Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[Tommy13]

Found her on SDM< but she is on Seeking as well.

All talk, no follow through. Turns out she has a lot of family court drama with her ex and she likes to talk about how she works in the courts and knows a lot of cops etc. As far as single moms go, she's desperate for cash and maybe will do whatever, but she told me she was getting $1000 for an hour. She stood me up 3 times and finally ghosted me so I am putting her on the no-go list but if you want to give it a shot, don't' say you weren't warned. Turns out we know some of the same people, had I known what I know now I would have never hit her up.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74129382

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...4-6d97fd3cc0c1

[PoolPlayInTool]

Attitude on the phone, ghosting, I think you got all the info you need. Time to move onto the next.

I already figured that all out, was just curious if anyone here actually hooked up with her.

One thing did change with her, back in February she was willing to meet at the hotel where she was staying for work, she actually worked there. This time around no go and she won't even meet for a drink there. She denied ever saying that she would meet that way however I looked back at the old texts and she did. It did seem odd that she would put her job at risk meeting guys where she worked.

[LuckyCT]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-bf29aa9eda41

Has anyone seen her? Was in contact with her 6 months ago but our schedules did not jive.

Started communication with her a few weeks ago and was ready to meet up but her schedule changed.

Spoke with her on the phone, somewhat unfriendly. After that call I suggested we meet for a casual meeting first near where she is located before committing to anything else. Then she ghosts me. She has been on here for longer then her profile suggests. She was mentioned here about 6 months ago however that person never met her either.

Attitude on the phone, ghosting, I think you got all the info you need. Time to move onto the next.

[PoolPlayInTool]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-bf29aa9eda41

Has anyone seen her? Was in contact with her 6 months ago but our schedules did not jive.

Started communication with her a few weeks ago and was ready to meet up but her schedule changed.

Spoke with her on the phone, somewhat unfriendly. After that call I suggested we meet for a casual meeting first near where she is located before committing to anything else. Then she ghosts me. She has been on here for longer then her profile suggests. She was mentioned here about 6 months ago however that person never met her either.

[GlenBenton]

Periodic reminder of the following, for those who read the forum:

- GB is either single or has the dumbest / least involved partner in the world.

- GB has a boat, and judging from the job that involves NY / CT presence, a F. I. R. E. Job that affords a nice lifestyle.

- GB has enough game (physical, social, mental, and otherwise) to snag the hottest women on SB with alarming success.

If you're in a relationship with someone who cares where you are enough to constrain your scheduling, have no sugar to offer besides escort-level PPM, and have no desirable physical / social attributes. YMMV, obviously.

None of this is to call into question GB's massive contributions to the forum; his posts are by far my favorite thing here. But you need to decide the stuff you can work on (e. G, getting fit, having confidence, growing balls) and the stuff you can't, and set your expectations for PPM accordingly.

Thank you. I guess. But, I'm just a normal dude. There is not silver bullet to obtain elites. You attract what you put out. Confidence, Cadence, and Charisma go a long way when connecting with people, no matter the context. It's all about being genuine, knowing how to carry yourself, and having that magnetic energy. People pick up on that, and it makes interactions smoother.

SA girls are easy to get. Just remember, the good ones will always shy away from certain labels (I. E. Hookers) but deep down, they're aware of what the website is about.

[SugarLifeNow]

Hey everyone, Dave here, new SLN girl in Hartford, her name is Cali and she is 26. Super submissive and loves rough sex. Loves having her hair pulled in doggy, and wants to get pounded for a long time. Likes spanking, choking, slapping, and anal. She is into being tied up, blindfolded, and punished. Not into girls, but would do a 3 sum MFM. Ok with BBFS. Mid range PPM.

https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Caliegh/

[SR Only]

GB is my hero.

[PoolPlayInTool]

Periodic reminder of the following, for those who read the forum:

- GB is either single or has the dumbest / least involved partner in the world.

- GB has a boat, and judging from the job that involves NY / CT presence, a F. I. R. E. Job that affords a nice lifestyle.

- GB has enough game (physical, social, mental, and otherwise) to snag the hottest women on SB with alarming success.

If you're in a relationship with someone who cares where you are enough to constrain your scheduling, have no sugar to offer besides escort-level PPM, and have no desirable physical / social attributes. YMMV, obviously.

None of this is to call into question GB's massive contributions to the forum; his posts are by far my favorite thing here. But you need to decide the stuff you can work on (e. G, getting fit, having confidence, growing balls) and the stuff you can't, and set your expectations for PPM accordingly.

I am a decent look guy, look much younger than my 68 years however there is no way that I would be able to negotiate the PPM rate GB gets for most of the women he sleeps with here. I have to go down a few notches on the hotness scale and then pay the $300 or maybe a bit more depending. I am realistic. Best guess on GB he is in his early to mid 40's, has all his hair, is one of those guys women just fall all over for, and has lots of money to spend.

[RalphReilly]

Each girls expectation is different. They all came down in price (some 100%.

Ranges for girls I mentioned today: 0 - 501.

Yes 501. The art of the deal.

Periodic reminder of the following, for those who read the forum:

- GB is either single or has the dumbest / least involved partner in the world.

- GB has a boat, and judging from the job that involves NY / CT presence, a F. I. R. E. Job that affords a nice lifestyle.

- GB has enough game (physical, social, mental, and otherwise) to snag the hottest women on SB with alarming success.

If you're in a relationship with someone who cares where you are enough to constrain your scheduling, have no sugar to offer besides escort-level PPM, and have no desirable physical / social attributes. YMMV, obviously.

None of this is to call into question GB's massive contributions to the forum; his posts are by far my favorite thing here. But you need to decide the stuff you can work on (e. G, getting fit, having confidence, growing balls) and the stuff you can't, and set your expectations for PPM accordingly.

[GlenBenton]

My God GlenB. You put in a lot of work. I know your list is long but can you say PPM for them?

Each girls expectation is different. They all came down in price (some 100%.

Ranges for girls I mentioned today: 0 - 501.

Yes 501. The art of the deal.

[LuckyCT]

Sorry. I had some work to do and couldn't finish.

That said. I noticed some typos in my previous post:

LilMissRhody knows her way around a Dick. Not sick.

Maggie - "I pity the fool who uses that BED next". Not andee (whatever that means).

Anyway, I digress.

Abi - https://members.seeking.com/member/0...e-663c0c94030a.

Single mom, fake rack and an ass built for sex. She's a bit business-like but I found that refreshing. No need for BS and no fear of encountering a stage 5 clinger. She's fun.

Violet - https://members.seeking.com/member/6...0-5a1b4ae6560b.

This chick does porn (she showed me). You can look it all up under "sapphireink". She's a little thicker than I usually go after, but her horniess and fucking ability made up for that. She's a freak.

Jessie - https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-49daa1e42f58.

She was ok. Didn't blow my socks off, but enjoyable nonetheless. She did text me everyday for about a week after our initial session where she said she wanted to meet again (which was a turn off). One and done.

Sara - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-4c77f04398ed.

She's a cutie but wouldn't budge on "getting to know each other first.". Met for drinks twice before getting her naked. It was ok. She's pretty vanilla.

Natalie - https://members.seeking.com/member/6...a-a0c437221b81.

Bailed on her when I saw her. Pictures aren't her. Don't fall for it.

Welp. That what I got. Who else can contribute something of substance on this dying board?

My God GlenB. You put in a lot of work. I know your list is long but can you say PPM for them?

[GlenBenton]

Sorry. I had some work to do and couldn't finish.

That said. I noticed some typos in my previous post:

LilMissRhody knows her way around a Dick. Not sick.

Maggie - "I pity the fool who uses that BED next". Not andee (whatever that means).

Anyway, I digress.

Abi - https://members.seeking.com/member/0...e-663c0c94030a.

Single mom, fake rack and an ass built for sex. She's a bit business-like but I found that refreshing. No need for BS and no fear of encountering a stage 5 clinger. She's fun.

Violet - https://members.seeking.com/member/6...0-5a1b4ae6560b.

This chick does porn (she showed me). You can look it all up under "sapphireink". She's a little thicker than I usually go after, but her horniess and fucking ability made up for that. She's a freak.

Jessie - https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-49daa1e42f58.

She was ok. Didn't blow my socks off, but enjoyable nonetheless. She did text me everyday for about a week after our initial session where she said she wanted to meet again (which was a turn off). One and done.

Sara - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-4c77f04398ed.

She's a cutie but wouldn't budge on "getting to know each other first.". Met for drinks twice before getting her naked. It was ok. She's pretty vanilla.

Natalie - https://members.seeking.com/member/6...a-a0c437221b81.

Bailed on her when I saw her. Pictures aren't her. Don't fall for it.

Welp. That what I got. Who else can contribute something of substance on this dying board?

[GlenBenton]

Summer is coming to a close and with, so too does my SA membership.

August and Sept have proven to be my swan song.

Feat include:

Kat - https://members.seeking.com/member/2...9-776b2f0ad509.

A true 10 in every sense of the word. Hot, cool as fuck and a savage behind closed doors. Based in Manhattan. Thankfully, I am there twice a week. She came to CT for a visit too. Smoke show is an understatement.

LilMissRhody - https://members.seeking.com/member/5...a-ee66067e2c33.

She's a touch older than I prefer but she wears it well. She's an OF regular (I found this out upon meeting; as I do not use OF). She knows her way around a sick and can get quite freaky.

Becca - https://members.seeking.com/member/5...c-f51385783f20.

A girl next door with daddy issues. She let me do whatever I wanted and, needless to say, I wanted a lot.

Chelsea - https://members.seeking.com/member/1...8-cf3798297b20.

Another "innocent" blonde that really comes out of her shell if she likes what she sees. I blew through a 3 pack of Okamoto. 01's in our first session. She's swell.

Maggie - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...8-2f3e494fd311.

Wanted to experience a SA ginger. Maggie is just that. She had me meet her at some flea bag motel in Portland CT (solera or something). We got down and dirty in that room. I pity the fool who uses that andée next.

Carol - https://members.seeking.com/member/9...1-6f1ef6f6e16c.

A one and done; only because Kat entered it he picture shortly after seeing Carol. She was a good time though.

Talaa - https://members.seeking.com/member/2...4-6f5a4082462d.

Really cool chick. Zero donation with her. We just hit it off so well.

To be continued.

[Justlookineat]

Hey guys, any input on either of these two? Thanks.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...e-cd23f476e95e

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...8-b1b0d6030c6b

[TrentWilliams]

I spend some time just chatting first. A lot of the "real" girls on there don't have a "price". Yeah, maybe the last guy gave her WAY too much, but if you build some connection, they often take less if they actually enjoy your company.

It does get a bit awkward when you finally have to talk pricing. And you don't want to waste both of your time if she's looking for way more than you are willing to spend. So I don't wait too long. Kinda depends how flirty the conversation is going. If she has no redeeming personality traits, then I just transition right to price talk to either move on or cut her loose. If they say a number that is way off, I just respectfully say we are too far apart on that and wish them well.

I've actually never paid more than 250. And that was to bombshell college girl. Usually its much less. The girl I'm seeing now doesn't even want money.

So basically, you get a better deal if you treat them like a human. But there is always another girl out there so if the price isn't what you are looking for, just move on and don't be afraid about if you "played it right".

Very well said I agree 100%.