Sugar Baby

[Roger Eggin]

So if you're not using seeking etc. Where are you getting them from? Regular dating? That's not exactly the same thing.

I have used a variety of sources over the years, going back to casual encounters days on CL. Sometimes they start out as escorts, sometimes they start out as civvy hookups (and some stay that way), sometimes they just want an arrangement on the d-l. Not going to put my current sources and methods on blast and make my technique harder. But sugar babies are 100% out there and 100% not all on seeking.

[PuneBizTrip]

Wondering how to source these if not for market place like seeking. I tried Seeking and Secret benefits. It was hard even with the membership etc. A lot of time favoring, reaching out, funnel to conversation very low, and the ones that do engage seems like pros. Low ppm is 500, high is 1500. Not sure if these are better than what you would find in places PD, Slixa, Tryst etc. Are these crazy numbers or just the market price these days?

I'd be happy to put in the work, but really need to know the where / how.

IMHO there is a spectrum of paths in finding a SB. It can be a lot of work, and cause you to follow random trails of bread crumbs to sometimes a dead end. Or you can just throw money at the problem and the girls will beat a path to your door. Where you personally settle on that spectrum depends on how you value your time and money (and to some extent how much game you have, because sometimes you have to be able to close the deal on your own in the absence of big $).

I opt for working harder to find the right sugar baby for me because I currently have the time to spare (hooray WFH!) and because it pays off in spades when you hit paydirt. I avoid the sugar marketplaces (seeking etc.) like the plague. But to go this route you essentially have to be persistent, avoid pitfalls, and it really helps to have the ability to talk your way into a girl's pants in general.

I admittedly have had an up and down year. I was flush with young talent in Dec / Jan, living high on the hog. Maybe it was the weather. It was raining pussy! I was hoping to even share the wealth here at one stage. And then they all seemed to dry up in the blink of an eye. One gets a boyfriend, another moves, one just straight up ghosts me. Suddenly my entire pipeline was dry (well except for escorts). Next thing you know I'm back to the drawing board. Lesson learned. Always keep working the pipeline! When you're a young hot female, you have a lot of options in life besides spending time with old pervs like me. I don't disparage them, and sometimes they will pop back up after a life change. The door is always open..

[Kense]

IMHO there is a spectrum of paths in finding a SB. It can be a lot of work, and cause you to follow random trails of bread crumbs to sometimes a dead end. Or you can just throw money at the problem and the girls will beat a path to your door. Where you personally settle on that spectrum depends on how you value your time and money (and to some extent how much game you have, because sometimes you have to be able to close the deal on your own in the absence of big $).

I opt for working harder to find the right sugar baby for me because I currently have the time to spare (hooray WFH!) and because it pays off in spades when you hit paydirt. I avoid the sugar marketplaces (seeking etc.) like the plague. But to go this route you essentially have to be persistent, avoid pitfalls, and it really helps to have the ability to talk your way into a girl's pants in general.

I admittedly have had an up and down year. I was flush with young talent in Dec / Jan, living high on the hog. Maybe it was the weather. It was raining pussy! I was hoping to even share the wealth here at one stage. And then they all seemed to dry up in the blink of an eye. One gets a boyfriend, another moves, one just straight up ghosts me. Suddenly my entire pipeline was dry (well except for escorts). Next thing you know I'm back to the drawing board. Lesson learned. Always keep working the pipeline! When you're a young hot female, you have a lot of options in life besides spending time with old pervs like me. I don't disparage them, and sometimes they will pop back up after a life change. The door is always open..

So if you're not using seeking etc. Where are you getting them from? Regular dating? That's not exactly the same thing.

[Roger Eggin]

It seems like a lot of work to find a SB. I have been trying for 2 weeks, barely any conversation happening. Any tips on how to better engage?

IMHO there is a spectrum of paths in finding a SB. It can be a lot of work, and cause you to follow random trails of bread crumbs to sometimes a dead end. Or you can just throw money at the problem and the girls will beat a path to your door. Where you personally settle on that spectrum depends on how you value your time and money (and to some extent how much game you have, because sometimes you have to be able to close the deal on your own in the absence of big $).

I opt for working harder to find the right sugar baby for me because I currently have the time to spare (hooray WFH!) and because it pays off in spades when you hit paydirt. I avoid the sugar marketplaces (seeking etc.) like the plague. But to go this route you essentially have to be persistent, avoid pitfalls, and it really helps to have the ability to talk your way into a girl's pants in general.

I admittedly have had an up and down year. I was flush with young talent in Dec / Jan, living high on the hog. Maybe it was the weather. It was raining pussy! I was hoping to even share the wealth here at one stage. And then they all seemed to dry up in the blink of an eye. One gets a boyfriend, another moves, one just straight up ghosts me. Suddenly my entire pipeline was dry (well except for escorts). Next thing you know I'm back to the drawing board. Lesson learned. Always keep working the pipeline! When you're a young hot female, you have a lot of options in life besides spending time with old pervs like me. I don't disparage them, and sometimes they will pop back up after a life change. The door is always open.

Right now I've re-established a new primary girl and am working on plans B and C for some variety and for when primary inevitably moves on. My goal is to have them available for me on a PPM basis where the $ is well below market and the meet is somewhere between 2 hours and an overnight.

Bottom line: keep working, it will pay off. Or raise your $ offer if you are in a position to do so.

[PuneBizTrip]

It seems like a lot of work to find a SB. I have been trying for 2 weeks, barely any conversation happening. Any tips on how to better engage?

I saw this one recently. She looks exactly like the pics. Very attractive. A little bit of a sexual freak. Will cost you about 7. She will do a PPM. Set up and execution was easy. Did not repeat. Although I seemed everything was open, the chemistry was not there for me. Borderline pro feel to me. I prefer a newbie. Next.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-4f813a56c58d

[Roger Eggin]

Just a reminder to ask SB's if they have friends who have or need a Sugar Daddy. Not for you of course, but for your "friends" 😉.

Build that network outside of the paywall sites. You never know when another SB will come in handy. Or maybe she just wants to join in the fun with her friend. Or have details shared here when her circumstances change.

[Pmanhere]

I got banned from SA and it's damn near impossible to get back on so I just gave up. I loved it when I had it and hooked up with plenty of non-pro sweet pussy, all bare. Is she open to bare? Would you be willing to share her digits via PM. I can play it off like we chatted a while back on SA.

I saw this one recently. She looks exactly like the pics. Very attractive. A little bit of a sexual freak. Will cost you about 7. She will do a PPM. Set up and execution was easy. Did not repeat. Although I seemed everything was open, the chemistry was not there for me. Borderline pro feel to me. I prefer a newbie. Next.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-4f813a56c58d

[Heywood2020]

Completely worth it to me. I like it because most are amateurs just trying to hustle for dough. Cleaner and younger than pros.

Thanks for sharing.

Is seeking subscription worth? How is your experience? 30 days subscription cost almost one provider visit.

[MeetRohit101]

I saw this one recently. She looks exactly like the pics. Very attractive. A little bit of a sexual freak. Will cost you about 7. She will do a PPM. Set up and execution was easy. Did not repeat. Although I seemed everything was open, the chemistry was not there for me. Borderline pro feel to me. I prefer a newbie. Next.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-4f813a56c58d

Thanks for sharing.

Is seeking subscription worth? How is your experience? 30 days subscription cost almost one provider visit.

[Heywood2020]

I saw this one recently. She looks exactly like the pics. Very attractive. A little bit of a sexual freak. Will cost you about 7. She will do a PPM. Set up and execution was easy. Did not repeat. Although I seemed everything was open, the chemistry was not there for me. Borderline pro feel to me. I prefer a newbie. Next.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-4f813a56c58d

[Heywood2020]

Lets start with this thread. There is one in Oakland and most other areas.