Sugarbabies?

[Wielic]

I have been steering clear of Seeking lately, looking for an alternative. I started poking around sugardaddy.com and noticed several girls from seeking AND pros using the site. It's a credit system, so I am always skeptical with that setup; always seems like they find ways to drain them fast. Anyone had any luck there? I'd toss the 60 bucks at it of I knew there was a somewhat legitimate chance of connecting with a real woman. Thanks everyone.

[HTownHobbyist]

She's a pro or former pro.

Used to live on the KY side of the river, if I remember right her profile was called Beth859.

What he said. Although I couldn't meet her when she surfaced the last time, the general consensus was that she was a good time. This time around seems to have put on weight.

[WarlockKy]

Hey guys, just checking with you if you have any info or experience with this one, nothing has triggered my spidey sense to go off but I wanted to be extra cautious. Thanks in advance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...0-faed79a40a93

She's a pro or former pro.

Used to live on the KY side of the river, if I remember right her profile was called Beth859.

[IGiveVitaminD]

Hey guys, just checking with you if you have any info or experience with this one, nothing has triggered my spidey sense to go off but I wanted to be extra cautious. Thanks in advance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...0-faed79a40a93

[ABigBull71]

I get this. But I feel I am a bit more than this for some girls and others will take less. For example. The single mom who I think just wants to have a distraction from the kids. Is thrilled with a nice room and $200. The 23 year old Latina. Wants $400 and hosts when her roommates are not around and I pay it. She is hot. And if I was at an AMP I would spend $300 for FS and it would be over in less than an hour. The babies I have found are there for at least 2 rounds and multiple hours. My days of multiple rounds in 3 hours are over. LOL. But definitely a couple before she wants to leave. One thing is clear. I have come across more GPS in the last 2 weeks than I thought I would. Some of these girls have lost their mind. I had one tell me she wanted $200 for the MNG. I told her I was not in the business of paying someone to show up at a bar and let me buy them drinks and then they leave if we do not have a connection. She said "well my last arrangement started that way and I thought it was fair". To which I replied. Well congrats. I don't think many men would think that way. And I certainly do not. But good luck to you. If you just want to grab drinks and see if you are interested in continuing we can do that. Otherwise I am going to keep looking. About an hour later. She replied. Drinks sound fun. There is a nice hotel around the corner if we want privacy. LOL. So that is Friday afternoon. We will see.

My non-negotiable is 250 with uber. Else 300. I don't think any SB is worth more than that.

Ob.

[Observant]

Curious as to what you guys are having success negotiating ppm to? The girl below told me she was getting 7 $$ ppm. I nearly choked and then politely wrote back that I wished her the best of luck.

https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Chelsea/

My non-negotiable is 250 with uber. Else 300. I don't think any SB is worth more than that.

Ob.

[ABigBull71]

Curious as to what you guys are having success negotiating ppm to? The girl below told me she was getting 7 $$ ppm. I nearly choked and then politely wrote back that I wished her the best of luck.

https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Chelsea/

[GolfingNky]

Has anyone gotten anything going with her? She has been on the site for a while.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...4-3aaf274181c6

[MambaForevaa]

Well I am glad you have found your way. I don't feel like I have that kind of game and I would disagree with you that they all will come down. So this way is not to bad so far. If they all did come down eventually, then we would not have GPS!

That is why they have been saying "More than one way to skin a cat" for over 100 years! Good luck to all of you and stay safe!

You always exit with the door open so you can keep peeking in few weeks or months down the road. The fact theyre giving you quotes means they put out and their price doesn't depend on their looks it depends on what's going on in their life that day. I agree with though different strokes for different folks. I've overpaid because the girl was so hot that I had to have her and I've also had the same girl for literally a 1/4 of what I paid because she just needed bills paid LOL. Anyway enjoy the journey and have fun.

[ABigBull71]

I have found there is no need to do all of this. The girls that will put out are pretty obvious. Be direct without being crass and they will usually tell you a price. Don't counter but rather talk about things you enjoy during sex and what she likes. Keep it about sex. Even if the price is steep don't counter right away! They will come down on their own eventually. I have a sugarbaby I'm fuckin for $200 and she quoted me $600 in the beginning.

Well I am glad you have found your way. I don't feel like I have that kind of game and I would disagree with you that they all will come down. So this way is not to bad so far. If they all did come down eventually, then we would not have GPS!

That is why they have been saying "More than one way to skin a cat" for over 100 years! Good luck to all of you and stay safe!

[MambaForevaa]

So. I am dipping my toe in the Bowl for the first time and have just grown tired of AMP's and Pro's. I really had no idea where to start as you can see from my past few posts. But huge shoutout to an admin here (not sure he wants to be names) who sent me a link of archived posts that was a treasure trove of information and help.

After reading about 50-75 posts I adjusted my approach and followed HollywoodGuys 4 - 5 part message system and sent about 30-40 messages to POT's.modifying each one a little to show I read their bio and am not just a bot on a mass email. I received back about 20 messages and most of them granting access to private photos. From there I sent message 2 asking to take the conversation to email and off the site. Out of the 20 about 5 have done that so far. 3 have not replied back after that message which laid out what I am willing to give in support per meeting. But 2 have.

The first one is a single mom of 1, 25 year old AA girl who said " seems fine. I just want someone that will be consistent and help me when I need it with reasonable items. And I am lonely and looking for some fun". I offered her a M&G in public or o private. She said public. I said no problem. And if you feel comfortable we can find a place for intimacy where we can be alone. She said it sounds good. I have my M&G with her Tuesday afternoon. Looking at her pictures I would say she is 7/7/?

The second is also a single mom 33 why. O white woman, dirty blonde hair, probably an 8/8/ Offered her the same public M&G first and she said "I am fine meeting you anywhere private to start. I am just looking for one SD to have an ongoing NSA relationship and share some great experiences. I have no demands of money. Anything you give me I am sure will be fair and I will show you my appreciation". We are meeting next Thursday. Since that agreement. We have begun texting. I am using GV. And the text have turned fairly sexual at times. She sent me a shot of her laying in bed. And this looks to be a lot of fun with this one.

Anyway. That is where I am as of now. I will report back on how these go. It seems to be that most of the girls on here between 18-23 have major GPS. And are just unrealistic. I did have. A. smoke show of a POT send me a full nude and said she would not meet for less than $$ I told her if she can get that. Don't let him go. It is too much for me and I will find someone else. She had a. Good comeback and said."I am sure you can find someone. You are a good looking man. But will she be as hot as me? I laughed at loud as she had a point. But still it's not worth that. As we all know. We are not paying them for the sex. She are paying them to leave and not be a psycho after the meeting.

Thanks again too all of those who have given their advice. The Bowl seems warm. Come on in. LOL.

I have found there is no need to do all of this. The girls that will put out are pretty obvious. Be direct without being crass and they will usually tell you a price. Don't counter but rather talk about things you enjoy during sex and what she likes. Keep it about sex. Even if the price is steep don't counter right away! They will come down on their own eventually. I have a sugarbaby I'm fuckin for $200 and she quoted me $600 in the beginning.

[ABigBull71]

So. I am dipping my toe in the Bowl for the first time and have just grown tired of AMP's and Pro's. I really had no idea where to start as you can see from my past few posts. But huge shoutout to an admin here (not sure he wants to be names) who sent me a link of archived posts that was a treasure trove of information and help.

After reading about 50-75 posts I adjusted my approach and followed HollywoodGuys 4 - 5 part message system and sent about 30-40 messages to POT's.modifying each one a little to show I read their bio and am not just a bot on a mass email. I received back about 20 messages and most of them granting access to private photos. From there I sent message 2 asking to take the conversation to email and off the site. Out of the 20 about 5 have done that so far. 3 have not replied back after that message which laid out what I am willing to give in support per meeting. But 2 have.

The first one is a single mom of 1, 25 year old AA girl who said " seems fine. I just want someone that will be consistent and help me when I need it with reasonable items. And I am lonely and looking for some fun". I offered her a M&G in public or o private. She said public. I said no problem. And if you feel comfortable we can find a place for intimacy where we can be alone. She said it sounds good. I have my M&G with her Tuesday afternoon. Looking at her pictures I would say she is 7/7/?

The second is also a single mom 33 why. O white woman, dirty blonde hair, probably an 8/8/ Offered her the same public M&G first and she said "I am fine meeting you anywhere private to start. I am just looking for one SD to have an ongoing NSA relationship and share some great experiences. I have no demands of money. Anything you give me I am sure will be fair and I will show you my appreciation". We are meeting next Thursday. Since that agreement. We have begun texting. I am using GV. And the text have turned fairly sexual at times. She sent me a shot of her laying in bed. And this looks to be a lot of fun with this one.

Anyway. That is where I am as of now. I will report back on how these go. It seems to be that most of the girls on here between 18-23 have major GPS. And are just unrealistic. I did have. A. smoke show of a POT send me a full nude and said she would not meet for less than $$ I told her if she can get that. Don't let him go. It is too much for me and I will find someone else. She had a. Good comeback and said."I am sure you can find someone. You are a good looking man. But will she be as hot as me? I laughed at loud as she had a point. But still it's not worth that. As we all know. We are not paying them for the sex. She are paying them to leave and not be a psycho after the meeting.

Thanks again too all of those who have given their advice. The Bowl seems warm. Come on in. LOL.

[Zeotch2]

Body type filter and listed as an attribute is gone. It amazes me how some SB's know just the right camera angle to game the eyes. LOL.

Any mention of PPM or numbers results in an alert box. Yea. No sh*t Sherlock. We are on the site to give these pseudo escorts money. Now my goal is to have some basic alignment ent and get them to text. Requests for signal, WhatsApp, telegram, Snapchat and only fans is politely declined.

Safe hunting fellow mongers.

Ob.

Beware the profiles that have no full body shots.

[Observant]

Body type filter and listed as an attribute is gone. It amazes me how some SB's know just the right camera angle to game the eyes. LOL.

Any mention of PPM or numbers results in an alert box. Yea. No sh*t Sherlock. We are on the site to give these pseudo escorts money. Now my goal is to have some basic alignment ent and get them to text. Requests for signal, WhatsApp, telegram, Snapchat and only fans is politely declined.

Safe hunting fellow mongers.

Ob.

[MagicMan1123]

I am also in a strong financial position, but do want to waste money nor get taken advantage of. I know some of these girls / woman will be much more experienced at this than I am and have an upper hand in negotiating from that experience but also because my small brain will get involved and reason will leave. Which I do not want to happen. LOL. I see secretbenefits / SA /sugardaddy.com/ sugarlifenow etc. I just reactivated my secretbenefit profile and had a lot of credits still there I did not use.

I guess I could use some advice on how to you make the move from messaging to meeting the first time. Assume the first meeting for most of them will be checking compatibility and setting terms and ground rules. Or am I off here. Again. I apologize. But am new to this. Am just a bit tired of the escort route and the AMP's. Looks like the cost is about the same as the escort route but the girls I am seeing are a bit more attractive. I don't know. Maybe I am off in my thinking. Set me straight. Or give me some direction. Anything will help and I appreciate it.

I typically message them right out of the gate with a "what's your perfect arrangement look like?" And go from there. Once they reply with whatever it is I always say I am looking for something consistent whether I am or not. Then I explain that I always do a no expectations, on either side, meet and greet before any paid dates. Once they seem cool I exchange contact info, usually telegram or an internet phone number, and start talking about ppm / allowance expectations. I make sure to let them know what I expect as well. 3+ hours / rounds and some good company in between, maybe dinner or an event if I am feeling them. Making sure not to be too heavy on the "I'm going to fuck you silly as much as I can" part as that will scare them away. I'm clear but not too direct. They know what you are looking for so don't come off creepy with the sexual talk before the first date while still letting them know you expect to fuck multiple times per date. If they want an allowance I'll let them know that it comes months down the road once I know they won't take the money and run and redirect back to a PPM. Hope that helps. DM me if you want to discuss more.