"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**F Scott** · 12-06-11 09:23

Welcome to the brotherhood, Max!

Keep up the good work,

Scott

**Madaboutmax** · 12-05-11 20:20

I have followed this thread from the beginning. I have a couple posts early on indicating similar intersts I have in dancers.

Well, I finally took the "plunge" and set a date with a HYB from the SD site. I'm not even a paying member, but responded to an e-mail from a full member. Her pics were great (almost too good) and she was a full member so I expected an escort using the site to find new customers. After e-mailing and texting a few times, we agreed to meet for drinks.

I was very pleased when she arrived to see that she was as hot as her pics. I didn't expect (or plan) for anything other than a meet and greet the firt night. But after a few drinks and great conversation that quickly progressed into heavy flirting, she agreed to come back to my place. Still no discussion of sugar.

Once at my place, we quickly got down to business. She decided to spend the night and still no discussion of sugar. We made 5 rounds that first night (haven't done that in decades) and she really seemed to enjoy herself as much as I did. We had an awkward discussion about sugar in the morning that ended in a happy compromise for both of us. She has overnighted twice since with similar excercise.

Other than fatigue from lack of sleep, I am having a great time. She is young, sexy, fun to have a few drinks with and has as much (if not more) sexual energy than I do (hard to find). I'm just kicking myself for being a non-believer and not trying this option sooner.

Unicorns do exist and boy are they fun to ride.

**F Scott** · 12-05-11 16:37

HYB (hot young baby) was coined earlier in the thread to represent these girls from 18 to 25 I also called them Nando 3s or the sportsters who are the college girls that you are naming HCB (hot college Babys) There can be a distinction between the two as I see it. I like HCB.because my SO, HYB, HCB love of my life is a Nando 3 and 5 combo. She is highly educated, very smart, absolutely no drama, and just a joy to be with. This is the category that I will forever play in. I hope my Baby will elect to keep me around but if things change I will be looking in that group for my next baby. For me the educated girls are so much more success driven and are usually not in desperate straits.

Nando, I agree with you that there is a subtle but important distinction between an HYB and an HCB. The site that I was on, SA, even makes a distinction as well, and labels some babies as "College Baby" if they use an email address with the. Edu extension as their private profile email. Makes it much easier for the Daddies to find this most desirable of pearls, not that I care at the moment.

Fix, and all my other brothers who have congratulated me on my virgin (no pun intended) overnight, I thank you. This thread has really evolved from its inception, and I imagine it will continue to do so, but it would be a shame if all us monogamous types retreated to our love nests and only occasionally posted about how happy we are. Where are all the newbies? Come on, men, regale us with tales from the front!

Scott

**Fixinit** · 12-04-11 23:40

Scott, It is good to hear about your overnight success. The date leading up to the overnight sounded like a nice start to the evening. When I had my first overnight I was just waiting for something to fall through to cancel the night. Hopefully you have more good times with you ATF.

Originally Posted by Hernando [View Original Post]

My Baby continues to delight me and neither of us show any signs of tiring of each other. In fact, it sure seems like love to me but I can't imagine why a young 20's girl with her long life ahead of her would consider an old pharte as her SO. Of course the $$ is always there and my baby has not offered to see me for the pleasure only, so I guess that is the answer, but she sure does make me feel loved. That's what it is all about for us anyway in this hobby.

Most of our visits together are all nighters. 1 to 2 times / week due to my travel schedule I can get away with time away from home. A couple hour roll in the hay is great, but you can't beat falling to sleep together. I am smitten and she and I both have a good thing going on and will ride that wave as long as it lasts.

Hernando, It sure would be nice if the pleasure is what they were after but the $ always gets in the way. I guess we are all surfers trying to catch that special wave to see where it will take us.

Things have picked up with my HCB. I am officially addicted and saw her five times last week. Three times was for fun the other two times was to give her some sugar to get her through the week. Both times we met for sugar we talked in my car for an hour before she left. I do understand being 20 years older the relationship can only go so far but damn she is fun to be with even with her clothes on. The second overnight is scheduled this week so hopefully everything goes as planned and it becomes reality.

Good luck everyone with your adventures and continued success.

Fix

**Hernando** · 12-04-11 20:31

HYB (hot young baby) was coined earlier in the thread to represent these girls from 18 to 25 I also called them Nando 3s or the sportsters who are the college girls that you are naming HCB (hot college Babys) There can be a distinction between the two as I see it. But to recap my rating system :

Nando 1.desperately poor high level of drama girls of all ages. These are the ones who call for more money because they are getting (fill in the tragedy here) tomorrow. Often these girls have kids, no baby daddy (BD) support.or worse.a hostile or dead beat BD, and are frequently drug / alcohol addicted and can have police records. You all know them.I have met quite a few.

Nando 2.escorts of all ages who are prospecting for biz on the sugar sites. I know quite a few of these also but it is important to identify them as escorts so your mind set can be right. You can I'd them 3 ways 1) they call you hun or babe before actually meeting you. 2) they charge by the hour and will be upfront with their rate, and 3) they will provide a room for your meet (since they already have one booked)

Nando 3-HYBs, HCBs, or a combo of several classifications. They are frequently looking for a sexual romp with NSA and some extra $$ to buy more clothes;

4).MILFs. These are older girls (women) who are looking for support, and I have added another one;

5) Sugar Baby.a true baby of all ages who wants a regular SD to pay them an allowance in return for fun times together. Often these girls are younger and looking for tuition help, car and house payments, mentoring for a career advancement, thrilling trips to exotic places.to name a few.

I like HCB.because my SO, HYB, HCB love of my life is a Nando 3 and 5 combo. She is highly educated, very smart, absolutely no drama, and just a joy to be with. This is the category that I will forever play in. I hope my Baby will elect to keep me around but if things change I will be looking in that group for my next baby. For me the educated girls are so much more success driven and are usually not in desperate straits.

**F Scott** · 12-04-11 00:28

Originally Posted by Mac69 [View Original Post]

I have viewed sugarbabys. Com, meetsugarbaby. Com, etc. Which one do you guys recommend?

The general consensus is that the top two sites are SeekingArrangement and Sugardaddyforme. Depending on your area, one will probably produce more results than the other. My preferred site is SA and I am in the Chicago area. Universally scorned, I believe, is Ashley Madison. Read back through this thread and all information you might require or desire will be revealed, grasshopper.

Good luck, and don't forget to write.

Scott

**Golfcart** · 12-03-11 16:42

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

How about HCB (hot college baby)?

Agreed. Better idea anyway.

**Mac69** · 12-03-11 14:21

I have viewed sugarbabys. Com, meetsugarbaby. Com, etc. Which one do you guys recommend?

**F Scott** · 12-03-11 12:13

How about HCB (hot college baby)?

**Golfcart** · 12-03-11 11:33

With Scott, Nando and now Fixinit off to the races in the 20 year old department we need a new term to describe a 20 + age spread with a college co-ed, as in Sugar Babe / Young College Pussy.

I was very doubtful of this at first but I can see a girl in college, away from home and on her own for the first time would present a totally different dynamic than what we experience in the traditional 30/50 and 40/60 civilian world. Keep on doing your research guys and reporting back. Just don't let them find out about this board. That would screw the pooch.

**F Scott** · 12-02-11 15:59

Gentlemen,

I beg your indulgence for a few paragraphs so I can gush like a love-smitten schoolboy about my sleepover with my ATF last night, which as many of you suggested, would be wonderful. You were correct.

I worked about a 3/4 day yesterday, then picked up my baby from her place and proceeded to the boutique hotel where I had booked our room. After checking in, we went up to make sure the bed was to our liking for a while, and then showered and got ready for dinner at a little french bistro in a trendy, artsy neighborhood about a 15 minute drive away. I picked it for two reasons. It has gotten fabulous reviews, and it was in a locale where I was pretty certain I would not run into anyone I knew.

Dinner was fantastic, my baby was looking adorable, the dim light and candles probably did me no harm either, and I felt totally and completely safe, hidden and off the grid. I had told my SO, out of town on business, that I was having dinner with clients and would probably be home late, so we should not to expect to talk that evening. Our waitress was flirty and fun, especially when we ordered wine and she carded my baby. Just turned 21, thank goodness. I think she knew what was up, but honestly I didn't give a shit, I was so happy.

After dinner, which was filled with great conversation, laughs, and just the right amount of dirty talk about what lay in store when we got back to the room, we walked around the neighborhood, nosing into the little shops as we pleased. I bought her a very attractive outfit, for which she was authentically pleased, and some books she had wanted, and then it was back to the hotel for a couple of hours of intense activity. Bliss.

This morning, I woke up without the alarm, without the dog whining to go out or the cat yowling to be fed, and just gazed down at the pure, young beauty lying beside me. My brothers, having your baby smile at you upon wakening, still warm and a little drowsy from sleep, and reach over to pull on the waistband of your boxers with one hand while pulling you closer with the other, well, that's just not something you will ever forget. This, I believe, should be the goal we all strive to achieve. Others of you may have differing opinions, and I am fine with that. I was in a different head space myself not too long ago, but this is something far beyond the one or two night stands that I had experienced previously.

I am reluctantly back at my desk, but no meaningful work will be done this afternoon. As always, keep up the good work.

Besotted,

Scott

**F Scott** · 12-01-11 13:02

Buck,

Thanks for the kind words. The sun will shine on you as well, I am confident. Keep at it, be clever in your pursuit, and work on your game. All you need is one sterling baby to make it all worth while.

Just curious, can you utilize the OTR (on the road) strategy that has been outlined in these pages? Some have found that it produces better results for them than fishing in their home ponds. I think the short time frame has something to do with its success, plus the fact that you both know what the name of the game is from the start. If the baby agrees to meet you OTR, I think she has already decided that as long as you aren't a troll, you are going to get the prize. It will just cost you drinks and maybe dinner with a hot young woman. What's not to like?

Good luck to you,

Scott

**Hernando** · 12-01-11 11:19

Congratulations Scott for your upcoming sleepover. It is unbelievable to have a 20+ yr old hottie curled up in your arms all night.

My Baby continues to delight me and neither of us show any signs of tiring of each other. In fact, it sure seems like love to me but I can't imagine why a young 20's girl with her long life ahead of her would consider an old pharte as her SO. Of course the $$ is always there and my baby has not offered to see me for the pleasure only, so I guess that is the answer, but she sure does make me feel loved. That's what it is all about for us anyway in this hobby.

Most of our visits together are all nighters. 1 to 2 times / week due to my travel schedule I can get away with time away from home. A couple hour roll in the hay is great, but you can't beat falling to sleep together. I am smitten and she and I both have a good thing going on and will ride that wave as long as it lasts.

Buck Dancer.I chatted up a drop dead gorgeous student from UVA off of AM site and had some amazing sex talk for hours, but she bolted when I started to talk love talk (jokingly). You might troll AM in hooville and see if she is still on there. You won't miss her. She is the only 22 yr old who looks like a movie star.

**BuckDancer** · 12-01-11 09:23

I live vicarously through you Mr. Scott. The search has been hard here in hooville, but I shall not give up. Hopefully one day soon I will score my very own sugar baby and be able to share my own stories of triumph. Until then I will read your words and use them as motivation in my own search!

**Magic Rat** · 11-30-11 19:18

Scott,

Congrats to you on your upcoming overnighter! I've had a few with my only (for now) SB and you are going to have an awesome time. I'm envious.

I too have released to the other anglers any that I might have landed as I seem to have landed a trophy, at least for the forseeable future. Enjoy my man!