Philly Sugar

[WaltoDerri267]

It's hard to tell.

Either way, I do think activity on the site has decreased the past 4-6 weeks.

The reason why? Who knows.

More like the last 4-6 months to find quality.

TL DR SB is ungrateful and becomes unhinged because I said no to money for nothing.

Saw her in July for a successful date went off on me recently because I was firm on my rule of not sending money outside of meets. Told me she was sick and needed meds and me she couldn't because she was sick just having been at her dad's. (Why didn't her own dad buy her medicine?) She then listed everything she didn't like about our date despite saying she had a great time LOL.

Display name Serina. Serious GPS but I went along to treat myself for BBFS CIP overnight.

Claims I didn't let her choose the movie when I said "there's a movie *I* want to see, would you like to join me? She could have said no, she said yes. It was my birthday so of course I wanted to do what *I* wanted to do!

Said I didn't let her choose the restaurant when I asked if she liked seafood and she said she loved it and was okay with the spot I chose because she has been there before. She could have suggested another spot. But she did not. Then she claimed I didn't let her choose her meal LOL bullshit! She mused over the menu for a ridiculous amount of time, stepped away to smoke, and came back still not having decided. When asked she responded "oh. Idk" . So I suggest the full course special they offered us and she agreed. Again, having all the freedom to say no and choose her own thing instead. She said yes. Even said she enjoyed her meal.

One valid point was her complaint about the shower in the room being broken but I found this amusing because neither of us had noticed until around midnight and the front desk informed me that there was no maintenance staff on site to repair right then and there. All other rooms were booked out. It was something completely out of my control but she bitched that " I made her stay there". Sorry love, I wasn't exactly stoked you smelled like BO either and came in a dirty wig and dirty dress.

She acted like she was held captive hahaha. She was free to waltz out the door at any time and grab an uber. Best of all she complained about "me using her lotion and it not feeling very mutually beneficial" despite her having gotten her gift amount IN FULL as if she could not have easily bought herself a new bottle LMAO. 2 little pumps for a massage that I asked for and she obliged happily while apparently secretly resenting me for it. Selfish can these brats be? Told me to learn how to be "a real SD and find someone cheaper" and I told her to stfu and learn how to be a real SB who earns her keep instead of being an entitled brat. Classic arrangements always have been mutually beneficial since before the internet, not this delusional bullshit they want it to be.

I then reminded her of my upcoming trip to South America and how I could easily find half a dozen women who go above and beyond and are grateful for what they can get and no wonder tons of US mongers are flying down south. Way to fumble a long term arrangement because you preferred to be an selfish brat!

P.S. Seems I only come here to share bad stories. Just a testament to how far downhill the sugar bowl in Philly has become. I just wanted to have fun clappin College girl cheeks but alas, even those are rare these days. I just want to unwind and have fun again!

[LolBoat]

The cost of living is getting so bad that alot of these girls are living at home or moving back home so it diminshes the need to sell that ass.

It's really skimp. Thankfully I hve UTRs and girls from the past.

[Weeee]

Why is that an issue??

Didn't like what I saw, preference issue on my part.

How do you find people's socials? Google photo search no longer seems to work well for this.

There are other options that usually work. Facecheck, pimeyes, etc. They're all paid though. I don't think there are any free ones left.

[Rubber Ducky Boston]

Was going to pull the trigger but changed my mind after I found her social media. I'd be curious if anyone takes the plunge.

How do you find people's socials? Google photo search no longer seems to work well for this.

[KCesar68]

Was going to pull the trigger but changed my mind after I found her social media. I'd be curious if anyone takes the plunge.

Why is that an issue??

[Weeee]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...9-9b2fb875ca6c

She seems real via message and was open to meeting for 300, but she has absolutely no weekend or evening availability due to having a kid, so I had to pass.

Was going to pull the trigger but changed my mind after I found her social media. I'd be curious if anyone takes the plunge.

[MisterMister46]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...9-9b2fb875ca6c

She seems real via message and was open to meeting for 300, but she has absolutely no weekend or evening availability due to having a kid, so I had to pass.

[UsaBlinkGuy11]

I thought back to school would be the time of year it would swing back into busy season?

It's hard to tell.

Either way, I do think activity on the site has decreased the past 4-6 weeks.

The reason why? Who knows.

[Frost05]

Using a phone number with a Canadian area code. Only asks questions over text. Doesn't give any information about herself. When I asked, "why did she moved to Philly from Canada?" she went dark.

Likely scammer. Who knows.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...c-5c933a420446

She's definitely a scammer / phony account. I had to block her on Telegram, as she began messaging nonstop in fractured English.

[Mythbuster]

I thought back to school would be the time of year it would swing back into busy season?

In my experience it's more of a returning SBs but in reality a lot of them stay local through the summer. I have found it difficult to connect with them early as they try to get use to their new class schedule. I may buy in nearer to the end of the semester or early next year as the need for Spring Break money increases.

[WaltoDerri267]

Seeking has been very dead the past 4-6 weeks.

A large decrease in activity. Less girls are on the site and even less are responding to messages, almost like a ghost zone now.

I think it may be because the school semester is just starting and a lot of girls are going back to school, or some other seasonal type of thing is happening right now.

I don't think this level of deceased activity will be the new normal, it'll probably pick back up later.

I thought back to school would be the time of year it would swing back into busy season?

[UsaBlinkGuy11]

Seeking has been very dead the past 4-6 weeks.

A large decrease in activity. Less girls are on the site and even less are responding to messages, almost like a ghost zone now.

I think it may be because the school semester is just starting and a lot of girls are going back to school, or some other seasonal type of thing is happening right now.

I don't think this level of deceased activity will be the new normal, it'll probably pick back up later.

[Rubber Ducky Boston]

Every time I do log back on and see someone I like, she tends to want money for nothing or she responds over a month later when my sub is not active LOL.

You have to leave your number in the message you send, and let them know that you're logging off the site, so that way ball's in their court if they message you much later on. They can still contact you.

[HenryT458]

Using a phone number with a Canadian area code. Only asks questions over text. Doesn't give any information about herself. When I asked, "why did she moved to Philly from Canada?" she went dark.

Likely scammer. Who knows.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...c-5c933a420446

[HenryT458]

Her reply:

I'm a single parent (only parent) so I don't very much get out of the house due to no babysitters so I'm searching for mainly online interactions and conversations aside from the days I am able to get a sitter and can meet up! Does that sound like something you would be okay with?

It is not ideal for many men I've noticed so don't hesitate to shoot me down!

Nope.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...a-866c379611b4