"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Zomby]

I date a stripper now. But she became one after I met her. My past experiences with them have been less than gratifying. They laugh at my offers.

My one and only SB was a stripper when we started. After a little over four years, she's gone now, and I don't certainly don't expect lightning to strike twice, but there is an undeniable appeal, for me, with strippers. Before my SB, I would have said that I just love the hunt, and there's certainly an aspect of that still to it even now, after I've started frequenting clubs again. It's not quite the same at the moment, though, and I don't know if it ever will be.

Part of the problem is that I, probably very foolishly, developed a very real, and moderately deep, affection for her. In my defense, it was not entirely one-way, but I made it clear even when I told her how I felt that I wasn't planning on making any changes to my marriage, and she wanted the whole family thing with her boyfriend, now husband. I certainly don't blame her for pursuing that dream.

We parted on good terms, which almost makes it worse, if that's doesn't sound idiotic. If there'd been a falling out, it would be easy to get over "that beotch," but this way, every girl I see gets compared to her, and the comparison is not always favorable.

[GeorgeRichmond]

Guys, in Virginia

Please stay away from profile #1655973. Her real name is Hannah but she will lie, cheat and will do everything to trap you (money, gifts).

http://www.seekingarrangement.com/me...php?id=1655973

Richmond, C-Ville, and surrounding folks. PM me if you are planning to meet. I will give you details.

But. Don't even go to her.

[Revvo]

So later today I hit up a stripper on sd4me. She replied back that I would never meet anyone for $ and that I was basically an idiot. I replied back to her professionally that I had 3 FT girls at $ but I was always on the lookout for another. I knew this was going to lead to drama. So I deleted her first message back to me without reading it. This lead to 5 more messages. None of which I read. Then I blocked her.

I had a POT recently that contacted me and wanted to get together. She seemed to have a personality but not too great looking, about a 7, 6.7 and a little doughy, she was quite dirty from the beginning in her chatting. I usually am not until later and I get to know them.

So we agreed to meet and the she tells me that she has had a SD before and I asked her what she liked about it. She starts talking money and I know this is not good. That is now three strikes and I am still considering meeting. She then asks me to go shopping before we meet and that she can host after we go shopping.

Getting worse. I tell her no. I do not do it that way. Always polite. She says if I have had other SBs and I only paid them 200 then they must be wh. S or sluts and she is afraid to associate with me.

Against my own better judgement I tell her about how high end these girls were and had real careers and education. Never once had any health issue with any of them. So she shifts to another attack on me saying I must be taking advantage of them. I disengage and block her.

Funny how the GPS girls always go into attack mode if you don't offer what they are asking. That is what is suspect will happen with King's girl but good luck anyway.

I have fucked a few StrippersI and they have always been the most expensive, and not always the best.

Revvo

[HollywoodGuy]

So later today I hit up a stripper on sd4me. She replied back that I would never meet anyone for $ and that I was basically an idiot. I replied back to her professionally that I had 3 FT girls at $ but I was always on the lookout for another. I knew this was going to lead to drama. So I deleted her first message back to me without reading it. This lead to 5 more messages. None of which I read. Then I blocked her.

[HollywoodGuy]

That attitude works no matter what aspect of this hobby one pursues, as well as outside of it. My greatest experience is with strippers, where it works *very* well.

I date a stripper now. But she became one after I met her. My past experiences with them have been less than gratifying. They laugh at my offers.

[Zomby]

I never bargain, but I believe every girl is entitled to whatever she wants, just not necessarily from me.

That attitude works no matter what aspect of this hobby one pursues, as well as outside of it. My greatest experience is with strippers, where it works *very* well.

[HollywoodGuy]

My roommate looked so cute today

[HollywoodGuy]

Need help. I met a nice SB that I like. But she is bargaining for school stuff, etc gifts and allowance. I agreed on allowance, then she started can you increase. I am poor bargainer myself. I am now debating what to do with SB.

On hand, a beautiful SB 9/9/9, 20 year old! But she looks like high maintenance, demanding, SB. She asked for etc things after our first meet and I bought some school things. But now. She want me to up the allowance which is already high compared to local market.

In double mind! I personally don't want bargainers. I want a long term with this SB but will shall see.

Like seniors have said, I need to come up with budget. And stick with it.

I never bargain, but I believe every girl is entitled to whatever she wants, just not necessarily from me.

[GeorgeRichmond]

Dspro said it all here. Do not negotiate it will lead to bad feelings on either her part or yours. And do not give in to her demands because it will not end.

Tell her what you are willing to do and leave it at that. This arrangement will probably go nowhere and if it does it will be costly. Just remember in the time it took me to write this. Five more women signed up for that site. Supply and demand. Get into an abundance situation and this will matter very little.

Revvo

Thanks Revvo and Dspro. Let me move forward with SB as she seems to be a nice girl. But confession of shopaholic will have to be watched. Will keep posted. Thanks for the advice.

[Revvo]

I think we've all been there. You've got this hot young thing that you never thought you'd be able to get, and you don't want to lose her. You want to keep her happy so she keeps YOU happy, and your ego wants to show her that you're the man who can take care of her. What you tend to forget in the heat of the moment, is that this is all an illusion, and from the start it's going to be a temporary thing. So, you have a choice to make: you can give her whatever she asks for up until the point where she breaks the bank (and she will) ; or you can politely but firmly set limits now. You have to be willing to lose her, because someday you're going to. In the meantime you need to make sure you're on terms that you are ok with. I am not saying never give her extras or buy her gifts, but that has to be when you want to, not when she pressures you to, otherwise it will never end. Remember, her replacement probably posted on SA for the first time today.

Dspro said it all here. Do not negotiate it will lead to bad feelings on either her part or yours. And do not give in to her demands because it will not end.

Tell her what you are willing to do and leave it at that. This arrangement will probably go nowhere and if it does it will be costly. Just remember in the time it took me to write this. Five more women signed up for that site. Supply and demand. Get into an abundance situation and this will matter very little.

Revvo

[Dsprdo]

Need help. I met a nice SB that I like. But she is bargaining for school stuff, etc gifts and allowance. I agreed on allowance, then she started can you increase. I am poor bargainer myself. I am now debating what to do with SB.

On hand, a beautiful SB 9/9/9, 20 year old! But she looks like high maintenance, demanding, SB. She asked for etc things after our first meet and I bought some school things. But now. She want me to up the allowance which is already high compared to local market.

In double mind! I personally don't want bargainers. I want a long term with this SB but will shall see.

Like seniors have said, I need to come up with budget. And stick with it.

I think we've all been there. You've got this hot young thing that you never thought you'd be able to get, and you don't want to lose her. You want to keep her happy so she keeps YOU happy, and your ego wants to show her that you're the man who can take care of her. What you tend to forget in the heat of the moment, is that this is all an illusion, and from the start it's going to be a temporary thing. So, you have a choice to make: you can give her whatever she asks for up until the point where she breaks the bank (and she will) ; or you can politely but firmly set limits now. You have to be willing to lose her, because someday you're going to. In the meantime you need to make sure you're on terms that you are ok with. I am not saying never give her extras or buy her gifts, but that has to be when you want to, not when she pressures you to, otherwise it will never end. Remember, her replacement probably posted on SA for the first time today.

[GeorgeRichmond]

Need help. I met a nice SB that I like. But she is bargaining for school stuff, etc gifts and allowance. I agreed on allowance, then she started can you increase. I am poor bargainer myself. I am now debating what to do with SB.

On hand, a beautiful SB 9/9/9, 20 year old! But she looks like high maintenance, demanding, SB. She asked for etc things after our first meet and I bought some school things. But now. She want me to up the allowance which is already high compared to local market.

In double mind! I personally don't want bargainers. I want a long term with this SB but will shall see.

Like seniors have said, I need to come up with budget. And stick with it.

[Revvo]

Sultry POT is now SultryHYB. Drove to her place without calling because her earlier texts she seemed enthusiastic to meet. Halfway there I get a call asking if we are still meeting. I let her know I am already on my way and she says she can't wait. She greets me with a hug and french kissing. I tell her she should eat her breakfast because she will need the energy later. I prepare a mimosa for her and open some wine for myself. We chat for a bit then kiss and heavy petting. My hands tell me she is going commando. It is trimmed and wet. DATY then BBBJ then cover then CG then missionary then legs up. She is a moaner and lets me know each time she cums. Switch to doggie to finish. She is sweaty and gasping laying there. I ask when was her last time. She says she has some toys but it has been over a year since she has been with anyone. We smoke a bit and make plans for tomorrow. She is the only Pot that has stuck so far so I am limited on options but it sure is nice to have an eager 21yr old in awe of you. I felt like college stud again but with more knowledge and staying power. This sure made up for the past week. Like hitting a home run after striking out the last 10 at bat.

I grade her 8/8/9/7. She is young but willing to learn and takes direction well. I do not mind experimenting and exploring a bit more with her.

That's it for now. I hope to a harem eventually but this is a good start.

Take care and have fun.

MoJo

Awesome job brotha. You are very lucky I would say. You found her early on. And in this game you can go from discouraging dry spells. That make you want to give up.

To times of amazing abundance when you are fucking so many you think your dick is going to fall off. I found my best one fairly early on. And I am still looking for one that compares to her.

But have met some other great ones along the way.

Keep up the good work. Now make sure she is locked in.

Lets be careful out there.

Revvo

[HollywoodGuy]

Sultry POT is now SultryHYB. Drove to her place without calling because her earlier texts she seemed enthusiastic to meet. Halfway there I get a call asking if we are still meeting. I let her know I am already on my way and she says she can't wait. She greets me with a hug and french kissing. I tell her she should eat her breakfast because she will need the energy later. I prepare a mimosa for her and open some wine for myself. We chat for a bit then kiss and heavy petting. My hands tell me she is going commando. It is trimmed and wet. DATY then BBBJ then cover then CG then missionary then legs up. She is a moaner and lets me know each time she cums. Switch to doggie to finish. She is sweaty and gasping laying there. I ask when was her last time. She says she has some toys but it has been over a year since she has been with anyone. We smoke a bit and make plans for tomorrow. She is the only Pot that has stuck so far so I am limited on options but it sure is nice to have an eager 21yr old in awe of you. I felt like college stud again but with more knowledge and staying power. This sure made up for the past week. Like hitting a home run after striking out the last 10 at bat.

I grade her 8/8/9/7. She is young but willing to learn and takes direction well. I do not mind experimenting and exploring a bit more with her.

That's it for now. I hope to a harem eventually but this is a good start.

Take care and have fun.

MoJo

This is a slam dunk. No reason to lose her.

[Revvo]

I've done this a few times, but definitely not exclusive. Surprisingly, most happen on first dates when time is limited and the sexual tension is flowing. I've had all types in the big backseat, but like Hollywood said, I'd not make it my only area. Remember, you are supposed to be an SD, what kind of SD can't afford a room. Even if you can, car dates only come across as cheap and potentially feeling more like a prostitute.

BT

I agree with brotha Tigg on this one. We all want to reduce our costs as much as possible. But if you are bringing a baby back to your "van down by the river" LOL.

Don't expect too much quality or a return visit. You are putting yourself down there In streetwalker territory.

Treat them good brother. And it will pay off in the long run.

Revvo