"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Peter Johnson]

Just a quick note that you should NEVER contact Seeking customer service if you can possibly avoid it. I have a backup account that I used to look up profiles that I wasn't sure blocked me or not, on my main one. And I wrote customer service to see about adjusting the age on it. I never planned to use the acct actively, so I originally didn't put down an accurate age / bday. But I was going to change it to an active subscription, so I wanted to see if they could possibly adjust it for me.

So instead of accommodating this simple request, they sent me an email along with account suspension. If upload my private gov't I'd documents to them, they will reinstate it, but of course I'm not going to do that KYC nonsense. So that is one of my few remaining non-selfie accts that just got nuked.

Anyway, just don't ever contact them unless it is necessary and then still probably don't do so.

Ok just following up, I'm pleasantly surprised that I wrote them Seeking customers service back and they reinstated my account, without me having to send in any gov't documents. My age is still wrong on it, but I can work with that. Oh well, I feel now that as soon as I pay for another subscription, they will immediately suspend it again and steal my money, but I guess I'll try it at some point.

[PlayerOne1]

Just a quick note that you should NEVER contact Seeking customer service if you can possibly avoid it. I have a backup account that I used to look up profiles that I wasn't sure blocked me or not, on my main one. And I wrote customer service to see about adjusting the age on it. I never planned to use the acct actively, so I originally didn't put down an accurate age / bday. But I was going to change it to an active subscription, so I wanted to see if they could possibly adjust it for me.

So instead of accommodating this simple request, they sent me an email along with account suspension. If upload my private gov't I'd documents to them, they will reinstate it, but of course I'm not going to do that KYC nonsense. So that is one of my few remaining non-selfie accts that just got nuked.

Anyway, just don't ever contact them unless it is necessary and then still probably don't do so.

I wish if they are as strict with women? I highly doubt.

[2me4Looking2]

Just a quick note that you should NEVER contact Seeking customer service if you can possibly avoid it. I have a backup account that I used to look up profiles that I wasn't sure blocked me or not, on my main one. And I wrote customer service to see about adjusting the age on it. I never planned to use the acct actively, so I originally didn't put down an accurate age / bday. But I was going to change it to an active subscription, so I wanted to see if they could possibly adjust it for me.

So instead of accommodating this simple request, they sent me an email along with account suspension. If upload my private gov't I'd documents to them, they will reinstate it, but of course I'm not going to do that KYC nonsense. So that is one of my few remaining non-selfie accts that just got nuked.

Anyway, just don't ever contact them unless it is necessary and then still probably don't do so.

Yep same goes for reporting women. They will review your messages and if they find anything at all you will get banned.

This week I had a temporary suspension and I have no idea why. I never discuss money, ppm, or sex on the site. I had to watch a video and then they reinstated it. Would be helpful if they told you why they are doing shit like that.

[Geneva Guy]

Just a quick note that you should NEVER contact Seeking customer service if you can possibly avoid it. I have a backup account that I used to look up profiles that I wasn't sure blocked me or not, on my main one. And I wrote customer service to see about adjusting the age on it. I never planned to use the acct actively, so I originally didn't put down an accurate age / bday. But I was going to change it to an active subscription, so I wanted to see if they could possibly adjust it for me.

So instead of accommodating this simple request, they sent me an email along with account suspension. If upload my private gov't I'd documents to them, they will reinstate it, but of course I'm not going to do that KYC nonsense. So that is one of my few remaining non-selfie accts that just got nuked.

Anyway, just don't ever contact them unless it is necessary and then still probably don't do so.

Curious I have contacted them a couple times about my acct and no problem.

GG.

[Peter Johnson]

Just a quick note that you should NEVER contact Seeking customer service if you can possibly avoid it. I have a backup account that I used to look up profiles that I wasn't sure blocked me or not, on my main one. And I wrote customer service to see about adjusting the age on it. I never planned to use the acct actively, so I originally didn't put down an accurate age / bday. But I was going to change it to an active subscription, so I wanted to see if they could possibly adjust it for me.

So instead of accommodating this simple request, they sent me an email along with account suspension. If upload my private gov't I'd documents to them, they will reinstate it, but of course I'm not going to do that KYC nonsense. So that is one of my few remaining non-selfie accts that just got nuked.

Anyway, just don't ever contact them unless it is necessary and then still probably don't do so.

[HollowGuy]

Yes she ripped me off for 50. Definitely a scammer / thief. And sounds like could have been even worse.

I usually don't give the sb the ppm funds until the end of the date though. There have been one or two that wanted it up front, and I just compromised, and gave them half at first. I do sympathize that they sometimes do worry if the guy is actually going to pay them afterwards, so if pressed on it, I will advance them half even though it is unromantic.

But I figure they are more likely to provide good service and a fun time if they haven't already gotten what they mainly want out of it. So giving it to them afterwards is better and also feels less transactional.

Do you have a pic the account is gone.

[MajMilkDuds]

"Laura's" an old bartender at one of my favorite spots, and no shocker her name isn't really Laura LOL. I hope you didn't pay the 500. She's beyond easy. Minimal flirting and a decent personality is all it takes. A slew of regular bar patrons and I were killing that on the regular for the freeski.

Also beware she can occasionally have a body odor problem due to her use of wear some weird natural oils instead of deodorant.

Hey. When did you see her last? I have seen her a couple times now and she has been really sweet. Maybe cold on text but sweet in person. And fun. No smell. And her room doesn't look like that. I think that maybe those pics are old. DM me with more info. Or if anyone else can tell me more. I honestly felt like She didn't have the time to see many people. So idk now.

[Peter Johnson]

I've been talking to this one all week we planned to meet today. She came in and asked if we could fuck in the shower which who would say no I went to get in and she grabbed the cash and ran.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...d-495cf368e946

Yes she ripped me off for 50. Definitely a scammer / thief. And sounds like could have been even worse.

I usually don't give the sb the ppm funds until the end of the date though. There have been one or two that wanted it up front, and I just compromised, and gave them half at first. I do sympathize that they sometimes do worry if the guy is actually going to pay them afterwards, so if pressed on it, I will advance them half even though it is unromantic.

But I figure they are more likely to provide good service and a fun time if they haven't already gotten what they mainly want out of it. So giving it to them afterwards is better and also feels less transactional.

[TheAnswer4]

Definitely an old pro. Been around for years. Hadn't seen her on SA before. Might find some pre-Covid stuff on her in the gang bang thread. Pretty sure she did a party or two.

Yeah that's ole Kiki. Just search for her on the forum.

[Peter Johnson]

Haha yeah I know what you mean. I knew "sex work" is huge. But the amount of "normal" girls out here who I know trying to it as an SB kinda surprised me. I am also on the traditional dating apps and I see so many of them on SA.

Yes, most women are wh*res in one way or the other. And I'm of course pro prostitute, pro wh*re. I'm thankful they are like that, but lets just acknowledge the true reality.

[Makos]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...e-fa3906673567

Anyone seen this one? Talks like she is legit but can never be sure these days.

[GoneForGood97]

Bonus if you are not ugly.

Honestly this isn't as important as one would think. I'm obese, but I always make sure I'm clean and presentable on a date, and 9/10 times it's irrelevant. If my looks are a problem with a girl 99% of time they just ghost my texts once we trade pics. Only once or twice has a girl met me in person and it was clearly an issue. It's never a pleasant experience when it happens, but the few times it has never deterred me from the, I'm guessing at this point over a hundred 20 something and early 30 something hotties I've had the pleasure of bedding.

Like if were better looking I wouldn't need to pay. But I'm not, so I do. But I don't pay GPS rates, I pay what I consider "reasonable" rates for this area (300 PPM or lower) and my looks don't enter into the equation.

[OutsideProof]

From no skill to educated; money make the world go round. Social media pushed people without a solid foundation of self to seek a life of lavish, etc. Or just laziness. LOL. Shiny things don't come free. Men seek.

Haha yeah I know what you mean. I knew "sex work" is huge. But the amount of "normal" girls out here who I know trying to it as an SB kinda surprised me. I am also on the traditional dating apps and I see so many of them on SA.

[TJennings7024]

Signed up for SA today, and here are my initial thoughts after 1 hour.

-Shocked at how many women I recognize.

-Funny seeing how much other dudes are willing to pay for my old flings, classmates, coworkers, and escorts regulars.

-Funny how I'm willing to pay the same for other dudes in here's old flings, classmates, coworkers, and escorts regulars. Ones man's trash is another man's fortune I guess.

-It's going to be slightly more pricey than Listcrawler, skipthegames and Tryst, but after reading reviews and looking at profiles, the end product will be better.

-I'm curious if this will be better than an Eros date. I've yet to have a bad Eros encounter.

Haha yeah I know what you mean. I knew "sex work" is huge. But the amount of "normal" girls out here who I know trying to it as an SB kinda surprised me. I am also on the traditional dating apps and I see so many of them on SA.

[TJennings7024]

Just remember, the more effort you put into the flirting / dating aspect of it, the better your rates will be.

If you talk to these girls like escorts, going straight to the point, and don't bother to get to know them or talk to them, you'll need to pay 400-500 PPM. And for some guys that's fine, all they're really looking for is a low volume escort who does bare, and that's easy to find if you're willing to pay the "get right to the point" tax. And some guys it's worth it to NOT put in the flirt / banter / small talk work.

But if you treat these girls like potential girlfriends, have fun while texting with them, put a little effort in to make them laugh, ask them about themselves, etc, you can easily get most of the girls on here for between 200-300 (even less if they are chubby or not traditionally attractive). Not every girl, but enough of them that you can skip over the GPS and move on to the girls who will.

This isn't talked about enough. Being liked and normal goes a long way. Bonus if you are not ugly. These girls are sifting through weirdos and people who they don't vibe with. If you put them at ease, that's worth the concession in their minds.