"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Still Looking** · 12-04-13 09:27

Originally Posted by Golfcart [View Original Post]

Last thing I remember I was running for the door – I had to find the passage back to the place I was before. "Relax," said the night man, "We are programmed to receive." "You can checkout any time you like, but you can never leave." Hotel California.

As a long time follower of this board. Actually from the first post. It has been my pleasure to live thru you guys adventures. I do not have the time to do it myself. Believe me I would love to. Anyway to the point BT I wish you all the luck going forward, but like the song said "You can never leave". LMFAO..

**FyrGuy33** · 12-04-13 00:13

Originally Posted by FredMoore [View Original Post]

Look at the risk / rewards:

Risk: socializing in public increases exposure, spend more $$ , possibly never getting to the FC.

Reward: A true connection not predicated only on sex / money, less allowance if she likes you.

I have read the SA "rules" and been on their blog about this very topic. The girls are advised to "date" for x times before giving up the Quan so she might be holding onto some preconceived number. Tell her you are very attracted to her and that while you respect her desire to go slow you need some kind of indication from her what the plan is. If she is evasive and too open ended then give her a deadline. Normal adults don't "date" for months before burying the one eyed snake. Just saying.

Thanks for your thoughts. Here is an update:

Sunday afternoon I get a text from her asking if she was ready to move forward with an arrangement how much would I be willing to help her out. I reply 150 for a couple of hours. She is agreeable and we make a date for yesterday afternoon. I get the room at my favorite no tell and she shows up right on time. As she is getting undressed she tells me she has never done this before (don't they all say that? So we hop in the sack and when she goes to give daddy some luvin, she asks if I have ny condoms. Having been in this for a very long time I have learned to always show up with my own supply. Too many times I read about girls who pull the "I don't have any condoms" trick. But here is where it starts to go bad. I am informed that it will be a CBJ. Well, I'm already here, dick is hard, so I figure I have to go for it. I let her do her thing and end up exploding in the cover. Fine, I figure round two will be better. So, we start off with another CBJ. I get to the point where I ask her to mount up for CG, and she says "let's just do oral this time". Ok, now she has pissed me off. 150 for 2 CBJ's, 42 for the room. Not much of a value here.

As I am driving away, I say to myself "NEXT". Sometimes they are so hot looking and sweet. You get them in bed and you start to wonder what the hell happened.

And then today, I get just an awful phone call. My company has been downsizing and this time I didn't make the cut. So, my hobby efforts go on hold until I can get my financial situation fixed. This will make it impossible to hide hobby money from the SO. At least now I don't have to tell her she is awful in bed and I am no longer interested.

Hopefully I will be partaking in the pleasures again in a very short time.

Everyone be safe out there.

**J Martinez** · 12-03-13 23:42

Originally Posted by Showtime2020 [View Original Post]

... I walked her to her car bc I had to pay for her parking and it reeked of weed. I thought I was going to smell like it too. She agreed to another meet but I'm renegotiating next visit...

If silence wasn't bad enough, that would change everything for me. I want to know the real lady, not the doped up one.

**Funda** · 12-03-13 21:46

I am from Cincinnati and have had good success on SA and currently in a relationship with a very hot sweet young woman. Enjoy reading your helpful posts. What does FC mean? Happy hunting.

**HollywoodGuy** · 12-03-13 16:27

Originally Posted by FredMoore [View Original Post]

How many 60 yr olds get to bang 20 somethings?

That are true np's... Not many. (not to mention the 18 and 19 year olds that need our guidance and training)

**FredMoore** · 12-03-13 14:39

Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]

Unfortunately I am going to have to cash out and take an early retirement. Nothing has happened at home, but for a number of reasons, now is the time for me to transition back to family man and hubby.

I will still monitor the board and may even give advice. But I am burning my bowling shoes brethern.

BigTigg. Out!

BT, Say it isn't so! Life without your reports will be strange indeed. I'll miss them. Good luck and I'm sure you'll be back. You will go down in history as one of the most prolific Daddies of all time.

I figure there are 4 reasons why we quit the bowl:

1) money 2) marital arrest. 3) health issues , and 4) true desire to be monogamous again with the SO

If you are retiring / laid off I can see where you might have to eliminate the Sugar budget. My finances are increasingly monitored by the SO and business is not very good in this current environment, so I have less to play with.

And I am under marital arrest so it is difficult to get out and play without my phone going off at awkward times and having to report my whereabouts. If I didn't want to stay married I would say F**k it But divorce would create a huge financial strain and maybe make it impossible to Sugar anyway. So I am better off laying low and getting some Sugaring in when I can. I will take a second and third job to be able to stay in the game. How many 60 yr olds get to bang 20 somethings?

**KrustyDawg7** · 12-03-13 11:46

Hi guys,

I lurk on this board regularly although I am not in Richmond, and thanks to all for tips and recounting the adventures. I have a regular SB for several months that is getting stale so am looking for a possible addition or replacement. Joined SA and pretty quick found 3-4 POT nearby. One M&G set up for next week...this gal is older and was looking for a rather high allowance. (3 K) I told her that she was out of my league and I liked what I saw but sorry. Now she is willing to accept a gift for each meeting. Its a bit of a drive to see her but if that works out it would be more my style. It is too easy to get into a "regular allowance" thing and then the enthusiasm starts to slip. Been there done that. So I am applying the knowledge of our honored members here (Tigg!) Another POT was looking for a LTR and I told her no way, so now she is willing to meet NSA. Money talks, so many broke babes out there.

Cheers,

Krusty.

**F Scott** · 12-03-13 11:35

Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]

Unfortunately I am going to have to cash out and take an early retirement. Nothing has happened at home, but for a number of reasons, now is the time for me to transition back to family man and hubby.

I will still monitor the board and may even give advice. But I am burning my bowling shoes brethern.

BigTigg. Out!

BT,

I can understand your motivations, but want to reiterate that you will be missed. You are truly an inspiration to us all, and your posts will go down in legend.

Good luck, and see you soon again, I hope.

Scott.

**AliasSM** · 12-03-13 05:58

Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]

Unfortunately I am going to have to cash out and take an early retirement. Nothing has happened at home, but for a number of reasons, now is the time for me to transition back to family man and hubby.

I will still monitor the board and may even give advice. But I am burning my bowling shoes brethern.

BigTigg. Out!

BT. I'm speaking for this entire forum when I say that we wish you the best and hope that you stay in touch. I learned a lot from your posts, and although I simply can't juggle a fraction of the number of SBs that you seem to handle with ease, I still related closely with some of your experiences and learned from them.

I haven't had anywhere near your success in the bowl, but I know from personal experience that I couldn't give it up cold turkey. So my hat is off to you if you have the will power to make the transition without severe withdrawal symptoms. I AM curious to know why you decided to retire at this time. I'm sure others are interested also if you choose to share.

Either way...best of luck in your future endeavors.

Alias.

**HollywoodGuy** · 12-03-13 04:17

Originally Posted by FredMoore [View Original Post]

G
I'm ashamed to even report such dismal stats but any lay is better than none.

I have to agree.. As long as they're not butt fugly.

**Igor Mongorsky** · 12-03-13 03:03

Thanks for your many contributions. I've had to live vicariously through you guys experiences as I haven't had much luck yet in the bowl.

**Showtime2020** · 12-03-13 01:00

Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]

Unfortunately I am going to have to cash out and take an early retirement. Nothing has happened at home, but for a number of reasons, now is the time for me to transition back to family man and hubby.

I will still monitor the board and may even give advice. But I am burning my bowling shoes brethern.

BigTigg. Out!

BigTigg, thanks for your posts and insight. Reading your escapades convinced me to step in the bowl. Were in the same area so PM me if you like to grab a beer sometime.

Take care of yourself.

Showtime.

**Showtime2020** · 12-03-13 00:50

I've noticed that SA is much better than SD4 Me in my area. Last week I had three M&G and one trip to the FC.

I didn't see my normal Staxx because I wanted to see what else was our there.

New SB. Bashful. Early last week I reached out to a 22 year old AA and we began texting, she sent lots of naked pics and got me excited to see her. We negotiated $1.3 per visit with gas and lunch covered. I texted her this morning to set up a M&G and she said that she was horny and wanted to get this started. She needed the cash and figured why not get this started. I went on Hotwire and got a great 3.5 star for $75. This is where things got iffy. She said that she had tire problems and needed to have AAA come and change it. We were supposed to meet at 2:30 and this happened at 2. She said that she would make it and I believed her. Around 3:45 I was texting to see where she was and she didn't respond so I texted this 21 yr old African spinner she to see if she could come through and she said she could but I still wanted Bashful, so she responded and said that she was on her way so I pushed the African to Thursday.

At 4:30 I went to the hotel and she arrived at 5. She was in yoga pants my favorite and sweater showing her mid section. We had a bit of small talk and I undressed her and we got to business. She opened with a great BJ and let me have my way with her. I hit every position I can think of and she was silent the entire time. I mean she said absolutely noting the whole time. It was cool but after a while I needed verbal confirmation that she at least enjoyed herself. It just didn't happen. After about 90 min we got in the shower and washed off. I walked her to her car bc I had to pay for her parking and it reeked of weed. I thought I was going to smell like it too. She agreed to another meet but I'm renegotiating next visit.

Damage:

Sugar $130.

Room $77.

Parking $11.

I spent too much, I need to bring these costs down.

**Golfcart** · 12-02-13 23:25

Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]

Unfortunately I am going to have to cash out and take an early retirement. Nothing has happened at home, but for a number of reasons, now is the time for me to transition back to family man and hubby.

I will still monitor the board and may even give advice. But I am burning my bowling shoes brethern.

BigTigg. Out!

Last thing I remember I was running for the door – I had to find the passage back to the place I was before. "Relax," said the night man, "We are programmed to receive." "You can checkout any time you like, but you can never leave." Hotel California.

**BigTigger** · 12-02-13 22:19

Unfortunately I am going to have to cash out and take an early retirement. Nothing has happened at home, but for a number of reasons, now is the time for me to transition back to family man and hubby.

I will still monitor the board and may even give advice. But I am burning my bowling shoes brethern.

BigTigg. Out!