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Cuddle2 gether
Thank you for sharing. Cuddle2 gether is willing to go beyond platonic if you treat her with respect. She has gained weight since the pictures and I didn't partake in the extras. She's a nice person though.
 Originally Posted by YourCCPimp
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I hope this helps people save some money. Note: I never ask about extras over the phone. I know many of these girls want.
To see that you are not a psycho and don't considered themselves sex workers. If you ask beforehand you might get a 'no'.
Extras:
Brynnu. Cute! Was ok with topless for no extra $. 500 FS. Not the greatest communicator and lives in the boonies.
Autumnwinter. Really cute girl. No upcharge for basic extras. 500 for FS.
Pty1999 - a little out of the area but full game with small upcharge. Gained a lot of weight since the pics.
Mimicuddles91 - Hesitant at first but willing to do all with a level of comfort.
Extras with bigger chics:
Ginger1999 - I think the menu is wide but she is too big for me, much bigger than the pics.
Littlespoon4 you. Gets nude, gives HJ.
Extras if you like huge muscles:
Marianicole97 - got naked, allowed roaming, gave a HJ, no FS. No upcharge. Does fetish work.
Not sure:
Neednomore. Didn't meet but start to complain about guys wanting more so I bailed.
Rosiessnuggles. Didn't meet but wanted to meet about the platonic rules. Adios *****.
Don't bother:
Leigh23.
Sappphyre444 - seemed like a sure thing but no.
Oxytocinpotion.
Sammiem.
Seal_lover.
Kittyinfinity13 - no luck for me but others have reported some success.
Mscuddlemuffin. Straight up ghetto but no dice. Total disappointment.
Bet. Wonderful girl but no.
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Excellent report! Like you said, it is YMMV with kittyinfinity13. Have had better luck with her.
 Originally Posted by YourCCPimp
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I hope this helps people save some money. Note: I never ask about extras over the phone. I know many of these girls want.
To see that you are not a psycho and don't considered themselves sex workers. If you ask beforehand you might get a 'no'.
Extras:
Brynnu. Cute! Was ok with topless for no extra $. 500 FS. Not the greatest communicator and lives in the boonies.
Autumnwinter. Really cute girl. No upcharge for basic extras. 500 for FS.
Pty1999 - a little out of the area but full game with small upcharge. Gained a lot of weight since the pics.
Mimicuddles91 - Hesitant at first but willing to do all with a level of comfort.
Extras with bigger chics:
Ginger1999 - I think the menu is wide but she is too big for me, much bigger than the pics.
Littlespoon4 you. Gets nude, gives HJ.
Extras if you like huge muscles:.
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A few experiences
I hope this helps people save some money. Note: I never ask about extras over the phone. I know many of these girls want.
To see that you are not a psycho and don't considered themselves sex workers. If you ask beforehand you might get a 'no'.
Extras:
Brynnu. Cute! Was ok with topless for no extra $. 500 FS. Not the greatest communicator and lives in the boonies.
Autumnwinter. Really cute girl. No upcharge for basic extras. 500 for FS.
Pty1999 - a little out of the area but full game with small upcharge. Gained a lot of weight since the pics.
Mimicuddles91 - Hesitant at first but willing to do all with a level of comfort.
Extras with bigger chics:
Ginger1999 - I think the menu is wide but she is too big for me, much bigger than the pics.
Littlespoon4 you. Gets nude, gives HJ.
Extras if you like huge muscles:
Marianicole97 - got naked, allowed roaming, gave a HJ, no FS. No upcharge. Does fetish work.
Not sure:
Neednomore. Didn't meet but start to complain about guys wanting more so I bailed.
Rosiessnuggles. Didn't meet but wanted to meet about the platonic rules. Adios *****.
Don't bother:
Leigh23.
Sappphyre444 - seemed like a sure thing but no.
Oxytocinpotion.
Sammiem.
Seal_lover.
Kittyinfinity13 - no luck for me but others have reported some success.
Mscuddlemuffin. Straight up ghetto but no dice. Total disappointment.
Bet. Wonderful girl but no.
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Re Natasha
 Originally Posted by Sobe69
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Use to be on SA and told me she has a SD but did not go into details on the arrangement.
I met her a number of months ago myself. Really cool girl and great body. Got completely naked and hung out but wouldn't go forward that time. I sense she is game but more in the big $ SB sense. Also, the worst responder in all of CC. The first time we met she replied to me after 3 months, then she replied enough for our first meet, then any time since then she replies once every month or two. Super annoying.
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 Posts: 48
End of year report
Sharing in Charlotte cuddle thread too. Had my last work trip until the New Year recently and was able to meet up with a few cuddlers. As has been the case for maybe 90% of my cuddles over the years, none of these remained "strictly platonic". I've been fortunate, and have also never negotiated a menu beforehand either, and agree with others that it adds to the "game" for me. I'll have many more trips to NC in 2024, and as always am interested in swapping Intel on cuddlers. This trip I saw Hezekiah, Zella, PajamaMama, CuddleCoach across a week in Charlotte and Raleigh areas.
Happy to discuss any via PM. Would also love insight on any why'all have met but didn't share details of in forum.
In 2024 I'm interested in:
- Winston-Salem: KRW11.
- Charlotte: MielO, FairySnuggles, JessaB, LolaCuddles, VenusInEden, Ladyface2.
- Raleigh: ChrissyJ, CuddleCait93, WarmHeartAsian, AlliOops.
- Thomasville: Jayycook.
- Linville Falls: LadyOfTheMtn.
- Greensboro: Posha.
- Silver City: 1 Paradise.
-WillowSpring: Neednomore.
Merry Christmas to all who celebrate and a happy New Year.
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Spot on
 Originally Posted by MarkStory99
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So a couple of things. First, there's absolutely value in just cuddling with a pretty woman, chatting with her, with no strings attached. You're not trying to date her, you know she'll leave when the sessions over. It's transactional and easy. Good looking guys in their 20's can likely get this any time they want. Average looking guys pushing 50 (like me) have a lot less options.
Secondly, because a certain percentage of cuddlers WILL do more, it's the thrill of the chase. It's watching to see how she reacts when she feels your erection. It's looking to see how she dresses, and if she leaves the room or not while you change clothes. It's very much like the thrill of getting extras from a legit massage therapist. They're out there, you just have to find them. AND, also like massage therapists, most of them have been asked about extras in the past. If you're clean and polite, the question isn't going to offend most of them (as long as you accept the answer).
With my two favorite pro cuddlers (so far) -- one went into my bathroom and came out wearing VERY short shorts -- I. E. So short I could see the bottom curve of her ass cheeks, with no evidence of panties. While I didn't take that as a 100% guarantee, I was pretty sure it was 90% And things have always gone very well with her, to the point that we now start our cuddle sessions completely nude.
With another, in communicating beforehand, we talked about massages and back rubs. And even on CC's messaging system (which some of them are paranoid about) she told me that she didn't mind if I removed my shirt, because "back rubs feel better that way. " Again, that was a big green flag and a session that turned out very, very nice. (She opened the door wearing a short robe too, which told me all I needed to know.).
I dabbled with cuddle comfort few years back and made some contacts. I don't have a lot of time so only use seeking to find someone now. One sure shot way of finding someone that will do more than just cuddling is finding one that is also in another site. I know atleast 3 that are active in cuddle comfort and seeking. So either you hit them direct in seeking and negotiate or play the cuddle game. It's all about enjoying the experience.
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Increased Rates on CC
 Originally Posted by MrNCbob
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Sounds like a lot of effort. I actually think I would enjoy this service as long as touching through clothes is allowed but I might try it in reverse. Maybe I can find a hot FS provider and see if I can experience the thrill of getting her to cuddle first. Then fuck me.
That's not a bad idea, trying it in reverse, especially since the professional cuddlers keep increasing their rates. When it was 50-80 per hr. To cuddle that wasn't so bad to try and see if you could get more than just a cuddle. But trying to find out if the cuddler will offer more when you have to pay 100 -150 per hr just to spoon or snuggle that is to much work.
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Like dating?
 Originally Posted by TheBen
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This is 100% accurate! I love the cuddle game, its definitely YMMV. I ask 100% of the girls if they will do a little more and have never had one of them get angry with me. Like Mark said as long as you accept the answer.
Sounds like a lot of effort. I actually think I would enjoy this service as long as touching through clothes is allowed but I might try it in reverse. Maybe I can find a hot FS provider and see if I can experience the thrill of getting her to cuddle first. Then fuck me.
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 Originally Posted by MarkStory99
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So a couple of things. First, there's absolutely value in just cuddling with a pretty woman, chatting with her, with no strings attached. You're not trying to date her, you know she'll leave when the sessions over. It's transactional and easy. Good looking guys in their 20's can likely get this any time they want. Average looking guys pushing 50 (like me) have a lot less options.
Secondly, because a certain percentage of cuddlers WILL do more, it's the thrill of the chase. It's watching to see how she reacts when she feels your erection. It's looking to see how she dresses, and if she leaves the room or not while you change clothes. It's very much like the thrill of getting extras from a legit massage therapist. They're out there, you just have to find them. AND, also like massage therapists, most of them have been asked about extras in the past. If you're clean and polite, the question isn't going to offend most of them (as long as you accept the answer).
With my two favorite pro cuddlers (so far) -- one went into my bathroom and came out wearing VERY short shorts -- I. E. So short I could see the bottom curve of her ass cheeks, with no evidence of panties. While I didn't take that as a 100% guarantee, I was pretty sure it was 90% And things have always gone very well with her, to the point that we now start our cuddle sessions completely nude.
With another, in communicating beforehand, we talked about massages and back rubs. And even on CC's messaging system (which some of them are paranoid about) she told me that she didn't mind if I removed my shirt, because "back rubs feel better that way. " Again, that was a big green flag and a session that turned out very, very nice. (She opened the door wearing a short robe too, which told me all I needed to know.).
This is 100% accurate! I love the cuddle game, its definitely YMMV. I ask 100% of the girls if they will do a little more and have never had one of them get angry with me. Like Mark said as long as you accept the answer.
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 Originally Posted by MarkStory99
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So a couple of things. First, there's absolutely value in just cuddling with a pretty woman, chatting with her, with no strings attached. You're not trying to date her, you know she'll leave when the sessions over. It's transactional and easy. Good looking guys in their 20's can likely get this any time they want. Average looking guys pushing 50 (like me) have a lot less options.
Secondly, because a certain percentage of cuddlers WILL do more, it's the thrill of the chase. It's watching to see how she reacts when she feels your erection. It's looking to see how she dresses, and if she leaves the room or not while you change clothes. It's very much like the thrill of getting extras from a legit massage therapist. They're out there, you just have to find them. AND, also like massage therapists, most of them have been asked about extras in the past. If you're clean and polite, the question isn't going to offend most of them (as long as you accept the answer).
With my two favorite pro cuddlers (so far) -- one went into my bathroom and came out wearing VERY short shorts -- I. E. So short I could see the bottom curve of her ass cheeks, with no evidence of panties. While I didn't take that as a 100% guarantee, I was pretty sure it was 90% And things have always gone very well with her, to the point that we now start our cuddle sessions completely nude.
With another, in communicating beforehand, we talked about massages and back rubs. And even on CC's messaging system (which some of them are paranoid about) she told me that she didn't mind if I removed my shirt, because "back rubs feel better that way. " Again, that was a big green flag and a session that turned out very, very nice. (She opened the door wearing a short robe too, which told me all I needed to know.).
Would you please share their accounts? Feel free to PM me if you don't feel like sharing here.
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 Originally Posted by SeekingRdu
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And you pay for this? I cannot imagine anything more humiliating. I mean unless you have a literal humiliation kink (in which case good on you) then this whole thing seems absolutely fucking absurd.
So a couple of things. First, there's absolutely value in just cuddling with a pretty woman, chatting with her, with no strings attached. You're not trying to date her, you know she'll leave when the sessions over. It's transactional and easy. Good looking guys in their 20's can likely get this any time they want. Average looking guys pushing 50 (like me) have a lot less options.
Secondly, because a certain percentage of cuddlers WILL do more, it's the thrill of the chase. It's watching to see how she reacts when she feels your erection. It's looking to see how she dresses, and if she leaves the room or not while you change clothes. It's very much like the thrill of getting extras from a legit massage therapist. They're out there, you just have to find them. AND, also like massage therapists, most of them have been asked about extras in the past. If you're clean and polite, the question isn't going to offend most of them (as long as you accept the answer).
With my two favorite pro cuddlers (so far) -- one went into my bathroom and came out wearing VERY short shorts -- I. E. So short I could see the bottom curve of her ass cheeks, with no evidence of panties. While I didn't take that as a 100% guarantee, I was pretty sure it was 90% And things have always gone very well with her, to the point that we now start our cuddle sessions completely nude.
With another, in communicating beforehand, we talked about massages and back rubs. And even on CC's messaging system (which some of them are paranoid about) she told me that she didn't mind if I removed my shirt, because "back rubs feel better that way. " Again, that was a big green flag and a session that turned out very, very nice. (She opened the door wearing a short robe too, which told me all I needed to know.).
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I guess some folks like the thrill of chasing something that might not be there so if you hit the jackpot it might be more fun. You have to be ok with getting the blue balls here and there.
 Originally Posted by SeekingRdu
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And you pay for this? I cannot imagine anything more humiliating. I mean unless you have a literal humiliation kink (in which case good on you) then this whole thing seems absolutely fucking absurd.
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 Originally Posted by Gatttaca
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You just talk and cuddle. Platonic will not include any happy ending. You cannot touch her on areas covered by bra and panty. You must be dressed. If the cuddler does indulge in non platonic then it all depends up to what extent she wants to go.
And you pay for this? I cannot imagine anything more humiliating. I mean unless you have a literal humiliation kink (in which case good on you) then this whole thing seems absolutely fucking absurd.
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Platonic
Site rules do not allow for anything sensual. You could be reported and blocked from the site for that so a typical cuddling session would be clothed, talking, hugging, caressing each other without anything sensual let alone sexual which means it is all legal. However, depending on your chemistry with your partner things may advance but there are no guarantees.
 Originally Posted by MrNCbob
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Thank you for the reply and I get that. I imagine it's probably similar to FBSM providers. But I know what a sensual massage is, I don't know what cuddling is. So let's say I go see a cuddle provider who is strictly platonic, what would that service entail? First we meet & greet, then what? Are we nude? What is the actual act of cuddling? Is sensual touching an expectation? And if there is no happy ending, will they at least allow me to finish myself at the end? I would really like to hear some descriptions of the visits from some of you guys who do this.
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 Originally Posted by MrNCbob
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Thank you for the reply and I get that. I imagine it's probably similar to FBSM providers. But I know what a sensual massage is, I don't know what cuddling is. So let's say I go see a cuddle provider who is strictly platonic, what would that service entail? First we meet & greet, then what? Are we nude? What is the actual act of cuddling? Is sensual touching an expectation? And if there is no happy ending, will they at least allow me to finish myself at the end? I would really like to hear some descriptions of the visits from some of you guys who do this.
You just talk and cuddle. Platonic will not include any happy ending. You cannot touch her on areas covered by bra and panty. You must be dressed. If the cuddler does indulge in non platonic then it all depends up to what extent she wants to go.
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