Non Pro's

[MrPumpNDump]

If she's on any of these sites, they are not worth seriously dating. They are here to trade their time and bodies for money, despite whatever delusional way they justify it. We are looking for something to spend our time on. Don't let yourself be given to delusions either, you are a customer and this isn't Pretty Woman. A woman who relies on this sort of thing for fast money or supplemental income is not a good prospect for anything serious, and very few girls on the "Civvy" apps are for that matter. If you want to meet someone to date seriously, do it the old fashioned way outside of these sites, you can meet far higher quality women though the gym, social clubs, events.

I know it can be tough to do it the old fashioned way, but if you're striking out, you might need some self evaluation to see what you can improve.

I think it depends on what you are looking for. I wouldn't date that vast majority of women I meet on seeking but I also wouldn't date the vast majority of women I meet IRL. I really see seeking as paying for access, as I mentioned before.

To put it in a blunt way, if a woman is not my peer, I don't care if she makes 80 k or 40 k, I'd rather have someone who is hot and fun to be around. Could I change things about myself? Sure, but this is a sex worker review board, I doubt anyone here is Ryan Reynolds.

[GreekExplorer]

One thing I've learned from being on SA for a number of years now is that even those women you meet organically (in the gym, social club, events) are the exact same women selling their bodies on the site. I cannot tell you how many girls I've gone to high school / college with, worked with, go to the gym with, ran into, you name it, I have found their profile on SA. Old fashioned way or new, the argument that none of them are "worth seriously dating", if true, you are doomed to be alone. Most of the "civv" girls aren't truly that and are a stone's throw from creating a profile. Most have already heard of SA and have already considered it.

OP, do whatever floats your boat or finds your lost remote.

Yes you're right about that. Which is why you have to be hard filtering them irl, just as you filter the ones on the sites. There are regular girls out there, and it's on us to find them if that's what is desired. But a guy is setting himself up for failure by looking in the wrong watering hole from jump.

There are girls I went to school with who I've seen providing, and even back then I wouldn't have taken them seriously for a relationship. My latest brush with this was by chance encountering the BF of a girl I had seen from SA. Do I discreetly tell the guy, or stay zip. I chose to shut up, and decided it wasn't my place. Very difficult because I would like to know if I was in that position, but the best I can do is make the right moves to never end up in it.

[SocratesRvng]

If she's on any of these sites, they are not worth seriously dating. They are here to trade their time and bodies for money, despite whatever delusional way they justify it. We are looking for something to spend our time on. Don't let yourself be given to delusions either, you are a customer and this isn't Pretty Woman. A woman who relies on this sort of thing for fast money or supplemental income is not a good prospect for anything serious, and very few girls on the "Civvy" apps are for that matter. If you want to meet someone to date seriously, do it the old fashioned way outside of these sites, you can meet far higher quality women though the gym, social clubs, events.

I know it can be tough to do it the old fashioned way, but if you're striking out, you might need some self evaluation to see what you can improve.

One thing I've learned from being on SA for a number of years now is that even those women you meet organically (in the gym, social club, events) are the exact same women selling their bodies on the site. I cannot tell you how many girls I've gone to high school / college with, worked with, go to the gym with, ran into, you name it, I have found their profile on SA. Old fashioned way or new, the argument that none of them are "worth seriously dating", if true, you are doomed to be alone. Most of the "civv" girls aren't truly that and are a stone's throw from creating a profile. Most have already heard of SA and have already considered it.

OP, do whatever floats your boat or finds your lost remote.

[GreekExplorer]

If she's on any of these sites, they are not worth seriously dating. They are here to trade their time and bodies for money, despite whatever delusional way they justify it. We are looking for something to spend our time on. Don't let yourself be given to delusions either, you are a customer and this isn't Pretty Woman. A woman who relies on this sort of thing for fast money or supplemental income is not a good prospect for anything serious, and very few girls on the "Civvy" apps are for that matter. If you want to meet someone to date seriously, do it the old fashioned way outside of these sites, you can meet far higher quality women though the gym, social clubs, events.

I know it can be tough to do it the old fashioned way, but if you're striking out, you might need some self evaluation to see what you can improve.

[Mamouna]

I have legit dated a couple girls of seeking and I've heard other sites like whatsyourrpice and stuff work. But you have to be honest with yourself about whether these girls would want to date you.

OP you need to understand that most women who decide to do this kind of sex work prefer to keep it hidden or separate from their regular life and that includes the men they come into contact with. It's a fantasy or a game to them, that's how they justify selling their bodies for cash. Do not look for a relationship on these sites, it will always include giving them money.

Speaking from experience, they can have genuine feelings for you but do not fool yourself into thinking you are going to be other than a sugar daddy. It ain't going to happen.

[DelToro]

I have legit dated a couple girls of seeking and I've heard other sites like whatsyourrpice and stuff work. But you have to be honest with yourself about whether these girls would want to date you.

I've never been someone who slayed on tinder, I'm average height, but other than that I am a pretty decent looking dude. I have money, dress reasonably well, and (despite my user name) usually treat the girls I meet of seeking pretty well.

The reason I use seeking and don't just meet girls is:

1. I don't regularly socially interact with attractive girls in their 20's.

2. I'm not somebody who is hot enough to kill on tinder.

Other than that, I am somebody that a lot of the girls wouldn't mind dating.

Think of seeking as paying for access and once you have the access it is up to you to get the girls to like you. If they don't like you, no amount of money will make up for it. You'll just get a lot of fake interest.

I'm not saying every girl I meet on seeking wants to date me, some of them are more pro and some of them don't like me that much. When I go out with a girl and I can tell she doesn't like me very much and is just doing it for the money, I'll maybe see her a couple of times but I don't spend my time trying to convince her to like me. Some girls I go out with I can tell that they appreciate the nice things I can do for them, they aren't all about the money, and if I treat them right they will treat me right. If none of the girls you go out with act like that with you, then you should be honest with yourself about whether you are someone they would want to date in general. You can always change yourself to make yourself more attractive, this includes personality, no one likes someone who is boring and desperate.

Again, I don't know you personally so this is not a person attack, just some advice.

Anyways hope this helps!

I am decent looking and charming enough to have a lot of success on Seeking.

I have heard quite a few times from Seeking girls that they do not understand why I am there and not doing regular dating.

It has gone to my head a couple of times and I had tried Tinder and FriendFinder, I did get some dates and I did fuck a few of women but my conversion rate was way lower than Seeking and the girls were not that good in bed, and it was just with women closer to my age. The competition for "free" pussy is fierce and women have a lot of options, once they request for financial help, their pool of possibilities reduces enormously and suddenly one becomes super attractive. Plus in my experience in other dating apps you just can not be as direct as in Seeking. In Seeking my profile is super descriptive, mentioning I expect crazy sex, intelligence and an interesting personality. I do not get many responses but the ones that do are usually a good match. I tried the same approach at other apps and I literally got zero responses, I needed to mellow down my profile to start getting matches.

In over 5 years in Seeking I have had a bit over 12 regulars (women I have seen for a few months) , like half had at some point hinted they would be fine dating me monogamously, but I am sure they would still expect financial help. Most of them were women with kids. As I have way too much to handle with my own kids, I am not looking to deal with others. As much as I liked the few of childless women that were interested in something more. I am just done with monogamy.

But if I would be interested on getting a steady girlfriend I would definitely look for her on Seeking. But I would not force it.

[SocratesRvng]

Maybe you'll get lucky and she'll cave your head in with her BJ skills, or maybe she's a 3 holer, or maybe she likes searching for your tonsils thru your asshole, or all of the above. Once the lights are low and the action is starting, are you really paying attention to her face? Haha.

Everyone listen up! This is a true friend; when you're starting to second-thought the butters on SA 'cause the face is too potent for sober eyes, a friend like ye ol' ScotchYoke here gives you the ol' Remember The Titans pep talk to give you a second wind. Much obliged! 'Course post-nut clarity is going to be MothaFucka!

In other news, this one I almost closed the deal a few weeks back but because of uncertainties with my job, I told her I wanted to hold off. In the meantime (2-weeks) another fella swooped in and locked her down with an arrangement, enough so that she didn't want to pursue our arrangement further out of respect.

20's, true redhead — ask me how I know, just moved to her own apartment. Not on BC but still willing to be bred. She mentioned early on that she will cross that bridge when she comes to it. Anal isn't in her repertoire but willing to train. Downsides: she doesn't swallow, no cum in hair but you can cum on face. She is a stoner chick, super cool.

I'm sure one of you fellas can talk her into a side arrangement. I don't care to pursue any further so I let her go. She wanted $500/ meet. She said 90 min but I really don't think she'd stick to that especially if she was enjoying her time. She once mentioned staying the night because she didn't feel like driving back to Federal Way area if she came to me in North Everett. But YMMV as always.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...b-a34a5d33c454

[ScotchYoke]

Only reason I'm still there, my friend. The only reason LOL.

Maybe you'll get lucky and she'll cave your head in with her BJ skills, or maybe she's a 3 holer, or maybe she likes searching for your tonsils thru your asshole, or all of the above. Once the lights are low and the action is starting, are you really paying attention to her face? Haha.

[SocratesRvng]

She looks like she has a nice rack, so she has that going for her hopefully.

Only reason I'm still there, my friend. The only reason LOL.

[ScotchYoke]

Warning heeded! That is one unfortunate looking woman, I have to say. I keep going back to the profile and that face is just homely. You just can't beat the value (or the bargaining "IDGAF") of nabbing an ugly duckling.

Nothing yet. Going back in, fellas. Holds breath.

So-Crates.

She looks like she has a nice rack, so she has that going for her hopefully.

[MrPumpNDump]

Hi guys, I have a question not sure if anyone has good answer for me:

I have used seeking, but now I also want something more meaningful and maybe start a family one day. Is there any sites like Seeking I can join, but mainly for dating and LTR?

It is just mainstream apps haven't worked for me and I am looking for a site that is easier for men to get dates in general. I don't mind paying membership or spend some money etc. If it actually works.

Any input would help. Thanks!

I have legit dated a couple girls of seeking and I've heard other sites like whatsyourrpice and stuff work. But you have to be honest with yourself about whether these girls would want to date you.

I've never been someone who slayed on tinder, I'm average height, but other than that I am a pretty decent looking dude. I have money, dress reasonably well, and (despite my user name) usually treat the girls I meet of seeking pretty well.

The reason I use seeking and don't just meet girls is:

1. I don't regularly socially interact with attractive girls in their 20's.

2. I'm not somebody who is hot enough to kill on tinder.

Other than that, I am somebody that a lot of the girls wouldn't mind dating.

Think of seeking as paying for access and once you have the access it is up to you to get the girls to like you. If they don't like you, no amount of money will make up for it. You'll just get a lot of fake interest.

I'm not saying every girl I meet on seeking wants to date me, some of them are more pro and some of them don't like me that much. When I go out with a girl and I can tell she doesn't like me very much and is just doing it for the money, I'll maybe see her a couple of times but I don't spend my time trying to convince her to like me. Some girls I go out with I can tell that they appreciate the nice things I can do for them, they aren't all about the money, and if I treat them right they will treat me right. If none of the girls you go out with act like that with you, then you should be honest with yourself about whether you are someone they would want to date in general. You can always change yourself to make yourself more attractive, this includes personality, no one likes someone who is boring and desperate.

Again, I don't know you personally so this is not a person attack, just some advice.

Anyways hope this helps!

[PriceIsRight39]

Hi guys, I have a question not sure if anyone has good answer for me:

I have used seeking, but now I also want something more meaningful and maybe start a family one day. Is there any sites like Seeking I can join, but mainly for dating and LTR?

It is just mainstream apps haven't worked for me and I am looking for a site that is easier for men to get dates in general. I don't mind paying membership or spend some money etc. If it actually works.

Any input would help. Thanks!

Women swipe left on 80% of all men on dating apps. Explains why you don't have any luck and neither did I. I'd say if your not over 6'2" and a 8 or above in looks, the regular apps are a waste. Remember, women live in delusion! Seeking has been ruined by normies using it as a way to make a living. I say all the time, most women have no idea what a sugar baby nor the slightest idea of how to be one. They are simply there to get paid for breathing. Not all of them, but you're looking for a needle in the, well you know. When I've found success is when I tell the exactly how it's going to go form communication to time together and they get one chance to comply (we are PAYING them!!) then I'm out. The ones that get in line (metaphorically, relax guys LOL) work out. Most don't. Then being broke does wonders haha. I play way less for sure, but my dignity is intact! There are so many avenues for us fellas to wet our willies, I'm shocked men have issues finding babies. Well, actually I know the problem but not into triggering anyone in this delicate time. LOL.

I had a 23 yo cutie (and anyone here would be happy to be seen on the street by your homies with her trust me) in Texas quote 1 k (LOL). I said " I have five and you come right over no dinner or nonsense. " She was there an hour later! Seattle is not an easy place to play lately. Wonder why? Hehe.

[SocratesRvng]

Careful, that one might have a sausage-shaped surprise for you.

Warning heeded! That is one unfortunate looking woman, I have to say. I keep going back to the profile and that face is just homely. You just can't beat the value (or the bargaining "IDGAF") of nabbing an ugly duckling.

Nothing yet. Going back in, fellas. Holds breath.

So-Crates.

[Morgan Creamin]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...c-32ec4b811961

This one thinks she's photogenic. Oof! Did I still reach out? Yes. I have a slew of reusable bags that are breathable.

I'll let yall know how it goes.

So-Crates.

Careful, that one might have a sausage-shaped surprise for you.

[BillAbc]

Hi guys, I have a question not sure if anyone has good answer for me:

I have used seeking, but now I also want something more meaningful and maybe start a family one day. Is there any sites like Seeking I can join, but mainly for dating and LTR?

It is just mainstream apps haven't worked for me and I am looking for a site that is easier for men to get dates in general. I don't mind paying membership or spend some money etc. If it actually works.

Any input would help. Thanks!