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10-03-24 15:45 #1909Senior Member

Posts: 3162Borderlines
This topic is present in the thread. I have not seen it in even 1 girl on seeking in 5+ years, and specifically, no cutting. This is possibly because I take a lot of care in vetting them in advance. I message a lot, talk to them on the phone, M&G. Like a SD should. One who has a warden and doesn't want to get involved w / a SB who will be more of a headache than a sex kitten.
The main issues w / borderlines in relationships, sugar or not, is that they can absolutely lose all standards of civility and then become your worst nightmare, without warning (or with quite small stimulus). Other posters seem to have used Dr. Google. I am close to mental health professionals, they provide a different picture of borderlines than the internet.
You need to have your spidey senses on at all times when playing in the sugar bowl, unless you've been w / the same SB for a while and she has proven trustworthy. Still, as per a recent post from Joydrop, keep your IRL identity away from your SB for as long as possible. A year or more. That is the best way to be able to vaporize yourself in a poof, for your own safety.
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10-03-24 10:05 #1908Senior Member

Posts: 48Tell me you are voting Kamama without sayin it, LOL.
Dang. I would have said to myself, this girls does cutting. Either leave or continue. Would not go into woke mode and start lecture only to cream pie her 5 min later.
Originally Posted by Taliesin92
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10-02-24 15:44 #1907Senior Member

Posts: 1733Agreed. I think it is eczema around the butt, you might feel it but it looks mild. Ass is great. She is CYA but with the warning that she is cute and young but not a service queen. Like most CYA.
Originally Posted by Tobonkornot
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Cute face and nice hair, petite. Great body shape. MMs. Her ad photos completely match as far as the body, but different face. Same proportions and size as ad photo. I'd guess 5'1", white body, very young. Early 20s.
BJ is soft as you say, but her face and style is nice so it's enough to get hard. I remember Baby Soyul's BBBJ, it was like fucking air. The softest BJ possible. But if a girl is cute enough I don't even care, I will get rock hard from watching her do it.
Very good English, she seems new so let her know what you want. She will not attack you like milfs but is gentle and attentive. Like a jgirl as others have said. Her style is nice.
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10-02-24 14:13 #1906Senior Member

Posts: 46Lizza
Saw Lizza yesterday and would definitely confirm her as HYA, specifically the "cute face, hot body" reports. I think she's a must-see for anyone just looking for HYA, so I'll start off with that, but some additional notes:
- Her skin around her waist / butt are kind of rough. Felt like scars but couldn't see any. Not sure if people are just clawing at it or if she has butt eczema or something. I just attributed it to people digging into it or something because the visuals from behind are 10/10.
- BJ is very one-note but still good. No teeth, soft.
- Can take a pounding and creams up.
- I will say her breath is kind of not the best. It's not smokers breath or food breath, it's just not great. She also didn't use the mouthwash in the beginning either so if you can find a polite way to get her to do it with you (maybe offering to pour yourself, and then pouring her a cup) that might get more out of the session.
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10-01-24 16:18 #1905Senior Member

Posts: 173Catch up w Sana
Looks like Miyahouse up in LA posted a jgirl with her photos.
Originally Posted by BlizaBliz
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10-01-24 01:29 #1904Senior Member

Posts: 531Abba
Has anyone seen Abba before? She has great reviews from east coast.
Abba will start this week.
https://www.sweetasiangem.com/abba
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09-30-24 23:48 #1903Senior Member

Posts: 428Glad I've never seen this
Reading the original post, I was thinking, oh, man, I could see a scenario where asking the wrong way might be a trigger & the gal cutting herself during a session.
Originally Posted by Taliesin92
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I'm sure that risk is near non existent, but wow, I wouldn't want to have to wait & file a report with anyone (I never bring I'd to an appointment for instance).
I would hope more gals have to file death reports due to heart attacks more often than guys on girls self harming.
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09-30-24 20:31 #1902Senior Member

Posts: 1733No, there are always signs before. The work can make it worse, or it might even make it better. But it is never the start. Best not to know a girl's backstory, it won't help you Captain Save a Ho her. It rarely works. Few people are of the Admiral rank needed to solve their problems, and even if you met the requirements you can only fuck yourself over once. Don't. Most people can't even if they wanted to, though.
Originally Posted by Taliesin92
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Treat the girls well and be respectful, but best to stay out of the behind the scenes. She's gotten the question before already. The last girl I knew was actually very happy, her scars were from many years before the work. The work was the solution to her life, not the problem. That is the more common case.
I have seen one girl who burns herself. Other than taking care of her in the moment, do not get involved. Just be a good customer like with all women. It is usually the only way you can help anyways. I have taken some peeks and in a lot of cases you won't even make a dent and could even make it worse by being involved. In the cases you could make it better, it would cost you your current life as you know it to fix.
You can actually make a much bigger difference with the normal girls. Have a good hour with them and wave goodbye. Both of you leave better than you started. I have seen many girls like this make their life much better later on. Not the other girl. Help these girls. You don't even have to do anything other than visit them and enjoy.
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09-30-24 18:42 #1901Senior Member

Posts: 784Cutting
Yeah, unfortunately, that's a classic sign of Borderline Personality Disorder. Seen it many times in this hobby, including one girl (a sugar baby) who did it right in front of me one night at my place. I had to take the knife away from her, bandage her up, and call the paramedics. She wound up spending the weekend at a county mental health facility. It's a sad reality of the P4 P world. A lot the girls suffer from this type of mental illness, or similar disorders. Makes me wonder sometimes if it's the only way they can do this job. They have to be mentally messed up in the first place.
Originally Posted by BlizaBliz
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Some guys don't think it's a real issue. But having seen it up close and personal, it's absolutely real and heart breaking. Of course, not all of them suffer from it, but I'd guess it's a far higher percentage than you'd find in the general population.
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09-30-24 18:42 #1900Senior Member

Posts: 319Since BlizaBliz already asked, I think it would be helpful for people thinking about seeing her to know how she responded, and take appropriate course of action. Understood this is a complex issue that neither party may not want to delve into, but it would seem weird to completely ignore the cuts over the arm without asking her if everything is OK.
Originally Posted by Cchhcc
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09-30-24 17:16 #1899Senior Member

Posts: 46I doubt it's even about "white knighting". We talk about "attitude" because it's a key aspect for establishing the right atmosphere. Well so are the these kinds of "outlier" physical qualities. I would think that's what BlizaBliz is sort of alluding to. It can you take out of the state of mind or be a turnoff altogether. Whether that's because of concern for the girl, concern for yourself (idk, that Black Mirror White Christmas episode has me fucked up on doing things with people that don't value their own wellbeing / lives), some psychological trigger if you or people you know have a history of self-harm, or the visuals altogether of seeing the scars.
Originally Posted by Randy62
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I'm glad you mentioned it Bliza, thanks!
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09-30-24 14:23 #1898Senior Member

Posts: 45Is going down to a deep rabbit hole. Imagine you inquire and her response will either be:
Originally Posted by HornyToad75
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A. She politely don't tell you the truth.
Or.
B. She tell you the truth, but than what can you actually do, especially she's here on a short stay.
IMO unless you plan to invest more time & money to it, don't get too curious.
The best way to help is be a good customer and visit more often.
Originally Posted by Randy62
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09-30-24 13:41 #1897Senior Member

Posts: 388Dang
That sucks about her self harming. Kudos to you Bliz for being human and checking in on her. I wouldn't call it "White Knighting" to see if a provider is okay. That's just basic human decency! LOL.
Originally Posted by BlizaBliz
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I'd prefer my provider to be in tip top shape physically and emotionally to ensure the best performance. It cost nothing to be kind.
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09-30-24 12:10 #1896Senior Member

Posts: 319Thanks for Info
Curious to know if she responded and her reaction to your inquiry.
Originally Posted by BlizaBliz
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09-30-24 10:41 #1895Senior Member

Posts: 497Can't imagine trying to counsel a girl because I was triggered by her cutting marks. Probably better to just leave if it bothered you that much. We are customers and not white knights its best to fulfill your end of the transaction and move on in a respectful way.
Originally Posted by BlizaBliz
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