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  1. #11826

    Getting Sucked into and Getting out of a Steetwalker's World

    We all know how to get sucked into the world of a streetwalker, many of us have done it. It's as easy as falling off a log. BBB and Punished just described some of the heartaches and issues very nicely.

    I have two suggestions of how to get out of her world. First, is to plead poverty when she calls: "Oh, baby, I want to see you so bad but I just paid rent and I don't have money to put gas in the car to come see you. This car is too expensive, I need to sell it and buy a POS." Even if you are filthy rich these girls can related to being broke. Don't ever say that you can't spend money today because you need to pay rent (or whatever) tomorrow, that is admitting you have money today and she wants it. Second, you need to convince her that she can get money from other men. I once drove a girl to her client so she could do a BJ for the $20 she needed to buy her meds, she would have been really pissed if she knew I had plenty of money in the trunk when I dropped her off. When she talks about other men paying her money, be supportive of her servicing that man."Wow, it sounds like he is rich, you should give him a call. I wish I had that much money."

    Once she believes that you are broke she won't have any reason to call you.

  2. #11825
    Quote Originally Posted by Cls9637  [View Original Post]
    Hmmm. Interesting revelation. So would you call your mission a success overall?
    Sounds like an adrenaline addiction in and of itself. W / o the drugs (well not directly). Girls use different terms for this, the girls in Nevada call guys like this "Capt' save a 'ho". In reality, they don't want to be saved. Harsh reality for those that get sucked into the save a princess fairy tale. Pretty Woman this is not.

  3. #11824

    Successful "YES"

    Quote Originally Posted by Cls9637  [View Original Post]
    Hmmm. Interesting revelation. So would you call your mission a success overall?
    It did not start out as a mission nor a quest. It was just something that developed and then ended like most things in life. Kiara's actions are of her own doing and at this time she knows her actions are not correct but at the same time she does not care about a week from now, tomorrow, or the last hour. She appreciates the present and now. Nothing more and nothing less will do. She has told me that no one has treated her the way that I did but at the same time it ended with her pushing away because I would not yield to all her thoughts on what she considered grand ideas. My mission if there was one was to treat her well and because of my financial situation I can do so very easily but she got to use to it and started to demand and not ask with the polite tones. It started with can I or may I, to I need this now in order to do this or that. When I pushed back, it was like I was putting her in her place like others have done in her life. She then decided to move on. There is one thing that I have learned with 21 years of military service and business. You can not control others and there thoughts, deeds, or temperament. You can not help the unwilling if they are not willing to do what is best for them. But more importantly you can not say that you did not try. I can look myself in the mirror and know that I gave my best for Kiara in this situation. I would still be helping her if she was moving forward and not backwards. I was Johnny on the spot for her when she needed something but it comes a time when you have to push back when you see your efforts going without a purpose. But I know my efforts and I know that I tried, when others can not say that. I remember her showing me and telling me that when I was traveling that she could not get a ride to the probation office because either someone wanted free sex or BBBJ for payment for a ride or money from her. She was putting forth the effort and did not have the resources when I was not around. That is effort even if failure. But when the effort ended even when resources are presented, then that is pure lack of trying. So CLS, the key word is TRY. And yes if you want to call what I did as a mission, then yes it was a success. Not a long one but still a success. For a few months she was on track but the Dope won at the end of the day. There is no replacing that first love of hers and that is Dope. She said that plainly and clearly several times. I got her mindset away from that briefly and there was another person behind the curtain, but not even help from me or her grandparents could keep it closed from the streets and dope that awaited her with every step.

    The three girls that I have helped in my monger years where ones that I saw promise in. Others I did not even attempt to help because there was no glimmer of light. Kiara when she is clear is a wonderful person with so much personality. She often gets shy even at times and shows a side of her that is not present to others. She shows shame and remorse but those end quickly when it is time to feed the beast. Kiara will get clean regardless of if she wants it or not in the near future because of her past actions long before I came along. It will not be of her choice to do so but she knows that and is running 100mph until the time comes. I just hope she does not burn out before she has a chance to clear that mind and body of hers.

    So yes it was a success no matter how brief it was because I can say that I TRIED!

    Happy Hunting CLS. And hope you have many Monger Years ahead of you. May you have a pocket full of Viagra! LOL

  4. #11823
    Senior Member


    Posts: 1785
    Quote Originally Posted by Punished  [View Original Post]
    I totally agree with you and I fell into that drama with Kiara. It was a blessing and a nightmare at the same time. It got to the point that I was helping her so much that I forgot at times what I was suppose to be doing in my life. Taking her to probation officer appointments, getting her something to eat at crazy hours of the night, listening to her cry about her life and listening to her talk about family matters getting her started on a methadone clinic of which she never started. I guess just the attempt was good enough for her LOL. The drugs controlled her whole world and you can get sucked into that world easily even without doing the drugs. It took me standing up to her that brought things to a head. It took me saying to her that if you want help then except it, but if you do not then stop pretending. It was then that she did not want to stay in her home in the suburbs of Maryland after being brought home by me every night to stay in a normal life at her parents house and then started wearing the same ole dirty clothes and living in a infested apartment in Baltimore once again. This is after having bought her new clothes so that she could feel better about herself. Even getting her coverup makeup to hide the track marks that she was ashamed of. It did nothing but dress up a junky that wanted to pretend that she wanted better. That is the shame of being to close to someone on the street. It took a smack in the face to get me to walk away the other day when she asked me to put a post out there for her that she needs attention. Then afterward telling texting everyone that she needed money for her grandfathers bday to take him out. I then felt sorry for her and gave her money because I know her parents and said we will work it out later. Then the post for her and all the numbers going to her and her making the call of which one she wanted to see. When I texted her, it fell on deaf ears for the first time. Then when I would get a answer it was rude and assholish. She had no problem finding time to meet me to give her money but she had no time after that. Then the major slap was when see called me and said that she has so many clients right now that she did not need to deal with me putting her down and wanting her to change. That when she can find the time for me, that is when I will get it. Until then stop texting her. This is after being with her for almost 3 months. I got twisted into her world of which she has no control. It was all about the dope and were she could get it or steal it. Either way her demons are internal and if you get close to any of these girls, there demons will spread like a infection to you even if you are not the one sticking yourselves with needles. This is such the 3rd girls that I have meet just like Kiara and I thought that I learned my lesson well. Hell I have been mongering since 1984 off and on between girlfriends and a marriage but I still got sucked in LOL. Obvious I did not learn or comprehend and others in here have not read the same book but then the chapters change or we forget what we have read. But that is LIFE! We are not robots regardless of how we put up walls to stop worrying about them and wanting them to be ok.

    Even though the time was well spent with Kiara and knowing her life in many personal ways which includes in family. IT was an experience to say the least. But like BBB said, you can not help the unwilling and the unwilling can not help using others because the drugs rule the day in there lives from the time that they wake up until they go to sleep for that brief moment. And when they sleep, that is when they are only like us and our worlds meet.

    Happy Hunting to All. Great post Bad Bad Boy Your thoughts where right on the money
    Hmmm. Interesting revelation. So would you call your mission a success overall?

  5. #11822

    To: Alan8

    Quote Originally Posted by BenjaminSkully  [View Original Post]
    Sorry but I do not feel comfortable sharing this type of detailed info to a new member (especially with 0 posts). Anyone else agree?
    As this was posted yesterday (10/24/12) wouldn't you assume that it was current? For god's sake, get off of your ass and run the loops yourself instead of begging for info. Two vehicles were described, and you can bet there are dozens more that haven't. Just try to be careful when you are out, and don't do anything stupid. Keep your head on a swivel, as we used to say, and use your best judgement while keepimg an eye out for anything that looks hinky.

    GTR

  6. #11821

    Not sharing info

    Sorry but I do not feel comfortable sharing this type of detailed info to a new member (especially with 0 posts). Anyone else agree?

    Quote Originally Posted by Alan8
    Thanks for post. What date, day and time did you see those two unmark car. What happen to the driver. Was he arrested?

  7. #11820

    Short-haired girl

    I finally made it into the city from western Virginia for the day. Got in about 09:30 and hit Wilkins, Patterson & Conkling.

    A few scary looking girls on Conkling. Went back through Patterson (nothing at all) and on down to Wilkins. Hooked up with Jennifer (I think).

    She has her head partially shaved. Anyway, she is thin and kind of cute. Turned out to be a nice girl. It was about noon so I gave her a protein snack and

    Was on my way. I used to drive into the city once a month and it was worth it. The good ole days I guess.

  8. #11819
    Quote Originally Posted by BenjaminSkully  [View Original Post]
    Scooped up misty for. 25. Great job. Mid-Late 30s WSW no special body features all average.

    Have digits and apparently she has an apartment.
    I have to disagree to you on no special body feature. For 35 she has an ass that most 20 yo's wish they could have

  9. #11818

    BBB. Now you are preaching my brother

    Quote Originally Posted by Bad Bad Boy  [View Original Post]
    Rookiemonger, a very knowledgeable and respected member, expressed his frustration in recently being stood up by our flavor of the month SW who has a thing about texting for hookups but often fails to respond to appointments or provide an explanation why she wouldn't. This gal is quickly getting a reputation for being irresponsible and not showing up for appointments and / or responding to text messages, which will eventually come back to bite her in the ass. Drama and SWs are synonymous. Rook knows this better than anyone. We have all had similar experiences or where the SWs draw us into their never ending problems. It would have been nice if the SW would have called and say she was sorry and state why (e. G, I got abducted by aliens and he wouldn't let me call from his cell. LOL) All have a story to tell and many of us want to help out, it rarely works and leaves us frustrated. Drugs really mess them up to the point it affects their memory and thought process, making it nearly impossible to be responsible. Drama is a big part of this hobby and you need to keep your distance and be careful not to cross that line of getting too involved in their lives. It's always a good idea to have a back up plan ready when something goes wrong.

    I learned the hard way when dating Alicia, my all time favorite. I remember ALICIA showing up one time with a cut lip an badly bruised face as a result of a beating her boyfriend gave her. I was so upset and wanted to smash him. I have no respect for guys beating up girls to prove how tough they are. ALICIA calmed me down and reminded me it wasn't any of my business, nor my fight so we left it at that. We can very innocently get drawn into their problems when just being friendly and wanting to help. We need to remember at all times that we live in two different worlds which neither will be able to fit into the other. BBB
    I totally agree with you and I fell into that drama with Kiara. It was a blessing and a nightmare at the same time. It got to the point that I was helping her so much that I forgot at times what I was suppose to be doing in my life. Taking her to probation officer appointments, getting her something to eat at crazy hours of the night, listening to her cry about her life and listening to her talk about family matters getting her started on a methadone clinic of which she never started. I guess just the attempt was good enough for her LOL. The drugs controlled her whole world and you can get sucked into that world easily even without doing the drugs. It took me standing up to her that brought things to a head. It took me saying to her that if you want help then except it, but if you do not then stop pretending. It was then that she did not want to stay in her home in the suburbs of Maryland after being brought home by me every night to stay in a normal life at her parents house and then started wearing the same ole dirty clothes and living in a infested apartment in Baltimore once again. This is after having bought her new clothes so that she could feel better about herself. Even getting her coverup makeup to hide the track marks that she was ashamed of. It did nothing but dress up a junky that wanted to pretend that she wanted better. That is the shame of being to close to someone on the street. It took a smack in the face to get me to walk away the other day when she asked me to put a post out there for her that she needs attention. Then afterward telling texting everyone that she needed money for her grandfathers bday to take him out. I then felt sorry for her and gave her money because I know her parents and said we will work it out later. Then the post for her and all the numbers going to her and her making the call of which one she wanted to see. When I texted her, it fell on deaf ears for the first time. Then when I would get a answer it was rude and assholish. She had no problem finding time to meet me to give her money but she had no time after that. Then the major slap was when see called me and said that she has so many clients right now that she did not need to deal with me putting her down and wanting her to change. That when she can find the time for me, that is when I will get it. Until then stop texting her. This is after being with her for almost 3 months. I got twisted into her world of which she has no control. It was all about the dope and were she could get it or steal it. Either way her demons are internal and if you get close to any of these girls, there demons will spread like a infection to you even if you are not the one sticking yourselves with needles. This is such the 3rd girls that I have meet just like Kiara and I thought that I learned my lesson well. Hell I have been mongering since 1984 off and on between girlfriends and a marriage but I still got sucked in LOL. Obvious I did not learn or comprehend and others in here have not read the same book but then the chapters change or we forget what we have read. But that is LIFE! We are not robots regardless of how we put up walls to stop worrying about them and wanting them to be ok.

    Even though the time was well spent with Kiara and knowing her life in many personal ways which includes in family. IT was an experience to say the least. But like BBB said, you can not help the unwilling and the unwilling can not help using others because the drugs rule the day in there lives from the time that they wake up until they go to sleep for that brief moment. And when they sleep, that is when they are only like us and our worlds meet.

    Happy Hunting to All. Great post Bad Bad Boy Your thoughts where right on the money

  10. #11817

    Said the same to me also

    Quote Originally Posted by Masonm  [View Original Post]
    After 2 days of trying to reach Lisa, early 40's blonde who recently moved to motel in Catonsville, I received a text from her. She wrote that she found a man she cares about and is out of the business. She thanked me for posting this. I'm sorry to see her go. She was sweet and skilled! I'm glad I was able to spend time with her. Thank you for the hook up, Punished.
    No problem, she told me that if things change she will contact me and let me know so that I can tell others that she might be back. She said that she will give me a few favors in the future but that is all up in the air as far as I am concerned. I wished her the best and told her to keep in touch. She said that she would and appreciated the help that I gave her.

    Happy Hunting

  11. #11816

    Fight Club Rules

    Quote Originally Posted by NiteTimer  [View Original Post]
    Can we round up the butt heads who keep running their mouth about our "fight club" and drop them in the harbor, preferably w / chains and concrete like on the Sopranos?
    So get this. There is yet ANOTHER snitch who feels that they must share info regarding this site with the girls.

    I receive several texts from my most recent adventure regarding my post. She says someone told her about me writing about her on this site and went on and on about it. Responded back that I said nothing bad and only wrote good things. No picture posted and never gave out her number to anyone. She then said she read the report and said that everyone knows who I was talking about and its a good thing I mentioned the higher tuition.

    SOOOOOOO. Whoever the hell is sharing intel about this site with the girls needs to STFU and just read peoples post, post their own, and enjoy. Calm the hell down. You act like you are doing a good deed or maybe you are just trying to make it bad for others so the girls will noy see that person. Either way, you are a maron. By eliminating a few of her clients this way, you are going to make it worse on the girls and put yhem in more harm because the regulars will not be in touch which would therefore cause these girls to have to walk the streets more often.

    Good job asshole!

  12. #11815

    Misty W&W

    Scooped up misty for. 25. Great job. Mid-Late 30s WSW no special body features all average.

    Have digits and apparently she has an apartment.

  13. #11814

    Unmarked W & W

    Just wanted to confirm that there is a white 200 w / a bent up Maryland license plate that has uniformed officers in. IDK what exactly they are watching or looking for but they pulled a guy over in front of me. I didn't know the lights were coming from the 200 until 2 officers got out and approached the vehicle. It only had lights going off on the front of the car. Only one person was in the suspects car.

    Also saw a black unmarked charger with someone pulled over as well.

  14. #11813
    Quote Originally Posted by NiteTimer  [View Original Post]
    Has anyone else had difficulties w / these hard returns, or breaking up the paragraphs into double spaced sentences w / caps in the wrong places or capitalized letters in unintended places? If you have a solution I could use it would be appreciated. This infraction business for unintentional print issues is a pain in the ass, so ideas are welcome.
    Yes, it is the way the software and HTML work. Just because you have run to the end of your screen does not mean everyone has. The computer, unlike the old typewriter does not need a hard return at the end of every line, only at the end of a paragraph.

    Now I do not have a solution for the double spaced sentences (unless you did like I did to put a line between paragraphs and used two hard returns) or the weird capitalization.

    NOW if we could only fix some of the bugs in the formatting, like an AUTOMATIC space after a period when it is being used as a decimal point or the automatic ending and starting a new sentence when a URL is entered, I'd be happy.

  15. #11812

    Lisa -- moving on

    After 2 days of trying to reach Lisa, early 40's blonde who recently moved to motel in Catonsville, I received a text from her. She wrote that she found a man she cares about and is out of the business. She thanked me for posting this. I'm sorry to see her go. She was sweet and skilled! I'm glad I was able to spend time with her. Thank you for the hook up, Punished.

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