"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[FredMoore]

" last week I discovered that my SO was looking for a little action ".

So Landon, Instead of busting your SO's chops, offer her a deal. Tell her it's only fair that she be free to look as long as you can. This gives you two something in common. You both want to get laid, just not with each other. You can sit around at home after dinner on your computers setting up dates.

What was the cost of your night at the strip bar?

[HollywoodGuy]

Great story. I am also on over drive. Assembled my B team in 30 days. All young (19,23 and 25). All aware of each other. And all exclusive to me so far. Did 9 different girls last month. The A team, the B team and 3 interviews that I won't repeat.

[LandonR]

I've had a crazy past few days that has brought me both joy and pain. I haven't dipped my toes into the sugar bowl since earlier this fall when I had some amazing out of town fun while on a business trip. My marriage has been on the rocks for awhile now, but as many of you can probably relate we've been sticking with it for the kids. Well, last week I discovered that my SO was looking for a little action on the side. The history on her computer showed she posted a few ads in the Casual Encounters section of Craigslist - (at least someone will get some action from her as I haven't in 6+ months! I confronted her about this immediately. She didn't deny it and it's been chilly between us the past couple of days to say the least. After installing a keylogger on the computer I decided that I was more than justified to see what the sugar bowl had to offer since my few month hiatus.

This is where things got interesting this weekend. I connected with a POT 22 year old (6.5) that lives out of state. Turns our that she's actually a stripper at a club about 45 minutes from my house. Now, I'm well aware of the dangers about getting involved with a dancer, but it's always been a bit of a turn on for me, so I thought I had nothing to lose when she told me to come visit her at the club. I made arrangements to meet up with her that evening. Since I was going to be in the same city of another POT 22 yr old college girl (7) that I had messaged with a a few months earlier I decided to hit her up as well to see if she would be interested in meeting for a drink. Get a message back right way that she would love to. Game On!

I arrive at the strip club and the POT Stripper SB recognizes me immediately and snuggles up to me in the booth. We have a good conversation, but I told her I wasn't there to get dances, and I knew she needed to make money, so feel free to do her thing and she could check in with me occasionally. In the meantime, I get a text message from the POT College SB and I tell her I'm at the strip club with a friend (sorta true). Next message back from her is "I want to see some bobbies! 30 minutes later in through the front door walks the 2nd SB with one of her girlfriends.

Drinks start flowing, and the next thing I know I'm sitting in a both with POT Stripper SB on one side of me, POT College Girl SB on the other side of me, and college girls friend across the booth. Ifeel like the biggest damn pimp in the world. Neither of them realize that they other is a POT SB. Here I am a 41 year old average looking guy in a miserable marriage surrounded by 3 young, attractive girls. POT Stripper SB picks up the vibe that I'm really not feeling her that evening so she smartly decides to make some money. POT College SB is starting to get buzzed and really wants some dances in the VIP area. Who am I to object! We pick out a HOT stripper and bring her back to the VIP room. Once in the room, first thing my potential SB does is ask if she can take her shirt of too. Her shirt quickly comes off and I'm immediately viewing two hot girls liking each other all over. Not too much time passes before then eventually turn their attention to me and I have more boobs than I can handle in my face. Roaming hands everywhere. Clits being rubbed, etc. It was a fun 15 minutes in the room. After our session is over I whisper to my pot SB to get her number and see if she'd be open to doing some "private" dances for us sometime. The stripper says she would love to and gives my POT SB her phone number. POT SB tells me straight out that she wants to have a 3 some, that she would love to have it with that stripper, but if it doesn't work I can try and find someone else to join us sometime. We eventually repeat this episode with 2 other dancers that night. Each of them gave us there number. Who knows if anything will come of it but it's sure fun to fantasy that it will. POT SB tells me that she really wants to consumate the relationship that evening but her place was off limits and we should get a hotel room. Well, it's now well after 1:00 am, I have a 45 minute drive ahead of me and decide I need to get on the road. I say my goodbye to POT College SB, POT Stripper SB and take off with memories that will last forever in my head and plans to come back and visit POT College SB soon for either a 3 some of just one on one action.

That my friends was Friday night...

I'm recovering most of the day on Saturday and tell myself I'm not going out and need to just chill at home. Around 3:00 pm I get a text message from a POT 21 year old College SB. We eventually make plans for a quick meet and greet at a local bar. Her first foray into the bowl and she has no idea how it works but is intrigued by everything. She tells me it's up to me to show her the ropes (jackpot! Well after 2 drinks I tell her that perhaps we should get a hotel room to see if there is any chemistry between us. She is agreeable so I pull out my phone and immediately book a room. Spend a good 2 hours in the room and I can say that there is definitely some chemistry! No sugar was discussed or exchanged. As we were leaving we talked about what her needs are briefly. She stated she's not hurting for money as her parents support her in college, she's not really sure what she wants. I told her to think about it for a couple of days and we'd figure out something before our next date. We part ways and as I'm driving home I can't believe that I just spent 2 glorious hours in a hotel room with a pretty hot 21 year old girl for nothing more than the cost of two rum and cokes and a cheap hotel room.

I'm back in the bowl! .

[FredMoore]

I am glad to see so many new posters, but miss some of our oldies Big Tigg and Scotty. If you guys are still lurking give us a shout out.

As I navigate this intriguing world I see and have experienced the pitfalls, but I am still trying to hang in.

ATF # 4 :

Separated for 1 year and banging my brains out has now explored going back to hubby. She wants to keep me on as a booty call since my "skills" she wants to keep in her life. Who am I to complain? But it will be less regularly so I will have to see. Last orgasm together was 2 weeks.

SB #2.

Size 2 spinner who takes my Bare back Nutt for $.25 as often as I want. I meet her every 2 weeks for now.

Pot #1.

AA 24 yr old 7/7/? Has agreed to $/ meet so I am thinking about her. And she has her own place. She's a little ghetto looking so I'm not sure.

Pot #2.

Is a 21 yr old white girl 8/8/? She lives a little too far but have offered her $ to come see me and She hasn't said no. So we'll see. I will add her to the rotation every other week. Maybe if she shows good faith I will give her more gas money. Hollywood, you will be proud of me if I pull it off.

[SubCmdr]

Anyone ever tried to 1099 their SB so you can write them off on your taxes.LOL...

I'm sure this was written in jest. But, the applicable tax law would be: The annual exclusion, which allows you to give $14,000 in cash or other assets each year to each of as many individuals as you want.

A 1099 implies payment for goods and services. And everyone can see the downside of explaining that during a audit.

Another reason to keep business and pleasure separate.

SubCmdr.

[LikeMike1963]

Anyone ever tried to 1099 their SB so you can write them off on your taxes.LOL...

Has anyone had any of the similar experiences. I am coming up on a year in the sugar bowl so things are still a bit new. But I have three different babies intensely talking / asking with me about their tax refund / credits for the year. This is a really big deal since they usually qualify for the EITC a federal government stealth welfare program. That means they are getting somewhere between 4 and 6 k depending on their situation.

So what stories have you brothers heard about what they are spending it on. I have three different cases.

1. She is getting 4500 back and she is going to invest in a boob job. She has really small boobs so I must say she does need it. She is also the hottest looking one.

2. She wants to pay for six months of rent to concentrate on school. Sensible girl.

3. She is asking what she can spend her 5 k on to invest it for a future day. She is totally serious about learning investing. She is also in nursing school and works a real job.

What stories do the other brothers have? What would you advise for your baby on investing?

Ahh the contrasts.

Revvo.

[Barry B]

The modern woman does it to us by going silent. I've had it done to me and must admit it is the best way. Going silent is so much more final which is part of the message.

Yes, exactly.

[J Martinez]

Have decided to quite sb10.she is starting to be a whiner and the thrill is gone! Need ideas? Go silent? Deliver the news? What'd ya think?

I wouldn't go silent because that's like burning a bridge. One never knows what tomorrow brings. Personally, tell her the truth. She probably already senses it.

[Golfcart]

Have decided to quite sb10.she is starting to be a whiner and the thrill is gone! Need ideas? Go silent? Deliver the news? What'd ya think?

The modern woman does it to us by going silent. I've had it done to me and must admit it is the best way. Going silent is so much more final which is part of the message.

[Bigg Dawgg]

Has anyone had any of the similar experiences. I am coming up on a year in the sugar bowl so things are still a bit new. But I have three different babies intensely talking / asking with me about their tax refund / credits for the year. This is a really big deal since they usually qualify for the EITC a federal government stealth welfare program. That means they are getting somewhere between 4 and 6 k depending on their situation.

So what stories have you brothers heard about what they are spending it on. I have three different cases.

1. She is getting 4500 back and she is going to invest in a boob job. She has really small boobs so I must say she does need it. She is also the hottest looking one.

2. She wants to pay for six months of rent to concentrate on school. Sensible girl.

3. She is asking what she can spend her 5 k on to invest it for a future day. She is totally serious about learning investing. She is also in nursing school and works a real job.

What stories do the other brothers have? What would you advise for your baby on investing?

Ahh the contrasts.

Revvo.

Have #3 contact me, I'm a CFP. Does she want a short term, or long term investment, and what kind of a return is she looking for? Inbox me.

[Revvo]

Has anyone had any of the similar experiences. I am coming up on a year in the sugar bowl so things are still a bit new. But I have three different babies intensely talking / asking with me about their tax refund / credits for the year. This is a really big deal since they usually qualify for the EITC a federal government stealth welfare program. That means they are getting somewhere between 4 and 6 k depending on their situation.

So what stories have you brothers heard about what they are spending it on. I have three different cases.

1. She is getting 4500 back and she is going to invest in a boob job. She has really small boobs so I must say she does need it. She is also the hottest looking one.

2. She wants to pay for six months of rent to concentrate on school. Sensible girl.

3. She is asking what she can spend her 5 k on to invest it for a future day. She is totally serious about learning investing. She is also in nursing school and works a real job.

What stories do the other brothers have? What would you advise for your baby on investing?

Ahh the contrasts.

Revvo.

[FredMoore]

Have decided to quite sb10.she is starting to be a whiner and the thrill is gone! Need ideas? Go silent? Deliver the news? What'd ya think?

Tell her 1) your finances have changed and you can no longer afford to be a SD.

2) Your SO discovered you and you have to cut it off.

3) your Herpes got worse / whatever is final and outrageous.

Thank her for a wonderful time together but you can longer see her --and go silent.

It's best that they don't take it personally and can blame "the circumstances".

[HollywoodGuy]

Have decided to quite sb10.she is starting to be a whiner and the thrill is gone! Need ideas? Go silent? Deliver the news? What'd ya think?

Deliver the news. Then go silent. But it has to be very final sounding. Because there may be many follow up txt's from her.

[Colgado]

Have decided to quite sb10.she is starting to be a whiner and the thrill is gone! Need ideas? Go silent? Deliver the news? What'd ya think?

Just deliver the blow as quickly as possible. The faster you get it over with the better off you and her will be. She will hopefully learn a lesson: it's business not pleasure, and, if she is really smart, she will understand that her customer service needs to improve.

[Graham111]

Have decided to quite sb10.she is starting to be a whiner and the thrill is gone! Need ideas? Go silent? Deliver the news? What'd ya think?