. Often Thai places do not offer the half hour option. With a better massage they can promote their 90 minute version.

4) The staff seem to stay longer so it is easier to keep the quality consistent and allows us to get what we expect.

5) The staff are usually younger. But they also have a very limited or no Roaming policy. Its a look but do not touch policy.

I often go back and forth between the Chinese and the Thai style AMP. I do not like paying more. But when I feel the need of a Thai massage, I am willing to pay for the difference.

6. They often have TS (and I'm not talking about table showers) and ladyboys.

[Dh1610]

You may be mixing some of your details with the other School St location being shut down briefly in the past but the general assumption that they maynot last long in town is probably accurate.

That place was shut down and reopened again correct? It was in the paper. All I see lately is Russian massage at Marrett on weekends only. I was tempted to go but since the reviews were mediocre didn't. Obviously they don't want it in there city. If Framingham is small like an Andover, only a matter of time. If that happened to me, end of hobby permanently.

[DontFailMeNow]

Came out of Marrett st yesturday and had my photo taken by an older woman in her 50's.

I approached her and she told me she was going to post my photo in the paper.

Personally I don't care but some of you may want to watch your surroundings.

You handled it much differently than I would have. Without a doubt I would have grabbed the camera out of her hands, smashed it on the ground, and walked away, not uttering a single word. What she did wouldn't fly with me. And after everything was said and done, there would have been very little she could have done about it.

[Ruggerz66]

I have experienced this in a variety of situations, all local to me. Most recent was one girl working with a double-booking. It ended up OK because I hid around the corner inside, she asked me to wait 10 minutes., while she finished up. He walked in just ahead of me, I had scheduled an appt., so I hung back for 5-10 mins before entering (not knowing 1 or 2 girls were working) and she asked me to wait for her. She took care of it in short time, so she must've squeezed in a quickie are+T just ahead of my arrival.

At ww a loud mouth monger, younger brash type, was given entrance while the 2 ladies were occupied. He had all sorts of questions and delayed the already intrusive interruption, AND he was just standing there waiting while I finished, dressed, and was leaving. Atypical as I personally have been led to the tv room there to wait and / or waited in a 3rd room while a monger departed. This was not what I expected. Also at the same location 2 of us entered at the same to ring the bell and wait for the lady to come down and let us in. I did a turn around when we both went in. I had to wait a few before ringing the bell again as it was too akward. That last one couldn't be helped, sheer bad timing, but the other 2 were mishandled by the AMP.

I have to agree-I have been to many AMP's where a monger walks in off the street and sets up shop in the waiting room-when this happens to me-I leave, wait in my car and look for the other guy to leave and then go in-Monger courtesy. In other places where one girl is working and there are 2 or more rooms-they can put you in the room to wait-where I have fallen asleep a couple of times.

Of course-this never seemed to be an issue in the old days at Danish Health Club or Olde English Spa where you were in the locker rooms with other mongers and then in the line up room with just a towel on. I guess we are all getting up tight about visibility now rather than in the past. Just kind of funny.