The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**SaintMan3500** · Yesterday 10:38

Got this Email from Seeking. They are increasing the subscription from $130-$150. JFC.

"We're writing to inform you of an upcoming change to our membership pricing, effective January 1, 2026. Additionally, our Premium membership tier will be renamed the Platinum membership tier or Gold membership tier, depending on your membership level and eligibility.

What's Changing:

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Platinum Subscription (90-day): $330 → $380.

Diamond Subscription (30-day): $325 → $375.

Important: Current members who subscribe or renew before January 1, 2026 will continue to enjoy current pricing for as long as their subscription remains active.

Those who still have their pre-July 2025 rate are still eligible to maintain that rate into 2026.

If your subscription lapses after this date, new pricing will apply upon reactivation.

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Price as a Quality Filter: Higher pricing eliminates non-serious, low-intent, and disrespectful members from our platform. For you, this means less competition for quality matches and less competition for the attention of our most desirable members. Your time becomes more valuable when everyone in the room is equally invested.

Enhanced Verification for Desirable Members: Your membership directly funds stronger verification requirements for our member base, including selfie liveness checks, optional I'd verification, and advanced fraud prevention. This additional step is intentional: it ensures the quality of our database and guarantees that the people you're meeting are genuine and serious.

Strategic Investment in Innovation: We are always working to bring you the experience that you are investing in; this will enable us to spread the word even further. We will reach a greater audience, bringing in some of the most eligible individuals you can hope to meet, across the globe. On the tech side, we endeavour to bring you smarter matching algorithms, improved customer service, and value-added features. In the end, we have a shared goal: helping you find the match of a lifetime.

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We will continue raising the bar on verification, safety, product quality, and community standards. We will guard your privacy and never compromise on security. And we will keep building a platform where the best can meet the best.

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Thank you for continuing to be a part of Seeking. ".

**LikesGirls** · 10-29-25 12:20

Originally Posted by NoelB [View Original Post]

Anyone see Nicky from chapel hill.

A link to her profile would help us help you.

**NoelB** · 10-29-25 11:54

Anyone see Nicky from chapel hill.

**DoggieFan** · 10-19-25 16:02

Originally Posted by LikesGirls [View Original Post]

I'm supposed to see her early next week. Any recent intel on her? Does she allow DATY now that FS is available?

When she originally joined Seeking she did paid M&Gs. Then added oral, giving mainly. Then was a huge Greek fan. I saw her my one & only time and enjoyed two rounds in her tiny ass, $400.

She claimed she had a condition with her kitty that she couldn't do vaginal. No problem as I love Greek. Then about a year or so after I saw her she texted me to say she was doing regular sex. I had offered her $300 to repeat anal shortly after seeing her. She countered $350. The fact she wouldn't take a hard pounding made it a non started. I did share her digits with a couple of guys asking if I knew anyone in Raleigh. They were happy with her.

When I saw her she was on a business call with her boss, between rounds. She sounded very professional. LOL.

**CuriousVaMan** · 10-18-25 10:49

Any intel on this SB?

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...a-bcd0d14c55b0

**MmceStep** · 10-17-25 14:58

Originally Posted by DionysusVice [View Original Post]

I found the attached conversation amusing, but it also prompted a genuine question. I'm curious if anyone has truly experienced or sought after a Sugar Baby relationship without any expectation or desire for physical / sexual intimacy? This girl seems to imply otherwise. I'm not criticizing anyone's choices if that's what they want; live and let live. However, it strikes me that this basically a friend, which I already have in abundance and can easily acquire more of, without any financial or "benefits" exchange and often with actually caring about me.

#Text Version Of Conversation For Search Purposes#.

Me: So, what are you looking?

Her: looking for support asap right now.

Me: What would that look like?

Her: weekly allowance starting immediately and I'm willing to meet but not interested in physical stuff.

I saw a Sugar Baby documentary that was made perhaps 15 years ago. It showed two relationships like this, one was a rich but old as hell guy that couldn't get it up, who wanted a young hottie to sit on his lap and have conversations with him. It seemed like his kids weren't interested in having a relationship with him, so he was very lonely. The other was a handicapped guy who couldn't have sex either. Interestingly they didn't show an example of the 99% of these kinds of relationships, where she's getting railed. My suspicion is that those girls didn't want to be on camera. There are YouTube girls who talk about this kind of situation, and when I see them, I think 'yeah right, she gets banged out for a living, but is only willing to talk about the one guy that she's acting as a therapist for. 'There's a bias in the reporting, and I think it gives the newbies unrealistic expectations.

**YourCCPimp** · 10-17-25 08:25

Originally Posted by SaintMan3500 [View Original Post]

I've met a lot of women who has said stuff like this. Women who swore up and down that they don't do intimacy. They aren't like other girls, they want to get to know you for a good while. They want a friend. And then I do the meet and greet, and through negotiation: they are "open" and things go from there in the next meet up.

For that woman specifically (I've talked briefly with her on Seeking), she doesn't strike me as someone who has a lot of brain cells. And im getting GPS from her way of talking. But it's hard to say if she truly is "platonic only" or not. Since many people on that website have a habit of saying one thing, and then doing another.

The only other thing I will say is that the women I met that were truly 100% platonic only and confirmed this in the meet up with no room for negation or those who said "when im comfortable maybe": It never worked out. Waste of time.

I found out she has Bipolar Disorder. Regardless, In the several years since I've used the site, I don't think I've ever had a situation where someone someone meets me irl and confirms with me several times, and then just stands me up. Just a scummy person.

Heck, it's a minor accomplishment you found a girl who is willing to MEET, sex or no sex. I feel like half the girls want money just for their existence on the earth.

**YourCCPimp** · 10-15-25 21:30

Originally Posted by DionysusVice [View Original Post]

I found the attached conversation amusing, but it also prompted a genuine question. I'm curious if anyone has truly experienced or sought after a Sugar Baby relationship without any expectation or desire for physical / sexual intimacy? This girl seems to imply otherwise. I'm not criticizing anyone's choices if that's what they want; live and let live. However, it strikes me that this basically a friend, which I already have in abundance and can easily acquire more of, without any financial or "benefits" exchange and often with actually caring about me.

#Text Version Of Conversation For Search Purposes#.

Me: So, what are you looking?

Her: looking for support asap right now.

Me: What would that look like?

Her: weekly allowance starting immediately and I'm willing to meet but not interested in physical stuff.

Me: Interesting. So, what benefits are for the guy giving you support?

Her: my time and presence.

Me: Interesting. What are you looking for in an allowance for simply being a friend?

Her: I'd expect the allowance to reflect the emotional support, companionship, and time I'd be offering.

I see it a lot more with college girls in the 18-21 range. Maybe they aren't ready to ho it up yet LOL.

**SaintMan3500** · 10-15-25 17:11

Originally Posted by DionysusVice [View Original Post]

I found the attached conversation amusing, but it also prompted a genuine question. I'm curious if anyone has truly experienced or sought after a Sugar Baby relationship without any expectation or desire for physical / sexual intimacy? This girl seems to imply otherwise. I'm not criticizing anyone's choices if that's what they want; live and let live. However, it strikes me that this basically a friend, which I already have in abundance and can easily acquire more of, without any financial or "benefits" exchange and often with actually caring about me.

#Text Version Of Conversation For Search Purposes#.

Me: So, what are you looking?

Her: looking for support asap right now.

Me: What would that look like?

Her: weekly allowance starting immediately and I'm willing to meet but not interested in physical stuff.

Me: Interesting. So, what benefits are for the guy giving you support?

Her: my time and presence.

Me: Interesting. What are you looking for in an allowance for simply being a friend?

Her: I'd expect the allowance to reflect the emotional support, companionship, and time I'd be offering.

I've met a lot of women who has said stuff like this. Women who swore up and down that they don't do intimacy. They aren't like other girls, they want to get to know you for a good while. They want a friend. And then I do the meet and greet, and through negotiation: they are "open" and things go from there in the next meet up.

For that woman specifically (I've talked briefly with her on Seeking), she doesn't strike me as someone who has a lot of brain cells. And im getting GPS from her way of talking. But it's hard to say if she truly is "platonic only" or not. Since many people on that website have a habit of saying one thing, and then doing another.

The only other thing I will say is that the women I met that were truly 100% platonic only and confirmed this in the meet up with no room for negation or those who said "when im comfortable maybe": It never worked out. Waste of time.

Originally Posted by GentleGiant78 [View Original Post]

I had exactly the same experience. Led me on for awhile and then totally ghosted after confirming our meet a few hours earlier. Save yourself the time and effort.

I found out she has Bipolar Disorder. Regardless, In the several years since I've used the site, I don't think I've ever had a situation where someone someone meets me irl and confirms with me several times, and then just stands me up. Just a scummy person.

**DionysusVice** · 10-15-25 13:09

I found the attached conversation amusing, but it also prompted a genuine question. I'm curious if anyone has truly experienced or sought after a Sugar Baby relationship without any expectation or desire for physical / sexual intimacy? This girl seems to imply otherwise. I'm not criticizing anyone's choices if that's what they want; live and let live. However, it strikes me that this basically a friend, which I already have in abundance and can easily acquire more of, without any financial or "benefits" exchange and often with actually caring about me.

#Text Version Of Conversation For Search Purposes#.

Me: So, what are you looking?

Her: looking for support asap right now.

Me: What would that look like?

Her: weekly allowance starting immediately and I'm willing to meet but not interested in physical stuff.

Me: Interesting. So, what benefits are for the guy giving you support?

Her: my time and presence.

Me: Interesting. What are you looking for in an allowance for simply being a friend?

Her: I'd expect the allowance to reflect the emotional support, companionship, and time I'd be offering.