PB got it right, I've been UTR with outside the shops and civies. But the civies on tinder and bumble take so much damn effort and money. Sometimes the baggage isn't worth it and it's much easier to just spit game at the providers.
If I could share the contact vidlover, I met a girl on tinder you would probably fucking love. She is a former cam model, thai + swiss mix with a tight spinner body. She lives in Europe but comes to town for raves and that's where we hook up. Probably one of the only girls I asked for video with and man is she a little hoe on camera, definitely worth watching over and over. I just pay for her flight trip and I get to bang her all weekend, such a steal.
Ok I am willing to concede that Shy is better looking with better game than I. He's got a variety of girls at the same time in rotation whereas I am probably just singularly focused and more luck and timing than anything else.
If I call Shy, DK and I the Three Stooges (or clowns as some fans of mine would say) or the three Musketeers (sounds better) since we shared Hana XOXO (that's really where we bonded LOL), Shy could be more handsome and charming of the 3. DK #2 (unless he challenges Shy to a duel), I am fine being 3rd if no one kicks me out of the line up!
Shynerdx, you should be on tinder fucking civvies.
PB got it right, I've been UTR with outside the shops and civies. But the civies on tinder and bumble take so much damn effort and money. Sometimes the baggage isn't worth it and it's much easier to just spit game at the providers.
If I could share the contact vidlover, I met a girl on tinder you would probably fucking love. She is a former cam model, thai + swiss mix with a tight spinner body. She lives in Europe but comes to town for raves and that's where we hook up. Probably one of the only girls I asked for video with and man is she a little hoe on camera, definitely worth watching over and over. I just pay for her flight trip and I get to bang her all weekend, such a steal.
OH, DDY Ivy is fucking hot. The pics are her but her face is glowed up. But she is damn pretty. And that fucking body. And maybe even late 20's. Hottest new C girl I've seen in a while. And she is new.
I thought Ivy was ok, I saw her side by side to grace when she first arrived and they were very similar. With that body type and height, I would said Dolly is much better looking than those two but that's IMO.
All the best stores in Manhattan operate this way. If you are not willing to go through verification, than IMO you will be wasting your time and money mongering in Manhattan. You will end up overpaying for MILFs and aunties working out of the myriad of shitty overpriced spas we have in the city.
Idk which shops you're going to in Flushing / Queens, but that is definitely the better option for those who aren't willing verify, as many stores there get pretty much the same quality pussy as can be had in Manhattan. They will usually just ask for some info over text like your name, race and occupation. No need to send LinkedIn, Drivers license, business card or selfie as in Manhattan.
So looking to do the manhattan places. If they are asking for references, how does one go about that?
You are correct. There's no one size fits all when it comes to negotiations. Since you are a collector, you have a very specific need and have to make your intentions known. Are you able to get breaks for repeats for scene 2, scene 3,. Etc?
If I repeat, it's with the girls that were more accommodative on the extras and the service / looks justify it. Otherwise, I prefer to expand the collection.
LOL sorry, maybe I meant you have more to offer. Now Shy will say I think he has no charm and humor and only his good looks. WTF. I can't even give a compliment without you fuckers complaining about something! Jesus pussy lover christ.
Agree with 1 and 2. My condom is either in my pocket that I reach for before fucking or I put it on the bed if girl puts one on the bed and I will pretend I'm ok with condom play and sometimes it prompts the girl to ask. J condom often gets a playful reaction from the girls too.
LOL! WTF! I'm not ugly as well. You're making me out as a fat comedian that has to use humor to get ahead.
I actually worked out a routine that I run though when meeting a JGirl for the first time. It works really well for me but it involves a big bag of tricks and counters that I have learned over the past few months.
Here are the basics (everyone should already know this):
1. Don't negotiate at the beginning.
2. You have 60 seconds for negotiations.
3. I don't flash a JCondom but be ready to say that it's ok to use a condom.
I think Shy is out working on Civvies is but Civvies takes more time, effort, and money. He's got some UTR he's twerking on too.
Definitely do not over-negotiate as it ruins the mood. I am always playful in the negotiations and yes sometimes you re-negotiate after you start fucking because she's into it after the session starts. I cannot tell you how many times the condom is put on the bed after the first playful negotiation and then it's not used midway through.
Shynerdx, you should be on tinder fucking civvies.
All good points. One more to add is I don't like to 'over negotiate'. Wastes too much time and I don't want the girl giving a shitty session bc I pushed too hard on pricing.
Long time member and lurker who wants to visit NYC only for this, Can I ask in a polite way, this is a BBFS forum and all I seem to read page after page is Asian or incall massage parlor stuff usually Asian.
Other than Gina. Are there any recent known or new white or Mixed or Hispanic girls that come to your motel / hotel who may or may not even rely on you having recent test results, (which I do) ? That will bareback? Sorry if I sound picky, its just Asian girls are not my thing. Looking for White, Hispanic Mixed or light skinned?
For BBFS, these suggestions are worth considering. For video, it is better to discuss at the beginning. Sometimes the MMS / PPS gets it wrong or the girl has restrictions then I have to switch girls.
You are correct. There's no one size fits all when it comes to negotiations. Since you are a collector, you have a very specific need and have to make your intentions known. Are you able to get breaks for repeats for scene 2, scene 3,. Etc?
Very cute girl, no lube club, 100/200 but yes the yada yada yada got the BBFS. Good BJ from her too.
OH, DDY Ivy is fucking hot. The pics are her but her face is glowed up. But she is damn pretty. And that fucking body. And maybe even late 20's. Hottest new C girl I've seen in a while. And she is new.
Javlur- she has a nice Bush and Emily has not asked her to shave it. And a small pussy. Oh.
Rule of thumb is it providers ask condom or no condom right off the bat, ask how much? If it is not what you want don't bother negotiating and just say condom is fine. Work your charm before penetrating and then negotiate. 80% of the time they will bite, if it's a negotiated COP price fuck her first then the last 5-10 minutes after making her feel good negotiate the CIP price, 90% of the time they will agree because they either feel good or tired of fucking you.
Now as far as charm and game that's YMMV. Some people will just negotiate from the get go but that's a 50/50 coin flip.
I think it is even better to not even ask them how much. Lately I've been doing:
You do no condom?
Yes.
100 (or hiya ku) inside and point my finger right on her pussy.
GD, I think you saw Seoli earlier when she was asking 100/200. She has since moved to asking 200/300.
I saw that getting under 200 was piece of cake her first day. Usually girls have dreams of higher prices the first day. I am very selective about who I believe. I have not heard any of the guys I generally trust saying 300 hard. But I am very pessimistic about reviews in general.
I just started to read posts from other mongers in this forum. One monger had listed several links to establishments which I thought were all located in Manhattan. After clicking on one of the links it turns out to be located in or around Jersey City, New Jersey. I had text them explaining how I had gotten their information, and that I needed some information before making an appoint to see them. I was hoping to get the address so that I could enter it into my g. P.S. On my phone to see how long the drive time would be. I also wanted a clarification on the pricing and menu options. I did not want to arrive there and be surprised with sticker price shock. Here is what they said. They wanted to know my age and race. Then they sent me this text. See the attachment. I understand the need to take precautions for a variety of reasons, but to give out this kind of personal information to strangers is ridiculous! I don't know who these people are, if they are going to keep my information on file, use the information to create new identity theft, or even worse, use it against me as blackmail. In either case, I don't care. These establishments are in the entertainment / hospitality industry. They should be grateful that I have visited them or even have considered seeing them. Their is plenty of these shops around Manhattan in the surrounding areas. I have been fortunate to find one or two locations in Flushing / Queens who take good care of me without all this headache.
I'm sorry for the venting, I'm just trying to find out if all or a majority of the establishments in Manhattan follow similar guidelines. If so, I may just continue doing business in Flushing / Queens. I would appreciate it if any fellow members would consider sharing a lead or two. I'll be happy to share my resources in exchange. Pm 's are ok!
Thanks and Happy Thanksgiving.
Jack.
All the best stores in Manhattan operate this way. If you are not willing to go through verification, than IMO you will be wasting your time and money mongering in Manhattan. You will end up overpaying for MILFs and aunties working out of the myriad of shitty overpriced spas we have in the city.
Idk which shops you're going to in Flushing / Queens, but that is definitely the better option for those who aren't willing verify, as many stores there get pretty much the same quality pussy as can be had in Manhattan. They will usually just ask for some info over text like your name, race and occupation. No need to send LinkedIn, Drivers license, business card or selfie as in Manhattan.
It's probably due to my physical appearance (I probably have advantage over most of her clients, young, fit and clean looking) + personality + charm that got me down.
Shynerdx, you should be on tinder fucking civvies.
Rule of thumb is it providers ask condom or no condom right off the bat, ask how much? If it is not what you want don't bother negotiating and just say condom is fine.
I've tried this. It works sometimes. Other times, I'm stuck with the condom and that sucks if I'm there to BB. it's just not about the feel of it. BB looks a hell of a lot better on video too.
For Seoli, I am trying to remember what she she showed me on her phone or if I even saw it, but talking I said "you do no condom" "yes" "100 inside?" "no 200 inside" "How about 140?" "Just this once but next time 200".
Exact conversation.
But you have to be willing to say "I can just use a condom it is ok" if they do not go below 200 inside. So many times they will be like 100 ok". Sometimes they will come back with 150 or if they are still not biting I will offer 140.
Now, sometimes I do tell them "I am a one shot guy" because I am. . One time at 1010 I even negotiated 100 bbfscip with a girl sticking to 200 AFTER we 69 and I made her cum. LOL!
Oh, and sometimes I tell them I will cum faster without a condom.
GD, I think you saw Seoli earlier when she was asking 100/200. She has since moved to asking 200/300. Given the upcoming holiday and related slow business, she might be more flexible. Others can report if she is back down to 100/200.
On the last point, I think you and javlur have more leverage with your anacondas.
Here are the basics (everyone should already know this):
1. Don't negotiate at the beginning.
2. You have 60 seconds for negotiations.
3. I don't flash a JCondom but be ready to say that it's ok to use a condom.
For BBFS, these suggestions are worth considering. For video, it is better to discuss at the beginning. Sometimes the MMS / PPS gets it wrong or the girl has restrictions then I have to switch girls.
Miyuki R8 https://risingsun8.com/view/304
At VideoLuvr. Negotiations -- lots of diff tactics by everyone . I always have my condom so the girl knows I am prepared to fuck with J condom. I negotiate quickly. Any prolonged conversation is just wasting my time I would just kiss / P2 P and get ready to open the wrapper. I'm not ugly either so it helps. There are people promising good reviews or worse, threatening to give bad reviews. The girls have heard it all so it comes down to chemistry and your willingness to go condom and your ability to drop their guard. Like GD. I don't discuss exact $ because 1) if you say you paid MSRP you bound to get some dumb messages 2) if you say you got it cheap, you bound to get dumb messages also. You've read them, you can recognize them. 3) It's YMMV and some dumb asses will DM the girls what they read on the forum. In any case, if I say I BBed a girl without an exact number then I did not pay MSRP. With inflation and Christmas around the corner, I am not interested in paying MSRP for "tips" when it's usually part of the bundle in Japan. I am happy to use up my J condom. On a few occasions the condom broke and CIP accidentally and since it was not intentional, no issues and girl just cleans up. They do see it as par for the course, and just trying to get some extra $.
Shy could be his good looks
DK could be his charm and humor
GD could be the fact that girl knows he will for sure write a review regardless and he's a frequent fucker.
Javluvr could be his big cock and the girl are shocked and awed and wanna see how it feels.
All good points. One more to add is I don't like to 'over negotiate'. Wastes too much time and I don't want the girl giving a shitty session bc I pushed too hard on pricing.
I just started to read posts from other mongers in this forum. One monger had listed several links to establishments which I thought were all located in Manhattan. After clicking on one of the links it turns out to be located in or around Jersey City, New Jersey. I had text them explaining how I had gotten their information, and that I needed some information before making an appoint to see them. I was hoping to get the address so that I could enter it into my g. P.S. On my phone to see how long the drive time would be. I also wanted a clarification on the pricing and menu options. I did not want to arrive there and be surprised with sticker price shock. Here is what they said. They wanted to know my age and race. Then they sent me this text. See the attachment. I understand the need to take precautions for a variety of reasons, but to give out this kind of personal information to strangers is ridiculous! I don't know who these people are, if they are going to keep my information on file, use the information to create new identity theft, or even worse, use it against me as blackmail. In either case, I don't care. These establishments are in the entertainment / hospitality industry. They should be grateful that I have visited them or even have considered seeing them. Their is plenty of these shops around Manhattan in the surrounding areas. I have been fortunate to find one or two locations in Flushing / Queens who take good care of me without all this headache.
I'm sorry for the venting, I'm just trying to find out if all or a majority of the establishments in Manhattan follow similar guidelines. If so, I may just continue doing business in Flushing / Queens. I would appreciate it if any fellow members would consider sharing a lead or two. I'll be happy to share my resources in exchange. Pm 's are ok!
Thanks and Happy Thanksgiving.
Jack.
Every premium shop will have the same screening process. If you do not want to screen with them I would suggest a mid tier shop or fast house walk in. The only other way to bypass screening is if you have a solid standing with another premium shop who will reference you. Just like how you are protecting your identity they need to protect their own illegal business. If you are paranoid about this I would suggest these shops are not for you or even mongering. Getting caught in a raid at a house that doesn't screen heavy is much worse than thinking you will be blackmailed.
I just started to read posts from other mongers in this forum. One monger had listed several links to establishments which I thought were all located in Manhattan. After clicking on one of the links it turns out to be located in or around Jersey City, New Jersey. I had text them explaining how I had gotten their information, and that I needed some information before making an appoint to see them. I was hoping to get the address so that I could enter it into my g. P.S. On my phone to see how long the drive time would be. I also wanted a clarification on the pricing and menu options. I did not want to arrive there and be surprised with sticker price shock. Here is what they said. They wanted to know my age and race. Then they sent me this text. See the attachment. I understand the need to take precautions for a variety of reasons, but to give out this kind of personal information to strangers is ridiculous! I don't know who these people are, if they are going to keep my information on file, use the information to create new identity theft, or even worse, use it against me as blackmail. In either case, I don't care. These establishments are in the entertainment / hospitality industry. They should be grateful that I have visited them or even have considered seeing them. Their is plenty of these shops around Manhattan in the surrounding areas. I have been fortunate to find one or two locations in Flushing / Queens who take good care of me without all this headache.
I'm sorry for the venting, I'm just trying to find out if all or a majority of the establishments in Manhattan follow similar guidelines. If so, I may just continue doing business in Flushing / Queens. I would appreciate it if any fellow members would consider sharing a lead or two. I'll be happy to share my resources in exchange. Pm 's are ok!
LOL! WTF! I'm not ugly as well. You're making me out as a fat comedian that has to use humor to get ahead.
I actually worked out a routine that I run though when meeting a JGirl for the first time. It works really well for me but it involves a big bag of tricks and counters that I have learned over the past few months.
Here are the basics (everyone should already know this):
1. Don't negotiate at the beginning.
2. You have 60 seconds for negotiations.
3. I don't flash a JCondom but be ready to say that it's ok to use a condom.
For Seoli, I am trying to remember what she she showed me on her phone or if I even saw it, but talking I said "you do no condom" "yes" "100 inside?" "no 200 inside" "How about 140?" "Just this once but next time 200".
Exact conversation.
But you have to be willing to say "I can just use a condom it is ok" if they do not go below 200 inside. So many times they will be like 100 ok". Sometimes they will come back with 150 or if they are still not biting I will offer 140.
Like I said, I paid 200 one time for bbfscip with Kaka. That is it. Every other time I say I get it, it is 100 or 140. I am not a hard negotiator, I don't get mad, I don't promise them a review or anything. I just show that I am totally willing to use a condom.
Now, sometimes I do tell them "I am a one shot guy" because I am. . One time at 1010 I even negotiated 100 bbfscip with a girl sticking to 200 AFTER we 69 and I made her cum. LOL!
Oh, and sometimes I tell them I will cum faster without a condom.
Seoli was an easy negotiation. Easy.
See this is what I am saying. Some girls say 200/300 especially first day and I just don't listen to it. The only one that stuck to that was that Baka girl everyone hated.
Kaya did the 200/300 but broke to 100 cop after she got tired of fucking me. I wasn't about to really negotiate for inside at under 200. But I assume she went down to 100/200 after.
Rule of thumb is it providers ask condom or no condom right off the bat, ask how much? If it is not what you want don't bother negotiating and just say condom is fine. Work your charm before penetrating and then negotiate. 80% of the time they will bite, if it's a negotiated COP price fuck her first then the last 5-10 minutes after making her feel good negotiate the CIP price, 90% of the time they will agree because they either feel good or tired of fucking you.
Now as far as charm and game that's YMMV. Some people will just negotiate from the get go but that's a 50/50 coin flip.
Maki 1010 https://10tenclub.com/view/456 - she is very new and inexperienced, very tight. You need to take charge or you will be looking at each other naked. #NBC with a few day old shave.
At DK. Yes, no Pepsi head-to-head challenge is best. Smart business. Like Miyu / Snow didn't want to be at the same shop as Tami to avoid direct competition also. Makes better friends too LOL.
At VideoLuvr. Negotiations -- lots of diff tactics by everyone . I always have my condom so the girl knows I am prepared to fuck with J condom. I negotiate quickly. Any prolonged conversation is just wasting my time I would just kiss / P2 P and get ready to open the wrapper. I'm not ugly either so it helps. There are people promising good reviews or worse, threatening to give bad reviews. The girls have heard it all so it comes down to chemistry and your willingness to go condom and your ability to drop their guard. Like GD. I don't discuss exact $ because 1) if you say you paid MSRP you bound to get some dumb messages 2) if you say you got it cheap, you bound to get dumb messages also. You've read them, you can recognize them. 3) It's YMMV and some dumb asses will DM the girls what they read on the forum. In any case, if I say I BBed a girl without an exact number then I did not pay MSRP. With inflation and Christmas around the corner, I am not interested in paying MSRP for "tips" when it's usually part of the bundle in Japan. I am happy to use up my J condom. On a few occasions the condom broke and CIP accidentally and since it was not intentional, no issues and girl just cleans up. They do see it as par for the course, and just trying to get some extra $.
Shy could be his good looks
DK could be his charm and humor
GD could be the fact that girl knows he will for sure write a review regardless and he's a frequent fucker.
Javluvr could be his big cock and the girl are shocked and awed and wanna see how it feels.
Anyway, last day today before not able to bang for a couple of days, Haruki PPC guaranteed good BB again, Mimo. Chancing it on a girl who's been around for a while. Or. Try Mika again? Dunno if she's got a mustache this time (I know she's hard line but I got j condom). Not interested in Jenny PPC (3 shops in 7 days is NG) or Ami PPC (unsure about the pics).