Non Pro's

[Papicho]

I got straight up robbed at gunpoint by this girl and her boyfriend / dirt bag.

This happened like one month ago, I am finally over it.

After arranging a meet up for like 2 months (she is very flaky), we finally met to have a date for 3 benjis. We agreed to meet at Juanita Beach at 11 pm and then rent a room at the motel 6 nearby in Kirkland. She didn't show up until after midnight (first red flag). Once she arrived, I could tell she is from the pics but she doesn't look like her profile pics at all (second red flag). Pictures are probably from some years ago, now she is a little overweight, crackhead face, mentally ill (you can tell by the way she talks and looks at you), I am not a neurologist but I can see there's some brain damage there, probably hard drugs. She looked very wasted away. I should've just stopped it right there, but at that moment I just wanted to nut, I didn't think straight up.

Once she got into my car, she immediately demanded the money up front (another red flag), which I foolishly gave it to her. At that moment, she immediately changed her tone and version of the agreement, saying that 3 is not what we agreed and started to yell at me and get aggressive, we started to argue back and forth. This must've been her strategy to distract me and not realize that someone was approaching from my side. It was too late by the time I realized a guy already open my door (it wasn't locked for some reason), and point a gun to me (I couldn't tell if it was an actual gun, but I could tell it was a white blondish guy with baggy clothes, some variant of trailer trash crackhead looking guy. He was also very aggressive demanding my wallet and the car keys. Without the gun, I could easily take him down since he was slinky and no more than 5'9, but I didn't how to react at that moment since I have never been in similar situation before. Before I knew it, the girl was long gone.

I proceed to hand him all the money I have (another 300 ish dollars) ("luckily" when I meet someone new, I never take with me my whole wallet, personal phone and credit cards, I use a burner with no money apps, to be safe. I was already accepting the fact of losing my car, but it occurred to me to tell the guy that this is a rental and has GPS and they will find it quickly the same night (my car is fairly new, 2 years old, loos like a rental cause I keep it clean LOL). He stopped for a second and just ran away with the money and burner, I could tell there was a third person (or it was the girl?) waiting on a car (old gray sadan, couldn't tell the make / model) like a block away. He quickly hopped in the car and they drove away. I am just glad I drove back home, couldn't sleep that night.

After long thinking, I think this was a group of crackheads playing gangsters, but I didn't want to take any risks that night. Also I'm surprise they pulled this one in Kirkland, it is a very safe area for this type of games.

Anyways, be aware fellas.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...e-23e06a421c9a

[CuttingEdge]

Personally, I've grown to prefer SB. You definitely want to be selective with the credits you spend. ONLY open messages from girls you know you want to see. DON'T unlock photo albums unless you need more pics to make a judgment. DON'T message every girl but instead go for profiles that show high effort at engagement. Once you learn those ropes your success rate goes up.

If you go for every sweet in the candy shop you'll find yourself broke, but personally I feel like by exercising a little restraint I get more value that way than Seeking's flat fee. The quality of girls and number of scammer / bots / pic sellers / TikTokers etc. is about the same between the sites as far I can tell.

[Marko Ramius]

I've had success on SB too. A lot of people hate the "credits" system but I found in practice it spends about the same as an SA membership. Yes, it is scammy and yes there are some goofy incentives for girls to contact you just once and ghost. But on the average I get about the same number of girls without a lot of the obvious corruption that SA has.

The only thing that I see that is weird about SB is that in spite of the really explicit ads a lot of the girls, especially a lot of the younger ones, have zero clue about what they actually signed up for. Which if there is some other site feeding their profiles might actually make sense.

When I talk about "obvious corruption" on SA my big pet peeve (and why I am banned and will never go back) is that a lot of girls get their premium membership by working for SA. Which lets them read your emails and stalk and harass you if they want to.

[PopItFank69]

Huh?? SugarDaddyMeet doesn't use credits, and it's been around since 2007. SecretBenefits uses credits, which began around 2015.

I think you're getting it mixed up with SugarDaddy.com, which does seem to be using the same database. Even the verification videos on SecretBenefits/SugarDaddy have the girls saying the same "let me be your secret" line.

Yeah, he's mistaken. Sugardaddymeet is not affiliated with Secretbenefits. SB does have mirror sites though, sugardaddy.com being one of them.

[Berol Loz]

I've been having really good luck there recently. There don't seem to be as many scams and scammers there and the ladies are all down to meet and DTF.

There was one on there who was getting a little bit of cold feet about meeting and I texted her a photo of $400 in 20's and told her it was all for her. Ninety minutes later she was kneeling in front of me at a Holiday Inn Express.

Nice, I've had good luck on that site too. There's definaltey a lot scammers on all these sites, but it's good to hear some good news stories too.

[Berol Loz]

For anyone who doesn't know. SugarDaddyMeet and SecretBenefits is the same website (same database, content, interface) - but targeted to the two sides through different marketing sources.

Huh?? SugarDaddyMeet doesn't use credits, and it's been around since 2007. SecretBenefits uses credits, which began around 2015.

I think you're getting it mixed up with SugarDaddy.com, which does seem to be using the same database. Even the verification videos on SecretBenefits/SugarDaddy have the girls saying the same "let me be your secret" line.

[LonelyMan718]

What's the fees like for us?

90 for 3 months, unlimited messages.

[PoundVages]

Speaking of alternatives to SA, how's Secret Benefits these days? I tried it a while back and wasted $60 worth of credits on 10 girls who didn't respond.

Same. It's a very suspicious site with lots of online indicators and tons of messages waiting to be unlocked. I got 1 response that went nowhere. I liked the verification videos but the whole site is designed around micro transactions to an insane degree. I gave up on it.

[Sword Mightier]

For anyone who doesn't know. SugarDaddyMeet and SecretBenefits is the same website (same database, content, interface) - but targeted to the two sides through different marketing sources.

Speaking of alternatives to SA, how's Secret Benefits these days? I tried it a while back and wasted $60 worth of credits on 10 girls who didn't respond. Though now with the video verifications I feel helps prove legitimacy of the girls. Considering 80% of women look absolutely horrendous in those videos, I assume they don't know the site is showing them to us men LOL.

[PopItFank69]

Speaking of alternatives to SA, how's Secret Benefits these days? I tried it a while back and wasted $60 worth of credits on 10 girls who didn't respond. Though now with the video verifications I feel helps prove legitimacy of the girls. Considering 80% of women look absolutely horrendous in those videos, I assume they don't know the site is showing them to us men LOL.

[PoonHound1969]

I've been having really good luck there recently. There don't seem to be as many scams and scammers there and the ladies are all down to meet and DTF.

There was one on there who was getting a little bit of cold feet about meeting and I texted her a photo of $400 in 20's and told her it was all for her. Ninety minutes later she was kneeling in front of me at a Holiday Inn Express.

What's the fees like for us?

[Marko Ramius]

Hmmm 400 is more than I am paying fwiw on sdm. Most girls will take 250.

I consider 400 reasonable for a girl who is in shape and attractive, shows up on time, and allows all activities raw.

If they can't show up on time they aren't worth it at any price.

[Markro3000]

Hmmm 400 is more than I am paying fwiw on sdm. Most girls will take 250.

Who was it?

I had minimal luck with SDM and let my subscription lapse. You guys are making me think it's time to re-up.

Curious about your tactics and any good prospects too!

[LonelyMan718]

I've been having really good luck there recently. There don't seem to be as many scams and scammers there and the ladies are all down to meet and DTF.

There was one on there who was getting a little bit of cold feet about meeting and I texted her a photo of $400 in 20's and told her it was all for her. Ninety minutes later she was kneeling in front of me at a Holiday Inn Express.

Hmmm 400 is more than I am paying fwiw on sdm. Most girls will take 250.

Who was it?

[Marko Ramius]

I've been having really good luck there recently. There don't seem to be as many scams and scammers there and the ladies are all down to meet and DTF.

There was one on there who was getting a little bit of cold feet about meeting and I texted her a photo of $400 in 20's and told her it was all for her. Ninety minutes later she was kneeling in front of me at a Holiday Inn Express.