Rants and Stupid shit in Orange County

[Heartless Jay]

Nothing big for me.

Let's review what the deal is for women. The prime physiological function of nipples is to feed the offspring. Mom needs a reward for that. When baby is dining, it causes the release of oxytocin. This is a hormone that affects cognition and promotes feelings of warmth, attachment, and love. Increases the bond to the kid, so mom stays around to raise it to independence. Some will recognize other things that cause oxytocin release, such as orgasms. And some women breast-feeding get them. There are some really hot videos out on the web of this, I recommend them.

It is intrinsically different for women than men to have nipples stimulated, because we don't have any biological imperative to get a benefit therefrom. I can also believe, just because of natural genetic variation, that there are women who don't particularly get anything out of nursing, and also wouldn't care if we licked / sucked their nipples in a sexual way. However, in many women nipple stim is an important component of arousal, and for guys, like me, I enjoy doing it. Large puffy nipples are a real turn-on in porn. I've not had an IRL woman with anything like those I've seen. I might have an old photo of a past lover who I really did enjoy, she had native american heritage. It does seem some asian women people report in massage parlors heareabouts sometimes have impressive nipples.

Makes perfect sense to me. I've had girlfriends who were turned on by nipple play, stimulating themselves during sex. So I just wondered if it was mostly a gender thing, as you point out, or if I was just built funny.

[FarFarAway]

Do you mongers get anything out of having your nipples fiddled with? I've had so many women twiddle or suck on my nipples thinking it's something that I want done, and maybe it's just me but it does absolutely nothing for me. They're not dead, I mean if I pinch them I feel pain, but there's zero pleasurable sensitivity going on. I figure it must be good for some of you all, otherwise why would so many women think it's bringing men pleasure. Need some feedback before I start asking the girl just who the fuck told you this was a good thing to do.

Nothing big for me.

Let's review what the deal is for women. The prime physiological function of nipples is to feed the offspring. Mom needs a reward for that. When baby is dining, it causes the release of oxytocin. This is a hormone that affects cognition and promotes feelings of warmth, attachment, and love. Increases the bond to the kid, so mom stays around to raise it to independence. Some will recognize other things that cause oxytocin release, such as orgasms. And some women breast-feeding get them. There are some really hot videos out on the web of this, I recommend them.

It is intrinsically different for women than men to have nipples stimulated, because we don't have any biological imperative to get a benefit therefrom. I can also believe, just because of natural genetic variation, that there are women who don't particularly get anything out of nursing, and also wouldn't care if we licked / sucked their nipples in a sexual way. However, in many women nipple stim is an important component of arousal, and for guys, like me, I enjoy doing it. Large puffy nipples are a real turn-on in porn. I've not had an IRL woman with anything like those I've seen. I might have an old photo of a past lover who I really did enjoy, she had native american heritage. It does seem some asian women people report in massage parlors heareabouts sometimes have impressive nipples.

[Ace McNasty]

So, my question to the esteemed members here is: how do you break it off with your ATF?

This actually hapened to an older relative of mine. He was diagnosed with prostate cancer. You seem to be in the same age group where this diagnosis is plausible. Just say you are scheduled for surgery then radiation. After his treatments, he was in remission, but had permanent ED as a terrible side effect. So no more boom boom for him.

I would not tell the woman you are dumping that you have some STD. That might come back to haunt you. Who will criticize a cancer survivor?

[FreeWally]

So, my question to the esteemed members here is: how do you break it off with your ATF?

Your dad died and you need time.

Traveling the world.

Your friend is taking you to Thailand to show you his top 5 18 year olds.

Through therapy you realize you are truly a woman inside.

You have HIV.

[James D 2004]

So I've been seeing this woman for 6-7 years. She's in her late 30's early 40's, me breaking into my 60's. She's still attractive, has a nice bod, is very smart and has her own burliness, and is very amicable and has never said no to anything I asked her to do. Problem is she apparently doesn't cut it for Jr. Anymore. I don't know if it's me getting older or if it's the familiarity factor or something else. With her, Jr. Does wake up, puts out a valiant effort, but in a minute or two goes back to sleep and doesn't deliver the goods. Same Jr. Is a total party animal with other girls whom I find attractive and even some whom I don't. So at this point, I just want to break if off and go seek some greener pastures, but I want to do it as nicely as possible. I don't want to leave her on bad terms or hurt her feelings.

So, my question to the esteemed members here is: how do you break it off with your ATF?

Caught something.

[Assaholic]

So I've been seeing this woman for 6-7 years. She's in her late 30's early 40's, me breaking into my 60's. She's still attractive, has a nice bod, is very smart and has her own burliness, and is very amicable and has never said no to anything I asked her to do. Problem is she apparently doesn't cut it for Jr. Anymore. I don't know if it's me getting older or if it's the familiarity factor or something else. With her, Jr. Does wake up, puts out a valiant effort, but in a minute or two goes back to sleep and doesn't deliver the goods. Same Jr. Is a total party animal with other girls whom I find attractive and even some whom I don't. So at this point, I just want to break if off and go seek some greener pastures, but I want to do it as nicely as possible. I don't want to leave her on bad terms or hurt her feelings.

So, my question to the esteemed members here is: how do you break it off with your ATF?

[DaveSC]

Grimmy, Thanks for this obseration. I didn't realize so many weren't turned on by it. I thought it was just a pathological few.

Lift Her Up.

I just figure they are that guys like licking and sucking and touching the girls nipples, so maybe it's just a human thing, a body thing?

Do unto others?

I don't mind it, but she is not bad nor good. I do like that it puts her face much closer to me (my eyes) which is more intimate and enjoyable. My teeth aren't great so I don't get much on the lfk or dfk, so having her face close is about as girlfriend as I often see.

On that subject, I guess many guys dig this but girls, suck the stick but leave my eggs out of your mouth. I don't want unnecessary squeezes there, or some random out of whack twist that hurts way more than it should.

[Lift Her Up]

. . . for the girls. Some love having their tits sucked and some can't stand it. Most tolerate it because they know we love suckin on them but not all enjoy it.

Grimmy, Thanks for this obseration. I didn't realize so many weren't turned on by it. I thought it was just a pathological few.

Lift Her Up.

[Lift Her Up]

Do you mongers get anything out of having your nipples fiddled with? I've had so many women twiddle or suck on my nipples thinking it's something that I want done, and maybe it's just me but it does absolutely nothing for me. They're not dead, I mean if I pinch them I feel pain, but there's zero pleasurable sensitivity going on. I figure it must be good for some of you all, otherwise why would so many women think it's bringing men pleasure. Need some feedback before I start asking the girl just who the fuck told you this was a good thing to do.

I get just a little additional arousal from it. Yeah, the first time someone did it for me I was surprised. Generally I just go with the flow and I'm glad the girl wants to do stuff she thinks turns me on, always grateful for that. But it's nothing I seek out. Little kisses on my nipples do more than the other stuff. Oh, there was this one time someone used a vibrator on my nipples, that was way way too much.

Interesting topic, thanks for bringing it up.

Lift Her Up.

[Grimmy23]

Do you mongers get anything out of having your nipples fiddled with? I've had so many women twiddle or suck on my nipples thinking it's something that I want done, and maybe it's just me but it does absolutely nothing for me. They're not dead, I mean if I pinch them I feel pain, but there's zero pleasurable sensitivity going on. I figure it must be good for some of you all, otherwise why would so many women think it's bringing men pleasure. Need some feedback before I start asking the girl just who the fuck told you this was a good thing to do.

I love nipple ply, especially having them locked and sucked on. It's a personal preference though, just like it is for the girls. Some love having their tits sucked and some can't stand it. Most tolerate it because they know we love suckin on them but not all enjoy it.

[Heartless Jay]

Do you mongers get anything out of having your nipples fiddled with? I've had so many women twiddle or suck on my nipples thinking it's something that I want done, and maybe it's just me but it does absolutely nothing for me. They're not dead, I mean if I pinch them I feel pain, but there's zero pleasurable sensitivity going on. I figure it must be good for some of you all, otherwise why would so many women think it's bringing men pleasure. Need some feedback before I start asking the girl just who the fuck told you this was a good thing to do.

[TheZorak]

I wrote this before, but I hate dealing with independents. The "direct connection" means nothing to me if we can't have any connection at all. Most of them have no idea what they're doing and are totally flaky for no reason even when you show dedication to try and work with them. Do you want business or not? If any independents read this, get a booker and make everyone's life easier.

There's my rant LOL.

[Oc Amper]

The biggest danger might be the shaming. In other states, they post the names and photos of the providers or johns. You can find mugshots of Chinese women online where they were arrested, photographed, and then the pics pubiished in the newspaper.

They have done this in the past, both OC Sheriff and Santa Ana PD. Could be other jurisdictions that have also had a webpage for johns locally, but just haven't come across it, yet.

Santa Ana, still has the page up, but no photos on it. Says, the photo's will stay up for 15 days. It seems it would include only arrested and charged, so a higher bar than just investigated.

I could be mistaken on OC Sheriff, I might be recalling OC Sheriff in FL, which BTW, OC Sheriff now tweets out the John photo's on a periodic basis. Oh, they also have an Instagram page with same / similar info.

[Lift Her Up]

Since you supposedly got so many numbers and know all the mamas and papasans. Go recruit and open one your self. Smarty pants!!

Hi Al, You may have me confused with someone else. I have the phone number of just one provider, and I don't know any PPS or MMS personally, I don't even think I know any of their names.

Lift Her Up.

[AlCapone2006]

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