Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

**Dollersine** · 07-22-25 14:56

Originally Posted by SnatchHappy [View Original Post]

They should be coming to you unless you can't host. I never traveled, they came to me. General within norm for travel is 40 min so if you want them to come to you pick girls who are within 40 min from you. A decent looking white girl who is normal and doesn't have demons will be 400. An AA girl 300 but if you lower your standards and get a girl slightly more hood you might find for 250. The SB scene has gotten very GPS since Covid and all the new money in the Carolinas.

Thanks, I can't host but it is difficult to find reasonable and not scammers who want money up front and I will Not doing that.

Still if any one has a lead on someone who is up by the lake area that can host, thanks.

**Member #6975** · 07-22-25 07:28

Originally Posted by Dollersine [View Original Post]

Wow, these girls out ther are asking the moon! 700,500 and not to say they are ugly by no means (if their picture are accurate) but not drop dead beauties. Very frustrating and I keep getting the ones who need money to fix cars, out of the area, picture sellers or only online. Help any leads up north by the lake or surrounding area would be great, just don't really want to travel to s Charlotte. Stay safe out there and thanks.

They should be coming to you unless you can't host. I never traveled, they came to me. General within norm for travel is 40 min so if you want them to come to you pick girls who are within 40 min from you. A decent looking white girl who is normal and doesn't have demons will be 400. An AA girl 300 but if you lower your standards and get a girl slightly more hood you might find for 250. The SB scene has gotten very GPS since Covid and all the new money in the Carolinas.

**Dollersine** · 07-21-25 22:59

Wow, these girls out ther are asking the moon! 700,500 and not to say they are ugly by no means (if their picture are accurate) but not drop dead beauties. Very frustrating and I keep getting the ones who need money to fix cars, out of the area, picture sellers or only online. Help any leads up north by the lake or surrounding area would be great, just don't really want to travel to s Charlotte. Stay safe out there and thanks.

**Dollersine** · 07-20-25 23:28

Originally Posted by Grasshopping [View Original Post]

I have a 25% discount code that seems to be working still. Just use this link.

https://members.seeking.com/billing/...s?promo=c96maH

Thanks, I already took a 30 day membership.

Lots of no replays people contacting me from other areas and a few who want way too much, almost a waist but I am still trying.

**Grasshopping** · 07-20-25 19:35

Originally Posted by Dollersine [View Original Post]

Well gents I was thinking a about dipping my toes into it again. Couple of questions 1 is seeking worth it I was thinking of trying it for a month. 2 does anyone have like a discount code to use for their rate? Appreciate any help out there. Stay safe.

I have a 25% discount code that seems to be working still. Just use this link.

https://members.seeking.com/billing/...s?promo=c96maH

**DriveHard** · 07-15-25 08:15

Originally Posted by TJ619 [View Original Post]

I RTFF and still have questions on how to use a prepaid card on this site. Used a visa vanilla card and waited 24 hours after it was activated but it was still declined. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

The physical cards got hacked on a large scale so many places deny now. The Vanilla visa e-gift cards will work. You have to pay with a real credit card though instead of cash.

**Dollersine** · 07-13-25 23:11

Well gents I was thinking a about dipping my toes into it again. Couple of questions 1 is seeking worth it I was thinking of trying it for a month. 2 does anyone have like a discount code to use for their rate? Appreciate any help out there. Stay safe.

**TJ619** · 07-13-25 12:24

I RTFF and still have questions on how to use a prepaid card on this site. Used a visa vanilla card and waited 24 hours after it was activated but it was still declined. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

**DriveHard** · 07-10-25 18:23

Originally Posted by ScTraveler92 [View Original Post]

I've noticed a lot of the girls on Seeking tend to use their real numbers which I am shocked by. I myself use a burner. I am not married but I like to keep myself as private as possible in the space. Do you guys give your real number to the girls? Anyone else shocked that some girls give out their real one?

Never do it. Check these sites for your real number and you will see why.

https://www.truepeoplesearch.com/

https://www.fastpeoplesearch.com/

**ScTraveler92** · 07-08-25 23:55

I've noticed a lot of the girls on Seeking tend to use their real numbers which I am shocked by. I myself use a burner. I am not married but I like to keep myself as private as possible in the space. Do you guys give your real number to the girls? Anyone else shocked that some girls give out their real one?

**Swimback** · 07-08-25 11:18

Originally Posted by SugarLifeNow [View Original Post]

New SLN Girl Alessandra 24.

https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Alessandra/

I was going to give constructive feedback and then stopped myself when I realized I don't want you to get better at shilling.

**LV Fun** · 07-08-25 07:43

Originally Posted by SugarLifeNow [View Original Post]

New SLN Girl Alessandra 24.

https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Alessandra/

If you want SLN to become relevant then fix your search, if I try to search under Charlotte I get someone out of Iowa.

**SugarLifeNow** · 07-08-25 00:36

New SLN Girl Alessandra 24.

https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Alessandra/

**ScTraveler92** · 07-07-25 00:14

Originally Posted by NewToC [View Original Post]

I see the monthly cost for Seeking is like $109. Ouch. How does it work?

Do you just message the women, find out the price that suits them and then go on a date that typically ends with circling the bases? Or is it purely a dating site and it's really a competition for everyone and sex is the furthest thing from a given?

I just subscribed at a discounted rate of 85 bucks this month. Imo its worth it for the month if you want to communicate with as most chicks as possible and then subscribe again in a few months FWIW.

**Bachelor1234** · 07-05-25 12:24

Originally Posted by NewToC [View Original Post]

I see the monthly cost for Seeking is like $109. Ouch. How does it work?

Do you just message the women, find out the price that suits them and then go on a date that typically ends with circling the bases? Or is it purely a dating site and it's really a competition for everyone and sex is the furthest thing from a given?

People's thoughts about Seeking differs. Some hate it. Some think it used to be great but has gone downhill. Some swear by it. I've been on and off it for 6 years, so I feel more positively about it than most. It pretends to be a dating site, and some people use it that way, but most use it for other purposes.

You create a profile (new members now have to verify their face with a selfie) and have access to ladies who have created a profile. Some ladies will want to date you. Some ladies will invite you over for sex.

It works well for me for a couple of reasons: I like to get to know the ladies and go out to dinner. I don't want to be with someone who is watching the clock and getting ready for their next appointment with a guy. When it works well, I see them regularly and we sometimes travel together. On the site, I've found very hot college and grad students who are looking for a thrill on the side. There are also pros on the site too.

Never discuss $ on the site. Good luck finding a gem.