"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Randytomcatt** · 06-20-13 16:59

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

Can files on a flashdrive be hidden, or locked or something like that?

They can be encrypted. Of course,"what are these files that I can't open?" is not a good question to hear. Better in the cloud. When you delete from hard drive or flash drive, might want to use a shredder program which makes them pretty much unrecoverable.

**HollywoodGuy** · 06-20-13 16:54

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

Can files on a flashdrive be hidden, or locked or something like that?

Thats a good question. For a tech company owner thats not a techie I know a few things. But can not definitively answer that question. I am sure someone can.

**HollywoodGuy** · 06-20-13 16:52

I haven't posted much about POT's as the closing percentage is so low I don't want to bore anyone. But I did see a fresh hottie (HCB) on sd4me that fit my demographic. 19, mixed, skinny with curves, (5'7" 122) cute, close enough by (but just barely) , likes to make-out (so she says). She just posted last nite and after talking to me she put her profile in suspend mode. So you see how fast some of these girls disappear.

She said in her profile that she was bored. I like that because it tells me maybe she doesn't really care about the sugar as much as the adventure. We messaged, then txted, then talked for a half hour. Says she wants to go on a real date. Doesn't care about sugar (she has a job) and thinks that may be immoral (or something to that effect).

She just broke up from her BF and doesn't want another one but doesn't want to be alone. Sounds perfect. Will update after the date. One thing about being low on funds is that it has forced me to be much pickier. It's been over 3 months since my last close. But I am ready to find a new SB if the right one comes along. Cant really afford to add a 4th. So either I would have to drop one or if this one is low sugar (dating expenses only) then I could add her to the list.

She did ask if I was seeing anyone. I told her I do date but did not get into the specifics as there would be no reason this early in the game. Even though she said that she did not want a BF or anything close to that I do not want her thinking player. I told her I live with my daughter but didn't mention the live in. Usually if they meet me and everything is cool at that point I will mention my roommate before we head back to my place. I usually (but not always) let them think its platonic unless it goes to a second date.

EDIT: her response to my first email. "Omg! Haha omg you are so fucking hilarious!" I always try to keep them either sexting or laughing. Either way the end result is usually the same. Also googled her email address and now have her facebook and twitter.

**F Scott** · 06-20-13 16:50

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

I work online so probably that stuff doesn't bother me as much. I work in "big data" like you been hearing about on the news. But a flash drive is easily hidden.

Can files on a flashdrive be hidden, or locked or something like that?

**HollywoodGuy** · 06-20-13 16:42

Originally Posted by BigTime2 [View Original Post]

Flash Drive and I'd leave the ONLINE backup service alone, just saying.

I work online so probably that stuff doesn't bother me as much. I work in "big data" like you been hearing about on the news. But a flash drive is easily hidden.

**BigTime2** · 06-20-13 14:40

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

8. Now transfer them to a backup hard drive which you could hide anywhere or an online backup service which is password protected. Then delete the pics from your computer.

Flash Drive and I'd leave the ONLINE backup service alone, just saying.

**Dsprdo** · 06-20-13 14:29

Quick update:

Tattoo SB-I was worried about her when I started as she seemed to always have a new money problem and I thought she wasn't going to last. I gently coached her on that and the issue has all but disappeared. We are settled now on $.5 a visit, and she would usually rather come to my house and hit the pool or cuddle on the couch prior to FC duty than go out for drinks or dinner, so she isn't costing me much as far as expenses go. The sex has gotten better and better. The last time she was here when she got out of bed her legs were shaking so badly she had trouble getting her balance for a minute. She is now my primary SB, only problem is now she wants to come over all the time, restricting time and funding for other operations. Oh, well, there are worse problems to have.

Needy MILF Pot- This is a sweet white girl. 31, 7/6/9 (six on body because of baby pooch, otherwise a spinner with nice legs and booty). She has had some hard luck in her life and is needy both emotionally and financially. After an initial M&G over dinner, we had progressed to the point where the sugar discussion came up. She said that she wasn't even going to bring it up, but she did need some financial help. She said that she liked me so much that she'd be happy just to go out if I was uncomfortable with it. When I broached the subject of a physical relationship she said that a friend told her that there were guys on SA who were willing to help out just for company. She stressed that she was hoping our relationship would go there, but didn't want to feel like she was just doing it for money. I didn't commit to anything and we decided to have lunch the next day. At the last minute, she texted me that her sitter had fallen through, and could her son come along? I was already on the way, and didn't want to be a jerk about it, so I said okay, intending to bail early. We actually had a nice lunch, and then she talked me into going to the pool; At the end of the day, when I dropped them off, she pretty much begged me to come over after the kids were asleep. To which I had to say no. I know she's sizing me up to be replacement daddy and solve all her problems. That is not for me and I had to tell her so. She took it well, and asked if we could get together next week. I left that one open as at the time I could hardly hear myself think over the internal earful I was getting from little me, who had been discreetly petted a couple of times over the afternoon when we had a moment to ourselves. In the long run I could string her along for low sugar, but I think she has had enough bad luck in her life and I don't want a karma debt for making it worse for her.

Things have slowed down a little as far as new Pots. A week or two ago I had several nibbles from SA, but only one has moved along to a meet and greet. For the last week or so I've not had many responses and some of the girls that I was communicating with have gone silent. My subscription is up at the end of the month and I think I'm going to see what SD4M has to offer.

**HollywoodGuy** · 06-20-13 11:17

Originally Posted by John G Smith [View Original Post]

So the chain of custody of my Sugar Pics would go like this:

1). Naked SB 2). Pull out Sugar Cam 3). *Click* 4). Sugar Pics on Sugar Cam 5). After quick review, Sugar Cam Phone stays locked indefinitely 6). Transfer Sugar Pics to secure device / computer to password protected folders 7). Wipe Sugar Cam of Sugar Pics.

What do you guys think of that? Those of you who take pictures how do you transfer and store them securely?

8. Now transfer them to a backup hard drive which you could hide anywhere or an online backup service which is password protected. Then delete the pics from your computer.

**F Scott** · 06-20-13 11:08

My brothers,

I was communicating on SA this morning with a hot-looking baby, a little older than I like them, but still do-able, at least from her photos. I coaxed her over to my Sugar email account, where her message to me contained her real name in her email address. Things were going along nicely, and we were setting up an m&g for later today when I idly put her name into pipl. Not only did more recent, and skanky, pics come up, but an article about her boyfriend and father of her SIX children, who was sent to prison for burning her clothes and setting the house on fire in a drunken jealous rage over her cheating on him. Oh, and he also set her parents' house on fire, and attacked a police officer with a butcher knife. This was back in 2011, and he was sentenced to 2 1/2 years, meaning he is probably just getting out, if not free already! I can just see it now: "Hi honey, I'm home from prison! Who the FUCK is this?"

Needless to say, I am going to vanish on this one. Any bro in the Chicago area on SA, pm me and I'll give you her profile. Unless you live for danger, in which case, tall ho!

You can never be too careful in your initial screening process, I say, and any little bit of intel is helpful.

Peace,

Scott

**Hernando** · 06-20-13 10:24

Originally Posted by Revvo [View Original Post]

Anyone tried this Fling. Com that is being advertised on here?

I tried signing up for the free trial membership. But it does not let you do hardly anything.

Just curious if anyone has had any luck. You know the internet is always evolving.

Revvo

Fling is full of young girls looking for fun. I found a 40ish MILF who was a beautiful sex freak, a little chubby but could take incredible nipple biting and beg for more. But besides her I am too old to play in that pool. Most of the girls are 18-20's and they don't want an old man. If the girls are on a sugar site then they will do old men, but not here.

Also I think a lot of the amazingly hot girls there are shills. See the strip of hotties above . I bet they are all fake .

Having said that give it a try and see for yourself. Let us know.

**Member #5570** · 06-20-13 10:05

I been taking pics and vids. I made sure my face or other identifiable body parts, besides my cock is in the pics.

I transfer them immediately over to the laptop and password protected the folder.

There are apps that secured the pics on your phone, but it's a pain to retrieve and transfer.

**John G Smith** · 06-20-13 07:10

We've talked about this topic a little bit in the past but I wanted to revisit it.

So far in my Sugar Bowl career I've never taken a single picture of one of my babies in the bedroom or otherwise. I've been tempted but I always felt it was just too big of a risk of exposure having hard evidence of my activities in my possession. With just about every action I do in the Sugar Bowl, I try to make sure it's always backed up by "Reasonable Doubt". Meaning if I'm careless and a piece of evidence of my activities finds its way into the Warden's hands, I can explain it and cloud it with enough reasonable doubt so a state of blissful ignorance can be maintained. I try to avoid creating "Smoking Guns" at all costs. I can explain an errant hotel charge on a credit card (ie. My buddy got in a huge fight with his girlfriend and needed a place to crash or the card number must have been stolen and I'll report it immediately, and etc). But if there is a pic found in my possession of a young 20 year-old deep-throating my cock in POV style then there's no explaining that away. That's a career-ending torn ACL injury, you're out of the Bowl immediately and if you somehow manage to return, you'll never be the same.

That said.

I've some really good bedroom experiences lately and man oh man, I'd like to have a few photos / vids to re-live those moments since in some cases they might be just once in-lifetime type experiences. So I'm really tempted to break my own rule. I also recently got a new phone, so I'm thinking of using my old phone, which has no service at all, as my Sugar Cam. Since it's a known device, I wouldn't have to hide it discretely and I can pretty much leave it lying around in the periphery in the house. And since it's a dead phone, it's highly unlikely the Warden will go thumbing through it (It has a screen lock anyway). And with the phone being off the grid from a wireless provider, the only way pics are getting downloaded / sent is through a manual USB transfer.

So the chain of custody of my Sugar Pics would go like this:

1). Naked SB 2). Pull out Sugar Cam 3). *Click* 4). Sugar Pics on Sugar Cam 5). After quick review, Sugar Cam Phone stays locked indefinitely 6). Transfer Sugar Pics to secure device / computer to password protected folders 7). Wipe Sugar Cam of Sugar Pics.

What do you guys think of that? Those of you who take pictures how do you transfer and store them securely?

**Revvo** · 06-19-13 23:12

Anyone tried this Fling. Com that is being advertised on here?

I tried signing up for the free trial membership. But it does not let you do hardly anything.

Just curious if anyone has had any luck. You know the internet is always evolving.

Revvo

**HollywoodGuy** · 06-19-13 16:39

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

Hollywood,

Great list. Many thanks! I'm 8 out of 10, so I feel good. I might add:

1. Knowing their food preferences, ie, vegan, vegetarian or omnivore. I find many of my younger babies are at least non meat-eaters, and they notice favorably if I take them to a place that has a nice seafood selection.

Scott

Favorite baby foods.

1. Sushi (yuck)

2. Italian (I can work with that)

3. Chicken Wings

4. Asian (most are on a diet or don't eat much, especially spinners)

5. Tell them they can go to their favorite restaurant (it's probably half the price or less than your favorite)

**F Scott** · 06-19-13 14:48

Hollywood,

Great list. Many thanks! I'm 8 out of 10, so I feel good. I might add:

1. Knowing their food preferences, ie, vegan, vegetarian or omnivore. I find many of my younger babies are at least non meat-eaters, and they notice favorably if I take them to a place that has a nice seafood selection.

Scott