Sugarbabies and Arrangements

[JasonDono]

I think she's going through some stuff because her availability has waned. I can go into more detail about it through PM, but she has a lot going on. My usual plan whenever I try to get together with someone is to have at least 4 to 5 options around so that if one falls through, I can go with another. The problem is that there can be some days where everyone flakes (which happened to me this weekend actually), so it's good to always stay adaptable and keep your cool whenever things go awry. Women in general can be scatter-brained and don't really consider anything outside of their own personal feelings or how they feel about a situation, so there are going to be a lot of times where they make plans on the fly and not care to tell you anything because they're hooking up with a guy they'd rather see over you. Most women are talking to 20-30 guys at a time, and if they're really hot, it'll be at least 50 guys. They have more options than we do, so we have to be either quick on the draw or patient with their excuses until we get a chance to see them.

Case in point, for the past year I've been seeing this one single mom I met off of Seeking on and off, and she can never get together when I want to, so I keep her on the backburner until she hits me up. Usually her feeler texts are something like "Where've you been?" or "I miss you," etc. Etc. In most scenarios, I'd cut her off, but because I know she's scatter-brained, I put up with it because she's got a great body, performs well, and is hot. But I make sure to keep my options open, because I know if I focus on her constantly, I'll never get any enjoyment out of the hobby. It's a weird situation, because modern dating being as bad as it is extends to the hobby. If most guys were getting what they need at home or women were more approachable, I think most of us wouldn't even be in the hobby at all, honestly.

Yeah I get that, it was just more of the complete 180. She took the initiative to text me first because I told her I was available and we talked about a meeting to them just suddenly give me a weird " I have a headache" excuse. Supposedly we're going to meet tonight though, so we'll see. It took her like 3 Or 4 days to follow up with me but she finally did. We'll see if tonight actually happens though.

[BDingas]

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...f-a1dd69caa51e

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...e-0150b2e93a6d

Anyone have any insight? Been chatting but coms are super slow.

[TSmash]

No Mr. Wonderful, she asked for $$ both times. First time was great, second time was a complete 180. Won't be a third time at $$, and certainly not at $$ or $$.

You met her for $$? I've been talking with her and she said she's a firm $$$$ Ain't no way I'm doing that.

[TheEndlessEdge]

Fair enough. Thank you. She gave the headache excuse for this weekend instead of telling me the truth. And then randomly texted me yesterday saying she could meet up this week but I'm out of town so I'll try with her next weekend but I'm not terribly worried about it. You guys are ridiculously more patient than I am. It's why I appreciate these posts you guys make so much. I just can't do it.

I think she's going through some stuff because her availability has waned. I can go into more detail about it through PM, but she has a lot going on. My usual plan whenever I try to get together with someone is to have at least 4 to 5 options around so that if one falls through, I can go with another. The problem is that there can be some days where everyone flakes (which happened to me this weekend actually), so it's good to always stay adaptable and keep your cool whenever things go awry. Women in general can be scatter-brained and don't really consider anything outside of their own personal feelings or how they feel about a situation, so there are going to be a lot of times where they make plans on the fly and not care to tell you anything because they're hooking up with a guy they'd rather see over you. Most women are talking to 20-30 guys at a time, and if they're really hot, it'll be at least 50 guys. They have more options than we do, so we have to be either quick on the draw or patient with their excuses until we get a chance to see them.

Case in point, for the past year I've been seeing this one single mom I met off of Seeking on and off, and she can never get together when I want to, so I keep her on the backburner until she hits me up. Usually her feeler texts are something like "Where've you been?" or "I miss you," etc. Etc. In most scenarios, I'd cut her off, but because I know she's scatter-brained, I put up with it because she's got a great body, performs well, and is hot. But I make sure to keep my options open, because I know if I focus on her constantly, I'll never get any enjoyment out of the hobby. It's a weird situation, because modern dating being as bad as it is extends to the hobby. If most guys were getting what they need at home or women were more approachable, I think most of us wouldn't even be in the hobby at all, honestly.

[JasonDono]

She's legit. Her comms are terrible but I've been able to see her quite a few times (she's very close to my spot). She pops up on the site off and on so you got to move quickly with her.

Fair enough. Thank you. She gave the headache excuse for this weekend instead of telling me the truth. And then randomly texted me yesterday saying she could meet up this week but I'm out of town so I'll try with her next weekend but I'm not terribly worried about it. You guys are ridiculously more patient than I am. It's why I appreciate these posts you guys make so much. I just can't do it.

[TheEndlessEdge]

I feel Like I may be losing my mind? I'm currently talking with this girl and I swear I saw some reports on her that she was fun and good to go but I can't find them for the life of me. All I could really find was that her comms were bad, which is proving to be at least moderately true. And that was from a long time ago. I went all the way back to April of this year and couldn't find what I thought I saw. Anybody have any insight?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-92ebf8ed0871

She's legit. Her comms are terrible but I've been able to see her quite a few times (she's very close to my spot). She pops up on the site off and on so you got to move quickly with her.

[JasonDono]

I feel Like I may be losing my mind? I'm currently talking with this girl and I swear I saw some reports on her that she was fun and good to go but I can't find them for the life of me. All I could really find was that her comms were bad, which is proving to be at least moderately true. And that was from a long time ago. I went all the way back to April of this year and couldn't find what I thought I saw. Anybody have any insight?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-92ebf8ed0871

Never mind, I don't know if she's a time waster or just doesn't like me. She had messaged me on SA first and I didn't see it right away, so I sent her a message telling her that I don't get on there much to see messages so text me Because I was free this weekend. She texted me So I figured she was interested, so I asked her if she was interested in meeting up this weekend and she said "I have a headache so probably not. " Wild excuse to use througy text.

[JasonDono]

I feel Like I may be losing my mind? I'm currently talking with this girl and I swear I saw some reports on her that she was fun and good to go but I can't find them for the life of me. All I could really find was that her comms were bad, which is proving to be at least moderately true. And that was from a long time ago. I went all the way back to April of this year and couldn't find what I thought I saw. Anybody have any insight?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-92ebf8ed0871

[PainWint]

Wondering if anyone has experience with this one?

We were communicating outside the site and she seemed to be open to a lot. She got herself in some trouble and no longer responds to text messages.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...8-a0e282b78464

[Tp1022]

So at $$ her performance goes 180 ? So you saying you get what you pay for?

No Mr. Wonderful, she asked for $$ both times. First time was great, second time was a complete 180. Won't be a third time at $$, and certainly not at $$ or $$.

[MrWonderfull69]

Even at $$$ you're overpaying by $. If you do see her again, don't be surprised by a 180 in performance and attitude.

So at $$ her performance goes 180 ? So you saying you get what you pay for?

[Tp1022]

I dreamt of Freya last night she was on Tryst did outcall for $$$$ for an hour. Nice skinny little goth biker chick. Lots of tattoos little titties with pierced nipples. But her kitty was pretty tight and pink. She was pretty nervous and I tasted weed on her breath. She has a pierced tongue. She came on my face several times. Pussy is a little tight so condom sex. Went through 2 condoms and she got me off a 3rd time in 69. She is great but wouldn't do $$$$ if I did again she would be good for $$$ for hour imo.

Even at $$$ you're overpaying by $. If you do see her again, don't be surprised by a 180 in performance and attitude.

[MrWonderfull69]

So I actually met her, she was working at a sex shop. Said was definitely and BBFS for sure. Agree on $1. 5, when arrive she is high as a kite and says that she never agreed to BBFS. She had bought a room in Fairlawn. Looks like she is slipping. I then saw she was on SA. I would be careful of wasting time on her. I just left the room when she was trying to negotiate a higher rate. Very skinny goth looks but only ok attractive.

I dreamt of Freya last night she was on Tryst did outcall for $$$$ for an hour. Nice skinny little goth biker chick. Lots of tattoos little titties with pierced nipples. But her kitty was pretty tight and pink. She was pretty nervous and I tasted weed on her breath. She has a pierced tongue. She came on my face several times. Pussy is a little tight so condom sex. Went through 2 condoms and she got me off a 3rd time in 69. She is great but wouldn't do $$$$ if I did again she would be good for $$$ for hour imo.

[Kabbakabba]

So I actually met her, she was working at a sex shop. Said was definitely and BBFS for sure. Agree on $1. 5, when arrive she is high as a kite and says that she never agreed to BBFS. She had bought a room in Fairlawn. Looks like she is slipping. I then saw she was on SA. I would be careful of wasting time on her. I just left the room when she was trying to negotiate a higher rate. Very skinny goth looks but only ok attractive.

300 or more, she asked.

[Kabbakabba]

Hi Guys.

I have been seeing one I met off SB for a while. She is 21 chubby but very into this. She started off slow but now all three are open and she loves it. She is asking me to set up a threesome. We are both eastsiders so I am thinking just get a room off 90. Seniors and people I have shared with in the past only.

Thanks.

BS.

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