"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Dsprdo** · 05-30-13 22:35

The cute little thing that was slated to be my favorite after our first visit, who then went radio silent, has reappeared. I met her right after she joined SA, had her out to my place, and after we did the deed, I asked her how I could help her financially. Her chance to throw any crazy number out there, right? She demurred and said she didn't know what to say. I gave her $ and she left happy. Two days later she was a ghost. She texted me today, said she was sorry, but she was looking for a more secure SD, as she needed more help. I responded that it didn't hurt to talk about it, what was she thinking? She thought $$$ per visit would be more helpful. I told her that I was sorry, but that wasn't possible, and that I thought some of the stories out there were exaggerated or very rare. No further reply from her. I would be willing to do more for her but that was a bit much. I do have to say that offers of $ per visit are getting pretty routinely rejected. I know others have said that they are finding SB's who are happy with that, but it seems that the market may vary here a bit. I suppose I will have to reevaluate my approach on this.

On the poll. 52, long since divorced.

**Pats Fan1** · 05-30-13 19:24

I'm 50 married. Have been in sugar world (in this forum and via online websites) for about 4 months. About 5 years back I had a Brazilian SB 26 yrs old and the nicest ass I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. I met through her work at a Brazilian MP. I complimented her went I went back for a 2nd visit. She bought it hook, line, and sinker. What started was a 9 month long FC 2x per week 4-5 hrs at a stretch. She quit the MP work a couple of weeks in and started cleaning houses. I never paid her a dime. I paid for notel room and lunch delivery for a halftime break. My wife found out and that caused me to take a 4 year hiatus form extra activity. Damn I miss that SB. I have been dealing with escorts and MP since 2001.

**BigTigger** · 05-30-13 18:45

Not sure how it happened. In 36 hours I have had the Latino Milf twice and two 23 year old hotties who had been holding out. MsIntelligentBeauty and MsCLHottie. Both with banging bods, great faces and missing just one or two marbles.

BT

**BigTigger** · 05-30-13 18:40

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

Brothers,

BT did a geographic poll a while back, and the recent age gap discussion has made me curious about some other stats. How old are you all, and are most of you married or single?

Me: 56 and married.

PM me if you are more comfortable.

Off to my m&g with the HYM. She has already texted to see when she should tell the babysitter to bring the son back!

Life is good!

Scott

BigTIgg : Married 43

**HollywoodGuy** · 05-30-13 17:43

Originally Posted by Hernando [View Original Post]

Hollywood, no offense taken. You have experienced both sides of the marital divide and bring a lot of insight to the table. If my wife were totally understanding and allowed me my random GF / SB I think our union would be stronger. But, Having to sneak around creates anxiety and distrust which creates resentment. Actually, I would not want my SBs to multifuck so I am hypocritical when it comes to my SB.

Ideally, I think permanent sugar life is the way to go as long as you have enough money to play this game. No marriage, just fuck multiple random babes as long as they keep coming.

The problem with covert activity is that the SO ALWAYS finds out if you do this long enough. Your full disclosure prevents drama since everyone is on board.

Actually I never had a problem (as far as her leaving me) even though I was busted many times while married. But when I joined AA she told me it was them or her. I chose them. Best move I ever made.

**Literal2** · 05-30-13 17:08

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

Brothers,

BT did a geographic poll a while back, and the recent age gap discussion has made me curious about some other stats. How old are you all, and are most of you married or single?

Me: 56 and married.

PM me if you are more comfortable.

Off to my m&g with the HYM. She has already texted to see when she should tell the babysitter to bring the son back!

Life is good!

Scott

As I mentioned, I'm 68 and married. Went through one divorce, don't want another. Women on the side keep me happy and sane.

As to posting pix, I agree there's a risk as there is with illicit liaisons generally. Since I think they are fun and good for the thread I post when I can, but almost always a pic I have taken personally and after I've edited it to make it difficult to identify the woman. One way to achieve this is to take gyno / open pussy, close in tit and butt shots, etc.

Very difficult to identify, especially when in a state of arousal. I don't actually like this kind of pic as much as the full face and body shots but security has its requirements.

I'm hoping someday a sugardad will find a way to post his baby's face in orgasm. That would be hard to identify if its a powerful enough climax. It would be a dual challenge to get her off while taking the photo. Very sporting I'd say. Could be quite refreshing to see on the thread.

This is one viewpoint, no disrespect to others intended.

**AllSeasonLv** · 05-30-13 16:27

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

Brothers,

BT did a geographic poll a while back, and the recent age gap discussion has made me curious about some other stats. How old are you all, and are most of you married or single?

Me: 56 and married.

PM me if you are more comfortable.

Off to my m&g with the HYM. She has already texted to see when she should tell the babysitter to bring the son back!

Life is good!

Scott

62 with live-in SO

**Hernando** · 05-30-13 14:45

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

Actually one of the reasons I started on this thread was to become more aware the the married / attached guys point of view. For any perceived insensitivity on my part I apologize to the offended. I have also gained some valuable insight to help protect myself as I have a problem with impulse control that has gotten me into some deep shit with the nando 1 type girls over the years. I think L A is the nando 1 capitol of the world. I was married for 20 years so I am sympathetic and realize that having a sugar life does not always imply a bad home life.

I don't know if anyone feels the same but having multiple babes can make you appreciate your SO or ATF all the more. I never tried explaining that to my X wife but I have to my current ATF wifey. Thanks for letting me participate on your thread.

Hollywood, no offense taken. You have experienced both sides of the marital divide and bring a lot of insight to the table. If my wife were totally understanding and allowed me my random GF / SB I think our union would be stronger. But, Having to sneak around creates anxiety and distrust which creates resentment. Actually, I would not want my SBs to multifuck so I am hypocritical when it comes to my SB.

Ideally, I think permanent sugar life is the way to go as long as you have enough money to play this game. No marriage, just fuck multiple random babes as long as they keep coming.

The problem with covert activity is that the SO ALWAYS finds out if you do this long enough. Your full disclosure prevents drama since everyone is on board.

**HollywoodGuy** · 05-30-13 13:41

Originally Posted by Hernando [View Original Post]

I reported a bad experience with an attached I'd on SDFM, not even a pic. A lurker / spy on here reported my comment to the girl in question who then confronted me. It worked out in the end since she was a really nice person. But I second JG's reluctance. If someone connects you with your whole thread of entries then they have a list of all of your admitted wrong doings.

Hollywood, you are a stitch but are also single and the master of your own universe. For the married guys here there is a lot to lose.

Actually one of the reasons I started on this thread was to become more aware the the married / attached guys point of view. For any perceived insensitivity on my part I apologize to the offended. I have also gained some valuable insight to help protect myself as I have a problem with impulse control that has gotten me into some deep shit with the nando 1 type girls over the years. I think L A is the nando 1 capitol of the world. I was married for 20 years so I am sympathetic and realize that having a sugar life does not always imply a bad home life.

I don't know if anyone feels the same but having multiple babes can make you appreciate your SO or ATF all the more. I never tried explaining that to my X wife but I have to my current ATF wifey. Thanks for letting me participate on your thread.

**Donwhite** · 05-30-13 13:40

29 and single.

**Hernando** · 05-30-13 12:35

Originally Posted by f scott [View Original Post]

brothers,

bt did a geographic poll a while back, and the recent age gap discussion has made me curious about some other stats. How old are you all, and are most of you married or single?

Me: 56 and married.

Pm me if you are more comfortable.

Off to my m&g with the hym. She has already texted to see when she should tell the babysitter to bring the son back!

Life is good!

Scott

63 and married

**F Scott** · 05-30-13 12:22

Brothers,

BT did a geographic poll a while back, and the recent age gap discussion has made me curious about some other stats. How old are you all, and are most of you married or single?

Me: 56 and married.

PM me if you are more comfortable.

Off to my m&g with the HYM. She has already texted to see when she should tell the babysitter to bring the son back!

Life is good!

Scott

**Hernando** · 05-30-13 11:08

[QUOTE=John G Smith; 1775770]F.

I'm in my mid 30s so I'm pretty much stuck with girls who are in the 18-21 range. It's a blessing and a curse / QUOTE]Count your blessings my friend! I am in the exact opposite situation. Girls over 40 love me but I want the mid 20's. It is harder to bridge the 40 yr age gap even though we are able to do it.

My ATF HCB was 40 yrs my junior and never let on that it bothered her

**Hernando** · 05-30-13 11:05

Originally Posted by John G Smith [View Original Post]

Nice to see pictures here.

And I don't want to discourage people from posting pics, but I'll give you guys my reasons for not posting pics just so you can evaluate both sides of it.

Also, the vast majority of us are using the same three sites to find SBs and fish in the same ponds as many of the lurkers. The more pictures you post, just increases the odds that someone will recognize a baby you're seeing.

Again I'm not trying to discourage people from posting pics, but you should just be aware of the risks involved. If you're married or have a high-profile job, you probably should refrain from posting pics. If you're single and own your own business then the risks probably aren't that bad.

I reported a bad experience with an attached I'd on SDFM, not even a pic. A lurker / spy on here reported my comment to the girl in question who then confronted me. It worked out in the end since she was a really nice person. But I second JG's reluctance. If someone connects you with your whole thread of entries then they have a list of all of your admitted wrong doings.

Hollywood, you are a stitch but are also single and the master of your own universe. For the married guys here there is a lot to lose.

**F Scott** · 05-30-13 10:13

Well, my brothers, I have just returned from taking my SO to the airport, and am looking at two and a half glorious days of unsupervised rec time! Hooray for me. I have an m&g scheduled today at 1 with a HYM who is ready to roll if I pass inspection, and an overnight tonight with my nursing student from a few weeks ago. She is an absolute tigress in bed, truly indefatigable, so I am looking forward to another sleepless night! Yay!

Nothing concrete yet for tomorrow, but several babies who can be inserted into the lineup at a moment's notice. In truth, I am holding a place for a gorgeous POT that I have mentioned before. She really is a little out of my league, but up until this week seemed to be totally into me nonetheless. We have had several great, fun and effortless meals together, and it was at her urging that we start to think about the FC for the next get-together, so I am somewhat mystified about the sudden lack of contact. Perhaps she has realized she is out of my league as well. We shall see.

Is she falls through, I have a funky 6' artistic redhead with her own apartment and an athletic approach to sex that I can see, as well as a few new babies from SD that I am communicating with. One I believe to be a UTR, but she is half-Cuban and half-AA, and looks like a really tan Sophia Vergara, so I may have to bend the rules a bit and hit that tomorrow.

Best wishes to all the new brothers, and senior clubsters! It's great to see how active we all have become. Lit, welcome back to the Bowl, my friend.

Wish me luck these next few days. I want to show up at the airport exhausted but happy!

Scott