"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[WiseTraveler]

Yes, we know about those facial recognition sites. The more we are the only ones who know about them, and the POTs don't, the better. We know that some girls on SA read these very threads. Someone should go on the SB threads on Reddit, etc, to see if the girls are yet talking about facial rec.

When SBs, cuddlers, etc. Mention these threads I ask them to send a link. I wait a few days then say it's good to be cautious and paranoid (to a degree), to have a burner / secondary #, and to follow reasonable safety protocols. I then question the GPS rates for just chatting / flirting / hanging out, reinforce that 'the market is the market' - if you are being offered $$$ PPM, that's your range. You can hold out for the ideal but consider that it'll more likely be a Harvey Weinstein type ahole with BO and skid marks who will move on after he's used you.

If they're serious about sugaring I even help them with their profiles / pics and coaching but expect a lower rate and flexibility. It's worked well for me.

[CarmelFight]

I'm talking to this one now and we moved to snap. So far so good but something seems off. Has anyone else talked to her before?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-79fba3b140c1



Either way, TIA and I'll report back.

I talked with her when she had a different name. She's is a time waster, she will be asking for help soon for some BS story. Mine was she just got into a car accident shows a picture of her hand bruised and asking for money to go to a clinic. Never met in person etc. All the red flags. Than when you don't send she just stops communicating and moves on to seek another sucker.

[BobeSugar]

In November 2023, my sugarbaby named Amy from last year asked me to come back to her. We've been dating about once a week since. The dates last 5 to 8 hours, $300 per date, and we do various things in addition to the hot sex like visit a museum, have a meal, or (her favorite) shopping. The shopping is for essential items, not luxury items. Amy wants me to take her camping sometime (cabin or RV) or on a trip to Europe. Amy is a tall, slender, beautiful and intelligent student at a community college with a solid career plan. She is poor and has a menial job. She appears to be exclusive to me.

While I'm writing, let me offer some general comments about sugarbabies. I know that everyone is different, so this may or may not work for you.

I keep it simple and light, with 1 to 3 texts per week to show I'm interested. If you're only seeing them once a week, like I do, you should leave her alone for 1-3 days at a time. Texts are short, for example "Happy Groundhog Day". A fraction (about 1/3) of the texts are accompanied by small amounts of money ($50 to $100). This is gas money. Words are nice, but money says more.

I explained to Amy that there are different kinds of love, like the love you have for your dog, which is different from the love you have for your grandmother or your boyfriend or your eventual husband. "An SD is somewhere between dog and grandma", I said. That made her laugh.

I'm always positive and keep the relationship moving forward. Because it's nothing serious. As an example of how I interact with Amy, once she had me take her to run an errand, she was away for 20 minutes and apologized for keeping me waiting. I said "No problem. By definition, a sugarbaby can never do anything wrong. " She laughed and said "You're adorable. ". But what I meant by that is that a SB / SD relationship is a light-hearted affair. If things were to go wrong, you can simply end the arrangement.

It's funny that while medical doctors and health books give lots of advice on how to stay healthy (exercise, diet, sleep, etc) they never advise to take on a sugarbaby. Why? Largely because of morality, and there's a risk that things go wrong. However, I've found a SB super beneficial to my health: makes me happy and it provides a strong incentive to do the diet and exercise regime to keep my body looking "good for my age".

I would say your experience is an exception and I'm glad for you. Most SB are not like that. They have one goal in mind: rip us off until the last dollar and move on to the next target. I just got tired from all the BS and withdrew from the scene.

[Snake27]

In November 2023, my sugarbaby named Amy from last year asked me to come back to her. We've been dating about once a week since. The dates last 5 to 8 hours, $300 per date, and we do various things in addition to the hot sex like visit a museum, have a meal, or (her favorite) shopping. The shopping is for essential items, not luxury items. Amy wants me to take her camping sometime (cabin or RV) or on a trip to Europe. Amy is a tall, slender, beautiful and intelligent student at a community college with a solid career plan. She is poor and has a menial job. She appears to be exclusive to me.

While I'm writing, let me offer some general comments about sugarbabies. I know that everyone is different, so this may or may not work for you.

I keep it simple and light, with 1 to 3 texts per week to show I'm interested. If you're only seeing them once a week, like I do, you should leave her alone for 1-3 days at a time. Texts are short, for example "Happy Groundhog Day". A fraction (about 1/3) of the texts are accompanied by small amounts of money ($50 to $100). This is gas money. Words are nice, but money says more.

I explained to Amy that there are different kinds of love, like the love you have for your dog, which is different from the love you have for your grandmother or your boyfriend or your eventual husband. "An SD is somewhere between dog and grandma", I said. That made her laugh.

I'm always positive and keep the relationship moving forward. Because it's nothing serious. As an example of how I interact with Amy, once she had me take her to run an errand, she was away for 20 minutes and apologized for keeping me waiting. I said "No problem. By definition, a sugarbaby can never do anything wrong. " She laughed and said "You're adorable. ". But what I meant by that is that a SB / SD relationship is a light-hearted affair. If things were to go wrong, you can simply end the arrangement.

It's funny that while medical doctors and health books give lots of advice on how to stay healthy (exercise, diet, sleep, etc) they never advise to take on a sugarbaby. Why? Largely because of morality, and there's a risk that things go wrong. However, I've found a SB super beneficial to my health: makes me happy and it provides a strong incentive to do the diet and exercise regime to keep my body looking "good for my age".

[Member #6704]

https://members.seeking.com/messages...6-05ff832216c1

Supposed to meet for lunch and then adjourn to the FC, but she ghosted me right after I got to the restaurant. Oh well, at least I got some decent cuban food.

Link seems to be to your message not her profile.

[MilfHunter818]

I'm talking to this one now and we moved to snap. So far so good but something seems off. Has anyone else talked to her before?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-79fba3b140c1



Either way, TIA and I'll report back.

[MilfHunter818]

I've seen college girl last year. I don't remember if I did a report or if someone DMed me. Either way at the time it was $300 ppm and she was very vocal. She speaks 3 languages if I remember correctly and she's in school for programming. She's very smart.

Anyone tried? Seems like a great girl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-85294cb780d6

Same here. Latina.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-c084bd37bffb

College Girl. Mmm is she legit?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...a-3e7a50d98039

Loving Queen. Any experience?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...e-76d5acf01be7

Lilly B.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...b-fc2a7ea41617

Mei -Anyone had experience? She honestly seems worth it.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...e-b00d809172a6

Thanks in advance!

[Jims2321]

https://members.seeking.com/messages...6-05ff832216c1

Supposed to meet for lunch and then adjourn to the FC, but she ghosted me right after I got to the restaurant. Oh well, at least I got some decent cuban food.

[TreatHerWell]

Anyone tried? Seems like a great girl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-85294cb780d6

Same here. Latina.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-c084bd37bffb

College Girl. Mmm is she legit?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...a-3e7a50d98039

Loving Queen. Any experience?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...e-76d5acf01be7

Lilly B.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...b-fc2a7ea41617

Mei -Anyone had experience? She honestly seems worth it.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...e-b00d809172a6

Thanks in advance!

[Ripvan12]

I know it has been brought up before, but it cannot be said enough. Use Facecheck! Seriously guys. This thing is so much better than Google Image or even TinEye. I think the professional version of Pimeye might be a bit better, but for free I have not found anything equal to this. What does this have to do with SB / SD?? You find the catfish so much quicker. I cannot count how many hotties I look up to only find they are a model from NY, or LA, or even Europe. And supposedly sugaring in Atlanta? Yeah. No. Just today had a newbie pop up on there claiming to be a gymnast size queen, and she was taking pics from a (now very pregnant) IG model in NYC. Not all of them are bad though. I found one post on Seeking that turned out to be a seemingly real post from a Hollywood starlet of sorts. Will sit on that one until I hear back from her.

The other benefit of using this site, though, is you can remove your OWN pictures from the net. Basically just submit a pic, and ask FaceCheck to forget it. That way if you ever do send a selfie, and don't want to be found on any other social site (LinkedIn, Insta, etc.), you can at least cover your self that way too. Again, I know this was talked about before in one of the forums, but dude. It totally bears repeating.

Safe mongering!

Facecheck is definitely a game changer for us, but beware it is for the ladies too. I have seen firsthand their chats about it. Sugar Daddy Meet has a SB only online chat and it is constantly mentioned there. Current ho, ahem, SB, let me scroll through it a few times. They will run a face check and then post the SD pic and LinkedIn details into the chat to discuss SD viability and stuff. Very interesting. So be careful my brothers. Ripper.

[FarFarAway]

Yes, we know about those facial recognition sites. The more we are the only ones who know about them, and the POTs don't, the better. We know that some girls on SA read these very threads. Someone should go on the SB threads on Reddit, etc, to see if the girls are yet talking about facial rec.

[Apollo007]

This one tried everything in the book to send some advance money.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...f-2be1eb3627f6

Had me thinking she was on her way till the very end when she needed money for the pill. I told her I'd use a condom, but she still needed to buy it.

700 $ club:

Geek she's 23 blocked me (In Marietta) has put some weight on from the pictures and is on the site all the time. Premium member. Hell no, she's not worth it.

Aphrodite 5'11 (blocked me) lives in Loganville / Snellville says she's a student. May have been able to get that a bit lower but didn't bother. I think she's a Premium member also.

Anyone had any luck with these Premium members for under 400?

[DudeNextDoor]

Case in point. I used it last night when I saw this profile:

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-3c9b37a2c207

Initial search on facecheck and some additional digging I found the second pic on that profile on an instagram account for a high school sophomore in Wilmington, DE. Who knows what the person behind that profile is up to but I'm not going to find out.

You can also take it a step further and report the profile to Seeking. You just have to include the proof you've found.

I know it has been brought up before, but it cannot be said enough. Use Facecheck! Seriously guys. This thing is so much better than Google Image or even TinEye. I think the professional version of Pimeye might be a bit better, but for free I have not found anything equal to this. What does this have to do with SB / SD?? You find the catfish so much quicker. I cannot count how many hotties I look up to only find they are a model from NY, or LA, or even Europe. And supposedly sugaring in Atlanta? Yeah. No. Just today had a newbie pop up on there claiming to be a gymnast size queen, and she was taking pics from a (now very pregnant) IG model in NYC. Not all of them are bad though. I found one post on Seeking that turned out to be a seemingly real post from a Hollywood starlet of sorts. Will sit on that one until I hear back from her.

The other benefit of using this site, though, is you can remove your OWN pictures from the net. Basically just submit a pic, and ask FaceCheck to forget it. That way if you ever do send a selfie, and don't want to be found on any other social site (LinkedIn, Insta, etc.), you can at least cover your self that way too. Again, I know this was talked about before in one of the forums, but dude. It totally bears repeating.

Safe mongering!

[WildWeezil]

I know it has been brought up before, but it cannot be said enough. Use Facecheck! Seriously guys. This thing is so much better than Google Image or even TinEye. I think the professional version of Pimeye might be a bit better, but for free I have not found anything equal to this. What does this have to do with SB / SD?? You find the catfish so much quicker. I cannot count how many hotties I look up to only find they are a model from NY, or LA, or even Europe. And supposedly sugaring in Atlanta? Yeah. No. Just today had a newbie pop up on there claiming to be a gymnast size queen, and she was taking pics from a (now very pregnant) IG model in NYC. Not all of them are bad though. I found one post on Seeking that turned out to be a seemingly real post from a Hollywood starlet of sorts. Will sit on that one until I hear back from her.

The other benefit of using this site, though, is you can remove your OWN pictures from the net. Basically just submit a pic, and ask FaceCheck to forget it. That way if you ever do send a selfie, and don't want to be found on any other social site (LinkedIn, Insta, etc.), you can at least cover your self that way too. Again, I know this was talked about before in one of the forums, but dude. It totally bears repeating.

Safe mongering!

[Atlvoy]

Can't post a link cause she blocked after exchanging numbers (yes we're talking LOL) but wanted to know if anyone else has any experience with her? From marietta.