"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**F Scott** · 05-31-13 09:45

Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]

MsLifeguard : Met for a quick lunch. Wow, she has a great body, very attractive. I was ready to go all in, but she has not taken good care of her teeth. I know I am being shallow, she will probably be great in bed. I am going to give it a test drive.

BigTigg

I passed on a hot spinner a while back because of bad teeth. Ugh, they're just creepy!

**BigTigger** · 05-31-13 06:57

Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]

Rescheduled the two interviews.

One new one who agreed to $600 per month, finally sent a full body photo. She was fully clothed, but really cute and killer body. Slamming Body!

MsLifeguard : Met for a quick lunch. Wow, she has a great body, very attractive. I wish she had more of her life together. She would be pushing Nando1 status if her bills were not so low. I was ready to go all in, but she has not taken good care of her teeth. I know I am being shallow, she will probably be great in bed. I am going to give it a test drive.

MsQuirky : This is a case where she looks better in pictures, including the body. The chemistry did not seem to be there. I was 20 mins late and her attitude, never fully recovered. She did not like my flirtatious nature and armed put off by sexual references. I don't expect there to be a, second date.

BigTigg

**Literal2** · 05-31-13 06:46

Pat's, Nando's and JGS's posts mention risk, discovery, consequences of what we do (at least those of us who are attached). Scott often refers to our line of activity as like being an undercover agent (when he's not comparing us to fly fishermen).

I am determined to never be caught by my SO. Perhaps I will fail, in which case I will let you all know, but so far its been ok. Closest I came I guess was when I rerouted my flight home to visit an sb in an intermediate city, then rented a car to drive the rest of the way to the airport where the SO was to pick me up. Rental car had a flat tire en route. I tore up the trunk and spare donut something fierce getting back on the road and home by the deadline.

Anyway, I've learned a lot from you all and hope we will share our getting caught stories as well when the unfortunate occurs so the brothers / fellow mongers can learn from others mistakes. How it happened, explanations offered, results, etc.

**Literal2** · 05-31-13 06:28

Originally Posted by Dsprdo [View Original Post]

The cute little thing that was slated to be my favorite after our first visit, who then went radio silent, has reappeared. I met her right after she joined SA, had her out to my place, and after we did the deed, I asked her how I could help her financially. Her chance to throw any crazy number out there, right? She demurred and said she didn't know what to say. I gave her $ and she left happy. Two days later she was a ghost. She texted me today, said she was sorry, but she was looking for a more secure SD, as she needed more help. I responded that it didn't hurt to talk about it, what was she thinking? She thought $$$ per visit would be more helpful. I told her that I was sorry, but that wasn't possible, and that I thought some of the stories out there were exaggerated or very rare. No further reply from her. I would be willing to do more for her but that was a bit much. I do have to say that offers of $ per visit are getting pretty routinely rejected. I know others have said that they are finding SB's who are happy with that, but it seems that the market may vary here a bit. I suppose I will have to reevaluate my approach on this.

On the poll. 52, long since divorced.

My view, which differs from others (with all due respect) :

If you can afford the sugar to make her happy and fucking this particular woman rather than a $25 SW or a knothole makes you happy, then its perfectly ok and rational to make her happy so she will make you happy. My first marriage and divorce cost me, I don't know exactly, maybe a million dollars over time (multi year marriage), something like that. The sugar world never approaches that. Over the last decade, since I've been in p4p, I think I've spent about $25k or 50k. Just a guess. I have no problem with bargain hunters, it's just not me. It's also reasonable for your expenses for the babies to go up as a general rule of thumb as the age gap or rating (1 to 10) increases.

Everyone's experience is a little different so let us know how yours comes out. Thats why its an interesting thread. Good luck.

**Literal2** · 05-31-13 06:11

Originally Posted by Pats Fan1 [View Original Post]

I'm 50 married. Have been in sugar world (in this forum and via online websites) for about 4 months. About 5 years back I had a Brazilian SB 26 yrs old and the nicest ass I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. I met through her work at a Brazilian MP. I complimented her went I went back for a 2nd visit. She bought it hook, line, and sinker. What started was a 9 month long FC 2x per week 4-5 hrs at a stretch. She quit the MP work a couple of weeks in and started cleaning houses. I never paid her a dime. I paid for notel room and lunch delivery for a halftime break. My wife found out and that caused me to take a 4 year hiatus form extra activity. Damn I miss that SB. I have been dealing with escorts and MP since 2001.

I have longed to visit Brazil so as to sample the very kind of ass you are talking about. So far no dice but I do read the Brazil forum in Jackson's ISG from time to time. Sounds like paradise, as do several other Latin American countries. You were a lucky man. At least you now have your memories. Mine have kept me going through long dry stretches.

Too bad your wife found out.

**Literal2** · 05-31-13 06:04

Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]

Not sure how it happened. In 36 hours I have had the Latino MILF twice and two 23 year old hotties who had been holding out. MsIntelligentBeauty and MsCLHottie. Both with banging bods, great faces and missing just one or two marbles.

BT

A fine piece of work, BT! It's those missing marbles that we all love. Careful you don't break your dick off.

**FotoGuy1970** · 05-31-13 03:27

42 years old, currently single / never married.

**Dsprdo** · 05-30-13 22:35

The cute little thing that was slated to be my favorite after our first visit, who then went radio silent, has reappeared. I met her right after she joined SA, had her out to my place, and after we did the deed, I asked her how I could help her financially. Her chance to throw any crazy number out there, right? She demurred and said she didn't know what to say. I gave her $ and she left happy. Two days later she was a ghost. She texted me today, said she was sorry, but she was looking for a more secure SD, as she needed more help. I responded that it didn't hurt to talk about it, what was she thinking? She thought $$$ per visit would be more helpful. I told her that I was sorry, but that wasn't possible, and that I thought some of the stories out there were exaggerated or very rare. No further reply from her. I would be willing to do more for her but that was a bit much. I do have to say that offers of $ per visit are getting pretty routinely rejected. I know others have said that they are finding SB's who are happy with that, but it seems that the market may vary here a bit. I suppose I will have to reevaluate my approach on this.

On the poll. 52, long since divorced.

**Pats Fan1** · 05-30-13 19:24

I'm 50 married. Have been in sugar world (in this forum and via online websites) for about 4 months. About 5 years back I had a Brazilian SB 26 yrs old and the nicest ass I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. I met through her work at a Brazilian MP. I complimented her went I went back for a 2nd visit. She bought it hook, line, and sinker. What started was a 9 month long FC 2x per week 4-5 hrs at a stretch. She quit the MP work a couple of weeks in and started cleaning houses. I never paid her a dime. I paid for notel room and lunch delivery for a halftime break. My wife found out and that caused me to take a 4 year hiatus form extra activity. Damn I miss that SB. I have been dealing with escorts and MP since 2001.

**BigTigger** · 05-30-13 18:45

Not sure how it happened. In 36 hours I have had the Latino Milf twice and two 23 year old hotties who had been holding out. MsIntelligentBeauty and MsCLHottie. Both with banging bods, great faces and missing just one or two marbles.

BT

**BigTigger** · 05-30-13 18:40

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

Brothers,

BT did a geographic poll a while back, and the recent age gap discussion has made me curious about some other stats. How old are you all, and are most of you married or single?

Me: 56 and married.

PM me if you are more comfortable.

Off to my m&g with the HYM. She has already texted to see when she should tell the babysitter to bring the son back!

Life is good!

Scott

BigTIgg : Married 43

**HollywoodGuy** · 05-30-13 17:43

Originally Posted by Hernando [View Original Post]

Hollywood, no offense taken. You have experienced both sides of the marital divide and bring a lot of insight to the table. If my wife were totally understanding and allowed me my random GF / SB I think our union would be stronger. But, Having to sneak around creates anxiety and distrust which creates resentment. Actually, I would not want my SBs to multifuck so I am hypocritical when it comes to my SB.

Ideally, I think permanent sugar life is the way to go as long as you have enough money to play this game. No marriage, just fuck multiple random babes as long as they keep coming.

The problem with covert activity is that the SO ALWAYS finds out if you do this long enough. Your full disclosure prevents drama since everyone is on board.

Actually I never had a problem (as far as her leaving me) even though I was busted many times while married. But when I joined AA she told me it was them or her. I chose them. Best move I ever made.

**Literal2** · 05-30-13 17:08

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

Brothers,

BT did a geographic poll a while back, and the recent age gap discussion has made me curious about some other stats. How old are you all, and are most of you married or single?

Me: 56 and married.

PM me if you are more comfortable.

Off to my m&g with the HYM. She has already texted to see when she should tell the babysitter to bring the son back!

Life is good!

Scott

As I mentioned, I'm 68 and married. Went through one divorce, don't want another. Women on the side keep me happy and sane.

As to posting pix, I agree there's a risk as there is with illicit liaisons generally. Since I think they are fun and good for the thread I post when I can, but almost always a pic I have taken personally and after I've edited it to make it difficult to identify the woman. One way to achieve this is to take gyno / open pussy, close in tit and butt shots, etc.

Very difficult to identify, especially when in a state of arousal. I don't actually like this kind of pic as much as the full face and body shots but security has its requirements.

I'm hoping someday a sugardad will find a way to post his baby's face in orgasm. That would be hard to identify if its a powerful enough climax. It would be a dual challenge to get her off while taking the photo. Very sporting I'd say. Could be quite refreshing to see on the thread.

This is one viewpoint, no disrespect to others intended.

**AllSeasonLv** · 05-30-13 16:27

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

Brothers,

BT did a geographic poll a while back, and the recent age gap discussion has made me curious about some other stats. How old are you all, and are most of you married or single?

Me: 56 and married.

PM me if you are more comfortable.

Off to my m&g with the HYM. She has already texted to see when she should tell the babysitter to bring the son back!

Life is good!

Scott

62 with live-in SO

**Hernando** · 05-30-13 14:45

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

Actually one of the reasons I started on this thread was to become more aware the the married / attached guys point of view. For any perceived insensitivity on my part I apologize to the offended. I have also gained some valuable insight to help protect myself as I have a problem with impulse control that has gotten me into some deep shit with the nando 1 type girls over the years. I think L A is the nando 1 capitol of the world. I was married for 20 years so I am sympathetic and realize that having a sugar life does not always imply a bad home life.

I don't know if anyone feels the same but having multiple babes can make you appreciate your SO or ATF all the more. I never tried explaining that to my X wife but I have to my current ATF wifey. Thanks for letting me participate on your thread.

Hollywood, no offense taken. You have experienced both sides of the marital divide and bring a lot of insight to the table. If my wife were totally understanding and allowed me my random GF / SB I think our union would be stronger. But, Having to sneak around creates anxiety and distrust which creates resentment. Actually, I would not want my SBs to multifuck so I am hypocritical when it comes to my SB.

Ideally, I think permanent sugar life is the way to go as long as you have enough money to play this game. No marriage, just fuck multiple random babes as long as they keep coming.

The problem with covert activity is that the SO ALWAYS finds out if you do this long enough. Your full disclosure prevents drama since everyone is on board.