Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[Banger12]

Gents. Meet and greets are the norm for me and I've always provided a gift. The desire for a 2nd meet drives the gift choice. It has always been an unexpected gift, I never meet when she asks for something as a condition of the meet and greet. Lately, it seems all the young ladies that I really want to meet are demanding a gift. How are you all navigating through this? I caved once and agreed. Got burned, as expected.

Have any strategies that would help? It seems I'm missing out for the sake of not getting burned.

My philosophy on this has done a 180 over the past 6-7 years. Back in the day M&G was the norm and a small gift was a courtesy for their time. Some breadcrumbs basically, letting them know you were serious if things did progress. Now a days a M&G isn't even needed. Most of these chicks are ready to go immediately. I get a room and they come to me, or I go to them.

The only time I propose to meet for drinks is if I'm suspect about their pics or real age. If they want to meet for a coffee or a quick meet in public to prove we are both real I am fine with that too. But I am not paying anything for a hello.

If someone is demanding a gift for meeting for dinner they are a rinser / scammer. Move on. Don't be used like that.

[FiveOfSix]

Well of course, that's what I always say and that's where it always ends. Any tips to get past that point for the ones that are not scamming and simply have GPS?

It's just like in business. If you're not willing to get up from the table (or conversation) you've already lost.

[DriveHard]

One thing I've done is get a second meeting scheduled that depends on both feeling into after the first. I've found that scheduling a second does help sometimes with some women as dudes being flaky and not being serious is a problem for them too. This helps with those actually serious. Hell, if she shows a willingness, I've hopped on Hotwire and got a room while we were finishing our drinks.

Thanks, I'll give that a try. The one I'm dealing with right now specifically used the word 'flakey' as the justification for the gift demand.

[Bruco]

Well of course, that's what I always say and that's where it always ends. Any tips to get past that point for the ones that are not scamming and simply have GPS?

One thing I've done is get a second meeting scheduled that depends on both feeling into after the first. I've found that scheduling a second does help sometimes with some women as dudes being flaky and not being serious is a problem for them too. This helps with those actually serious. Hell, if she shows a willingness, I've hopped on Hotwire and got a room while we were finishing our drinks.

[DriveHard]

No is a complete sentence.

Well of course, that's what I always say and that's where it always ends. Any tips to get past that point for the ones that are not scamming and simply have GPS?

[FiveOfSix]

Gents. Meet and greets are the norm for me and I've always provided a gift. The desire for a 2nd meet drives the gift choice. It has always been an unexpected gift, I never meet when she asks for something as a condition of the meet and greet. Lately, it seems all the young ladies that I really want to meet are demanding a gift. How are you all navigating through this? I caved once and agreed. Got burned, as expected.

Have any strategies that would help? It seems I'm missing out for the sake of not getting burned.

No is a complete sentence.

[BussaNut]

Gents. Meet and greets are the norm for me and I've always provided a gift. The desire for a 2nd meet drives the gift choice. It has always been an unexpected gift, I never meet when she asks for something as a condition of the meet and greet. Lately, it seems all the young ladies that I really want to meet are demanding a gift. How are you all navigating through this? I caved once and agreed. Got burned, as expected.

Have any strategies that would help? It seems I'm missing out for the sake of not getting burned.

I never provide anything for a meet and greet. The second meet depends upon there physical attraction to you. We meet. If we both attracted to one another then it's a deal. Stop providing free gifts. They going to screw you based upon the money and the attraction.

[DriveHard]

Gents. Meet and greets are the norm for me and I've always provided a gift. The desire for a 2nd meet drives the gift choice. It has always been an unexpected gift, I never meet when she asks for something as a condition of the meet and greet. Lately, it seems all the young ladies that I really want to meet are demanding a gift. How are you all navigating through this? I caved once and agreed. Got burned, as expected.

Have any strategies that would help? It seems I'm missing out for the sake of not getting burned.

[ImmaDude]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...d-04c361457392

Saw this girl last week. She has a good attitude and enjoys getting fucked. Submissive and takes a good pounding. Open for BBFS. She is a single mom.

Good with the comms for most of the part. She is 420-friendly if that's your thing. The only problem is she can't host.

She's a pro back 2 years ago on skipthegame. Stopped after she got pregnant. Incase why'all goin BBFS on her.

[CinMiner]

Good investigative work.

She had wanted me to send her 150 for groceries. I declined.

Definitely a scammer. She played chat and texts for a long time. Then asked for $150 to get her hair and nails done before we were to meet. I declined.

[Member #6771]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...4-3ab91209ca12

Any reports on this thick teacher?

Update: She's thick, but not toned. Pictures are a bit flattering. She's in the affordable range. YMMV though. South Charlotte Area. BBBJ was good. She has a bit of an attitude though. Would not repeat because I have far better ones in the little black book. She'd probably be good for those who like that type.

[Emjay]

Anyone seen this? I met her, came across as not too friendly, then she went on a travel and is now back in charlotte. Just want to make sure she is not a cash and dash person.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...5-c5da76566219

[SmallAsianCock]

Wouldn't pic verify for me and now listed in a different city. Probably a scammer.

Edit - did a reverse image search with google and it landed on this site:

https://www.erome.com/a/5aS08Fbb

Could be a pro, probably some dude lifting pics though.

Good investigative work.

She had wanted me to send her 150 for groceries. I declined.

[DriveHard]

These are the 3 I use. Any others recommended?

https://pimeyes.com/en

https://yandex.com/images/

https://images.google.com/

[DriveHard]

Any info on this lady will be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...2-711ce184d10f

Wouldn't pic verify for me and now listed in a different city. Probably a scammer.

Edit - did a reverse image search with google and it landed on this site:

https://www.erome.com/a/5aS08Fbb

Could be a pro, probably some dude lifting pics though.