"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[HollywoodGuy]

Been keeping a low profile on here since my report that the warden found an unused condom of mine while doing the wash. It was a harrowing experience, but I have survived with marriage relatively intact. I wish I had an excuse prepared already when she found it, but resorted to the deny deny deny logic by default. She is still very suspicious of everything I do now, but has not brought the incident up in well over a month so things have quieted down considerably. The worst repercussion has been that my SB activities are harder to schedule now because every change in schedule or work trip planned is constantly questioned.

Still, I'm so hooked on the SD world that I have found it almost impossible to quit. I have a really nice, late 30s single nurse that I have been with for some time now. She is fantastic in bed, loves oral and anal, and seems to enjoy my company (and of course my money). I also am using a 21 YO local college student and a backup booty call when scheduling is tough with my nurse SB. All of this translates to between 1 and 2 SB visits per week. It's still been a pretty good life.

So there IS life after condom discovery. Just have to watch myself REAL closely to make sure I don't F- up royally again.

I've been keeping up with the forum. Great stories. My hat is off to Hollywood, Scott, BT, and Revvo especially for the massive juggling acts they do on a routine basis. I'd love to do more, but can't find the time to make it happen.

Its not too hard to juggle when you are single compared to what you have to deal with. And BTW. Your SO is not going to forget that condom incident for years. So don't get complacent.

[AliasSM]

Been keeping a low profile on here since my report that the warden found an unused condom of mine while doing the wash. It was a harrowing experience, but I have survived with marriage relatively intact. I wish I had an excuse prepared already when she found it, but resorted to the deny deny deny logic by default. She is still very suspicious of everything I do now, but has not brought the incident up in well over a month so things have quieted down considerably. The worst repercussion has been that my SB activities are harder to schedule now because every change in schedule or work trip planned is constantly questioned.

Still, I'm so hooked on the SD world that I have found it almost impossible to quit. I have a really nice, late 30s single nurse that I have been with for some time now. She is fantastic in bed, loves oral and anal, and seems to enjoy my company (and of course my money). I also am using a 21 YO local college student and a backup booty call when scheduling is tough with my nurse SB. All of this translates to between 1 and 2 SB visits per week. It's still been a pretty good life.

So there IS life after condom discovery. Just have to watch myself REAL closely to make sure I don't F- up royally again.

I've been keeping up with the forum. Great stories. My hat is off to Hollywood, Scott, BT, and Revvo especially for the massive juggling acts they do on a routine basis. I'd love to do more, but can't find the time to make it happen.

[BigTigger]

21 year old AA. She needs $500 within 2 weeks to stay in school. Cute face and smoking body, hips, butt and boobs. She looks to be about 5'1. MsLlMama is 5'1 also and 110 lbs. I am guessing this one is about 115-120. She can meet twice a week. We have only exchanged emails, I will be talking with her today. Hopefully, I can get a meet and greet today. I'm going to see if I can get her to accept $500 per month in exchange for meeting twice a week. Or better put, since she's a CL find, she's probably not going to ask. So I'll give her funds at a rate of $500 per month and see how it goes.

MsLilMama is going to be on an allowance of $400 per month, but she'll get other gifts along the way for her house. By the time it's over, I will have furnished her entire apartment. I'm expecting to get a key within the next month also. However, with the wifey restrictions that MsLilMama has (she had to cancel a bootycall last night), I may need another #1 seed. So we'll see if the CL cutie can overtake her.

BT

[BigTigger]

One thing about having a bi SB is that she is used to getting orgasms without penetration. So this last time after our first round, she hops on top and starts kissing. That got her so wet. She then did this body to body rub at a slight angle. The pressure on my soft penis hurt at times, but it was not unbearable. As she got closer to an orgams, she took my soft tiggastick and put it right inside her vagina. She was moving in a way where it was flip flopping inside of her without coming out. Before you know it, she had this loud body shaking orgasm right there on top of me. Later she thanked me and I laughed because all I did was lay there, LOL.

[BigTigger]

So the fee you pay gets you all the benefits as much as you want to use them, right? I notice on the sign up page there's credits listed above the price. It isn't a site that charges you credits for contacting a SB is it?

Thanks!

Travelin.

The credits are there to send virtual gifts, priority mail and stuff like that. I believe instant messaging cost credits too. But sending and receiving email is part of the monthly fee.

[TravelinSD]

So the fee you pay gets you all the benefits as much as you want to use them, right? I notice on the sign up page there's credits listed above the price. It isn't a site that charges you credits for contacting a SB is it?

Thanks!

Travelin.

I've been using it exclusively for the past month. I've had decent success. My current #1 seed is from there, MsLilMama. It's not as many POTs as with the other sites, but it's good hunting ground. My advice is to go ahead and pay and try to get your money's worth in that first month. Use a prepaid card with only the money needed for the month on it. They ask you to call to cancel. So it's best to just have a prepaid card where you can decide if you want to keep going or not.

From my post on the other board:

I eventually broke down and paid for a month. I've manage to get a decent amount of conversations and responses. I've been able to get 3 dates out of it. One is my new main SB. One I've had some backseat fun with, kissing-licking the kitty, but no full blown tiggabounce yet. The other did not look as good as her pictures and was too overweight, too ghetto and too expensive. I've had a few that flaked out and one that I put a pause on before we met, because even though she was worth the amount she wanted, I was already gainfully drained by my new SB.

So, like many other sites, if you work it, you can be successful. There is some GPS and there doesn't seem to be as many choices as with the other main SD / SB sites.

BT

[HollywoodGuy]

Either the girls think the economy is going up, or the quality I am targeting is higher. Because the percentage of affirmative responses seems to be going down.

[BigTigger]

So, I've decided to expand my hunting ground and signed up with ArrangementFinders.

I haven't paid the membership fee yet, but just browsing through the site I really like it. Pretty up to date, clean, and has a decent look to it.

Also see quite a few interesting babies up there. Pretty decent quality SBs in my areas.

Any brother has good success with this particular site?

I've been using it exclusively for the past month. I've had decent success. My current #1 seed is from there, MsLilMama. It's not as many POTs as with the other sites, but it's good hunting ground. My advice is to go ahead and pay and try to get your money's worth in that first month. Use a prepaid card with only the money needed for the month on it. They ask you to call to cancel. So it's best to just have a prepaid card where you can decide if you want to keep going or not.

From my post on the other board:
I eventually broke down and paid for a month. I've manage to get a decent amount of conversations and responses. I've been able to get 3 dates out of it. One is my new main SB. One I've had some backseat fun with, kissing-licking the kitty, but no full blown tiggabounce yet. The other did not look as good as her pictures and was too overweight, too ghetto and too expensive. I've had a few that flaked out and one that I put a pause on before we met, because even though she was worth the amount she wanted, I was already gainfully drained by my new SB.

So, like many other sites, if you work it, you can be successful. There is some GPS and there doesn't seem to be as many choices as with the other main SD / SB sites.

BT

[Member #5570]

So, I've decided to expand my hunting ground and signed up with ArrangementFinders.

I haven't paid the membership fee yet, but just browsing through the site I really like it. Pretty up to date, clean, and has a decent look to it.

Also see quite a few interesting babies up there. Pretty decent quality SBs in my areas.

Any brother has good success with this particular site?

[BigTigger]

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Hey Tig is it #3 from the top or bottom. Top is the very sexy AA girl, bottom is the waifish looking Caucasian brunette. The one on the bottom I'm working on to cure her Syndrome and make her realize that her Pussy is not made of Gold. Here's 2 more pics of the AA girl. She is a complete waste of time with no sense of humor. A true Gold-digger and not worth my time. MW.

Yes the AA, even with my skills it was a no-go, LOL.

BT

[Member #4103]

Obviously different areas have a different concentration on particular sites. Now I've made it a point to try to have success on each site that I actively work. The only one to really seem like too much work was tagged. For me, here are my rankings. I've gotten goodies through these sites in the following states (VA, DC, MD, NC, PA, DE, Stl (MO) , NJ, CO, OH)

1. SA.

2. CL (High success rate, but lower quality)

3. Sugar Daddie (I love the instant Messenger feature)

4. Arrangement Finders (Moving up the list, still needs a lot more members)

5. SD4Me

6. Ashley Madision (too much money + too much time)

My $.02, fwiw. I've only used SA and Ashley Madison. And SA is waaay better. Hotter chicks who want to serve you. I actually had an AM hookup once who got mad at me because she did not cum. WTF.

I'd agree AM is expensive, and it takes TONS of work. Having said that, its paid off big for me a few times with insatiable milfs wanting all the free sex I could give them. But it does take awhile. One note on AM, I'm pretty sure many of the profiles are fake, I wonder if the site puts them up to make it look like more women are on there. If you see profile with no photos and only a one-sentence "looking to break the monotony of everyday life" kind of thing, well, theres a ton of those on there and I'm guessing they are fake.

Would love to hear how those of you on CL do it, never really tried that.

Got to head out. Insatiable MILF waiting.

[Marcus Weiner]

Hey Tig is it #3 from the top or bottom. Top is the very sexy AA girl, bottom is the waifish looking Caucasian brunette. The one on the bottom I'm working on to cure her Syndrome and make her realize that her Pussy is not made of Gold. Here's 2 more pics of the AA girl. She is a complete waste of time with no sense of humor. A true Gold-digger and not worth my time. MW.

I can veirfy #3 is GPS. Way up there!

[Rainjam]

The recent discussions of the different sites where the babies hang out got me thinking.

Is it possible to rate the sites by ROI or CPP (cost per pop).

Frankly, I have found the most success from CL, yea it's a big miss and very little hit. As a matter of fact, my new ATF was found on CL. But I think CL is probably the cheapest place to find pussies (there's no monthly charge, credit cost, etc). But at the same time lots of work to find a good gem.

My next successful sources of finding babies are SA and then SD4M. SA has more babies, and of higher qualities then SD4M, at least in my areas. However, the SA girls seem to demand more sugar where I live.

It seems that AM and WYP is really a lost cause and probably fall somewhere at the bottom. Too much upfront costs and lots of GPS girls. Heck, I've seen guys have much more success from dating sites such as Cupid or POF with minimal cost / effort compare to what I've seen with AM / WYP.

I am a CL man, looking to expand my grazing ground, excellent executive summary on where to look.

Safe and Happy grazing

[BigTigger]

. Anyway, if you play on WYP or even SA and live in the Baltimore DC area, do not waste your time with these GPS POT's or charlatans.

I can veirfy #3 is GPS. Way up there!

[BigTigger]

To good to be true, always is.

I will update more later, but in rapid fire.

She is bi and has a gf, who has a key. So I have to treat her like she is married.

She requires little money but lots of attention.

Bad oral hygiene

Ok, I have more time to go into details. We've now seen each other about 5 or 6 times. She absolutely loves sex and doesn't care if it's long or short. We had our second hotel date Thursday night. It was supposed to be a hotel-dinner-hotel date, but we never made it out of the hotel the first time. Never ate any food. I had just put $.4 in her account for the week, so she was happy so I only needed to give. 2 for the sitter.

As we were getting ready for one of our dates, I asked her about being "bi" as it was stated on her profile. Then she finally let's me know that she has a GF who does not approve. So her being with me is actually cheating and would destroy her 1 year old relationship. I thanked her for the information, promised to do my part and told her she really should have told me this sooner. Now with that news in hand, I was a little disappointed because she presented herself as totally free and available. Her GF has a key to her place and is not used to her not being home when she calls, etc.

So already we had some mini-drama when I texted and the GF was using the phone. She doesn't have my number saved so when the response was "who is this", I knew what was up and followed along and just said I had the wrong number. Then one of our dates was cancelled because the GF came over and did not leave. During the hotel date, she fell asleep hard and we went way past the time. The GF was blowing up her phone. So eventually once we decided to leave around 12am, we had to make a mad dash back to her place, she had to call the sitter and make sure the GF did not come by, we had to do the "sshhhhh be quiet while I call her" thing. It's just as if she's married.

Now, I'm not giving up on her. But with this type of relationship that she has, I'll never be able to do some of the more fantasy SD things. But it's cool. She has a great personality, great body, the sex is great, she's very submissive and pretty much does what I tell her to do (barring gf conflicts of course). I do have this Sat, Sun and next Fri / Sat overnights free and I had originally planned to use her. Now I don't think she's going to be able to be my #1. She claims she's moved me out of SD status into BF status.

I asked what that means.

1. She's not dealing with any other men.

2. I can have the goodies any time that I like

3. She just wants attention, so money is not an issue.

4. I can give any amount of money at any time. There isn't an arrangement.

5. I can take pictures, etc. She's adopted using the phrase "anything for you".

We'll see how this goes.

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My ATF has found a man she's going to be in regular relationship with.

I have a date with MsCoolSlim tomorrow night. Her situation has gotten worse, but she appreciates my persistence.

Saw MsNurseBooty briefly yesterday. I was trying to drop her, but she's not having it, LOL. She was sick, I stopped by for 30 mins, took her some breakfast and. 40 in cash. I've not seen her in over a month.

MsLatinaMILF has a BF. So we are on pause