Philly Sugar

**HenryT458** · 05-30-24 10:08

Seems like a pay something before you meet scam. The DM response:

Hey I have got so many text on here so I need to let you know that I want a full discreet arrangement.

I can't host or have arrangement close to me.

And I need to let you know that if I have to meet you going to handle my gas to get to you upfront.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...2-42427804589b

Next.

**HenryT458** · 05-30-24 10:00

Here I go again, acting like Kyle Schwarber. Swinging for the fences and end up striking out. She texted me and gave me this crazy response:

Almost everyone I have spoken to wants to meet. I don't have the time. The body, that many holes, or energy to satisfy everyone of them plus I know there is a real scarcity of real women who really want an arrangement from were we met.

I ain't moving forward. NEXT.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-5014a880c328

**HenryT458** · 05-29-24 15:21

This was crazy. First red flag, she called me handsome. (I aint handsome.) She agreed to meet at a restaurant. Then, second red flag, asked twice what was the location and time. These were answered in a DM. Then, a few minutes later in a text. She finally arrives at the restaurant 25 minutes late. I was waiting in the lobby area. I said, come in and we'll have a quick drink and app then take it from there. She won't leave her car. After 3 minutes, she leaves. WTF. BTW, English isn't her first language.

Turns out she won't meet in public. Only wants to meet in a hotel. That's a no go for me. I suggested meeting in the parking lot of a hotel and then going in. She blocked me. I didn't get a good look at her as she parked in the far rear area of the parking lot. Likely she doesn't look like her pics. NEXT.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...d-526aa06e7088

**HenryT458** · 05-29-24 15:05

This lady feels like a content seller. I'm not interested. Also, I'm not free most nights. I'll pass.

Her response:

I'm looking for a fun, casual, and mutually beneficial arrangement. I have a pretty flexible schedule and am free most nights. But I will like to start with Sharing some of my content for a little amount before we move forward.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...c-6be2f66c9dff

**Sepaguy** · 05-28-24 17:59

This one TGTBT. Went right to text. Yandex reverse image search came back with all sorts of hits. Her funny communication style eas either based on English as a second language or she is autistic.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...f-cf2dcc04c327

**LurkingDog** · 05-28-24 16:03

Originally Posted by HenryT458 [View Original Post]

I have no idea what the deal is with this lady or even if she's real. We agreed on a meet and greet. She said she was driving to the restaurant. Should only take 20 minutes from her professed location. ONE HOUR LATER. Still not there. I bounced. Likely a double booked fake. Waste of time gents. At least for me it was.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-6907aea31ddc

Henry. Too bad she didn't show. She's an attractive one.

LD.

**HenryT458** · 05-28-24 14:10

I have no idea what the deal is with this lady or even if she's real. We agreed on a meet and greet. She said she was driving to the restaurant. Should only take 20 minutes from her professed location. ONE HOUR LATER. Still not there. I bounced. Likely a double booked fake. Waste of time gents. At least for me it was.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-6907aea31ddc

**Shampoo55** · 05-24-24 15:17

Originally Posted by Runner8 [View Original Post]

Rosemary 25 PHL.

This one wants $300 just for the honor of being in her presence! Do any of you guys ever actually meet and greet I never would. In addition, I always find it fascinating when you look at a girls wishlist and find a purse or two for $2,599 or more. Keep dreaming Felicia LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...e-168659305bfb#.

Thanks for the warning! As to Paid M&G goes:

No, don't pay, or agree to pay for a M&G. Even the relatively pro SB threads have a general consensus that the M&G should be a non-compensated platonic date. I mean if you hit it off and want to start right away, that's one thing. Or if you want to impress her, as you think she's going to be a SB after the M&G a gift is approriate at the end. But the M&G should be a "getting to know you", measure the attraction / chemistry and is agreed upfront, not paid.

This girl is either risnser who got confused between WYP and SA or she's an idiot that saw some SM posts on how guys will fork over $$$ for platonic dates, no intimacy required.

I suggest that once one gets off of SA into direct communication, that one discusses what is their version of a "sugar relationship. " Along with that get some idea of her desire for PPM or Allowance. Video calls help weed out scammers and time wasters. THEN the M&G should be a quick coffee or drinks date to see if there is chemistry or attraction to go forward. Don't agree to an expensive meal or something that take a long time. Nothing worse that having to sit through a couple of hours dinner with a girl that s uncouth, inappropriately dressed or an irritating bubblehead or bore.

Just some things I try to employ to avoid wasting time. Sifting, sorting and screening has become much more time consuming these days! Sigh.

**Runner8** · 05-24-24 11:42

Rosemary 25 PHL.

This one wants $300 just for the honor of being in her presence! Do any of you guys ever actually meet and greet I never would. In addition, I always find it fascinating when you look at a girls wishlist and find a purse or two for $2,599 or more. Keep dreaming Felicia LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...e-168659305bfb#.

**EpicSD** · 05-24-24 11:41

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...9-e7c6811c6d6b

Back in the game. This one has that offbeat look I can enjoy but wants like 8 x $- 1 k. Pretty much just laughed at her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...a-41eba133cf46

Hot af, not a surprise that she's expensive We chatted a month ago. Very chill. 6 x $ to blow you. 1 k to fuq raw and cum in her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-4f6977d0662d

Anyone nail her? She looks like a pleaser.

**Ncsmm** · 05-18-24 20:28

Looking some info about this girl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...b-3acef58f7c75

Anyone see before?

**Mythbuster** · 05-17-24 18:16

Originally Posted by PhoenixHose [View Original Post]

This gives me bad vibes. Not short on money. Just looking for hookups when in town. Why not just go to the airport bar? She would have 100% success. Why go on SA?

Proceed with caution.

I have seen this kind of post before. I usually means she has high standards and is looking for someone that fits a criteria.

Think it all the way through to the logical conclusion. Why doesn't she just go to an airport bar? She doesn't want to waste hours sitting at a bar when the particular type of guy she wants isn't even there. She could have close to 100% with a bunch of guys that she's not interested in but that doesn't make much sense. Most average looking guys could have nearly 100% success if they'd take just anyone but would you spend hours in a bar to pick up some low hanging fruit?

It could be real add but beware if she doesn't want money, she wants something.

**Rubber Ducky Boston** · 05-17-24 14:14

Originally Posted by FunSaMale [View Original Post]

Hi I just registered on there. I see an option to upgrade. Is it worth it? Which tier? If I upgrade will I be able to read and send unlimited messages?

Thank you.

I've never upgraded beyond the regular premium. I can't see how the high level upgrade would be worth it.

For upgrading it, yes you will be able to read and send unlimited messages.

Regarding whether its worth it, know that probably about 90% of the people you see on there will not be worth it. Either they'll be looking for the wrong thing such as selling pics or platonic, they'll have GPS and want 1000 ppm, they'll be a catfish, or something else.

So I'd say its only worth getting premium if you see so many potential recently active accounts you're interested in, based on their pics and profiles showing they're looking for what you're looking for, where you can afford to throw 90% of those profiles away, and you still have a healthy number of potential candidates. There are better times of the year / month for it, when there are more active users on the site than others. For example when rent is due, or the beginning of school years when there's an influx of people looking for spending money, travelling into the region.

Also note that it is a LOT more work than just normal hobbying. Like I said the vast majority of these women will be a waste of time. You have to weed thru them all and filter thru candidates a lot. Also a lot of these women are civvies, so even though it is essentially a subcategory of sexwork, you will have to treat them more like a relationship vs. Just a random escort. You may have to text them more, treat them nicely and form a stronger connection with them, etc.

However, in exchange, you can get a much more regular thing going, that per hour will probably cost way less than an escort. Since they're oftentimes civvies, they're not some run down high volume provider nursing a drug addiction. It can be more fun and safe, and you can form a decent long term connection with a person. I'd say be careful not to mistake it for an actual relationship. You are paying for it at the end of the day.

Do NOT discuss anything explicit on the site. They will ban you immediately. In fact the best thing to do is to try to immediately move conversation to your burner phone number, where you can talk more freely.

**PhoenixHose** · 05-17-24 10:33

Originally Posted by HenryT458 [View Original Post]

Here's something different. I'm under the impression she's looking for dudes to hookup with when she's in philly for work. I can't meet most evenings so she won't fit my schedule. A shame. I'm looking for a local lady.

Here's her response:

First of all I need to tell you that I don't live in the same city as you, I just come here often on business. If you don't think it's right for you, you can leave to find the right one for you, and if you think it's okay, we can get to know each other a bit.

And I'm not short of money.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-843b565f5c7d

This gives me bad vibes. Not short on money. Just looking for hookups when in town. Why not just go to the airport bar? She would have 100% success. Why go on SA?

Proceed with caution.

**HenryT458** · 05-17-24 08:01

Here's something different. I'm under the impression she's looking for dudes to hookup with when she's in philly for work. I can't meet most evenings so she won't fit my schedule. A shame. I'm looking for a local lady.

Here's her response:

First of all I need to tell you that I don't live in the same city as you, I just come here often on business. If you don't think it's right for you, you can leave to find the right one for you, and if you think it's okay, we can get to know each other a bit.

And I'm not short of money.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-843b565f5c7d