Sugar Babies

**Satyrrical** · 01-28-23 20:35

Got an email that my payment for SA renewal had been processed. Pissed me off bc I really was done with it. Decided to look around since I paid for it. My first 2 interactions turned out to be blackmail attempts threatening my family life, one by telling my wife, one claiming "she" was underage and was going to the cops, both wanting $1000 CashApp. Pretty hilarious given they knew nothing about me, and I use a burn number. Be careful, gents.

**Cruiser45** · 01-28-23 12:01

Hi guys, I dropped off Seeking a month or so back, just now created a new profile. I don't see any of the profiles I remember. It's as if there's a whole new group of potentials. And most have not been active recently. Also noticed the wish list feature is not in the same spot or is that only visible to paid members?

I trust I'll find a UTR, stay happy always.

**PoohBear69** · 01-18-23 14:05

Heather is an amazing lady. UTR, sweet personality, great thick thighs, and a girl next door! I saw her about a year ago. She always replies, even if its just wishing her a happy new years. No scam, no robot, and refreshingly not in the stuck up mode. If you like a thick lady with a sweet personality she may be your cup of tea!

**IceDogCereal** · 01-15-23 15:04

Just an FYI to anyone interested in meeting this young lady. She passed away on November 26, 2022 in a traffic accident. She was a nice young lady although hard to schedule with. I am not sure who is still using her account on SB. The link is: https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...9f66b70ff7f71f Just be aware that the lady in the pics is sadly no longer with us.

**Satyrrical** · 12-07-22 20:38

M&G this afternoon was awkward AF. She was either even more introverted than me (hard to believe), really wasn't sure about the SB thing, or just wasn't into me (nah). Shame. Pretty eyes.

**Satyrrical** · 12-05-22 23:26

Originally Posted by Satyrrical [View Original Post]

Dipped my toe back into SA during their Black Friday promo. Had dinner with a young lady last night. Going private Tuesday. Seems like a wild one.

We decided to meat today. Wildest fuck in a long time. I'm not sharing. Just saying there are some good ones there.

**Satyrrical** · 12-04-22 11:58

Dipped my toe back into SA during their Black Friday promo. Had dinner with a young lady last night. Going private Tuesday. Seems like a wild one.

**BossManJb87** · 11-23-22 15:05

Just sent you a PM. Would love to meet her as well.

Originally Posted by IceDogCereal [View Original Post]

Mrs Lovely, aka Heather, is a very sweet lady who seems eager to please. She has a very pleasant demeanor and is very easy to set up a meeting with and she understands what most folks are looking for from Secret Benefits, I. E. The Benefits. She is not unattractive but does not smile much and is a little heavier than my preference but not enough to matter. She will give BBBJCIM and swallow your load and then keep going if that what you want. Her nipples are very responsive to licking and she would allow BBFS if that is your cup of tea. I am not sure about Greek because I did not ask. She asks for $$.5 for a visit which is not timed and would work with you on that as long as you are reasonable with her. She is punctual and does not fill your inbox between meetings. I have seen her a couple of times and would have more if she was a little more of my preferred body style.

**IceDogCereal** · 11-20-22 20:42

Mrs Lovely, aka Heather, is a very sweet lady who seems eager to please. She has a very pleasant demeanor and is very easy to set up a meeting with and she understands what most folks are looking for from Secret Benefits, I. E. The Benefits. She is not unattractive but does not smile much and is a little heavier than my preference but not enough to matter. She will give BBBJCIM and swallow your load and then keep going if that what you want. Her nipples are very responsive to licking and she would allow BBFS if that is your cup of tea. I am not sure about Greek because I did not ask. She asks for $$.5 for a visit which is not timed and would work with you on that as long as you are reasonable with her. She is punctual and does not fill your inbox between meetings. I have seen her a couple of times and would have more if she was a little more of my preferred body style.

**Cruiser45** · 10-27-22 08:40

There must be some mongers who pay for MnG just as some pay a deposit. That's totally backwards to how real like works. It's like a car dealership that says it will cost you $to come look at our vehicles for sale and NO TEST DRIVES. WTF?! In the real world the seller wines and dines the buyers. Too many guys are stupid and giving away the power of being a potential customer / buyer. I've told several potential SB thanks for the chat, not paying to interview you, feed you, see if we click so I can give you $. It's like paying to watch advertisements. Oh yes, I really want to see and learn about your product. May I give you $ to see if it appeals to me?

I know I'm preaching to the choir but damnit men! Some guys are fuc. G it up for everyone. It's like many other situations, if all the men said no thanks SB would not be demanding $ for MG or deposits in advance for an appointment. I'm not jumping through hoops to buy your services. I suspect online dating, when girls get many messages from many interested guys has contributed to false sense of value. Old man says,back in the day women dressed up, took efforts to attract a provider.

Originally Posted by BlackCandleJon [View Original Post]

Secret B was my first incursion into the sugar bowl, back in 2018 and it worked out decent if I accepted that for about every dozen of messages I sent, only one became a pseudo sugar baby. I got to meet several very good ones and the "allowance" was not too bad, about $. 5.

Just as today, the meet and greet was also standard practice to screen each other, the only difference is that back then I was never asked for a compensation for the M & G.

Nowadays some pretend SB require payment for having a coffee or drink or dinner, and on top of that, some choose an upscale place like Flight, Stoney River, etc. But the worst thing is that they really have no intentions of being a SB, all they want is the M&G money plus the free food.

So they'll never say yes to any arrangement.

Secret B stopped working for me, I had no replies even from the girls that contacted me first. I've concluded it's either bots or fake accounts to lure guys into buying credits. I don't trust that site anymore.

For the past 3 years Seeking A has been fruitful but at a high cost of $100 per month on the basic membership plus hours and hours of messaging and also the 50 to 100 restaurant checks for the initial M&G.
After all this expenses its rare to get anything in return except for the contact of a girl thats willing to enter a mutually beneficial arrangement. So now its negotiating the allowance and dos and dont during a visit. The reward is that some, not all girls, will provide a true GFE in a worry and rush free environment.

It still works, this year I've met about 10 different girls and have made regular with two of them.

For the past 4 or so months, I've not renewed my membership, it's really not cheap and too laborious finding someone on that site.

I'm tempted to sign up again on Seeking, but I have no more $ to spend on a new SB and would have to cut one of the good ones I know.

But what's wrong with that? It seems wrong to me.

Heck the girls should be the ones jumping through all the hoops since we men are the ones handing out the cash!

**BlackCandleJon** · 10-26-22 21:36

Originally Posted by Cruiser45 [View Original Post]

Hi guys, am considering re entering the bowl after reading other cities' threads. Always in search of that unicorn, huh?

I have used WYP, Secret B, amd SA with success in the past. Any thoughts on which I should try again? Will report as I wade back into it.

Secret B was my first incursion into the sugar bowl, back in 2018 and it worked out decent if I accepted that for about every dozen of messages I sent, only one became a pseudo sugar baby. I got to meet several very good ones and the "allowance" was not too bad, about $. 5.

Just as today, the meet and greet was also standard practice to screen each other, the only difference is that back then I was never asked for a compensation for the M & G.

Nowadays some pretend SB require payment for having a coffee or drink or dinner, and on top of that, some choose an upscale place like Flight, Stoney River, etc. But the worst thing is that they really have no intentions of being a SB, all they want is the M&G money plus the free food.

So they'll never say yes to any arrangement.

Secret B stopped working for me, I had no replies even from the girls that contacted me first. I've concluded it's either bots or fake accounts to lure guys into buying credits. I don't trust that site anymore.

For the past 3 years Seeking A has been fruitful but at a high cost of $100 per month on the basic membership plus hours and hours of messaging and also the 50 to 100 restaurant checks for the initial M&G.
After all this expenses it’s rare to get anything in return except for the contact of a girl that’s willing to enter a mutually beneficial arrangement. So now it’s negotiating the allowance and do’s and don’t during a visit. The reward is that some, not all girls, will provide a true GFE in a worry and rush free environment.

It still works, this year I've met about 10 different girls and have made regular with two of them.

For the past 4 or so months, I've not renewed my membership, it's really not cheap and too laborious finding someone on that site.

I'm tempted to sign up again on Seeking, but I have no more $ to spend on a new SB and would have to cut one of the good ones I know.

But what's wrong with that? It seems wrong to me.

Heck the girls should be the ones jumping through all the hoops since we men are the ones handing out the cash!

**Cruiser45** · 10-26-22 09:08

Originally Posted by Satyrrical [View Original Post]

Done with the baby scene. At least getting a new one. GPS and Brandonflation have got these bitches asking for ridiculousness.

I agree. It's ridiculous, GPS is off the chain. Hell, Escorts asking for $. 5 qv is more than it's worth to me. I have a rule that will take me out of the bowl altogether. I have knowledge and skills gained from many years of education and experience. I collect seventy bucks for an hour of time with a client. I'm not paying twice what I make in an hour for a mechanical qv. Half the worlds population is female, it's not rare and doesn't require years of education to lie down, open legs and lie there like a dead fish. Guess I'm just an old fart. LOL.

**Satyrrical** · 10-11-22 20:09

Done with the baby scene. At least getting a new one. GPS and Brandonflation have got these bitches asking for ridiculousness.

**Cruiser45** · 10-11-22 09:29

Hi guys, am considering re entering the bowl after reading other cities' threads. Always in search of that unicorn, huh?

I have used WYP, Secret B, amd SA with success in the past. Any thoughts on which I should try again? Will report as I wade back into it.

**Cruiser45** · 09-19-22 18:43

I can't really comment as I've been off those sites. Just today visited SA and SBenefits again and looked around. . IMHO (one who has not been active with sugar sites lately) your $350 is quite generous. It's not rare and not hard to find girls who will p4 p and It takes zero training. Granted their personality and enthusiasm is all they have different than other females to offer. I get a kick out of secret benefits verification videos. Some are scowling, shaking their head no, have resting ***** face, making zero effort on those "let me be your secret" videos. Big turn off!

Many real life girls will play for $200-250 and less.

Originally Posted by BlackCandleJon [View Original Post]

This thread has been awfully quiet.

On my side I've been really struggling with the flaky sugar babies I have, yes, it is more than one, actually 3 because sometimes out of all 3, none is available!

They just don't text back for days, cancel last minute, or over time the encounters have become sub par, with less time offered, not wanting to do certain things in the past were happily done, etc.

And don't get me started on finding a new one, SA seems to have dried up more than it already was.

Or maybe I'm on a bad streak; my looks are passable same as my manners. The ppm I give is not bad I think, average $350 and if we need I room I don't get the hourly ones but better; it's really starting to hurt my wallet, but if I offer less, I'm afraid I'll end up with no one, just my unconditional hands and pornhub.

I don't even anymore request things like MSOG, or anal or CIP or CIM, though would be great to have that.

Would really like to hear what others are experiencing.

Is my donation low?

Are you settling for non GFE all covered visits?

Maybe I need to be more of a jerk or dick and girls will respond better.