"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Igor Mongorsky]

Not much to report. I currently only have one baby, the former escort. I thought she could be my goto girl since I haven't had much time to look for anyone else. But this is really turning out to be a dud.

I booked a room at a really nice resort. The whole date seemed oddly unromantic, like a couple that had been together too long. I guess the honeymoon is long over. The sex consisted of her laying on her back the entire time. Didn't want to do any other positions or even give me head. Multiples? Forget it. How boring can you get? She even wanted the lights turned out. After she came, she rolled over and promptly fell asleep. She was never a great lay, but she at least used to make some effort. With all the hotel, food, entertainment and "gifts", this was too expensive for a wife experience.

Now she's calling me asking when we can get together again. She's not going to be too happy if I don't give her anything even though if I did that right from the beginning, I'm sure she would be fine with it. But, now I've set a bad precedent. I'm not sure what I'm going to do. I have to ask myself, if it's even worth "free"? Maybe not.

Anyhow, I'm going to have to try looking for someone fresh. I did sign up for SD4ME, but didn't get a chance to do anything with it. Got spammed for the first couple of weeks by what looks like a bunch of pros and my month expired. Looks like everything is still functional though.

[F Scott]

It seems like I may be losing one of my regular girls in the rotation. SB 1, my tall blonde in her late 30's. She is my ATF, but has a tendency to be kind of flaky. She will text me at 9pm and tell me she's coming over, but after an hour goes by (her distance to me) and nothing, my text messages yield nothing. Then, all of a sudden, after I'm in bed at 2 or 3am, she'll say she's almost there. It's happened the last couple of times we've hooked up, and is kind of fun, since she'll just ask me to leave the back door open and will slip into bed naked with me. We end up fucking until my alarm goes off at 6:30 for work, but then I'm a zombie all day. Night before last, she was supposed to come up and totally flaked on me. I kept waking up expecting a text or for her to just come in through the back door, but nothing. The next day she apologized and said she had a migraine. Then last evening she sends me a text that she wants to see me. Now since I had already scheduled time with SB 3, the Brazilian married MILF for this morning, I told her that I wasn't feeling well and we'd have to reschedule. What began as concern for my feigned illness, alluded to attitude and disbelief.

I am a terrible liar, but I don't need SB drama. I'm hoping that I can get SB 1 to be more responsible, with respect to my time. She always has an excuse, from flat tires to running out of gas, but as my money gets tighter, I may have to cut her loose too.

MW

MW,

Forgive me for saying, but this one has Nando 1 written all over her. If she is not fully there, she will be soon. Don't get me wrong, no one loves a Flaky Baby Challenge more than me, but there comes a time when I just cut my losses and move on. If she earns her place back in the rotation at a later date, so be it, but for me at least play time is hard to come by, and I can't hold slots open for no-shows.

Cut her loose, and let her know why, and leave it up to her to fix the situation or not. I forget who said it, but a brother in the club said you can't push on a string. Golf, was that you?

Onward,

Scott

[BikeRider]

I haven't posted an update for a while. Why is it work needs are directly correlated with SB POTS?

Over the last few months, my bench has had significant disruptions. Pretty much everyone from my June update is gone or on a long break. I'm on my way to a Skittles all-american team now though!

Here's the current situation:

POTS.

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Latina spinner 27. 7/8/9?. She sounds just like Gloria from Modern Family. She doesn't have the curves, but she's a nice package. She has a good job, and her own apartment. She just wants to enjoy nice dinners, and vacations with someone. We've had lunch, and have a date planned for next week.

AA stripper 24. 9/10/8?. I tend to stay away from strippers. But, she seems normal and grounded. She's happy with under $1k / mo and she can host 1-2 week. Going to the FC tomorrow at her place.

East Indian Grad student 24. 7/8?. Just talking now, but she just wants some passion and attention.

AA student 19. 10/10/10?. Former gymnast and currently a college cheerleader (confirmed on school web page). She's a plane ride away from DC, but her class schedule and mine will enable weekly meetings. She's happy with less than $1k / mo also. Her limberness alone is grounds to make her an ATF. Meeting in two weeks.

Rotation.

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Korean nerd. 8/8/9/10. I met her on AFF about 5 years ago when I lived on the west coast and was single. She reconnected with me about a month ago, and is moving to DC. She's the most drama free woman I've known. A great little shag.

AA staffer. 10/10/8/8. Haven't seen her much due to both of our schedules. Even when her boss is out of town, the woman can't stop working.

KAL. 10/9/8/8. My Korean American princess (gyopo for those of you that can sling hangul) has been nothing but drama. Thank god she doesn't fly the IAD route. I've known her since before my current warden, and her current drama reminds me why I didn't marry her. She's on the injured reserve.

Retired.

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My native american accountant MILF informed me she was retiring from extra-curricular activities this summer. A true loss.

The banker has become a chat-bot. She only pops onto chat now and then, and doesn't have time to meet.

[Marcus Weiner]

It seems like I may be losing one of my regular girls in the rotation. SB 1, my tall blonde in her late 30's. She is my ATF, but has a tendency to be kind of flaky. She will text me at 9pm and tell me she's coming over, but after an hour goes by (her distance to me) and nothing, my text messages yield nothing. Then, all of a sudden, after I'm in bed at 2 or 3am, she'll say she's almost there. It's happened the last couple of times we've hooked up, and is kind of fun, since she'll just ask me to leave the back door open and will slip into bed naked with me. We end up fucking until my alarm goes off at 6:30 for work, but then I'm a zombie all day. Night before last, she was supposed to come up and totally flaked on me. I kept waking up expecting a text or for her to just come in through the back door, but nothing. The next day she apologized and said she had a migraine. Then last evening she sends me a text that she wants to see me. Now since I had already scheduled time with SB 3, the Brazilian married MILF for this morning, I told her that I wasn't feeling well and we'd have to reschedule. What began as concern for my feigned illness, alluded to attitude and disbelief.

I am a terrible liar, but I don't need SB drama and I don't want my SB's knowing that there are four or five others that are competing for my time, affection, and mostly sugar! Consequently, SB 3 is now my ATF. She has admitted that she has another SD that pays her much more than me, but is becoming quite possessive. He pays five times as much as me, but there's something to be said for being compassionate, understanding, and sexually compatible. I asked SB 3 about taking pics of her while we were fucking and her eyes got real big and said,"Can we?" How in the world can I not indulge her? So as I was fucking SB 3, SB 2 the tall Latina dancer sends me a text and says that she has the night off from work and can I come over. Jeez, just no rest for the weary. I had to tell her that I needed a rain check and hopefully Sunday or Monday we can hook up.

Lastly SB 4 the Russian/Chinese student is also a strong candidate for the waiver wire or injured reserve, sports fans. She cannot host and is a 30 to 40 min drive from me. She usually spends the night with me and is very low maintenance, pizza, beer, a PPV movie and off to the bedroom. It's not just the drive, but she is not into kissing, and although her BBBJ's and tight pussy weigh heavily upon me, I believe that this will be our Last Tango in Paris. I'm hoping that I can get SB 1 to be more responsible, with respect to my time. She always has an excuse, from flat tires to running out of gas, but as my money gets tighter, I may have to cut her loose too. I want to post pics of my SB's but as Tigger will attest to, in Baltimore, I lost more than I gained as some of the girls were alerted to, or just simply found out on their own that I had posted their pics.

MW

[Revvo]

Lastly, I have to give props to Revvo, who is an old online buddy from a stripper site. We both used to fancy the stripper world and the possibilities there. It appears Revvo has been converted to the Sugar world and seems to be doing quite well. Good for you my man! Obviously I haven't been able to wean myself from that dark place, but I keep trying! Could it have something to do with the local GPS Baby world?

Thanks brother Rat. It is you that turned me on to this mystical, magical, confusing world of the Sugar Bowl. And for that I do appreciate it. Yes I was deep into the dark recesses of the Stripper world and spending much much money for risky and very inconsistent encounters with mostly beautiful but crazy women.

The sugar bowl much more suits me. But I still need to be careful. This has led me down the path of the most growth in my life in the last 25 years. Not so sure I have not traded one insanity for another though. I think I am making progress into a more stable path. I have let my SD membership expire and I do not go on any SD sites anymore. And I am activley culling my POTs and SBs down to a manageable level. I guess that is progress.

Thanks again.

Revvo

[FredMoore]

My current ATF (#4) I will keep in touch with her even though I am "retiring". She is actually a retired dancer from another life and world and amazingly is not GPS, but very reasonable, low key,and appreciative. In her day she made $2000 / night and I believe it since she was in a hot market and is super talented in looks and personality. She is a 10 across the board and I am loathe to give her up. She can get any guy she wants and the only limit is how much sex and extra funds she needs. She seems to have enough money to sustain herself with the basics. And I feel that we have a connection together, or at least she makes me feel that way. I certainly don't want to be in a conga line but I think she will tell me if she has other guys in her life. She is straight forward like that.

I am still perusing the Boards even though I am not prospecting any more. I am back in the homestead and the warden is on top of things pretty regularly. I think traveling sales is the job to have for optimal married Sugar dating.

[Magic Rat]

Sorry I haven't been able to contribute much to the clubhouse recently, but I do get a great kick out of reading my fellow travelers' exploits.

I thought I might throw a reminder out there that there are different ways and methods of getting to the same place, which is in the FC with POTF (how's that for 2 acronyms in the same sentence?) I have been seeing a late 30's MILF that I met from placing a Craigslist ad a few months ago. She is really into me and the sex is unbelievable plus the price is right. As in lunch and beers only! I am also having a second meeting today with a much younger MILF stripper that I initially met a couple weeks ago, who didn't seem opposed at all to the idea of meeting up in another, more private location than the strip club. Pricing seems to be in line with reasonable Babies so I do have my hopes up slightly for this one. Of course, we all know how fickle these Babies can be. I have to travel for deeper fishing waters as there appears to be an outbreak of GPS in the local ponds. As I've been quoted $500-$1, 000! Even a 40ish, overweight hippy gal quoted me $300, and that was only for an hour!

On a sadder note, my on again off again ATF of 2+ years is apparently off again for good. Of course I have thought that before and then she will contact me out of the blue as if nothing has happened. I have finally got to the point of not stressing over it for the most part. If I see her, I see her. If not, my world will not end. To steal a line from my good friend Scott, I could have ruined my life for her I believe. We had a really strong connection.

Lastly, I have to give props to Revvo, who is an old online buddy from a stripper site. We both used to fancy the stripper world and the possibilities there. It appears Revvo has been converted to the Sugar world and seems to be doing quite well. Good for you my man! Obviously I haven't been able to wean myself from that dark place, but I keep trying! Could it have something to do with the local GPS Baby world?

Keep at it my fellow travelers, and keep those reports coming!

[Revvo]

I feel like I am falling behind. No new girls to speak of. I keep going after the absolute non pros and very young. Very difficult. Txted a UTR girl out of desperation today. One problem with being spoiled is that good is just not good enough. Also its harder to enjoy with my biz being so slow. I do enjoy reading everyones updates. Lurkers please contribute. Your anonymity is secure on this site.

No need to worry brother. You got it good. You are not falling behind. You just are in a good place enjoying where you are at.

Getting off the hamster wheel is much better. Look at me a victim of my own excess. Recognizing what you have is half the battle.

Revvo

[HollywoodGuy]

I read this and thought, that's me. Summer time is slow, and my work load is starting to increase as the year comes to a close. Time to dip the toes in the proverbial sugar pool for some more fun.

And my little stripper SB is so straight. She works with all these hot girls. Be she is not into girls or sharing me with her co-workers. And I am sure the ones that would want way more than I can spend. I never really got a referral SB before.

[WoodSlinger]

I feel like I am falling behind. No new girls to speak of. I keep going after the absolute non pros and very young. Very difficult. Txted a UTR girl out of desperation today. One problem with being spoiled is that good is just not good enough. Also its harder to enjoy with my biz being so slow. I do enjoy reading everyones updates. Lurkers please contribute. Your anonymity is secure on this site.

I read this and thought, that's me. Summer time is slow, and my work load is starting to increase as the year comes to a close. Time to dip the toes in the proverbial sugar pool for some more fun.

[HollywoodGuy]

I feel like I am falling behind. No new girls to speak of. I keep going after the absolute non pros and very young. Very difficult. Txted a UTR girl out of desperation today. One problem with being spoiled is that good is just not good enough. Also its harder to enjoy with my biz being so slow. I do enjoy reading everyones updates. Lurkers please contribute. Your anonymity is secure on this site.

[Revvo]

Things are starting to stabilize and this is very good. Less and less work and more calm. Confidence is increasing even with some of the failures as well as some nice victories. Less expense and less work. This is important. Because the candle will burn out. There is still quite a bit of activity as things progress.

REVVO_ATF: I did hear from her on Monday about getting together this week. But I am already booked and just do not have the time. Besides I am going to probably slowly ease her out. Good girl. Probably the prettiest in the bunch and likes sex but not as fun as the others. Been with me a long time. Maybe we will work something out in the future.

REVVO_POT1: So as the last report said she went dark the day of our second date. Not sure why. All systems were definitely go but I think many of these 'normal' women just can't make the leap to P4P. Anyway I still try to contact her and try to rekindle but chances are extremely slim. Besides she is an 8/9/8? I can't just give up on that. But she is coming off the list for now.

REVVO_POT3: So is was another one that just went dark. Once again I never thought this one would back out. Her expressed desire to be with me was so strong. So when she went dark I was baffled. So having nothing to lose and with plenty of backups I proceeded as if nothing happened. Still texting and calling and sure enough 5 days later she contacts me willing to talk as if nothing happened. However I did notice a little less enthusiastic but very willing. We are now scheduled for a date for Thursday evening. She has given me her address which shows she is committed. But we shall see. But she is a 5'7' white blond gorgeous blue eyes, and a rockin body that she works out every day. She is rated at a 7/8/9? So my hopes are high. She lives in another city that I travel to frequently. So she could be a real keeper. These babies always surprise.

REVVO_POT5: This is an interesting one. But I'm not going to fight too hard for this one. She is busy and I am fully booked so I will slow roll this. But man what a body. I can give her some space for now. May not go anywhere. We shall see. When I asked for more pics she send me some really nice R rated photos that looked very good. I just am not sure once again how ready she is for an actual meeting. Not holding my breath as usual.

REVVO_SB1: No news here she is patiently waiting been weeks and may be more. Just don't have the time or money. Completely back burner.

REVVO_SB2: This is one that I really like. She is a cute little brazillian princess and she is such a good fuck. She was out of town last week and we cannot schedule a meet this week. But she is literally trying to switch shifts at her bartending job to meet me on Friday. No word yet. She is not the most beautiful of the bunch but cute and very sexy body. She is a 7/8/10/10 but she has that quality that I just love a combination of sexiness / passion / femininity / and so ready to fuck. And she cums so hard and completely that she is immobilized for a minute or so. What a combination. Oh and the best blow jobs. Another keeper.

REVVO_SB3: My little AA Morrocan has contacted me a couple of times but I cannot squeeze her in. She does not float my boat anyway. Maybe sometime in the future.

REVVO_SB4: So I fucked my little Colombian coconut on Tuesday. She was good to go and the sex was amazing. Lots of orgasms, fucking and once again sleeping in each others arms to a thunderstorm. Yes it has been raining a lot down here in FLa. I am doing her about once a month now and she seems fine with it. No pressure or trouble.

REVVO_SB5: No activity with my little euro baby. She is patient and waiting for me to return. I honestly cannot squeeze them all in. I am going to have to continue to cull them out. I certainly have the quantity if not the quality of some of the brothers in the clubhouse. Maybe next week but not sure.

REVVO_SB6: This is my cute little girl next door. White 23 YO 5'2' very sexy body spinner material, dark eyes and very sexual. Cums very easily and maybe the tightest pussy I have ever fucked. I have to put it in slow or she going to be hurt. But once we start going she is all over my dick. I give her a 8/9/8/8 and getting better. Good communicator. Someone I can really spend time with. We have a lot of the same interests and she is very mature. Fucked her today and spent the afternoon together and it was great. She is starting to get more and more fond of me and it is only getting better. She looks so good standing naked in front of me with that flat stomach and those sexy legs with that gap between them. We used to call them sunset legs.

That's the supplemental. More to come. I am culling it down still and I am still out on the SD site. Membership has expired just working on what I have and it is a lot. I think my ideal would be SB6 as a regular once a week and for fun stuff outside the bedroom. SB2 as a regular since she is so much fun also and I never have to pay her just gifts and hotel room. And POT3 as a third SB and great to visit in other city. So when traveling on business no hotel or food costs, just sugar. Then maybe SB4 as a good backup / booty call baby since she is very business like. The other SB's I think would be hurt if I neglect them too much. Just dreaming. It is very hard to plan how this will turn out. But I like the calm of scaling this down. But I have more scaling down to go.

Be careful out there.

REVVO

[F Scott]

I imagine she just made a mistake. But holy hell talk about the wrong place! A mature woman, posting in a place where the men are talking about banging young 18. 25 year old hotties? Someone should just move it to the Escorts category or whatever.

Thankfully, someone else realized the insane irony of the situation, and the Journal is clean! Talk about barking up the wrong tree!

Hope everyone had a wonderful holiday weekend. My Country Baby disappeared on me, sadly. She is so beautiful, but also so incredibly flaky. As you all know, I like the artistic, creative types, but I also acknowledge that unreliability comes with the species. It helps to keep me fluid, I guess, but honestly I was so looking forward to fucking her. She is gorgeous, and Scottie was longing for her in a most unbecoming way.

Oh well, as my grandmother used to say, girls are like streetcars, there's another one along every five minutes. Wait, she wasn't referring to SBs, come to think of it, but the advice is still just as valid!

These next few weeks will be quiet for me, I'm afraid. My new ATF leaves for NYC permanently on Monday, my Skittish Baby has dived underground again, apparently, and my former ATF has decided that the lesbian life is just what her doctor ordered after all, I guess. This leaves me with just my little AA spinner, which is no kind of punishment whatsoever, but I normally like to keep two babies in rotation at a minimum, since scheduling is often tricky for me. An opportunity to replenish the sugar bowl is how I'm looking at it.

In the meantime, I look forward to reading about all your all exploits. It is a uniquely literate thread, isn't it?

Tally ho,

Scott

[MetalHead63]

Play nice. Many people have varied tastes and she's just trying to make a living.

Hell, at this time, I'd tap it.

[WoodSlinger]

Is this the right place for her to advertise? It will be permanently in the Clubhouse Journal now, unless Jackson removes it for us?

Scott

I imagine she just made a mistake. But holy hell talk about the wrong place! A mature woman, posting in a place where the men are talking about banging young 18. 25 year old hotties? Someone should just move it to the Escorts category or whatever.