"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[HollywoodGuy]

Ok brothers, I need advice. My ATF has gotten flaky, sometimes she is sweet and sometimes she ignores my texts and skips dates without letting me know. This girl is great in the FC and fun all around. I don't want to cut her loose, but I can't keep putting up with this. Anyone have any good advice?

Ignore her, and then see if she runs to you.

[FredMoore]

Ok brothers, I need advice. My ATF has gotten flaky, sometimes she is sweet and sometimes she ignores my texts and skips dates without letting me know. This girl is great in the FC and fun all around. I don't want to cut her loose, but I can't keep putting up with this. Anyone have any good advice?

CF, this girl is disrespecting you. She wants you conditionally when she doesn't have a better deal going on. Been there and done that.

Give her one chance to fly straight with you. Tell her how you want her to behave and ask her if she can do it. If the answer is "yes" then nicely tell her that you are counting on her. One slip without advance notice and a good excuse and be strong and cut her loose. She already has something (s) else going on anyway.

Many of these girls are constantly shopping a better deal and all you can do is enjoy the ride while their motor is running.

[BigTigger]

Not sure yet. But I might be in the same boat with my little girl next door. I will tell you what I am doing.

Abundance my brother. And when she calls I will be so nice and apologetic to her. Baby I am so sorry. I really would love to see you this week but I just can't. And then put her off for a couple of weeks. While you are fucking your other babies. Then tell her you have to go out of town for a week or two. Fuck the other babies several more times. Then see how much you miss her.

Then if you have her on allowance and still want to see her stop that and go by the visit. Remember you have the money. She will probably leave. And when she does she will probably be doing you or me a favor.

Better than treating them well and her treating you like a schmuck.

Revvo.

Very very well said!!

I'm doing the same now with MsThickness. Wonderful in bed, wonderful when we are together, but to sporadic and undependable lately.

BT.

[Revvo]

Ok brothers, I need advice. My ATF has gotten flaky, sometimes she is sweet and sometimes she ignores my texts and skips dates without letting me know. This girl is great in the FC and fun all around. I don't want to cut her loose, but I can't keep putting up with this. Anyone have any good advice?

Not sure yet. But I might be in the same boat with my little girl next door. I will tell you what I am doing.

Abundance my brother. And when she calls I will be so nice and apologetic to her. Baby I am so sorry. I really would love to see you this week but I just can't. And then put her off for a couple of weeks. While you are fucking your other babies. Then tell her you have to go out of town for a week or two. Fuck the other babies several more times. Then see how much you miss her.

Then if you have her on allowance and still want to see her stop that and go by the visit. Remember you have the money. She will probably leave. And when she does she will probably be doing you or me a favor.

Better than treating them well and her treating you like a schmuck.

Revvo.

[F Scott]

My brothers,

I don't know if I'm the only one who finds this amusing, and if so, please tell me, but I am submitting the latest installment in the crazy names attached to spam emails that I have gotten recently. Some of them are just pure gibberish, but it makes me wonder two things: where are they generating these names?; and who do they think they are convincing? I'm picturing the same $100 circulating around through hundreds of Ukranian accounts.

With little commentary, here they are:

Udusu Pryvife. Huh?

M. Bunewi. Huh?

Lhefov Vzyt. One of those hot Czech chicks, I'm hoping. Or, huh?

Saburi Donica. From the pics, this one turned out to be a guy. Oops.

Wrennie Tonsil. I feel like she's contacted me before, but still, can you say "deep throat"?

Dgulot Arikiq. Is she Klingon, and do they have two pussies? If so, I'm totally on them! Or in them lol!

Ogocab Glacit. Huh? Maybe Russian, or another Klingon. I guess I'll need backup!

Pole Greaser. Finally someone who is upfront about the whole situation.

Mccumiskey Kneeskern.

Mccumiskey Kettner.

Mccumiskey Vandellen.

Mccumiskey Taccone.

Mccumiskey Pung.

Mccumiskey Pouncy. Well, this dude got around! He is my new hero! Ladies, keep your hnees together!!!

Perchinski Gizinski.

Hogarth Gizinski.

Boroff Gizinski. These last two could be guys as well, not that there's anything wrong with that. Perchinski's pictures were HOT, but Hogarth's and Boroff's not so much. Thankfully I'm beginning to develop a Spidey Sense for these things! Anyway, family fun, right?

As I have said before, these are 100% real email contacts. If any of my brothers end up in the FC with any of them, pictures are imperative, especially for Dgulot Arikiq. I want to see those twin pussies! Are they side by side, or one on top of the other? Inquiring minds want to know!

Thanks,

Scott.

[Revvo]

Thanks guys. Very good advice. I think all angles were covered. I am meeting and possibly fucking three new babies this week. So I don't think I am going to meet up with her this week. I have too many quality POTs on the hook. Report to follow shortly.

But it does make me think about this epidemic in our country that disproportionally values "hot women". It devalues pretty / quAlity women. It ruined "hot women" as a person. It shifts all kinds of values in our society in the wrong direction. Including my own.

Someone once told me that a "hot woman" is a black hole of endless need. That describes my beautiful little 10. When they are in this state and attitude they are of very little to no service to me.

May still throw her a bone down the road pun intended. LOL.

But not this week.

Revvo.

[Copper Fool]

Ok brothers, I need advice. My ATF has gotten flaky, sometimes she is sweet and sometimes she ignores my texts and skips dates without letting me know. This girl is great in the FC and fun all around. I don't want to cut her loose, but I can't keep putting up with this. Anyone have any good advice?

[F Scott]

There was not a lot of passion and affection. A turnoff. Now my perfect baby was changing before my eyes. Then she tells me she wants the money up front. I told her that I do not want to treat her like an escort and that would be how an escort does it. She did not care. We agreed to disagree and I walked away. We were both very civil to each other. But that is where it ended.

I must ask the brotherhood. I have never had a 10 before. This would have been a 10 at 150 with her own place to host. I could do her as much as I wanted in the future. Am I fucking crazy? What would you have done? Did I fuck this up? I am really second guessing myself after this. Give it to me straight I can take it.

Revvo.

Rev,

I think there are two parts to this situation. One is the "money up front" issue, which is not ideal, but I think we all have done it more than once if the situation demands. I know some of the brothers have been ripped off, but personally I never have, so trust your best instincts here, rather than make it a hard and fast rule.

As for the more important issue, at least to my mind: the lack of passion. To me this would be a turn off, and possibly a deal-breaker. I guess if I just wanted to poke a hole, I'd get one of those blowup dolls. For me, it's all about connection. Again, maybe the approach here is to trust your instincts, or in this case maybe your gut / heart. Only you know how you will feel about it.

All that said, for $150 I might just take a chance. I've had a couple of babies over the years tell me, after we are in the FC with POTF, that they don't like kissing, or oral, but I just proceeded anyway, and they found that their disinterest was because they had just never had yours truly administer to them. So you never know.

Probably not much help.

Scott.

[EasyGoingJ]

I'm a long time monger and ten plus years in the bowl. I've met some wonderful friends as well as some flakes and ripoffs. I used to entertain at my home regularly for all the positive reasons we have talked about.

That all changed a couple of years ago, one incident I had an escort's driver banging on the door of my very quiet Fl. Condo at 2 am, demanding more money, another who had checked me out online and mentioned my SO's name when things weren't going exactly as she had planned.

Here at home in Charlottesville I have had two recent SB's (one was actually only a POT when she did a cash and dash) whom I had come very close to inviting to my home. It got ugly after the cash and dash and the other, whom I had enjoyed good times with at her place turned into a total flake. It stayed cordial but I was glad that in neither case did I have to worry about them driving up my driveway one day.

Even after those incidents I am still tempted since I am a little paranoid about checking into a local hotel and just like the comforts of home, but I have to constantly remind myself of the potential downside, whether just mental or actual.

So, my brothers, to make a could have been longer story short, think it through to a possibly ugly end and consider how much damage an angry or offended young lady can do with the right info. I like the 18-25 year old range, eager and open to experiment, BUT no grasp yet on the potential consequences of their spite.

[FredMoore]

She agreed to the 150 she did not agree to the money afterwards. So I am not sure. She is at her own place with no one there. So there might be a scam might not.

And how is she messaging you? And how did you find her from my description? That is uncanny.

Revvo, if you have a 10 with a FC for $150 take your shot. However, for those of us who have seen escorts it is de rigueur to hand her an envelope before the festivities begin. But make sure it is in her room. At her place she will not dash anywhere and you can always accidentally kick over a glass top table on the way out if she stiffs you. Do a little walk through when you are at her place to make sure her pimp isn't waiting in the laundry room with a billy club. She might have been burned before and will chill out once she sees you are an honorable stud.

SB #2 I reported on a few weeks ago. She was like this, late to let me come over because some guy from work was changing her oil (really?) . She was a freak about money and claimed a former SD robbed her of her cash when she went to the bathroom. I did follow up and pay her what I promised and now she wants to see me again. I think she might be an UTR and I will save her for a desperate BC.

ATF is the best for me. She takes her O's but also works me as long as I need until I bust. Total cost is usually $350 counting FC, meal, and Sugar. I sure would like to find a Fuck Buddy who is in the $ range with her own FC.

Big Tigg: Sounds like your spinner will not work out well for you. I've had babies over the years like her and it just isn't enough to race to an O. It's fun eating a sweet pussy and bringing her to climax but if she won't allow you your Nut the toss her. Some girls get really sensitive after an O (as we all know) and can't tolerate more fucking until they reach their latent period. Take her 1st, get your nut, then play with her all you want.

[Revvo]

I've not had time to go into detail, I will hopefully within the next few days.

Met a hot beautiful spinner from SA yesterday (10 face, a cups, 5'1, less than 100 lbs).

We chatted online, she was cool with taking things slow and working up to an allowance.

She said my conversation made her horny she asked me to come and visit her and help with that problem.

I hesitated because it was a 2 hour drive and I had to cancel another date to do this one.

The other date was not guaranteed. This one had her own place, kid was out of town, etc.

Had a great dinner.

Fingered her in car while driving back (her request).

Gave her oral in backseat (her request).

Brother was staying with her, got a room (my request).

She was very very selfish in bed, I was not able to finish after stroking for only about 5 minutes.

She then said she was tired and needed a break.

I gave her oral about 3 times, 3 different positions.

Never got back to sex, never finished.

She just seemed to be happy getting oral and was not concerned with my needs at all.

I think her plan all along was to get dinner and get oral in the backseat (she asked about the backseat in the restaurant). That's BS for 4 hours of driving.

Only used 3 of the 6 hours we could have used the room for. After her 3 orgasms, she wanted to go home.

Right now, I may be spoiled, but I don't feel it was worth the money and time spent. [Meal$120,Gifts$30,Cash$40,Hotel$90,Time:9Hours]

(10/9/4/1).

BigTigg.

Dude, I hate that when it happens. There have been many times I have been rudely disappointed in the bowl.
Look at the 10 I met yesterday. I texted her back and talked about visiting her later in the week when she is off her period and good to go. She happily accepted. But I think the boys in here are right she is headed for UTR life. Maybe I will get a hotel for our fist time.


Thing is brother we keep going out there and trying to live our lives. It's a hell of a lot better than sitting on the couch watching TV or jacking off to porn. Hell I have not even looked at porn in over a year. And never felt better.

And once in a while you find a keeper and then life is really good.

Keep up the good fight. It's her loss. How is the new apartment going? I checked on craigslist here and I have seen some nice rooms in a house for around 400 to 500 with no lease. I am thinking about it myself.

Revvo

[BigTigger]

I've not had time to go into detail, I will hopefully within the next few days.

Met a hot beautiful spinner from SA yesterday (10 face, a cups, 5'1, less than 100 lbs).

We chatted online, she was cool with taking things slow and working up to an allowance.

She said my conversation made her horny she asked me to come and visit her and help with that problem.

I hesitated because it was a 2 hour drive and I had to cancel another date to do this one.

The other date was not guaranteed. This one had her own place, kid was out of town, etc.

Had a great dinner.

Fingered her in car while driving back (her request).

Gave her oral in backseat (her request).

Brother was staying with her, got a room (my request).

She was very very selfish in bed, I was not able to finish after stroking for only about 5 minutes.

She then said she was tired and needed a break.

I gave her oral about 3 times, 3 different positions.

Never got back to sex, never finished.

She just seemed to be happy getting oral and was not concerned with my needs at all.

I think her plan all along was to get dinner and get oral in the backseat (she asked about the backseat in the restaurant). That's BS for 4 hours of driving.

Only used 3 of the 6 hours we could have used the room for. After her 3 orgasms, she wanted to go home.

Right now, I may be spoiled, but I don't feel it was worth the money and time spent. [ Meal $120, Gifts $30, Cash $40, Hotel $90, Time:9 Hours]

(10/9/4/1).

BigTigg.

[HollywoodGuy]

Had planned a lazy day, just some errands and a trip to the local gun show. On the way home I stopped for a beer and to check the college football scores. While I was sitting at the bar I got a text from my spicy cubana. I reported on her a week or so back, thought she was a good prospect, but I hadn't contacted her this week mostly because I was busy with work and other bowl endeavors. She took me to task a bit for ignoring her and then we started flirting a bit. One thing led to another, she said she was feeling naughty, and I asked what she liked to do. Her response was "I will like to play with your D*** in my mouth and then in my A**". Okay then, see you in an hour! We had never discussed sugar and that was the last thing on my mind when she got to my house. We had a glass of wine and then moved to the bedroom, where she proved that she is not all hat and no cattle, as they say in Texas. After a wonderful time she had to rush off because she had promised to have dinner with her mother. The subject of Sugar did not come up, and we are on for Wednesday for dinner and another session. It seems like her primary motivation is a true NSA relationship where she has someone to hang out with from time to time, who will take her to dinner, help her get some release, and not bring any drama to the table. I intend to sweeten the pot when I see her again, but I'm not going to go crazy if it doesn't seem like she's worried about it. Where has this been all my life?

Not in Hollywood, I can tell you that. Even the most so called innocent girls (not counting the average MILF's. Sometimes) all got money on their mind and their mind on the money.

[HollywoodGuy]

She agreed to the 150 she did not agree to the money afterwards. So I am not sure. She is at her own place with no one there. So there might be a scam might not.

And how is she messaging you? And how did you find her from my description? That is uncanny.

She was in the most viewed section. Which is based a great deal on excessive messaging to many many guys and vice versa. I didnt message her. Just saw her profile featured there. Actually I avoid those girls as a rule.

[Dsprdo]

Had planned a lazy day, just some errands and a trip to the local gun show. On the way home I stopped for a beer and to check the college football scores. While I was sitting at the bar I got a text from my spicy cubana. I reported on her a week or so back, thought she was a good prospect, but I hadn't contacted her this week mostly because I was busy with work and other bowl endeavors. She took me to task a bit for ignoring her and then we started flirting a bit. One thing led to another, she said she was feeling naughty, and I asked what she liked to do. Her response was "I will like to play with your D*** in my mouth and then in my A**". Okay then, see you in an hour! We had never discussed sugar and that was the last thing on my mind when she got to my house. We had a glass of wine and then moved to the bedroom, where she proved that she is not all hat and no cattle, as they say in Texas. After a wonderful time she had to rush off because she had promised to have dinner with her mother. The subject of Sugar did not come up, and we are on for Wednesday for dinner and another session. It seems like her primary motivation is a true NSA relationship where she has someone to hang out with from time to time, who will take her to dinner, help her get some release, and not bring any drama to the table. I intend to sweeten the pot when I see her again, but I'm not going to go crazy if it doesn't seem like she's worried about it. Where has this been all my life?