Philly Sugar

[Mythbuster]

Was texting with this lady and she asks the question, " so what do your arrangement's look like? Would you mind describing them to me?" This type of question is usually an indication the lady is actually looking for something specific. Likely a platonic arrangement. Or I'm just not attractive enough to her for her to be intimate. So I told her, my arrangements are not platonic. They are adult relationships. She went dark.

Best of luck gents.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...6-dafb8460c552

I have messaged her off line and actually almost met her. This is probably at least her 4th account on Seeking. The best that I can tell is that maybe she attended Temple you at some point and has been very slow at matriculating. Maybe she's 23 maybe she's 28. Anyway, I'm pretty sure she'll do the deed but even according to her, she's pretty vanilla when it comes to sex. She will also want a gift for the M&G. I think the lowest that I could negotiate was $. At 1st she would accept a $$ ppm but I think the last quote she gave me added $$ to the original. She just seemed too much about the money and too little about offering an experience for me!

[Suckuhh]

Was texting with this lady and she asks the question, " so what do your arrangement's look like? Would you mind describing them to me?" This type of question is usually an indication the lady is actually looking for something specific. Likely a platonic arrangement. Or I'm just not attractive enough to her for her to be intimate. So I told her, my arrangements are not platonic. They are adult relationships. She went dark.

Best of luck gents.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...6-dafb8460c552

She's cute as alllll hell tho. Timid personality but opens up when she's comfortable with you. However, you hit the nail right on the head. 100% Platonic smh.

[KCesar68]

This one is my bad. She's real. She's damn pretty. Her eyes are amazing. Hypnotizing even. So much so, that I didn't do my usual vetting. She was lovely and pleasant at the meet and greet. But those eyes. Wow. She's a good person. A bit thicker than the pics but still well proportioned.

Once we moved to a more private setting. We are not compatible in the bedroom at all. I won't visit her again. Not worth it to me. Best of luck gents.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...e-3251607e02ef

ROFL!! Refused to do it without a condom, didn't she?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-f84cbbf2b853

Like reported below, fake scammer. Tried to pass me off some pics when I asked for a verification pic.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...6-32df6f45e872

This one has a similar MO to one from some months ago. Sends pics right away to fool you. I figured they were of a porn or cam girl. Asked to send verification pic but doesn't send the actual pose, tries to pass off some other pose. When I tell them to send the right pose, they get angry and defensive. Even though "she" just tried to send the supposed selfie for verification I asked. At that point I just let "her" prove me right some more by getting madder and cursing more at me.

I blocked the one in the pics below so I can't link it but she's ridiculous. Full of herself and basically acts like she's a hot little 20-something wanting a rich dude to take care of her.

[HenryT458]

This one is my bad. She's real. She's damn pretty. Her eyes are amazing. Hypnotizing even. So much so, that I didn't do my usual vetting. She was lovely and pleasant at the meet and greet. But those eyes. Wow. She's a good person. A bit thicker than the pics but still well proportioned.

Once we moved to a more private setting. We are not compatible in the bedroom at all. I won't visit her again. Not worth it to me. Best of luck gents.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...e-3251607e02ef

[HenryT458]

Was texting with this lady and she asks the question, " so what do your arrangement's look like? Would you mind describing them to me?" This type of question is usually an indication the lady is actually looking for something specific. Likely a platonic arrangement. Or I'm just not attractive enough to her for her to be intimate. So I told her, my arrangements are not platonic. They are adult relationships. She went dark.

Best of luck gents.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...6-dafb8460c552

[HenryT458]

Same rinser scam that comes back every year with a new profile. Word for word the same reply as last year.

Hi, I wouldn't have a problem with that type of arrangement but I should warn you; you might not like how I do things when it comes to the first meeting.

NEXT.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-f84cbbf2b853

This was a new ploy to keep interest. Scammers getting creative. I appreciate the entrepreneurial effort. However, I doubt some fool sent her money and he's taking her to Zahav.

[HenryT458]

Same rinser scam that comes back every year with a new profile. Word for word the same reply as last year.

Hi, I wouldn't have a problem with that type of arrangement but I should warn you; you might not like how I do things when it comes to the first meeting.

NEXT.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-f84cbbf2b853

[KCesar68]

I had the same experience with her.

Stopped pretending she was interested with her "my phone is off" story so I called her out and called her a flake. And of course, the sour grapes of "I was having doubts but now I know I made the right decision" reply. Sure honey.

[EpicSD]

My long term experiences have been quite difference from those expressed here. Almost every baby I've met has reached back out to me numerous times to hookup again regardless of whether or not I have had the same interest. PPM is never $300.

I have had about 80%-90% interest from SBs to meet up again. Being committed to actual communication is key and also staying attractive to the SB on multiple levels. I don't treat a SB like a sex worker- I manage to keep things non transactional and I come from a place of helping them as they need.

Communication involves listening and meeting these young ladies where their at. Being honest about who I am is important too. I've learned to communicate in the language they use with the sensibilities they generally have. I am big on consent throughout the entirety of our time together,. Even if we're naked and doing other stuff I still ask if it's OK to fuq her before I do, giving her that last opportunity to choose is HUGE for them. And it also almost always improves the time I have. Also being respectful about their boundaries goes a long way. Simply put, if a hot 22-27 year old girl feels safe and heard she is more likely to unleash her slutty side and give me more. And if she has second thoughts, even during the act, it's ok for her to stop.

Also I stick to 3 x $ to 4 x $ for them and check back in if they're satisfied with it, I don't try to get the lowest p p m possible. But that's just me, you do you. If a girl tells me they require 5-7 I'll tell them I only go to 4 and I don't hate on them unless they become demeaning. Often, based on what else I bring, they will be cool with 4. I'm pretty normal, single and stay in shape. I'm not asking to come to their place, which is a huge risk for a woman with a strange man. I'm also blunt about the sex, in a non creepy way. We're adults and know that sex is a big part of SD / SB (but not everything). And being up front, obviously weeds out the rinsers.

My biggest issue is "NEXT" With so many to choose from, even with the crazy amount of AI fakes on there (I stay away from almost all "Asian" profiles these days, unless I've seen them for a long time). For now I've settled on an amazing hot younger girl that sweet as pie and fucking hot.

[UninhibitedFla]

It is tough, long term is very hard to get. Very very hard.

Communication is there on day 1, but that's all you get, just that day.

The next day, communication falls off a cliff. Terrible response times, girl is basically 20% there mentally, you can be texting her, but she is not actually "there". And this will be obvious due to the response times you get. Very delayed.

This is about 95% of cases, in my experience.

Very very tough game to get long term.

Short term is a bit easier, meeting them the same night to fuck is ideal. However, if you do this, you will never see the girl again. She's going to ghost.

So pick which path you want to go down.

My long term experiences have been quite difference from those expressed here. Almost every baby I've met has reached back out to me numerous times to hookup again regardless of whether or not I have had the same interest. PPM is never $300.

[UsaBlinkGuy11]

Man you're lucky if they even do -that. - This one always acts like she wants something special and no matter how nice you are she just makes up reasons why she can't meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...c-0d301d52197e

It is tough, long term is very hard to get. Very very hard.

Communication is there on day 1, but that's all you get, just that day.

The next day, communication falls off a cliff. Terrible response times, girl is basically 20% there mentally, you can be texting her, but she is not actually "there". And this will be obvious due to the response times you get. Very delayed.

This is about 95% of cases, in my experience.

Very very tough game to get long term.

Short term is a bit easier, meeting them the same night to fuck is ideal. However, if you do this, you will never see the girl again. She's going to ghost.

So pick which path you want to go down.

[Joadt]

Man you're lucky if they even do -that. - This one always acts like she wants something special and no matter how nice you are she just makes up reasons why she can't meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...c-0d301d52197e

I had the same experience with her.

[WaltoDerri267]

Many girls on SA looking for short term only.

Usually they will be excited to meet you for about 1 week starting from first messaging with you.

It goes like this:

You message them, they respond, they are excited to continue, and they plan a meet with you.

You meet them, obviously they want PPM. That's fine, you two meet and hook up.

A majority of them will then ghost / flake at this point.

Very few girls on the site will stay with a consistent thing that continues each week or every 2 weeks, at least this has been my observation. Very few long term thinkers on the site.

For those that are looking for one off hook ups, this is great. You can run your lay count up, doing these 1 time deals. The girls are okay with this too. They have no problems fucking you and never seeing you again after that. They are just in a certain mood and you happen to be messaging them at the right time.

So if you want to fuck them, you can. You just have a limited amount of time to do it before that window closes and they've moved on from the mood that they are in.

Just something to keep in mind, there are a lot of girls on seeking right now that operate this way.

I prefer long term encounters so that's what I aim for. I'm aware a lot of these girls are just in a moment though and are only interested for a maximum of 1 week. These 1 week type of relationships though are not too appealing to me.

It's sad to see. I met tons of girls like this who I actually wanted to continue seeing. One day they just stop responding. Others who wanted to keep seeing me, were unfortunately not what I was looking for. Too many demands, mental health problems, drama, etc. I appreciate the ones who just get to the point and get right to fucking for those nights you just want to scratch the itch.

[WaltoDerri267]

Anyone seen this girl and can vouch for her? Or is she talking to you currently? Seems too good to be true.

[KCesar68]

You message them, they respond, they are excited to continue, and they plan a meet with you.

Man you're lucky if they even do -that. - This one always acts like she wants something special and no matter how nice you are she just makes up reasons why she can't meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...c-0d301d52197e