"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[BigTigger]

I wanted to gather some thoughts from you all on the subject of long distance SD / SB arrangements. Up until recently, I've strictly kept my potential SB searches to the local area or within a 60-90 minute drive. But as I grow frustrated with my inability to find a new SB to fill the vacancy that my HCB left when she asked for a break, I'm starting to consider looking outside my area and have given some thought to contacting potentials that are farther away, with the idea of flying them in for the weekend.

So with that in mind, are there any experiences that the rest of you have had that you can share regarding flying in a SB? I myself haven't flown in years so I'm not sure of the loopholes that come with plane ticket purchases, but isn't it possible that if I bought the ticket for them, they could just turn around and cash it in and never fly out here? If that is the case, is it safer for me if they purchase the plane ticket, then I would reimburse them as part of the sugar? Any other thoughts / opinions / warnings any of you can offer on this topic? I'd appreciate any insight that would be offered!

This is another area I've had lots of experience. You don't have to necessarily follow my steps, but I can vouch that this has worked for me. Flying in SBs requires considerable more time investment and in some cases upfront money. However, the CPO can be really low once you start banging them for a weekend at a time instead of a few hours here or there.

-Spend lots of time texting, emailing and talking. You should talk with her or exchange emails a number of times daily and the intensity should go up as you get closer to the date. By the time you meet for the first time, you should feel like old friends.

-Promise them that once you are comfortable, you will see them at least twice a month.

-Before the first meeting, be very clear in your actions and words that her comfort level / security level is most important.

-Fly to them for the first meeting. Tell them that's a way to show you are serious and to keep her comfortable. If you fly first, you will never have to fly again.

-Also, never schedule the first meeting / flight until you are sure she's legit.

-Let her know that she's not expected to stay overnight when you come to visit. Going to the room and staying overnight are not the same. So make sure to get her to the room, but work your magic so it's her idea to cum to the room and stay overnight.

-Since it is a possible for things not quite going right, have a backup plan maybe a Nando 1 lined up who thinks you are cumming just to see her.

-When it's her turn to fly, if you are using Southwest. Buy the Southwest Gift cards. Give her the number and pin over the phone as she is online trying to get the right flight and time on her computer. If you are using another method, then more trust may be required. I'd use a prepaid MC / Visa and again, give the information over the phone as are you are booking.

-You are going to need a SB who's not in this solely for money. Someone who wants the excitement and travel, etc. This way, the cost of flight, hotel and activities will be factored into how she perceives the funds you give her.

-Give her some funds right after she arrives. Especially if she will have some free time between the time she sees you. That again eases her comfort. Weekend dates are the not the best ones to wait until she's about to leave.

-Have some fun dates setup for the trip and ask her for advice on what she might want to do.

-If you are getting the room, make sure to have some surprises waiting for her when she walks in. (Gifts, chocolate, clothing, flowers, etc.) I will often send her up to the room while I park the car, so she sees the gifts then when I walk in, it's this big 'ol hug and squeeze, etc.

-Get a room that has room service. Use a prepaid green dot or something like that for incidentals. That way you or her will not spend more than what's on the card. You can even give her the budget.

-Get a late Sunday flight and get a late checkout. I've had checkouts a late as 3pm.

-I've flown in over 10-12 women (not all sbs). Each time, it was a date on Fri night, then Tiggabounce most of Saturday and Sunday. Usually fancy date on Friday then simple date on Sat (movies, bowing).

-I had one picked up by a driving service at the airport and taken to her room, where I had gifts at the front desk waiting on her. It was only $60, but the impression was priceless. She even took pictures of the driver with her name on the sign and posted it on Facebook. I got some goodies that evening when I showed up, even before we went out to dinner. She literally attacked me for being so considerate and thoughtful. It was less than 3 minutes before she had the TiggaStick in her mouth working me over...wow...what a night!

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Feel free to add for those of you who have done this before.

BigTigg

[Revvo]

This was an interesting one. So I saved this cute little redhead on SDFORME into my favorites. And then I wait to send her an email when she is logged on. Knowing she will get the notification that I saved her as a favorite. Not more than a day later she sends me an email with her number asking for me to text her. She is very cute 22 YO MILF with a very young son. Comes from a good family and is a little far out for me. But she has red hair, slim, beautiful tits and I would give her a 8/9/7 so far. Rating will vary radically as I get closer to her.

To I text her to get into a little bantering and start some LOL stuff going and create a little chemistry. Responses were tepid at best. This goes on for a little while and I figured what the fuck I have way too many babies and POTs as it is. I am in the process of filtering and I am not going to kill myself over this one. But I said I to myself I will call her. Just to see how it goes. Now I am going on another one week trip so I cannot meet until I get back. But WTF I give it a shot. And she answers my call right away. A plus right there. And she is just as sweet as can be. Another big plus. She giggles a lot because of her discomfort of this process. She is a little southern cookie. With difficulty making ends meet. Does not want to move back into her parents house and confesses to really liking sex and ready to give this thing a go, plus again. We have a very nice talk and I can just feel her comfort level rising and her willingness going up with it also. I tell her that I do not want to force her to do anything that she does not want to do and that we can go slow if she likes. And I even tell her that if I feel that she is not totally into this I will be the one to back out.

I have found that this little detail is a big winner with the hot ones because they are not used to this. They are used to guys doing and saying anything to fuck them regardless. And these hot women know we are just willing to do this. But when a man does not do this it really peaks their interest and makes them much more willing to get busy. I also told her that I am big into communication and I do not like texting so much. She also was all on board with this and told me to call her anytime. So we are literally set for a M&G the morning that I come back and she is driving to me. I think this just shows that sometimes things are not as they seem and a little human to human contact can go a long way. I learned quite a bit from this interaction.

Lets be careful out there.

Revvo

[LoriTruck]

LT you are off to a great start! What area are you in?

My headquaters is in SC but most of my fishing is in NC. The 25 year old college blonde is nestled in Wilmington, NC, a 5 hour journey but worth every minute of it. She has moved to #1 in the world rankings and will be there to stay. I try to fish at least an hour away from where I call home to avoid any major issues. There have been a hand full in the ATL area that wanted $$$$$ per meet. I told them to keep shopping as I do likewise. The results from the advice on this forum are unbelievable!

[PartyTimeGuy]

Is the insatiable MILG. "do me good"? I like that one

"Do me good" is Stripper2. The insatiable MILF is "I want more." The quotes are interchangeable. LOL

[BigTigger]

So I renewed my SA membership after a long hiatus.

Chatting with this very hot model SB, but she's out of my budget. It's going to cost me at least $1k a month to get her to the FC. I offered 500-600 and she said she'll consider it.

Man, this girl is very hot. I might need to break the piggy bank account if she does not accept my lower offer.

Here are a few pics pulled off of her fb page.

Agree to 1k per month to meet twice a week, this is $125 per meeting. Hit it twice for $250, since in the beginning we all pay as we go. Then make your decision.

BigTigg

[Member #5570]

So I renewed my SA membership after a long hiatus.

Chatting with this very hot model SB, but she's out of my budget. It's going to cost me at least $1k a month to get her to the FC. I offered 500-600 and she said she'll consider it.

Man, this girl is very hot. I might need to break the piggy bank account if she does not accept my lower offer.

Here are a few pics pulled off of her fb page.

[FotoGuy1970]

I wanted to gather some thoughts from you all on the subject of long distance SD / SB arrangements. Up until recently, I've strictly kept my potential SB searches to the local area or within a 60-90 minute drive. But as I grow frustrated with my inability to find a new SB to fill the vacancy that my HCB left when she asked for a break, I'm starting to consider looking outside my area and have given some thought to contacting potentials that are farther away, with the idea of flying them in for the weekend.

So with that in mind, are there any experiences that the rest of you have had that you can share regarding flying in a SB? I myself haven't flown in years so I'm not sure of the loopholes that come with plane ticket purchases, but isn't it possible that if I bought the ticket for them, they could just turn around and cash it in and never fly out here? If that is the case, is it safer for me if they purchase the plane ticket, then I would reimburse them as part of the sugar? Any other thoughts / opinions / warnings any of you can offer on this topic? I'd appreciate any insight that would be offered!

[ScLakeman]

LT you are off to a great start! What area are you in?

Hey LT.sent pm but your box is full

[BigTigger]

Gave SA a shot and sent at least 6 emails per day, got a few responses. 3 m&gs and one good lay. Joined SD4me, got some nibbles and a good lay that could've cost nothing.

SA

I'll call her Chatter box. 25 yr old blonde college hottie. 10/10/10/10. Met her on SA, we set up a m&g but I stood her up the first time (5 hour drive to get to her). She gave me another chance, She walks into my room after a rough night where her car got towed. We chat for an hour while laying on the bed, she then asks if I'm ready to have some fun. Fun we did have, no mention of donation at all from the time she walked in to the time I took her back to her place. Gave her $.6 & we are scheduled for Friday.

SD4ME.

I'll dub her Bolen, that's the town she's from. 24 year old mommy of 2. 7/7/10/10. She said she doesn't need money so We exchanged some emails then numbers and then met up at her work place. We chatted to break the ice & got a lap dance for 40. She got ready to leave, she suggested we go get something to eat. After some eggrolls she says "I'm still wet from that dance. We get a room, her dancer discount kicks in. In the room says she likes to dress up. She also informs me that she has not had sex in a long time. She tells me to * the * out of her. No mention of money at all. I surrender $ and leave. She sends countless texts wondering why I didn't spend the night. Had to leave so I could get to work but we will have round 2 real soon.

LT you are off to a great start! What area are you in?

[LoriTruck]

Gave SA a shot and sent at least 6 emails per day, got a few responses. 3 m&gs and one good lay. Joined SD4me, got some nibbles and a good lay that could've cost nothing.

SA

I'll call her Chatter box. 25 yr old blonde college hottie. 10/10/10/10. Met her on SA, we set up a m&g but I stood her up the first time (5 hour drive to get to her). She gave me another chance, She walks into my room after a rough night where her car got towed. We chat for an hour while laying on the bed, she then asks if I'm ready to have some fun. Fun we did have, no mention of donation at all from the time she walked in to the time I took her back to her place. Gave her $.6 & we are scheduled for Friday.

SD4ME.

I'll dub her Bolen, that's the town she's from. 24 year old mommy of 2. 7/7/10/10. She said she doesn't need money so We exchanged some emails then numbers and then met up at her work place. We chatted to break the ice & got a lap dance for 40. She got ready to leave, she suggested we go get something to eat. After some eggrolls she says "I'm still wet from that dance. We get a room, her dancer discount kicks in. In the room says she likes to dress up. She also informs me that she has not had sex in a long time. She tells me to * the * out of her. No mention of money at all. I surrender $ and leave. She sends countless texts wondering why I didn't spend the night. Had to leave so I could get to work but we will have round 2 real soon.

[Golfcart]

One of them is a single mom with 2 kids, white. 24 years old. 5' 3", about 120 lbs. She has a job to support her needs, but wanted a little fun and attention. She didn't ask about sugar. Met her 3 times so far, she stayed for about 3 hours each time, did all I asked her to, enjoyed herself and was happy with the $ sugar I gave her.

Newinva, this is as good as it gets.

With her kids, it is difficult for her to stay overnight, but I am working on that.

This goes with being a good mother. You want a SB to be a good mother first, last and always. They make for better SB. The others make for irresponsible SB.

[BikeRider]

I'm a senior member on the International board (same name) as I've spent most of the last decade on a plane to and from Asia. In Asia, I usually just used the free sites (Tagged, Baddoo, etc) to build-up a group of good friends / FWB. That usually creates momentum and you're off to the races. My standards are pretty high, and I managed to do fairly well.

I'm also becoming long of tooth now. Not as long in tooth as Hollywood (you're my hero. Love the rainbow coalition you have going). But long enough that the 20 somethings are harder to catch. I've been using AFF (I know it sucks now. But I had good luck a number of years ago) , and Ashley Madison with pretty good luck with the 30 somethings. But, I yearn for the 20 somethings. So here I am.

So I created a SD4M account yesterday, and I'll give an accounting after my free trial is over next week.

BR

[Newinva]

37 years old, single and never married.

I have been a long time lurker on this thread. My usual pursuits have been massage extras, UTR girls and the occasional BP girls.

I had hesitated for long about trying out sugar daddy sites. Due to the encouragement of 2 seniors here, I finally decided to try SA. Bought a membership there a few weeks ago, must have mailed about 100 girls so far and some of them responded.

One of them is a single mom with 2 kids, white, 24 years old, 5' 3", about 120 lbs. She has a job to support her needs, but wanted a little fun and attention. She didn't ask about sugar. Met her 3 times so far, she stayed for about 3 hours each time, did all I asked her to, enjoyed herself and was happy with the $ sugar I gave her. With her kids, it is difficult for her to stay overnight, but I am working on that.

Others wanted to discuss sugar first. They wanted something like $$$ per visit. So, it looks like they have either been spoilt by you gentlemen or they just have their heads in the clouds.

I am communicating with a few other girls. Hope to meet / bed some more.

[HollywoodGuy]

I have a preference for Wet Platinum (silicone based). Non sticky and a little goes a LONG way. Go to a sex store and try some out. On your fingers of course.

CVS. Purple cap. My all time fav. Green cap is too sticky. Black cap might be good for anal only.

[Flirting Guy]

Was looking very forward to a repenetration session this afternoon with Ms Motor City of last week. Spent part of the morning pleasantly evaluating lubes at the drug store, there seems to have been a shift in product marketing. The "warming liquids" of the last several years appear now to be dominated by the house discount brands and the higher end warming liquids are no longer on display in the stores I checked. Two days ago I picked up a tube of KY jelly. Never used it before but I remember my mother did back in the day so its at least tried and true. Or so you would think. On Wednesday it just made a sticky mess of my cheerleader's vagina, my hands, the sheets etc. Hard to get off my hands too. So I picked up some Astroglide, which I've not used before, for application to Motor City's genital area.

She just told me she's had a family emergency and has to cancel. I believe her but have to leave town shortly and may not see her again for a while. Damn, I was really looking forward to her. Now I have to start a whole new search in a different zip code.

Frustration!

Any comments on recent lube selection would be great. Thanks.

I have a preference for Wet Platinum (silicone based). Non sticky and a little goes a LONG way. Go to a sex store and try some out. On your fingers of course.