Rookie Advice and Opinions

[SouthernGent 1]

I recently came across a provider that seemed legit from her pics, phone number (no hits and Tineye or google) and our text communication. We discussed donation via text and that wants to verify me via a webcam show for $25 and that once verified, the $25 will come off of the outcall cost. Has anyone come across this? I am waiting for her to get back to me as I could not meet up earlier when she was available. I am not sure how she will want me to pay for the webcam sow "verification" but I want to be mindful that it could be a scam to get my CC info.

Any of you long-timers ever heard of this?

[Shyscott]

Is it common for an escort on CL to require online identity verification. She says it will come off the donation for the encounter but I'm afraid it's a scam.

I have had the same thing asked of me and I assume it is scam. Does anyone here know for sure? The girl in question seems to be TGTBT anyway, but damn I want it to not be a scam!

[Greeekman]

I personally would never do an outcall to my house or apartment. The problem with all escort type venues is that they probably keep some sort of record even if you don't think they do. Do you want your house address or even phone number a part of that. If you do the transaction to a hotel or motel in cash from a prepaid phone number, it is much harder to have it linked back to yourself. Look in the Maine forums about a year or so ago about a "exercise" place that was raided and then the johns who could be identified were arrested with the names made public. You don't want that.

Motel etiquette is the same as it would be if you were not using it as a hobby. Check into the hotel with two people using cash if possible. It is a normal thing to do. Often they want to see a driver's license so be prepared to show it.

Enjoy.

Alright guys, newbie here, a few questions.

1. I was wondering if an outcall to your place of residence is always a bad idea? Can it be done safely?

Follow up: should you always be using motels? Exceptions?

2. Motel etiquette: how to NOT make it look like what it is.

Thanks!

[Shotgun Jimmy]

Alright guys, newbie here, a few questions.

1. I was wondering if an outcall to your place of residence is always a bad idea? Can it be done safely?

Follow up: should you always be using motels? Exceptions?

2. Motel etiquette: how to NOT make it look like what it is.

Thanks!

[SAM7032]

Why do some of the ladies have pimps? Does the presence of a pimp always mean the lady is on drugs or, for some other reason, is not in control? Or do they perform.

A role of value to the lady?

Thanks

[The Chauffeur]

[quote=max999; 397184]does anyone have any personal experiences, good or bad, trying to help a sw escape the street

**** runaway looked very out of place on the track. scooped her up. pimp had met her at the greyhound station. after several weeks finally got her to call her mother. she sent her a bus ticket. she called later that year to wish me a happy birthday. back in high school, back with old boyfriend, back to her pre-runaway life. how? she was brand new out. 2nd night. once the drugs get them it's usually too late. most hoz are hoz, with rare exceptions.

[HobbyTyler]

I wondered about the girls that have these large websites with tons of photos and such. I probably should have known they were TGTBT. Thanks! I hope to have my crap together enough to be posting my first real report in a weekend or two!

[Greeekman]

Recently divorced and have decided to indulge myself a little bit. I've read my local forum pretty thoroughly and know which girls are relatively high quality and fairly safe.

My problem is what to do about the whole Verification thing. I work on a contractual basis. I don't have an "employer" per se. I don't mind showing an I'd as long as my address is covered. I've got a phone number that's safe to use. But I don't have the required employer for the girl or verification service to call. Any advice on how to get around this? The only providers I've ever dreamt with were in another country and were years ago so no luck there.

Long story short, I have plenty of money, how do I get them to take the money?

Avoid the verification thing at all costs. It is usually a scam. This profession depends on privacy and the woman expects it as much as the guys do. If they are asking for your employer, they are not worth dealing with. I would recommend purchasing a pay as you go phone for all calls or using a pay phone. Assume that if you make a call, the number is being recorded. Before cheap cell phones, I only called on pay phones. Today, I have a cheap phone purchased at a local mini market type store with cash and paid for a phone card at a second place with cash. It is the only phone I use for this and I don't use it for anything else. I can always find a provider using one of the many venues for it, my favorite is Back Page, and use the phone only for that. If they want me to go through a verification process such as employers or giving some service my credit card, I thank them nicely and then move onto the next person. There are plenty of providers out there and I never compromise my security or identity. I recommend you do the same.

[HobbyTyler]

Recently divorced and have decided to indulge myself a little bit. I've read my local forum pretty thoroughly and know which girls are relatively high quality and fairly safe.

My problem is what to do about the whole Verification thing. I work on a contractual basis. I don't have an "employer" per se. I don't mind showing an I'd as long as my address is covered. I've got a phone number that's safe to use. But I don't have the required employer for the girl or verification service to call. Any advice on how to get around this? The only providers I've ever dreamt with were in another country and were years ago so no luck there.

Long story short, I have plenty of money, how do I get them to take the money?

[ADD72]

It looks like I'm about to be divorced and return to the hobby for awhile. I see I will need a burner phone. All the girls have retired so I have no references. How far do they go on background checks? I was going to sign up for p411 or date-check, can you just give the provider your account # there or do you need more? I'm not real comfortable with a lot of people calling my work. I'm planning on just sticking with one provider once I find the right one. The problem is the one I'm interested in requires a provider reference & service reference. Any ideas or help?

[Gsam1212]

Been lurking on this for a while now.

It seems the standards are the following:

FS: $ + rate for hh or 1h
HJ: .4 + rate for hh or 1h

Any standards for:

CBJ only?

TS only?

I think it's important know so no one screws with the local market rates. Any opinions out there?

[Member #6770]

I have been in cities with no preplaning, and have had to use either a hotel doorman or the phone book. (I travel at the spur of the moment for work occasionaly). I don't know for certain, but I think its safe to assume if an AMP offers a table shower (TS) then there is more than likely some extras available. Even if you only get a straight massage, at least the TS is worth the trip. The one AMP secret I have is: never skip a TS. Its enjoyable, and the girl will feel safer because she knows you're clean. Also when you are on your stomach, lift up when she is in the correct area, sends a message, and when you flip, if you are hard, you'll know how she will treat you in the massage, if she plays with you in the shower, you're gold, if she avoids it, then just take a nap and don't expect anything extra, if it comes, great. So give a call to Asian sounding massage places, ask hours,(if they are open past 9pm, good sign) and ask if they offer a TS, another good sign. And, have fun.

I'm still fairly new to this site, although I have had some AMP's experiences and these forums are rock solid. When driving to a couple of these AMP's I noticed that a lot of them are in strip malls with curtains or some glass like film on the outside windows to protect the waiting areas. As well as when entering, the premise I usually see a door, with a one way glass mirror and a door bell ringer near the glass. Through many of your multiple wealth of knowledge of what to look for.

What advice can you give us rookies to give us some general things to look for to tell if the "spa" is a legitament one or the ones that give extras? Either when doing a quick drive by in a car, or when entering the spa.

[Jackmeoff123]

I am currently in China for work. Apparently, the gov't here blocks access to the International site that partners with this one. Does anyone have any ideas on how to access the International Sex Guide from China?

Any help would be appreciated!

Configure your browser with a good anon proxie from a country other than China.

That should get you where you want to go.

[Aahz42]

I am currently in China for work. Apparently, the gov't here blocks access to the International site that partners with this one. Does anyone have any ideas on how to access the International Sex Guide from China?

Any help would be appreciated!

[Hell On Wls]

Thanks, I thought it was something like that.