"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Member #6704** · 02-13-23 01:04

She is looking for money without meeting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...a-4ebbad81d82f

**FarFarAway** · 02-12-23 15:43

Originally Posted by Hal1957 [View Original Post]

Spot on! Pay attention to her Wish List, it gives a good idea what she considers significant. For me, a girl looking for lingerie, perfumes, costume jewelry and sex toys in the $50-250 range is a lot more realistic and easy to please.

And chocolate. If a girl has Godiva chocolate on her wish list, that is a good sign she's not got her head in the clouds.

And of course, the prices on that stuff from the site itself are ridiculous, don't ever buy anything from it. There is a particular Michael Kors purse I see a lot, listed around 500. IK a MK outlet near me, a very similar purse can be had for 100. If you are in the habit of getting a 'gift' for your girl as part of the allowance, go for something like that.

**Hal1957** · 02-12-23 08:38

Spot on! Pay attention to her Wish List, it gives a good idea what she considers significant. For me, a girl looking for lingerie, perfumes, costume jewelry and sex toys in the $50-250 range is a lot more realistic and easy to please.

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

If you have a real SB, someone you are seeing ongoing, it is a dilemma what you might get her. I would say it is good to avoid anything too 'romantic', unless that is the minority of arrangements that play that way. However, all girls like some spoiling. I have had great results w / simple grocery store bouquets. Many many girls haven't ever been 'courted' w / something like that. Even if they know that your relationship is not that kind, they'll like it.

I also recommend some simple crystal earrings, such as Swarovski. They sparkle like they are diamonds, but they aren't, and they don't have the significance of giving a girl diamonds. I am amazed when I look at girl's wish lists how often I see crystal jewelry. You can get a pair of studs for like $65 at the mall. This was the first 'gift' (other than allowance) I got a past SB. Even though she relocated out of state, she still loves to be (intermittently) in touch w / me by text, and when she comes back home to visit family, loves to get together to bang. She's 24, I am 60+. There's really nothing better than young pussy. And what a modest investment. For that girl specifically, I won't see her in person Tuesday, but I have a $50 Victoria gift card I'll take a picture of and send to her. Along w / an image of a sexy valentine.

**JoeT407** · 02-11-23 23:59

Originally Posted by Shizzy6969 [View Original Post]

Reach out to her a couple months ago. Has a Instagram, only available in the evenings. Was pretty hard to get schedule to align so didn't really get any further, but she seems real (just hard to connect).

Second that on the hard to coordinate.

Went on a dinner date with her (nothing fancy) that went well. She would keep reaching out to me but was hard to ever pin down for a a day and time to meet when it came down to it. Emphasized she was looking for something long term as well.

**FarFarAway** · 02-11-23 16:42

Girls definitely put significance on gifts of jewelry. My SO has real GPS, and a prime indicator of interest by a man is when he gets her jewelry.

**FarFarAway** · 02-11-23 16:03

If you have a real SB, someone you are seeing ongoing, it is a dilemma what you might get her. I would say it is good to avoid anything too 'romantic', unless that is the minority of arrangements that play that way. However, all girls like some spoiling. I have had great results w / simple grocery store bouquets. Many many girls haven't ever been 'courted' w / something like that. Even if they know that your relationship is not that kind, they'll like it.

I also recommend some simple crystal earrings, such as Swarovski. They sparkle like they are diamonds, but they aren't, and they don't have the significance of giving a girl diamonds. I am amazed when I look at girl's wish lists how often I see crystal jewelry. You can get a pair of studs for like $65 at the mall. This was the first 'gift' (other than allowance) I got a past SB. Even though she relocated out of state, she still loves to be (intermittently) in touch w / me by text, and when she comes back home to visit family, loves to get together to bang. She's 24, I am 60+. There's really nothing better than young pussy. And what a modest investment. For that girl specifically, I won't see her in person Tuesday, but I have a $50 Victoria gift card I'll take a picture of and send to her. Along w / an image of a sexy valentine.

**Shizzy6969** · 02-11-23 10:57

Originally Posted by Gavin1112 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...2-39f404956446

Anyone got any info on this one? Wants $500 but seems flakey and potential scammer. Post here or message me please.

Reach out to her a couple months ago. Has a Instagram, only available in the evenings. Was pretty hard to get schedule to align so didn't really get any further, but she seems real (just hard to connect).

**Gavin1112** · 02-11-23 10:42

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...2-39f404956446

Anyone got any info on this one? Wants $500 but seems flakey and potential scammer. Post here or message me please.

**Nick1234** · 02-10-23 20:47

Originally Posted by SoonerFan72 [View Original Post]

Seeking seems to be in desperation mode, my account ended a few weeks ago, and the next day I was getting a "renew for 33% off" banner. If you arent logging in from a PC, try that. I get a new offer every time I log in. Sometimes 20%, sometimes 33%. Also, check your email, I've gotten two 33% offers as well.

Can you add the promo code with the seeking android app?

**GoneForGood97** · 02-10-23 18:02

Originally Posted by SoonerFan72 [View Original Post]

Awesome advice, I'm going to deploy some of these tactics.

One thing to be careful, is the part where you said " tell her you can do 600 per week, but you'll need to see her twice a week. If they agree, congrats you now have a 300 PPM "GPS" girl". She may agree, but ghost you after the first meet once she is paid. So she ends up being a 600 PPM girl. Still an interesting tactic though.

Oh I should clarify: you don't actually pay the 600. You still only pay 300 after the date, and she gets the other 300 after date 2. I've never had someone push back at the meet up for that. Though if you want to clarify after they agree, you can say "Great, 600 per week. I'll do half on the first meet and half on the 2nd meet".

Never ever pay for anything in advance. Ever.

**SoonerFan72** · 02-10-23 15:27

Originally Posted by DArrow404 [View Original Post]

Does the email say how long the code is good for? My subscription runs out at the last week of Feb and wonder if I'll be able to use this or not.

Seeking seems to be in desperation mode, my account ended a few weeks ago, and the next day I was getting a "renew for 33% off" banner. If you arent logging in from a PC, try that. I get a new offer every time I log in. Sometimes 20%, sometimes 33%. Also, check your email, I've gotten two 33% offers as well.

**SoonerFan72** · 02-10-23 15:22

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

If I really want to bang someone with GPS then I pull out a few negotiating tactics. First thing is I want them to bid against themselves; once they put out a ridiculous number, I'll say something like "Interesting, sounds like the arrangement for a standard guy you don't really like. But what if we really click, have great chemistry, and I make you feel comfortable and safe. That would be a different amount instead of what the guy who is just trying to fuck you and leave would need to pay."

I've had some GPS girls drop their price as much as 50% in response. I've also had them just stop responding or argue (in which case block and move on, some GPS is simply incurable).

If the two of you have texted back and forth a good bit and already developed chemistry, I've also tried something like "I'll be honest, I'm not comfortable with that amount. Since we have such great chemistry and I think we'll really get along, what arrangement amount makes more sense?" I've never used both of those on the same girl, I just pull whichever one feels like it's more likely to get the response. If the girl is giving off semi-pro or super experienced SB vibes, then I'll use the first, if they seem newer or more genuine then the latter.

Once you've got them to bid against themselves, then you can use the "jedi mind trick" of agreeing to it but for multiple visits. So if she comes down to 600, tell her you can do 600 per week, but you'll need to see her twice a week. If they agree, congrats you now have a 300 PPM "GPS" girl who was originally wanting $1 K. Then you can use work / busy life etc to only see her once a week. Normally if you're treating her well and she enjoys your dates she won't bring up the 2 visit thing, but you need to understand that she may stop seeing you after 2-3 weeks of only single visits.

Awesome advice, I'm going to deploy some of these tactics.

One thing to be careful, is the part where you said " tell her you can do 600 per week, but you'll need to see her twice a week. If they agree, congrats you now have a 300 PPM "GPS" girl". She may agree, but ghost you after the first meet once she is paid. So she ends up being a 600 PPM girl. Still an interesting tactic though.

**NewAnonymousName** · 02-10-23 14:44

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

If I really want to bang someone with GPS then I pull out a few negotiating tactics. First thing is I want them to bid against themselves; once they put out a ridiculous number, I'll say something like "Interesting, sounds like the arrangement for a standard guy you don't really like. But what if we really click, have great chemistry, and I make you feel comfortable and safe. That would be a different amount instead of what the guy who is just trying to fuck you and leave would need to pay."

I've had some GPS girls drop their price as much as 50% in response. I've also had them just stop responding or argue (in which case block and move on, some GPS is simply incurable).

If the two of you have texted back and forth a good bit and already developed chemistry, I've also tried something like "I'll be honest, I'm not comfortable with that amount. Since we have such great chemistry and I think we'll really get along, what arrangement amount makes more sense?" I've never used both of those on the same girl, I just pull whichever one feels like it's more likely to get the response. If the girl is giving off semi-pro or super experienced SB vibes, then I'll use the first, if they seem newer or more genuine then the latter.

Once you've got them to bid against themselves, then you can use the "jedi mind trick" of agreeing to it but for multiple visits. So if she comes down to 600, tell her you can do 600 per week, but you'll need to see her twice a week. If they agree, congrats you now have a 300 PPM "GPS" girl who was originally wanting $1 K. Then you can use work / busy life etc to only see her once a week. Normally if you're treating her well and she enjoys your dates she won't bring up the 2 visit thing, but you need to understand that she may stop seeing you after 2-3 weeks of only single visits.

The Jedi mind tricks of mongering:

These are not the $100 bills you are looking for.

Fuck me bare, you will.

**GoneForGood97** · 02-10-23 13:28

Originally Posted by WoodstockShane [View Original Post]

I think I'd have to utilize Jedi mind tricks to negotiate with her without pissing her off. My starting offer would be a third of her initial offer. Never a good tactic. Perhaps someone a bit younger may get a preferred price. Or she thinks I'm desperate and loaded with extra cash just waiting to be spent on hot babes. Maybe I should offer $1 k for her and her friend?

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...9-25deaffc79b8

Stay Frosty!

If I really want to bang someone with GPS then I pull out a few negotiating tactics. First thing is I want them to bid against themselves; once they put out a ridiculous number, I'll say something like "Interesting, sounds like the arrangement for a standard guy you don't really like. But what if we really click, have great chemistry, and I make you feel comfortable and safe. That would be a different amount instead of what the guy who is just trying to fuck you and leave would need to pay."

I've had some GPS girls drop their price as much as 50% in response. I've also had them just stop responding or argue (in which case block and move on, some GPS is simply incurable).

If the two of you have texted back and forth a good bit and already developed chemistry, I've also tried something like "I'll be honest, I'm not comfortable with that amount. Since we have such great chemistry and I think we'll really get along, what arrangement amount makes more sense?" I've never used both of those on the same girl, I just pull whichever one feels like it's more likely to get the response. If the girl is giving off semi-pro or super experienced SB vibes, then I'll use the first, if they seem newer or more genuine then the latter.

Once you've got them to bid against themselves, then you can use the "jedi mind trick" of agreeing to it but for multiple visits. So if she comes down to 600, tell her you can do 600 per week, but you'll need to see her twice a week. If they agree, congrats you now have a 300 PPM "GPS" girl who was originally wanting $1 K. Then you can use work / busy life etc to only see her once a week. Normally if you're treating her well and she enjoys your dates she won't bring up the 2 visit thing, but you need to understand that she may stop seeing you after 2-3 weeks of only single visits.

**DArrow404** · 02-10-23 11:40

Originally Posted by Jims2321 [View Original Post]

For the Gang, if you haven't gotten the new 33% off code for sub renewals, just popped up in my email, but I'm taking a break from SA.

VWO33 COM.

If you use it and it works say so.

Stay Safe.

JimS2321.

Does the email say how long the code is good for? My subscription runs out at the last week of Feb and wonder if I'll be able to use this or not.