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[Kowabunga]

Do any of you view craigslist casual encounter women at a higher esteem than backpage girls? I just had this happen to me by a friend. He started as a client and I didn't think much of it when he was I'm on yahoo. Then I guess 6 months into the yahooing he told me that he could see us as friends even after I end providing. Funny at this point I still couldn't remember his name so I had to call his number and listen to his voice message LOL. I was flattered and I started to respond more to his I'm's and we became friends. Well, yesterday he told me that he met someone in another city and he wines and dines her, fucks her in a fancy hotel (actually twice they fucked) and he told me he treats her better than me, because he met her on casual encounters vs backpage (which apparently to him is an inferior site.) She's looking for a sugar daddy and he said she has others but doesn't provide everyday, so he treats her better than he treats me. I felt very hurt and insulted and wrote him an email. He replied back that he thought I wanted something more than a friendship, which he isn't' in the position to give me. I only want to be treated as well as she is being treated. Its so insulting to be told because you are on backpage so I don't take you to dinner or fancy hotels and fuck you for hours on end. It was a sad night because I do consider my regular clients friends, especially him. I want some thoughts and feedback on this and how to deal with him.

He probably got too involved (meaning, almost caught by wife or girlfriend) and is making this whole thing about another girl up as an excuse to cool things. His rant about CLCE vs. BP makes zero sense, but even if it was true, what could possibly be his motivation to tell you this? For whatever reason he's backing away and being an asshole to make it easier on himself.

Googled your pictures. Nice! Wish you lived closer.

[Olepapa]

Do any of you view craigslist casual encounter women at a higher esteem than backpage girls? I just had this happen to me by a friend. He started as a client and I didn't think much of it when he was I'm on yahoo. Then I guess 6 months into the yahooing he told me that he could see us as friends even after I end providing. Funny at this point I still couldn't remember his name so I had to call his number and listen to his voice message LOL. I was flattered and I started to respond more to his I'm's and we became friends. Well, yesterday he told me that he met someone in another city and he wines and dines her, fucks her in a fancy hotel (actually twice they fucked) and he told me he treats her better than me, because he met her on casual encounters vs backpage (which apparently to him is an inferior site.) She's looking for a sugar daddy and he said she has others but doesn't provide everyday, so he treats her better than he treats me. I felt very hurt and insulted and wrote him an email. He replied back that he thought I wanted something more than a friendship, which he isn't' in the position to give me. I only want to be treated as well as she is being treated. Its so insulting to be told because you are on backpage so I don't take you to dinner or fancy hotels and fuck you for hours on end. It was a sad night because I do consider my regular clients friends, especially him. I want some thoughts and feedback on this and how to deal with him.

I am not sure if you can take his rationale seriously or not, but if what he said about the difference being where the two of you advertise, he is not very bright. I do not evaluate based on where the ad is, I evaluate based on the quality of the provider. There are some excellent providers who advertise on Backpage and some who advertise on CL and, likewise, there are some awful providers who advertise there. And there are many providers who advertise on both. How would he evaluate those girls?

For the record, I have had the pleasure of a session with Deb, and look forward to more of the same. I don; t care where you advertise, Deb, you are an excellent provider and you made me feel good, we had a good time, and I will be returning.

I think you unfortunately fell for a real loser with that guy, and the best thing to do is forget him and move on.

OP

[Member #4675]

She was spectacular and made regular trips about 9 months ago. Anybody know if she has retired? Synful desires was her handle.

Chloe was killed in maine, you did not hear about this?

[Palatino314]

Sounds like you're getting in too deep with this guy. Also sounds like he's just using your backpage post and other insults to you as a way of manipulating you, whether he means it actually or not. Common tactic.

I have no problems with backpage. If I see a post I'm interested in, I'll just do some research to find what the real story is. And anyways it's pretty easy to figure out immediately whether the ad is legit or not, and whether the ad is worth it or not. There are classy ways of posting on backpage, eros, or. And anyways its a good way to have a "hosted" web page with info and pictures, et cet, without having to build a whole web site.

Be as you are, work the way that works for you. Don't let creeps like that client (or the a-holes on The othEr boaRd bring you down). I don't know you, but I'll give anyone the benefit of the doubt that you're better than that.

Do any of you view craigslist casual encounter women at a higher esteem than backpage girls? I just had this happen to me by a friend. He started as a client and I didn't think much of it when he was I'm on yahoo. Then I guess 6 months into the yahooing he told me that he could see us as friends even after I end providing. Funny at this point I still couldn't remember his name so I had to call his number and listen to his voice message LOL. I was flattered and I started to respond more to his I'm's and we became friends. Well, yesterday he told me that he met someone in another city and he wines and dines her, fucks her in a fancy hotel (actually twice they fucked) and he told me he treats her better than me, because he met her on casual encounters vs backpage (which apparently to him is an inferior site.) She's looking for a sugar daddy and he said she has others but doesn't provide everyday, so he treats her better than he treats me. I felt very hurt and insulted and wrote him an email. He replied back that he thought I wanted something more than a friendship, which he isn't' in the position to give me. I only want to be treated as well as she is being treated. Its so insulting to be told because you are on backpage so I don't take you to dinner or fancy hotels and fuck you for hours on end. It was a sad night because I do consider my regular clients friends, especially him. I want some thoughts and feedback on this and how to deal with him.

[Spaz2580]

I don't recommend friending a provider. Most will take you for as much as you are willing to "help" them out with. Money talks. I've heard quite a few horror stories. No thanks.

Did he look like Richard Gere? Did he try catching your fingers in the jewelry box? ROTFLOL!

[Wilfredo Lam]

She was spectacular and made regular trips about 9 months ago. Anybody know if she has retired? Synful desires was her handle.

[Wilfredo Lam]

Yes, I seen Vivian down town.

I've used them for a couple years and have seen at least a dozen BI girls, all downtown or in Back Bay.

[Deb4512]

I befriended on hobbyist after he pursued me. On befriended. It was stupid of me, I should have kept it all business, my mistake. But to get out of the business? And commit suicide? That is crazy.

[Deb4512]

I just don't want to be told because I am on backpage I'm low class compared to someone on casual encounters. Thats it and the main gist of it.

[Member #5013]

I didin't rememver his name until August unfortunately. I guess he got to me when he said he'd like to be my friend after I'm finished escorting. I was really flattered. Before that He was a customer and I do see several of them and can't remember everyone's name. Call it a stupid moment of lack of memory.

Did he look like Richard Gere? Did he try catching your fingers in the jewelry box? ROTFLOL!

[Deb4512]

I didin't rememver his name until August unfortunately. I guess he got to me when he said he'd like to be my friend after I'm finished escorting. I was really flattered. Before that He was a customer and I do see several of them and can't remember everyone's name. Call it a stupid moment of lack of memory.

[Spaz2580]

You didn't even know his name?

Do any of you view craigslist casual encounter women at a higher esteem than backpage girls? I just had this happen to me by a friend. He started as a client and I didn't think much of it when he was I'm on yahoo. Then I guess 6 months into the yahooing he told me that he could see us as friends even after I end providing. Funny at this point I still couldn't remember his name so I had to call his number and listen to his voice message LOL. I was flattered and I started to respond more to his I'm's and we became friends. Well, yesterday he told me that he met someone in another city and he wines and dines her, fucks her in a fancy hotel (actually twice they fucked) and he told me he treats her better than me, because he met her on casual encounters vs backpage (which apparently to him is an inferior site.) She's looking for a sugar daddy and he said she has others but doesn't provide everyday, so he treats her better than he treats me. I felt very hurt and insulted and wrote him an email. He replied back that he thought I wanted something more than a friendship, which he isn't' in the position to give me. I only want to be treated as well as she is being treated. Its so insulting to be told because you are on backpage so I don't take you to dinner or fancy hotels and fuck you for hours on end. It was a sad night because I do consider my regular clients friends, especially him. I want some thoughts and feedback on this and how to deal with him.

[Member #5013]

Do any of you view craigslist casual encounter women at a higher esteem than backpage girls? I just had this happen to me by a friend. He started as a client and I didn't think much of it when he was I'm on yahoo. Then I guess 6 months into the yahooing he told me that he could see us as friends even after I end providing. Funny at this point I still couldn't remember his name so I had to call his number and listen to his voice message LOL. I was flattered and I started to respond more to his I'm's and we became friends. Well, yesterday he told me that he met someone in another city and he wines and dines her, fucks her in a fancy hotel (actually twice they fucked) and he told me he treats her better than me, because he met her on casual encounters vs backpage (which apparently to him is an inferior site.) She's looking for a sugar daddy and he said she has others but doesn't provide everyday, so he treats her better than he treats me. I felt very hurt and insulted and wrote him an email. He replied back that he thought I wanted something more than a friendship, which he isn't' in the position to give me. I only want to be treated as well as she is being treated. Its so insulting to be told because you are on backpage so I don't take you to dinner or fancy hotels and fuck you for hours on end. It was a sad night because I do consider my regular clients friends, especially him. I want some thoughts and feedback on this and how to deal with him.

That crunching sound is me biting my tongue.

[Ho Hunter 328]

Do any of you view craigslist casual encounter women at a higher esteem than backpage girls? I just had this happen to me by a friend. He started as a client and I didn't think much of it when he was I'm on yahoo. Then I guess 6 months into the yahooing he told me that he could see us as friends even after I end providing. Funny at this point I still couldn't remember his name so I had to call his number and listen to his voice message LOL. I was flattered and I started to respond more to his I'm's and we became friends. Well, yesterday he told me that he met someone in another city and he wines and dines her, fucks her in a fancy hotel (actually twice they fucked) and he told me he treats her better than me, because he met her on casual encounters vs backpage (which apparently to him is an inferior site.) She's looking for a sugar daddy and he said she has others but doesn't provide everyday, so he treats her better than he treats me. I felt very hurt and insulted and wrote him an email. He replied back that he thought I wanted something more than a friendship, which he isn't' in the position to give me. I only want to be treated as well as she is being treated. Its so insulting to be told because you are on backpage so I don't take you to dinner or fancy hotels and fuck you for hours on end. It was a sad night because I do consider my regular clients friends, especially him. I want some thoughts and feedback on this and how to deal with him.

Some men seem to think there's a difference between sugar babies and providers. The only difference I see is that sugar babies are MUCH cheaper. As for Casual Encounters and Backpage, they're both a real pain in the ass. Both are full of fakes and scammers. Every once in a while, you will find a real gem on CE though. The kind of girl who could easily be getting several hundred per hour, but because she doesn't know the game she's happy to get $50 to $100. Backpage is a pain for other reasons. You have to weed through all of the girls with fake pics, who post 10 times a day, to find the real providers.

As for your particular issue; the fact that you're upset enough about it to post on a forum, makes it sound like he's right. Are you really this upset about losing a client, or were you actually starting to have feeling for him?

Stay safe, and happy hunting.

[Thetsm]

AfterDark also serves downtown. But of course, after dark (5pm).

I've wanted to use AD for many years but I thought they only offered outcall? Have they changed to also offer incall?