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**Fonmyj** · Today 14:01

Originally Posted by CPMachine [View Original Post]

Does anyone know why I keep getting "502 Bad Gateway" Angie on my PC?

I have deleted history. Cookies. Cached. And done a chrome update.

I get the same thing to include on mobile. Most of the time if I start typing the site name in the address bar and autofill completes with a link to another topic on the San Diego forum I can choose that link then the site loads fine. I'm able to navigate anywhere on the site from that point. But if I try to come back to the site on the same page from an earlier session then I get that 502 bad gateway error and have to employ the method described to get back in.

Sometimes I just end up having to go to the main page and work my way in to the San Diego forum. Hopefully the site gets fixed soon. Seems like several access related issues these past few months.

**CPMachine** · Yesterday 16:40

Does anyone know why I keep getting "502 Bad Gateway" Angie on my PC?

I have deleted history. Cookies. Cached. And done a chrome update.

**CPMachine** · Yesterday 15:21

This one tells me $300 PPM. When we move to text it turns out her $300 PPM is actually a $300 M&G. Then tells me if I want to get intimate for $300 I should hit a prostitute street LOL. This tarts got alot to learn.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...1aee59bd6bce4d

**SuperFly79** · 09-09-25 22:00

Originally Posted by Dcsd12 [View Original Post]

Thanks. I've been trying this somewhat thus far. I have no problem starting conversations on Seeking and them moving them to texting shortly thereafter. But that is where I seem to be getting stuck.

I've had a few girls be very direct and say they are looking for ppm and then quote me ridiculous rates like $7. At least with those ones I can just say I'm not interested and move on.

But with the other girls, I get stuck. I have asked a few "what kind of arrangements are you looking for?" or "what are you open to" and they just ghosted me.

I have also had several girls give me their number and then when I send them a text they don't respond.

But more what I am asking at this point is how do you do it once you meet and greet at a coffee shop or wherever? Do you just start throwing numbers out there? Are there actually women on Seeking who aren't looking for ppm?

I do things a bit differently, 90% of the site is either scammers or girls wanting ridiculous amounts of money. So what I do is skip the whole meet in person part. While texting I tell them I'm looking for something fun, discrete, NSA and mutually beneficial. Then I ask them what they are looking for. If they say the same then I ask them what kind of benefits they're looking for. Usually 95% of them will throw out a number. If they don't move on from them. Most of the ladies that are interested already know what you are looking for so they don't ask. Just a few tips. Never hook up at your place, always use a burner phone or number when texting even if you are single. Don't buy pictures or videos for money, and don't pay until deed is completed.

**Dcsd12** · 09-09-25 20:23

Originally Posted by FingerLicking [View Original Post]

I haven't been in the game for a while but here is what I did. Get the conversation off Seeking asap. Be prepared to show pictures of yourself or do Facetime. Discuss the arrangement without being to explicit. Meet in public first. If public meeting goes well, then setup the first date. Do not pay anything until the end of the date. Avoid allowances.

Originally Posted by EpicSD [View Original Post]

After a convo has started I ask if they'd like to switch to texting and discuss details of an arrangement. In that text discussion I let them know how I go about starting an arrangement. I'm single, so meeting in a public place isn't an issue (actual SBs prefer this, hookers don't care), we feel things out and then potentially spend one on one time together. If+ we have fun then repeat. I Have had a LOT of success with this approach. I don't use ppm in my pitch I say "per meet allowance" so if things go wrong they won't screen shot it and send it to seeking which will lead to being banned. And I never use any language like this on the seeking messenger- they could ban you, they monitor messages. Hope that helps.

Thanks. I've been trying this somewhat thus far. I have no problem starting conversations on Seeking and them moving them to texting shortly thereafter. But that is where I seem to be getting stuck.

I've had a few girls be very direct and say they are looking for ppm and then quote me ridiculous rates like $7. At least with those ones I can just say I'm not interested and move on.

But with the other girls, I get stuck. I have asked a few "what kind of arrangements are you looking for?" or "what are you open to" and they just ghosted me.

I have also had several girls give me their number and then when I send them a text they don't respond.

But more what I am asking at this point is how do you do it once you meet and greet at a coffee shop or wherever? Do you just start throwing numbers out there? Are there actually women on Seeking who aren't looking for ppm?

**FingerLicking** · 09-09-25 18:17

Originally Posted by Dcsd12 [View Original Post]

Would someone mind sharing with me how to make things work on Seeking? I signed up and have been chatting with several women but am hesitant to meet up without a "deal" in place. It seems like everyone talks really vaguely on there. PM if you prefer.

I haven't been in the game for a while but here is what I did. Get the conversation off Seeking asap. Be prepared to show pictures of yourself or do Facetime. Discuss the arrangement without being to explicit. Meet in public first. If public meeting goes well, then setup the first date. Do not pay anything until the end of the date. Avoid allowances.

**EpicSD** · 09-09-25 11:17

Originally Posted by Dcsd12 [View Original Post]

Would someone mind sharing with me how to make things work on Seeking? I signed up and have been chatting with several women but am hesitant to meet up without a "deal" in place. It seems like everyone talks really vaguely on there. PM if you prefer.

After a convo has started I ask if they'd like to switch to texting and discuss details of an arrangement. In that text discussion I let them know how I go about starting an arrangement. I'm single, so meeting in a public place isn't an issue (actual SBs prefer this, hookers don't care), we feel things out and then potentially spend one on one time together. If+ we have fun then repeat. I Have had a LOT of success with this approach. I don't use ppm in my pitch I say "per meet allowance" so if things go wrong they won't screen shot it and send it to seeking which will lead to being banned. And I never use any language like this on the seeking messenger- they could ban you, they monitor messages. Hope that helps.

**Dcsd12** · 09-06-25 14:15

Would someone mind sharing with me how to make things work on Seeking? I signed up and have been chatting with several women but am hesitant to meet up without a "deal" in place. It seems like everyone talks really vaguely on there. PM if you prefer.

**RimJim** · 07-16-25 22:24

Anyone signed up or had any luck?

Originally Posted by RimJim [View Original Post]

Has anyone used and / or had any luck with the SLN site?

**RimJim** · 07-13-25 23:40

Has anyone used and / or had any luck with the SLN site?

**Gl0987** · 07-09-25 15:46

One of the girls I've been seeing is looking for more business. She's 19, latina, petite, no ass but nice tits, pretty (in my opinion). She's chill but not GFE and no bare. If you're interested in sharing info, send a msg.

**Sdny2012** · 07-08-25 14:03

Newbie to this but do y'all pay the $100 + monthly fee for seeking to connect with these ladies? Seems like a stupid high fee for an app / website but I'm new to this so maybe I'm the stupid one?

**SugarLifeNow** · 07-07-25 00:57

New SLN Girl Crystal 33 SD.

https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Crystal1212/

**SugarLifeNow** · 07-03-25 00:48

New Beautiful SLN Girl Bliss 19, Loves shopping and restaurants. Submissive and affectionate, loves to kiss while she rides daddy, bare is ok, wants to try a 3 sum MFF.

https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/babybliss/