Strip Club Reports

[Member #4517]

Visited here after spending an hour or so at Fannie's. I was looking for a little extra and didn't see anything that interested me at Fannie's. I take that back; I would LOVE to take the bartender, Jordan, to VIP but... Oh, well! Ended up sitting with Katrina (real name). She is fun and talkative. Makes up for her just so-so looks. Sat at the bar with her telling me all of the 'right' things; how much she loves to suck dick, what she will do to me in the VIP, etc. After having a few drinks, went to a table to get some dances (check to see if she would be worth VIP. As you know, you can't trust what they say). After two dances the hard press was on and I bit! $100 total (her and 30 min in room) with a guarantee that she would pull out my dick and make me cum. I assumed from her constant talk of giving head, THAT is how I would cum. NOPE! Things started out promising. As soon as we were in the room, she told me to pull my dick out. She began using her tits to stroke me. I LOVE THIS and made sure to tell her. She stated that she remembered that I told her I was a tit-man and said "I am to please"... Then promptly stopped what she was doing! She stood in front of me while I rubbed her pussy for a moment and suggested that I play with myself. Said that she really gets off on seeing a man jack off! I saw where this was going... Or so I thought! I asked her if she was POSITIVE nobody was going to come check on us. She said "no" and elaborated that she normally would have her sister stand at the entrance for her. Then, without asking, she grabbed her sister, and told her to get undressed for me. Although I didn't find her sister attractive, I was somewhat turned on by this. At the same time, I didn't know what they were going to expect me to pay for this! SHIT... I didn't ask for it or give my consent! As she tells her sister to use her ass crack to get me off, she repeatedly tells me to "pay her whatever I felt was right". What? THIS was not what I asked for! Here I sit... Dick out, being ass-crack jacked-off by a girl I wasn't attracted to, without ANY lubrication and being expected to pay extra for something I didn't want! WTF? After a few minutes of me trying go make the best of things, she put my hand on my dick and told me to take care of it while she shook her pussy in my face. I did, cleaned up and, as instructed, threw the used tissues behind the couch! I gave her sister $40 unplanned! Katrina gave me her number and stated that she DOES work outside of the club. FS is 3$. And she will do doubles with her sister. Katrina was fun, all-in-all. However, while not ugly, she isn't tres bills worthy and, apparently, you never know when SHE will decide to bring someone else in on the action and expect you to pay up.

[Mediaman]

Sounds like it might be entertainer Gia who works for Topshelf Entertainment as well.

I don't know a dancer named Jody at Oasis, though that doesn't mean much. The girl I am thinking of is probably 50. She definitely works out, takes care of herself, has big boltons, long hair. Does this sound familiar. If it is her, I never gotten the impression she would do much. Maybe different for you.

[Joesouncool]

It was at night. On a Sunday.

I don't know a dancer named Jody at Oasis, though that doesn't mean much. The girl I am thinking of is probably 50. She definitely works out, takes care of herself, has big boltons, long hair. Does this sound familiar. If it is her, I never gotten the impression she would do much. Maybe different for you.

[SomeGuy3]

Was this during the day or at night?

It was at night. On a Sunday.

[Joesouncool]

Have not been with Jody, but if you do VIP there make sure to "get the job done" in the first 20 of your 30 minutes. Most other clubs in ATL I have experienced that either the girl is in control of the time or someone knocks. My experience at Oasis has been that the clock watcher guy outside just sticks his head in the room 5-10 minutes before your time is up... Not very polite.

I've never had the guy from the outside interrupt me. Might I suggest a little tip for him. All I ever get from him is a knock on the outside of the room.

Now the waitresses, they walk in all the time even if I tell them not to. Very stupid inspite of the tip I give them. Bothering me in the VIP after you get a tip is an immediate way for me to not tip again.

[Joesouncool]

I tried Oasis today for the first time. Decent mix of girls and there were some 8's. The action looked tame but I'm used to follies.

I met a girl named Jody who says she's 50. She is older but does not look 50. She Sat. With me a while and promised a great VIP. She was not specific and I passed. I was tempted, but seeing how tame the floor dances where I just thought I would be let down.

Does anyone know about Jody?

What about Oasis VIP in general?

Please reply or pm me.

Was this during the day or at night?

[AOneWhoWonders]

Have not been with Jody, but if you do VIP there make sure to "get the job done" in the first 20 of your 30 minutes. Most other clubs in ATL I have experienced that either the girl is in control of the time or someone knocks. My experience at Oasis has been that the clock watcher guy outside just sticks his head in the room 5-10 minutes before your time is up... Not very polite.

I tried Oasis today for the first time. Decent mix of girls and there were some 8's. The action looked tame but I'm used to follies.

I met a girl named Jody who says she's 50. She is older but does not look 50. She Sat. With me a while and promised a great VIP. She was not specific and I passed. I was tempted, but seeing how tame the floor dances where I just thought I would be let down.

Does anyone know about Jody?

What about Oasis VIP in general?

Please reply or pm me.

[George GA]

What did she look like? The last time I was there (several months ago) my buddy and I were joined by an older woman, she wore "librarian" type glasses (looked sexy), had longer brown hair and a nice body (not a hard body like the younger ones, but a real woman's body). If memory serves correct, she told me she was in her late 40's.

I'm going to assume it's the same woman, so I'll tell my experience there.

She Sat. At our table, didn't hound us for dances, held a decent conversation and had a drink with us. After probably 20 minutes, she talked me into VIP without saying anything specific, but a strong "hint" that I would leave happy. I asked if happy meant what I thought it meant and she smiled and nodded. OK with me, nothing ventured, nothing gained. I left the VIP quite happy, would consider again if I go there (I don't get out to play often)...

I don't recall the $ (maybe $1.2? But it was likely more than most of you would consider appropriate (BTW, I'm not into haggling, I just say, "tell me what the rules and cost are and I'll decide whether or not I want to play the game", same thing I do with other providers). I don't mind paying a little bit more, or tipping a bit more, particularly if I plan on seeing her again. It has served me well, over the years (back to the mid 90's) I've seen a few women MANY times and I've had great "service". Some examples: Joy, Hannah, Ria and Nikki of FBM fame (my experiences were "better" than most), along with a couple that are currently active, but have asked / insisted on no specifics being disclosed. I'm not naive enough to think I'm the "only one", but many of my experiences have exceeded what I've read here and other places...

I tried Oasis today for the first time. Decent mix of girls and there were some 8's. The action looked tame but I'm used to follies.

I met a girl named Jody who says she's 50. She is older but does not look 50. She Sat. With me a while and promised a great VIP. She was not specific and I passed. I was tempted, but seeing how tame the floor dances where I just thought I would be let down.

Does anyone know about Jody?

What about Oasis VIP in general?

Please reply or pm me.

[Peter Revvie]

Catching up on some overdue USASG thread reviews, it looks like the topics "spending cash", "VIP" and "Tattletales" have been discussed in-depth recently. A few of my observations:

Strip Clubs "generally"- I view the Adult Entertainment (Club) industry as a huge "Machine" in which the most vital "lubricant" for its operation being money "in motion", that is money being transferred from men to women as tips, for dances, in garters or in VIP, etc. In most clubs, if a guy walks in and has the appearance that he has the capacity to "spend money" (create your own definition) and walks to the bar area, stakes out a seat or some turf, gets a beverage and tips the server, that "guy" will have no problem being solicited for a dance, "do you want company? Or any combo of small-talk, hustle, etc. The dancers are there to earn various levels of "tip-outs" before they clear a $ for themselves, so there is a desire to get "the House" paid as quickly as possible so they can earn a living. The appearance (and demonstration) of the ability to transfer cash from you to them is the lifeblood of life and success inside a club for a dancer.

Code of Conduct- A guy will separate himself from the masses by being respectful and polite with the dancers, they get hit on constantly or are verbally molested by folks in all stages of sobriety that if you can keep a modest conversation going on some topic ("how is your day going? "you have perfect teeth!) You have advanced into "Good Guy" status pretty quickly and made them comfortable with you as a person, which is a huge part of what it is all about. Depending on the dancers approach to you (direct request for "dance", flirtatious, "I'm thirsty, can you buy a drink) You can react with some variation of your Club "game" and see how she reacts and go from there. Slow and consistent builds trust, don't expect that you will conquer VIP with any specific dancer on the first visit (but it might).

VIP, or not?- The comments on "how do I get into VIP at Club $* at $ at ** (pick your fave)" is really a question of how do you want to play the game. Getting to VIP with someone is I believe the daily goal of any dancer who shows up at a club, the question in my mind is if you want to play at "the Club" (with their rules) or take things "off campus" via take-out. If getting to VIP is your personal goal, your only limits are your cash available and time, going off-campus requires developing a different level of comfort and expectations with a dancer who may be interested in something outside the club (or not). End of the day, the ladies are earning a living through a variety of activities, some will travel off-campus if required and others don't. Your limits are far greater inside the club if that is your choice, and a lot depends on the specific club.

The mystery with all this is that it changes like the weather, you need lots of options..LOL.

Stay Safe,

PR.

Agree 100%.

Many years ago (late 80's / early 90's), a buddy of mine and I had partial season tix for the Hawks (pro hoops team). Usually, we would meet at the Varsity for dinner, go to the Cheetah for a few cold ones, get to the hoops game usually around the end of the first quarter or so, and leave to return to the Cheetah at halftime. Usually, the place (the Cheetah) wasn't real crowded at that hour and we got to recognize and know some of the women. A couple times we were there with a consultant on an expense account who would have women dancing for us all the time. One time we had 9 (yes, nine) women dancing on the table in front of us during one of the "2 for 1" specials. But, I digress...

Over several weeks of this, we made friends with two dancers who said they were sisters, (but weren't). Although it was many years ago, I'm not sure if it's OK to say their stage names, but they both were gorgeous! If you happened to frequent the place in that time frame, you'd likely recognize their names. It got to a point where they would sit with us (my buddy and I are decent enough looking guys and he's quite the talker, I'm a financial guy that would sometimes talk with them about investments and taxes) when we came in, knowing that we weren't going to spend a lot of money (our financial situations were different 20-25 years ago and it was usually early in the evening) and go dance when they wanted / needed to. We would tell them they needed to "go make some money" and sometime they replied, "The night is still young, we'll be here long after you leave.

The point is, if you're a decent enough guy, for SOME of the women, you don't have to be a big spender. Of course, I've had more than my share sit at my table and immediately leave when I decline a dance, saying, "Maybe later." I want to decide who I have dance for me, not have the gals pick me.

Just my $0.02.

[TimBuckTwo]

Out making the rounds on the black strip club circuit. Went out for day and night shifts Thurs-Saturday. And I really had a good time, but there are some interesting notes this go round. So on to the rambling (I think most know my spots by now).

Thursday:

Started out with dayshift Pleasers. Slow start, really only 1 girl I wanted to get a dance from and she was tied up for the longest, so I eventually left without a dance. The dark skin droopy huge soft booty chick was there, but decided not to partake. The got a new outdoor pink sign for the club. It definitely stands out (LOL)! Note: They are charging $2 for dayshift entry. Only club doing it that I'm aware of.

Next went to Foxy Lady. Again no one caught my eye, and pickings were slim. Note: They now have a the club is for sale on the billboard with a phone number to call if interested. So maybe the club is finally on its last legs? More on this later.

Went past Queen City and they were closed, so kept going to Babes and that where things picked up. Saw 1 of the chicks from Foxy here (actually saw 1 on Pleasers dayshift, too, so they are starting to venture away Foxy bit by bit). Note: They finally got rid of the boxing ring, put some type of faux wall where the giant tv is and put in a "snacks" booth off to the corner. I have yet to see anyone actually buy a snack from there. For kicks I asked for the price of a small bag of lays chips and she told me $2? Um. I'm ok (LOL)! Got some good dances by 3 girls, with 1 really trying to sway me to VIP (which is still $20 for entry). Note: For Queen City, I went back by on Friday dayshift and nightshift and they were still closed, so not sure what the deal is there. I remember being told they were going to renovate?

After taking a dinner break, I went back to Pleasers to see who was working nights (New York and Hurricane still part of the lineup). Didn't have time to wait on anyone, so I head off to Rocafellas (still $10 for entry, still doing the parking hustle). Lots of hungry girls inside and since I was there around 2 am, I pretty much had my pick. Got some dances from my regular chick.

Wash, rinse, repeat for Friday & Saturday. I will say that Babes was the best overall time this trip which is rare for me. But I was a little bummed out by a big booty chocolate chick named Hershey, who told me she "only" dances in VIP. If you had seen this azz, you'd understand why it bummed me out. Of course, I don't want to do VIP for just the same dance I can get on the main floor (duh). Surprised she wasn't dancing at Blue Flame with that mentality. But she actually gave a good grind.

When I got back form Roca, I went searching through BP ads and saw one for big booty porn star Ms Cleo. Couldn't believe my eyes! Took the number down for later.

Before I forget, went back to Foxy late night Thursday around 0130 and they security told me the club was closed because the girls left (LOL)! Wow! Guess there weren't any customers. So I cam back again Friday night and it was ok; dude even tried to give me break on the normal VIP price to make some money. I haven't seen the big titty chick this or my last few trips and the girl I like wasn't there, either. Hate to see the place go, but they have been losing business ever since they started acting funny with VIP pricing and trying to keep the customer / girl action PG on the main floor. Let a hood club be a hood club!

So, like I said Friday repeat and Saturday it was raining and started coming down with a cold. I will say Friday was lighter than normal for patrons; I realize the SEC game was in town, but I don't think that would impact the clubs that much? I decide to call Ms Cleo around 11 pm and left a message when she didn't pick up. She was only to stay through the weekend and I knew I wouldn't be available on Sunday. So decided to go back to Pleasers to close out the roundup. I was actually not going to do anything, but NY stopped by and grabbed me! Now these 2 chicks (NY and Hurricane) STAY busy. Back when I first met NY, maybe 3 or so years ago, it was pretty easy to get her. But literally, dudes stay tapping them on the should to get on their list all night long. I've only danced with Hurricane once and it was the truth, but she never comes to me, however NY will come to me. I call myself trying to ween myself off her, but when she physically grabbed me and I still had Ms Cleo on the mind, I broke down. Suffice it to say, she made short work of me and I probably made out better on pricing than if I managed to hook up with Cleo. I think NY added to her real estate, because I used to be able to hold out. This time it was like a pliable, yet firm, vise grip-I never stood a chance! But early Sunday morning Cleo text me to say she was available and I cursed my luck. Even if I had the time (which I didn't), my cold kicked in more and I didn't have the pent up energy needed for a session (plus not sure what the cost would be). But if there is another opportunity, I will hit her up as soon as I see the ad as I want that left cheek / right cheek dance with little man right in the middle (LOL)!

Last note: Noticed a ATM receipt in Pleasers, left behind. Being nosy, I grabbed it and saw it was for 60 bucks with a $10 fee for using the ATM. OUCH!!! Why do folks use the stripclub ATMs??? That's a lost of 2 dances (LOL)!!

This was a good report!

[SomeGuy3]

I tried Oasis today for the first time. Decent mix of girls and there were some 8's. The action looked tame but I'm used to follies.

I met a girl named Jody who says she's 50. She is older but does not look 50. She Sat. With me a while and promised a great VIP. She was not specific and I passed. I was tempted, but seeing how tame the floor dances where I just thought I would be let down.

Does anyone know about Jody?

What about Oasis VIP in general?

Please reply or pm me.

[Wleakr]

Out making the rounds on the black strip club circuit. Went out for day and night shifts Thurs-Saturday. And I really had a good time, but there are some interesting notes this go round. So on to the rambling (I think most know my spots by now).

Thursday:

Started out with dayshift Pleasers. Slow start, really only 1 girl I wanted to get a dance from and she was tied up for the longest, so I eventually left without a dance. The dark skin droopy huge soft booty chick was there, but decided not to partake. The got a new outdoor pink sign for the club. It definitely stands out (LOL)! Note: They are charging $2 for dayshift entry. Only club doing it that I'm aware of.

Next went to Foxy Lady. Again no one caught my eye, and pickings were slim. Note: They now have a the club is for sale on the billboard with a phone number to call if interested. So maybe the club is finally on its last legs? More on this later.

Went past Queen City and they were closed, so kept going to Babes and that where things picked up. Saw 1 of the chicks from Foxy here (actually saw 1 on Pleasers dayshift, too, so they are starting to venture away Foxy bit by bit). Note: They finally got rid of the boxing ring, put some type of faux wall where the giant tv is and put in a "snacks" booth off to the corner. I have yet to see anyone actually buy a snack from there. For kicks I asked for the price of a small bag of lays chips and she told me $2? Um. I'm ok (LOL)! Got some good dances by 3 girls, with 1 really trying to sway me to VIP (which is still $20 for entry). Note: For Queen City, I went back by on Friday dayshift and nightshift and they were still closed, so not sure what the deal is there. I remember being told they were going to renovate?

After taking a dinner break, I went back to Pleasers to see who was working nights (New York and Hurricane still part of the lineup). Didn't have time to wait on anyone, so I head off to Rocafellas (still $10 for entry, still doing the parking hustle). Lots of hungry girls inside and since I was there around 2 am, I pretty much had my pick. Got some dances from my regular chick.

Wash, rinse, repeat for Friday & Saturday. I will say that Babes was the best overall time this trip which is rare for me. But I was a little bummed out by a big booty chocolate chick named Hershey, who told me she "only" dances in VIP. If you had seen this azz, you'd understand why it bummed me out. Of course, I don't want to do VIP for just the same dance I can get on the main floor (duh). Surprised she wasn't dancing at Blue Flame with that mentality. But she actually gave a good grind.

When I got back form Roca, I went searching through BP ads and saw one for big booty porn star Ms Cleo. Couldn't believe my eyes! Took the number down for later.

Before I forget, went back to Foxy late night Thursday around 0130 and they security told me the club was closed because the girls left (LOL)! Wow! Guess there weren't any customers. So I cam back again Friday night and it was ok; dude even tried to give me break on the normal VIP price to make some money. I haven't seen the big titty chick this or my last few trips and the girl I like wasn't there, either. Hate to see the place go, but they have been losing business ever since they started acting funny with VIP pricing and trying to keep the customer / girl action PG on the main floor. Let a hood club be a hood club!

So, like I said Friday repeat and Saturday it was raining and started coming down with a cold. I will say Friday was lighter than normal for patrons; I realize the SEC game was in town, but I don't think that would impact the clubs that much? I decide to call Ms Cleo around 11 pm and left a message when she didn't pick up. She was only to stay through the weekend and I knew I wouldn't be available on Sunday. So decided to go back to Pleasers to close out the roundup. I was actually not going to do anything, but NY stopped by and grabbed me! Now these 2 chicks (NY and Hurricane) STAY busy. Back when I first met NY, maybe 3 or so years ago, it was pretty easy to get her. But literally, dudes stay tapping them on the should to get on their list all night long. I've only danced with Hurricane once and it was the truth, but she never comes to me, however NY will come to me. I call myself trying to ween myself off her, but when she physically grabbed me and I still had Ms Cleo on the mind, I broke down. Suffice it to say, she made short work of me and I probably made out better on pricing than if I managed to hook up with Cleo. I think NY added to her real estate, because I used to be able to hold out. This time it was like a pliable, yet firm, vise grip-I never stood a chance! But early Sunday morning Cleo text me to say she was available and I cursed my luck. Even if I had the time (which I didn't), my cold kicked in more and I didn't have the pent up energy needed for a session (plus not sure what the cost would be). But if there is another opportunity, I will hit her up as soon as I see the ad as I want that left cheek / right cheek dance with little man right in the middle (LOL)!

Last note: Noticed a ATM receipt in Pleasers, left behind. Being nosy, I grabbed it and saw it was for 60 bucks with a $10 fee for using the ATM. OUCH!!! Why do folks use the stripclub ATMs??? That's a lost of 2 dances (LOL)!!

[George GA]

Agree 100%.

Many years ago (late 80's / early 90's), a buddy of mine and I had partial season tix for the Hawks (pro hoops team). Usually, we would meet at the Varsity for dinner, go to the Cheetah for a few cold ones, get to the hoops game usually around the end of the first quarter or so, and leave to return to the Cheetah at halftime. Usually, the place (the Cheetah) wasn't real crowded at that hour and we got to recognize and know some of the women. A couple times we were there with a consultant on an expense account who would have women dancing for us all the time. One time we had 9 (yes, nine) women dancing on the table in front of us during one of the "2 for 1" specials. But, I digress...

Over several weeks of this, we made friends with two dancers who said they were sisters, (but weren't). Although it was many years ago, I'm not sure if it's OK to say their stage names, but they both were gorgeous! If you happened to frequent the place in that time frame, you'd likely recognize their names. It got to a point where they would sit with us (my buddy and I are decent enough looking guys and he's quite the talker, I'm a financial guy that would sometimes talk with them about investments and taxes) when we came in, knowing that we weren't going to spend a lot of money (our financial situations were different 20-25 years ago and it was usually early in the evening) and go dance when they wanted / needed to. We would tell them they needed to "go make some money" and sometime they replied, "The night is still young, we'll be here long after you leave.

The point is, if you're a decent enough guy, for SOME of the women, you don't have to be a big spender. Of course, I've had more than my share sit at my table and immediately leave when I decline a dance, saying, "Maybe later." I want to decide who I have dance for me, not have the gals pick me.

Just my $0.02.

When you come to know the dancers, it may not cost you that much. Buy her a drink, and a couple of dancers. Talk to her. If she needs to go dance and make some money, encourage her. Because you have more than one at your table. This way they can still make a living. Sometimes when they need a rest or drink and sometimes when the business is not very good, they will come to your table to chill out. This way you don't have to spend that much to get lots of attention. But I won't try to demand their time. Their businesses go first. Tell each other jokes will make them feel more comfortable with you. I never take them to VIP room because it will cost me too much. Sometimes I take them out dancing, KOK, movies, dinner. And I don't pay them. Maybe I pay them for babysitters. You will be surprised how many single moms don't have chances to go out. I am also a disgusting dirty old man. Being old has its advantage. They know that you are not interested in a long term relationship so they don't have to worry about personal issues. This applies to most dancers. But I do have some regulars that I treated a lot better. I reserve the best quality 9's to be my regulars because they are very rare indeed. The downside is that guys at the clubs behave like bees to honey.

Enjoy!

[Acaryu]

Money lots of it.

These girls have been at it long enough to weed out the fakes.

Bizzy.

When you come to know the dancers, it may not cost you that much. Buy her a drink, and a couple of dancers. Talk to her. If she needs to go dance and make some money, encourage her. Because you have more than one at your table. This way they can still make a living. Sometimes when they need a rest or drink and sometimes when the business is not very good, they will come to your table to chill out. This way you don't have to spend that much to get lots of attention. But I won't try to demand their time. Their businesses go first. Tell each other jokes will make them feel more comfortable with you. I never take them to VIP room because it will cost me too much. Sometimes I take them out dancing, KOK, movies, dinner. And I don't pay them. Maybe I pay them for babysitters. You will be surprised how many single moms don't have chances to go out. I am also a disgusting dirty old man. Being old has its advantage. They know that you are not interested in a long term relationship so they don't have to worry about personal issues. This applies to most dancers. But I do have some regulars that I treated a lot better. I reserve the best quality 9's to be my regulars because they are very rare indeed. The downside is that guys at the clubs behave like bees to honey.

Enjoy!

[Vscrtlvr]

Words of wisdom from someone who has been there and done it! Great info for us!

I've commented on this before, a couple of times a year ATL hosts a big sporting event.

Enjoy, but as a frugal local monger be aware you'll be competing with a lot of dumb out of town money & the numbers of scammers & flakes is higher.

Strippers want to do as little as possible to separate you from as much money as possible. This weekend in the VIP expect to pay more for less.

& to our friend that doesn't think much of disgusting old men getting all his ladies:

1) buy a drink at the bar. Tip at least $2.

2) get a lap dance from the first attractive woman you see. Do it in an open area so all the other dancers see you. It is okay to approach a woman and ask for a dance (as long as she is not sitting with another guy). After the first one it is okay to be more selective.

3) If you are finding it difficult to accomplish number 2 on your own, ask the bartender (who you just tipped) who would be good to sit with / get a dance from. They will be happy to ask a girl to approach you.

I'm now one of those disgusting old guys (that sits with the hotties). I've also been a 22 year old in a strip club. If a lady has to pick between approaching a (disgusting) 50 year old or a (gym ripped) 25 year old she's all over the 50 yr old. It's all about the probability of him having and spending money. You need to overcome her bias by showing them you have money and will spend it.

Also, be approachable. Sit at the bar. Chat with the other guys about football. Smile. With you body language indicate you are looking to socialize.

Don't take the beer you ordered at the bar (& tipped 50 cents on) over into the farthest, darkest corner in the room and expect the better ladies to make a pilgrimage over to see you.

also (& this is Tattletale specific) -- particularly during the day -- tip (at least $2) the stage dancers you are potentially interested in spending time with -- it is customary for her to come by & give you a quick peck on the cheek and thank you for the tip. This is an appropriate time to indicate you would like her to sit down with you. She may have to finish up with the disgusting old guy that just bought her a drink but she'll come see you next.