Never had this happen but I do things backwards. First, I don't bother to take a girl out unless she's worth it. We have a good time, and I pay her. Maybe $300. She didn't ask for it but she's worth it.
Nothing is free and if you try to get it for free it will show in how she treats you. You're rolling the dice on having a good time when it's easier to go the other way. Only take out someone you get along with anyways and take care of her.
If a real friend in life needs money, don't lend it to them. Give it to them. If you are hesitant to give them that money, then don't give it to them either! A real friend would give it back anyways without being asked. I have the same policy with Kgirls. I wouldn't lend a dollar but if someone was a good person to me I'd just give it to them. Never needed to have that conversation though. I've had girls turn down gifts of money instead. I guess because of my first point, I wouldn't be with them if we didn't get along well in the first place.
Well Stated Sir on giving rather than lending; Or as we can say investing in someone if you really believe they are worth it! After all, don't we invest in our best friends, kids, parents, perspective girl friends or loved ones hoping that we all succeed in their ventures or we succeed in our relationship with them. However, I have learned and my caveat is that K-Girls' old habits of being a hoe can ever be shed as A hoe always remains a hoe at heart and you can't change that habit of them. And be assure that 98%+ of K-girl will eventually betray you or fuck you over in a relationship.
I have personally known a handful of K-Girls that look for husbands or boyfriends while working. I guess one can look at it and say: "Humm that is an interesting concept" and then invest in them financially and emotionally but I can assure you that 98%+ of these hoes will eventually look to replace you with a better option or walk out of relationship in a blink of an eyes because they always feel that they are entitled and they don't believe in working things out because to a K-girls an idea of fixing things in a shaky relationship is to go back to hoeing and fucking 1,000+ guys. These girls have formed a habit of hustling, have no real heart and they put out something that 99% of the civilian girls would not, which is their pussies and they will have no hesitation to fuck you over at blink of an eye.
And ask yourself on what do would you really expect from a girl that who define that type of a JOB she is doing as a "work"! So, be careful of getting too deep with them. They are only good for one thing which you already know.
There's plenty free. I live near playa vista and when they had that operation running from there a few years ago, probably the youngest and hottest kgirl I've ever been with, I started seeing her OTC. For almost a month, until she had to go back to Korea, she'd come to my place after 'work' and we'd eat dinner and watch tv and have sex (bare of course) and she'd sleep over. I'd drop her off in the morning on my way to work. Occasionally we'd meet up at a santa monica bar with her friends who I assume were coworkers and we'd hang out and dance. She would show me the gifts she received that day - cakes and flowers and other stuff she didn't care about. She never asked for a cent nor hinted at it. Yes, you have to be fit and decent looking and live in a cool place. Not all of these girls are mercenary robots.
Never had this happen but I do things backwards. First, I don't bother to take a girl out unless she's worth it. We have a good time, and I pay her. Maybe $300. She didn't ask for it but she's worth it.
Nothing is free and if you try to get it for free it will show in how she treats you. You're rolling the dice on having a good time when it's easier to go the other way. Only take out someone you get along with anyways and take care of her.
If a real friend in life needs money, don't lend it to them. Give it to them. If you are hesitant to give them that money, then don't led it to them either! A real friend would give it back anyways without being asked. I have the same policy with Kgirls. I wouldn't lend a dollar but if someone was a good person to me I'd just give it to them. Never needed to have that conversation though. I've had girls turn down gifts of money instead. I guess because to my first point, I wouldn't be with them if we didn't get along well in the first place.
I don't think too many "marry out" while working. I think they quit and get married later. Their past occupation remains hidden. I've only really heard of 1-2 cases of marrying out. Even then friend of a working girl friend scenarios. I do know currently of a couple. Girl actual remains working out of their house with a few girls under her until they can save more money.
Solid way to think about it and I think if I had that mentality before hand, I would have been less offended when she didn't recognize me. Unrelated and I know it's been talked about before but do you think these girls marry customers for genuine love at any point or is the line too blurred after seeing them in this profession? Just wondering since objectively I really do think 99% of these ladies are smoke shows. The 1% usually gets sussed out and don't last longer than they can. That's got to be some incentive for some dudes who want arm candy who already know the goods are good to get.
I've never had a girl asking to borrow money but I did have a couple girls who asked me to marry them. One of them even said they would pay me to marry them.
For better or worse I turned them down. I sometimes wonder how my life would be now if I took up on the offer.
I had a similar offer recently. Thought about it. But if you have any assets / money. Its a HUGE risk for you.
And unfortunately, the process is NOT quick. You'd effectively be beholden to it for min 1. 5-2 years.
So the risk / reward ratio is just not in your favor and considering the unstable entity is the girl. I would not recommend the issue.
Never had this happen but I do things backwards. First, I don't bother to take a girl out unless she's worth it. We have a good time, and I pay her. Maybe $300. She didn't ask for it but she's worth it.
Nothing is free and if you try to get it for free it will show in how she treats you. You're rolling the dice on having a good time when it's easier to go the other way. Only take out someone you get along with anyways and take care of her.
If a real friend in life needs money, don't lend it to them. Give it to them. If you are hesitant to give them that money, then don't led it to them either! A real friend would give it back anyways without being asked. I have the same policy with Kgirls. I wouldn't lend a dollar but if someone was a good person to me I'd just give it to them. Never needed to have that conversation though. I've had girls turn down gifts of money instead. I guess because to my first point, I wouldn't be with them if we didn't get along well in the first place.
Solid way to think about it and I think if I had that mentality before hand, I would have been less offended when she didn't recognize me. Unrelated and I know it's been talked about before but do you think these girls marry customers for genuine love at any point or is the line too blurred after seeing them in this profession? Just wondering since objectively I really do think 99% of these ladies are smoke shows. The 1% usually gets sussed out and don't last longer than they can. That's got to be some incentive for some dudes who want arm candy who already know the goods are good to get.
To each their own, of course. For me, the only downside to this is if you and the girl really get along, she might actually want to hang out with you and not feel like she needs to get paid because she doesn't consider it work, but paying her is insulting her. I learned that the hard way once. I assumed it would be a nice thing to pay her for her time, but she thought it meant I didn't really like her, and I never saw her again. She was one of the ones I would've considered something serious with; the last time we saw each other, she was rubbing my cock the whole drive back to her place, and after we parked on the street and was saying our goodbyes, she unzipped my pants and started blowing me right in the car! In hindsight, I maybe should've let her finish, but this was in broad daylight on a busy street, and I got too nervous since there was someone walking by the car like every 30 seconds, including the occasional kid, so I stopped her. I still think about that often.
If they ask me to hang out or agree to hang out with me, and want / require money, I pass on that now. I'd rather save the money to see them in the bedroom, if money is the only reason they want / need to hang out with me. But that's just me.
Never had this happen but I do things backwards. First, I don't bother to take a girl out unless she's worth it. We have a good time, and I pay her. Maybe $300. She didn't ask for it but she's worth it.
Nothing is free and if you try to get it for free it will show in how she treats you. You're rolling the dice on having a good time when it's easier to go the other way. Only take out someone you get along with anyways and take care of her.
Typical Asian ass, meaning not a lot of meat there. Asha's caboose isn't her best attribute. It's there but it's just normal size and not particularly tight or giggly. Somewhere in between. Honestly, I was too transfixed by her brilliant boobies to notice much else.
Did you lend her the $1 k? Curious bc something similar has happened to me before. Maybe it's the same girl lmao.
I've never had a girl asking to borrow money but I did have a couple girls who asked me to marry them. One of them even said they would pay me to marry them.
For better or worse I turned them down. I sometimes wonder how my life would be now if I took up on the offer.
Never had this happen but I do things backwards. First, I don't bother to take a girl out unless she's worth it. We have a good time, and I pay her. Maybe $300. She didn't ask for it but she's worth it.
Nothing is free and if you try to get it for free it will show in how she treats you. You're rolling the dice on having a good time when it's easier to go the other way. Only take out someone you get along with anyways and take care of her.
If a real friend in life needs money, don't lend it to them. Give it to them. If you are hesitant to give them that money, then don't led it to them either! A real friend would give it back anyways without being asked. I have the same policy with Kgirls. I wouldn't lend a dollar but if someone was a good person to me I'd just give it to them. Never needed to have that conversation though. I've had girls turn down gifts of money instead. I guess because to my first point, I wouldn't be with them if we didn't get along well in the first place.
Same, I took a Kgirl to dinner and after I dropped her off, she texted me asking to borrow $1000. Nothing in life is OTC.
Never had this happen but I do things backwards. First, I don't bother to take a girl out unless she's worth it. We have a good time, and I pay her. Maybe $300. She didn't ask for it but she's worth it.
Nothing is free and if you try to get it for free it will show in how she treats you. You're rolling the dice on having a good time when it's easier to go the other way. Only take out someone you get along with anyways and take care of her.
If a real friend in life needs money, don't lend it to them. Give it to them. If you are hesitant to give them that money, then don't led it to them either! A real friend would give it back anyways without being asked. I have the same policy with Kgirls. I wouldn't lend a dollar but if someone was a good person to me I'd just give it to them. Never needed to have that conversation though. I've had girls turn down gifts of money instead. I guess because to my first point, I wouldn't be with them if we didn't get along well in the first place.
Same, I took a Kgirl to dinner and after I dropped her off, she texted me asking to borrow $1000. Nothing in life is OTC.
With the providers, it's rare, but it can happen. For me, it's been more like 1 out of every 10 I see outside of the bedroom asks for money. And another 1 out of those 10 actually seem to enjoy seeing me. The other 8 or so usually just fizzle out naturally or because she leaves town.
For the ones that ask for money, go with your gut; say no like 99.5% of the time. The other 0. 5%, it's still a pretty big gamble, but in the end, I've still come out ahead if I do the math on the services I've received for the money I've paid / lent.
She wanted to "borrow" $5 k. I lent it to her. She never paid me back but we did see each other on a weekly basis for around a year so I guess she did pay me back indirectly.
I've been asked for money. It was the skinny kgirl in MW at the palace that had the tightest pussy. Forgot her name she changed it a couple times one of names was eye. She wanted me to let her borrow 2 k. I did and I took her out a few times. I didn't get free fucks though. She always asked for what she charged but she did let me CIP which was nice. I texted her last year but I think she is in a relationship now since she asked me not to text her unless she does first.
Probably excellent for Kgirls who crowdfund by mass texting their regulars asking to borrow money.
I've been asked for money. It was the skinny kgirl in MW at the palace that had the tightest pussy. Forgot her name she changed it a couple times one of names was eye. She wanted me to let her borrow 2 k. I did and I took her out a few times. I didn't get free fucks though. She always asked for what she charged but she did let me CIP which was nice. I texted her last year but I think she is in a relationship now since she asked me not to text her unless she does first.
Eye, Aiyou, and another name that shall remain nameless, may or may not be the stunt-double for Meng'er Zhang, who played 'Xialing' in Shang-Chi. Ironically, not even the Marvel universe could've conjured up a more magical pussy. IMO, that little love canal was second to none, that is until Tami showed up this year. No one should be surprised that it sounded like Eye was crying when she came from being stretched out.