Arrangement Reports

[ThickWallet]

I was banned before for soliciting. I have a free account but wanted to upgrade to paid and find a new SB.

How can I upgrade my membership without triggering a new ban?

Also, what giftcard can I use to avoid giving my real information? Thanks.

[BeNewAgain]

Has anyone had arrangements with "carsynes" on Instagram? She looks like a lot of fun, and I'm pretty sure she's on Seeking. I believe she used to live in Milwaukee and is now globe trotting. Prob full time sugar dating and making a nice living haha.

[Donger999]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...e-268cd0c38df1

SB or pro? Seems to have a clear fee structure that leads me to believe either significant experience or pro / semi-pro. Anyone with further knowledge please weigh in or PM me.

[Bill Underwood]

The just added a range adjustment for weight which us kind of useless because its needs to be height specific. I mean 140 may be ok if you're 5'8" rather than 5'1" right?

Yes, I would not hesitate at 5'8" and 140 lbs but at 5'0", that's a curvy girl.

[Cdds20]

Yeah, that change sucks. All my saved searched are filled with junk now.

[Donger999]

They have body type search on the phone app still, but not if you use a web browser to access Seeking.

The just added a range adjustment for weight which us kind of useless because its needs to be height specific. I mean 140 may be ok if you're 5'8" rather than 5'1" right?

[Bill Underwood]

They have body type search on the phone app still, but not if you use a web browser to access Seeking.

They must be pushing for people to use the app vs web browser. I don't really want to switch but seeing all the "curvy" and fatties now in my search, I might have to.

[SugarDaddyX]

Body type shows for me.

They have body type search on the phone app still, but not if you use a web browser to access Seeking.

[Pyre69]

It looks like the body type search filter has been removed on Seeking. Now, you have to sift through all the fatties. Do they still have the 'body type' filter for paid accounts?

If you elected to hide your weight on your profile, other members weights is hidden as well. You have to share yours to see theirs.

[Diginonomous]

Body type shows for me.

It looks like the body type search filter has been removed on Seeking. Now, you have to sift through all the fatties. Do they still have the 'body type' filter for paid accounts?

[NonProlover]

Was talking with SweetBaby. Got a date and time set and I even confirmed that day just to be sure. The time comes and doesn't show up. Texts me the next day that she fell asleep. On to the next one.

We txted a few times and seemed like a good prospect but when it came time to meet she went silent. Also got a weird spidey sense it's a dude. Either way just waste of time.

[SugarDaddyX]

It looks like the body type search filter has been removed on Seeking. Now, you have to sift through all the fatties. Do they still have the 'body type' filter for paid accounts?

[BrickForm]

This woman originally stated she was from Milwaukee, and it's possible she's in Chicago, but like many girls they go trolling in Chicago because Milwaukee is too cheap. She blocked me after this conversation. Just thought I'd share this exchange to give you an idea on how she really feels about us. Original conversation started with me asking how I thought she was here in Milwaukee. She immediately got snippy.

One thing I've noticed over the years is that a lot of the fakes / scammers change location often. Immediate yellow flag for me.

I will give you credit, you showed your true colors in a very short amount of time. You'll find a sucker someday, I'm sure of it.

I met with this feminist *****, whom thinks she is all that. She is a hippie with woman's power up her ass. We had coffee but she was a turn-off with the same pissy attitude towards sugaring. She wants to be sex worker and treated like one. I said grab a spot on Eros or Tryst will find better luck and not have to argue with men about sb / sd relationships. She also wants 4 k to meet once a week for a few hours and cannot host. 38 and a 6 in looks with saggy tits. Of course, I declined and went about my way. The nerve with this one. Best of luck Gentlemen!

[OneRoadToWest]

This woman originally stated she was from Milwaukee, and it's possible she's in Chicago, but like many girls they go trolling in Chicago because Milwaukee is too cheap. She blocked me after this conversation. Just thought I'd share this exchange to give you an idea on how she really feels about us. Original conversation started with me asking how I thought she was here in Milwaukee. She immediately got snippy.

One thing I've noticed over the years is that a lot of the fakes / scammers change location often. Immediate yellow flag for me.

Here's the conversation.

Elizabeth.

Her: We can discuss an arrangement or not. But I don't owe you an explanation about my life.

Me: I didn't say we did. The first time I saw your profile, it said Milwaukee. My apologies for any misunderstanding.

Her: So what are you looking for "Don" 😊.

I'm looking for an arrangement similar to the one I had for 6 years until he moved. I've taken over a year off and I'm ready to look again.

Me: I'm looking for something discreet, simple, mutually beneficial. Simple, and where each of us if free to be themselves. Hard to find.

Her: Seems pretty easy to find on this site 😊.

Me: Maybe for you. Most of what I find here are scammers and escorts.

Her: There's very little difference between what you're looking for and an escort, I hope you realize that.

If you're like every other guy on here, you're looking to meet up and have sex about once a week give or take. So you're looking for an escort. At least a sex worker and no uncertain terms. Come to peace with that.

Me: Finding a sex worker is easy. Finding a friend to talk to and do things outside of the BR and still be intimate is not.

Just so you know, any time anything of financial value is part of an intimate arrangement which otherwise wouldn't take place, it's no different. But feel free to believe otherwise.

Have a wonderful weekend and best of luck.

Her: That whole essay is saying the same thing I'm saying. Escorts can hang out outside of the bedroom LOL.

For a fee. LOL.

So you're hoping to find someone on here to date for free?

Me: Didn't say that.

Her: Honestly, it seems like you're saying a whole lot of nothing for kind of no reason.

I don't get why you even feel the need to mention scammers and escorts instead of just having a nice conversation with me.

Seems like a waste of everyone's time. Just chat and have a conversation with who's in front of you.

Me: I was, but you misinterpreted my opening line. Kind of went downhill from there. I actually would have enjoyed getting to know you.

If you must know about the scammers, etc. Comment, in the first hour I found 5. I've been here a while. At least 3 known escorts. The site does nothing about it. While there may be legitimate reasons for changing locations, most often they're just looking to scam. I don't know what it's like for women on here, but I've heard bad stories. It's worse for the men.

Her: Nothing in this world is worse for men than it is for women.

The men on here pay money to sleep with attractive women. Boo hoo.

The women on here? They have to pretend all the men aren't gross, old, crusty, BORING narcissists- and are psychically vulnerable and unsafe the whole time.

We actually have sleep with gross old men we are not attracted to- and do not like their personalities- in order to have sugar daddy money.

Like I bet you consider yourself attractive, and you believe a woman would be lucky to have you. Which is diabolically delusional. 😂 But we'll all lie to you for the money.

Me: OMG this is so rich. Where to start.

First off, I have never considered myself "attractive", or all that handsome. Although I was called cute once, but she was in her 80's and had dementia. But, hey, take any compliment you can, right? I consider myself a 5/6, clean up well, which maybe takes it to a 7. I make up for it in personality. Outgoing, confident, funny, empathetic, kind, a good conversationalist. Not once in my entire life have I ever felt that a woman was "lucky to have me", it has always been the opposite. I was the lucky one.

You did get one thing right, having to "feign interest". You half-heartedly listen to our stories, fake laugh at our jokes, and save the best performance for last, reprising Meg Ryan's iconic scene in "when Harry met Sally". You think we don't know, but we do. At the end of the night, the only thing crusty is your underwear. Yet you chose this. Looking for man to "take care of you"? Whatever happened to taking care of yourself?

If anyone is a narcissist, it's you. A solid 5/6, who's shaved a few years off (all the women do), who posts a 20 year old swimsuit photo to make up for the fact that you need a wonderbra and spanx to recreate the shape you once had. And still think you're all that and a bag of chips.

I will give you credit, you showed your true colors in a very short amount of time. You'll find a sucker someday, I'm sure of it.

This is gold. Reminds me of other girls I met that think they aren't escorts but also think that men should pay them for dates.

[Derick171]

This woman originally stated she was from Milwaukee, and it's possible she's in Chicago, but like many girls they go trolling in Chicago because Milwaukee is too cheap. She blocked me after this conversation. Just thought I'd share this exchange to give you an idea on how she really feels about us. Original conversation started with me asking how I thought she was here in Milwaukee. She immediately got snippy.

She got butthurt becaue you you called her out was she was a scammer. Post her link so we can avoid her.