Philly Sugar

**UsaBlinkGuy11** · 07-23-24 13:32

Many girls on SA looking for short term only.

Usually they will be excited to meet you for about 1 week starting from first messaging with you.

It goes like this:

You message them, they respond, they are excited to continue, and they plan a meet with you.

You meet them, obviously they want PPM. That's fine, you two meet and hook up.

A majority of them will then ghost / flake at this point.

Very few girls on the site will stay with a consistent thing that continues each week or every 2 weeks, at least this has been my observation. Very few long term thinkers on the site.

For those that are looking for one off hook ups, this is great. You can run your lay count up, doing these 1 time deals. The girls are okay with this too. They have no problems fucking you and never seeing you again after that. They are just in a certain mood and you happen to be messaging them at the right time.

So if you want to fuck them, you can. You just have a limited amount of time to do it before that window closes and they've moved on from the mood that they are in.

Just something to keep in mind, there are a lot of girls on seeking right now that operate this way.

I prefer long term encounters so that's what I aim for. I'm aware a lot of these girls are just in a moment though and are only interested for a maximum of 1 week. These 1 week type of relationships though are not too appealing to me.

**Joadt** · 07-23-24 11:43

Originally Posted by WaltoDerri267 [View Original Post]

Spoke to her once about a year ago, she said she was interested but then never followed up with me. Time waster.

Yup. She kept pushing the time back. From what was going to be 12 to 1 then 4:00. I took a pass at that point.

**KCesar68** · 07-20-24 08:06

Originally Posted by WaltoDerri267 [View Original Post]

Man I don't know where the fuck these bozo ass bitches are getting these ridiculous numbers from. Wants 800, rubbers, even with proof of clean tests. Why the fuck are clean tests not enough anymore? Are they that scientifically ignorant? Rhetorical. I know theyre fucking stupid. Avoid fellas.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-015572579bed

Kinda like this one. Wants 700 but was probably cool with 600. Wasn't sure if she was going to do with condoms or not. Either way, I got the feeling she had a bit of GPS but at least she wasn't acting rude or conceited. Ultimately I passed on her, have some more comfortable prospects. Pictures below are just of her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...a-4d29a077002e

This one is surprisingly cool and personable. With all the tats and the looks I figured she'd act like another egotistical ho but she is cool to negotiate, (started semi-high but not at an unreasonable amount). I'm clean as well but she didn't want to budge on condoms. But for those who are ok with protection, she definitely is kinder and more likeable than most of the bimbo wh0 res asking for your arm and leg and she also doesn't text or talk like a tiktoker /5 year old.

**Shampoo55** · 07-19-24 21:31

Originally Posted by WaltoDerri267 [View Original Post]

Man I don't know where the fuck these bozo ass bitches are getting these ridiculous numbers from. Wants 800, rubbers, even with proof of clean tests. Why the fuck are clean tests not enough anymore? Are they that scientifically ignorant? Rhetorical. I know theyre fucking stupid. Avoid fellas.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-015572579bed

Actually seems like what we are seeing is an influx of women that took the bait of TicTok influencers. There's girls on TT telling these young women that they can get 5-figure allowances, apartments, cars, etc from Sugar Daddiies and don't have to sleep with them. Others tell the girls to "know your worth" and encourage girls to ask for rates that would top most Tryst / Eros girls.

Or maybe its Instagram or other SM that pump unrealistic expectations into these girls heads. Sadly, after a few weeks or months "in the Bowl" many of these girls give up. Unfortunately there isn't a SD for every want to be SB. It's competitive and only the Model quality girls find the few 1% dudes willing to pay the exorbitant levels.

But I get where these girls are coming from with the STD stuff. Since their "culture" is likely hook-up culture they see sex through the lens of easy hook-ups, whereas SDs might have a family or a job that keeps them busy enough they don't have time or the inclination to hook up all the time. So girls think dudes are as promiscuous as the likely are, and that means for them, condom usage is protective.

I had a SB once that had STIs a couple of times, even though I tested clean, so she was hooking up with a FB and likely others. She actually said to me, oh well, getting an STI is just a risk of dating.

It's an interesting world out there!

**WaltoDerri267** · 07-19-24 18:44

Man I don't know where the fuck these bozo ass bitches are getting these ridiculous numbers from. Wants 800, rubbers, even with proof of clean tests. Why the fuck are clean tests not enough anymore? Are they that scientifically ignorant? Rhetorical. I know theyre fucking stupid. Avoid fellas.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-015572579bed

**WaltoDerri267** · 07-18-24 22:23

Originally Posted by HenryT458 [View Original Post]

It appears this lady made a new profile but still uses the same business model.

Her response:

Hi Jenny nice to meet you, I do charge 300 for the meet and greet hope that's okst.

NEXT.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-5398e015fd6e

Absolute time waster, I posted about her before. She refuses to get intimate except for another 500 on top of the meet and greet lmao.

**WaltoDerri267** · 07-18-24 22:06

Originally Posted by Joadt [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-597ce54b3a14

Anyone ever meet or talk to Blossom?

Spoke to her once about a year ago, she said she was interested but then never followed up with me. Time waster.

**UsaBlinkGuy11** · 07-18-24 13:41

Originally Posted by Joadt [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-597ce54b3a14

Anyone ever meet or talk to Blossom?

I'm interested in meeting her.

She doesn't respond to messages though.

Originally Posted by Joadt [View Original Post]

Always cancels. On me anyway. Any luck?

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...a-60137b18f567

Same situation for me too.

Responds to messages, some conversation.

But ultimately never finalizing to an intimate encounter.

**JDRedBull** · 07-18-24 09:11

Originally Posted by Joadt [View Original Post]

Always cancels. On me anyway. Any luck?

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...a-60137b18f567

I have met her about a year ago, for M&G. Which I did offer some gas moolah because she kept cancelling on me. When we did meet she seemed chill and seemed interested. I did offer her 3 benz but she stated that she had TOM. I had contacted her again and she would just cancel again. But she would text me back stating how sorry she is.

I am very straight up person. I told her I could do 4 benz but that would be my max and I would probably only meet once or twice a month if we clicked. She would just say try again on this day and that she was very interested.

She is older than her pics and what she states. Probably more like 25 and up. Still looks attractive to me. Thin blonde. She did say she went to school for dentistry. At that time she was on SB and seeking and on alot. I am no longer on any sites. But she seems like a rinser or looking for a whale. Anyway I gave up. I usually wait some and try again. I tried about 2 times and each time she would cone up with an excuse. Also if someone is not interested I move on. There needs to be some chemistry to work right and if the other person is like luke warm or canceling I just move on. It could have been the money too. But I have my limits and after 3 benz. Its just too much for me anyway. I do like to repeat if there's good vibes.

Anyone else had an experience with her?

**Acro782** · 07-17-24 19:05

Originally Posted by Joadt [View Original Post]

Always cancels. On me anyway. Any luck?

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...a-60137b18f567

Same here. Tried a few times and would get replies but she would then never follow through.

Would be curious too whether anyone actually got to meet.

AC.

**EpicSD** · 07-17-24 16:06

Originally Posted by Joadt [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-597ce54b3a14

Anyone ever meet or talk to Blossom?

Can't remember exactly what it was. She had a pro vibe though. Think she lives in North Philly but isn't going to school. Usually a red flag for me.

**Joadt** · 07-17-24 15:48

Always cancels. On me anyway. Any luck?

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...a-60137b18f567

**Joadt** · 07-17-24 15:32

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-597ce54b3a14

Anyone ever meet or talk to Blossom?

**Mythbuster** · 07-15-24 23:27

Originally Posted by KCesar68 [View Original Post]

Wow my guy, this is the woman you were hyping up so much? Mid 40's? WITH KIDS? Sheez. No wonder you're trying to trade her off.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...a-7e9d4533cf88

This girl was on here before as Jelliebean or something further back in the reports. She's exhausting. The usual "I'm NoT a HoOkEr" nonsense like she's not there for money. Claims she wouldn't do sex for cash no matter how bad her financial state was. Sure. Said she had a medical issue she needed to take care of and all the while kept giving me maybe I'll meet tomorrow this that and the other thing, completely wishy-washy, even saying maybe the site isn't for her anymore. All this just for a meet and greet for lunch before even getting intimate. Doesn't want to share her number either, and since she was stalling without at least moving off the website, I said "Guess you wouldn't want to share your number either?" the well was soured not too long after since she kept saying all I wanted was to just talk about the arrangement. Like no shlt lady, that's the whole point of the site. Wants to have her emotional cake and eat it too. Was a breast cancer survivor too according to her so probably had mastectomies and she said her hair wasn't real. Wow, what a catch. Whined about how I didn't say anything about her being a breast cancer survivor when I specifically shared how my mom had malignant tumors and had to have a hysterectomy, so I'm glad they both came out of their ordeals. The selective memory was strong with her so I knew I was going to get nowhere and blocked..

This one is a serial antagonizer! Her goal is to get you to block her. These are different pictures than I saw except for the 1st one. This person is playing a game but obviously have access to a lot of pictures of this woman. I know this because I have approached her with multiple accounts and it's the same pattern aggressive and confrontational. She (or he) will eventually block you if they can't have any more fun. Do not give them any information because they may be using it to harm you.

**Mythbuster** · 07-15-24 23:18

Originally Posted by EpicSD [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...6-a5a51bbba57e

She is not in Philly, like far away in Doylestown and doesn't drive- right now that would be $60 one way. Told me in a passive aggressive way that men are happy to Uber her back and forth. I don't know if she hosts. I think she has gps too, and wanted 7 x $ or something ridiculous for a platonic first meet over dinner. I was thinking 3 tops for the whole shebang at the time and am pretty sure I just laughed at her.

Other have said it already but she is out of touch with pricing and I do venture into higher pay ranges occasionally. I think I was offered the possibility of a $$ massage! She seems real but there is a lot of overhead. You need to transport her and it can't be too close to home. She does say that other guys pay for whatever she actually offers but who knows. Just skip the aggravation!