"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**SoonerFan72** · 02-07-23 12:40

Originally Posted by AthensRider5 [View Original Post]

Messaged me asking for my phone number right away, and immediately switched to texts. She gave me her IG to verify and she seems real, and looks great and nice body.

Says she's visiting from Miami and not in town for much longer so she wants to meet up.

Says $$$ ppm but talked down to $$. 50 if I can get a room.

Was about to pull trigger, but she asks if she can keep the room after we're done, and says one round and all covered. I pushed back on her keeping the room and she said it didn't matter, but thought it was odd thing to ask.

Decided to skip given all the rules, but if anyone is interested:

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-a201a17b04fc

Never let them keep the room. She is a pro, she is going to use the free room to turn more tricks. And remember, the room would be in your name. If she got busted for doing stupid shit, you will be involved cause your name is on the room.

**AthensRider5** · 02-06-23 21:50

Messaged me asking for my phone number right away, and immediately switched to texts. She gave me her IG to verify and she seems real, and looks great and nice body.

Says she's visiting from Miami and not in town for much longer so she wants to meet up.

Says $$$ ppm but talked down to $$. 50 if I can get a room.

Was about to pull trigger, but she asks if she can keep the room after we're done, and says one round and all covered. I pushed back on her keeping the room and she said it didn't matter, but thought it was odd thing to ask.

Decided to skip given all the rules, but if anyone is interested:

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-a201a17b04fc

**HollowGuy** · 02-06-23 20:38

Originally Posted by TylerDurden07 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...e-4ad93479d530

More for shits & giggles than anything, the curiosity about a pink pony dancer who wants a "platonic", no sex arrangement overwhelmed me. She advised that she wants 6 k a month for 2 meetings per week. At these little get-togethers, she'll dance for you & give you massages. What a bargain!

Maybe it's just me being dumb, but wouldn't it be cheaper to just go see her for a few dances at the PP? I can get no sex dances there for less! Maybe I'm just confused.

If you are in contact with her find out when she is available to meet up. I want to know if she is telling the same story she telling me.

**Member #6718** · 02-06-23 18:35

Originally Posted by TylerDurden07 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...e-4ad93479d530

More for shits & giggles than anything, the curiosity about a pink pony dancer who wants a "platonic", no sex arrangement overwhelmed me. She advised that she wants 6 k a month for 2 meetings per week. At these little get-togethers, she'll dance for you & give you massages. What a bargain!

Maybe it's just me being dumb, but wouldn't it be cheaper to just go see her for a few dances at the PP? I can get no sex dances there for less! Maybe I'm just confused.

Not to mention that she's fucking ugly too LOL.

**TylerDurden07** · 02-06-23 18:13

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...e-4ad93479d530

More for shits & giggles than anything, the curiosity about a pink pony dancer who wants a "platonic", no sex arrangement overwhelmed me. She advised that she wants 6 k a month for 2 meetings per week. At these little get-togethers, she'll dance for you & give you massages. What a bargain!

Maybe it's just me being dumb, but wouldn't it be cheaper to just go see her for a few dances at the PP? I can get no sex dances there for less! Maybe I'm just confused.

**SoonerFan72** · 02-06-23 15:43

Originally Posted by NewAnonymousName [View Original Post]

I never give sugar babies my full name except a unicorn that turned into a girlfriend years ago. (It's a shame she moved, but I digress.) However I have often given out my real first name. Do you think that's risky? Do the rest of you give your real first name or use a fake one when chatting with the prospects on Seeking?

She can offer 500 a week for multiple visits, get your 500 at the first meet, then ghost you. I vaguely recall that happening to someone on here last year.

**Member #6718** · 02-05-23 19:02

Originally Posted by NewAnonymousName [View Original Post]

I never give sugar babies my full name except a unicorn that turned into a girlfriend years ago. (It's a shame she moved, but I digress.) However I have often given out my real first name. Do you think that's risky? Do the rest of you give your real first name or use a fake one when chatting with the prospects on Seeking?

I am single, my closest friends know about my sugar lifestyle, so I generally given them my real name, real number, and I connect with them on social media. For sure it makes for a fuller experience, and a lot of the time with these chicks it feels like more normal relationship dating, just with some extra sugar involved (or not, sometimes).

**Apollo007** · 02-05-23 13:49

Wants a weekly allowance for her to been your friend or something? How dare you mention money for sex. LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...7-ff6aa7602259

Wants at least 500.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...0-f77107f07c7c

**Apollo007** · 02-05-23 13:39

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Supply and demand. You're in Atlanta. Black SBs are a dime a dozen, as cute if not cuter, and will cost you less.

Everyone knows I generally do 2-300, but with ebony SBs I'll usually shoot between 150-250. It's not because they're worth more or less, it's just supply and demand. No reason to every pay $500 for an ebony in Atlanta, and I'd never pay $500 for an Asian in Chinatown. Literally no reason to.

Thanks under the pretense of 2 to 3 times a week.

**FarFarAway** · 02-05-23 12:51

Originally Posted by NewAnonymousName [View Original Post]

I never give sugar babies my full name except a unicorn that turned into a girlfriend years ago. (It's a shame she moved, but I digress.) However I have often given out my real first name. Do you think that's risky? Do the rest of you give your real first name or use a fake one when chatting with the prospects on Seeking?

Personal preference. I have bowl buddies who use a 'sugar' first name. I personally use my own first name which is insanely common. This is for my personal psyche, one reason I choose sugar dating over more commercial girls (escorts) is that I want the experience to be as real as possible, within the time-frame / other limitations of sugar dating.

I have a very very well developed sugar story and sugar identity that I can rattle off to a girl without even thinking about it. This helps keep me safe despite having a SO. IK SBs who do obvious things, like use their middle names instead of their first names. I had a long-term arrangement w / one of those, after a month or so I asked her real name and she gave it to me. I relatively easily tracked her down and know all about her real private life. Not the reverse. She never need fear anything from me because we are so tight, and she knows that. However, I have so much more to lose than her, I would not give up my real story to her.

I have a bowl buddy who is in GA, likely reads this post. He gave up his full identity to a SB he saw for 3 years, despite his having a family, etc. They were really in an affair, not an arrangement, he rarely gave her sugar. He kept himself secret for a year or so, and her finding out his name happened by accident.

**TallGuy3000** · 02-05-23 09:44

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

I don't use my real first name, as it's just one additional small hurdle, some crazy psycho stalker chick has to get over, when they are trying to ruin your life. Of course it could be a bit awkward if I did hit it off with one of them, and then have to tell them that, but I think most would understand.

I never give out my first name. It's always "John" when texting both on the system and when we first go to texting off line. After we've met and start seeing each other, at some point I'll give her my real name and tell her the other was a college nickname, which really is true. Also "Big John", after the old song. Few SBs and only some SDs remember that.

**Peter Johnson** · 02-05-23 00:02

Originally Posted by NewAnonymousName [View Original Post]

I never give sugar babies my full name except a unicorn that turned into a girlfriend years ago. (It's a shame she moved, but I digress.) However I have often given out my real first name. Do you think that's risky? Do the rest of you give your real first name or use a fake one when chatting with the prospects on Seeking?

I don't use my real first name, as it's just one additional small hurdle, some crazy psycho stalker chick has to get over, when they are trying to ruin your life. Of course it could be a bit awkward if I did hit it off with one of them, and then have to tell them that, but I think most would understand.

**GoneForGood97** · 02-04-23 22:01

Originally Posted by NewAnonymousName [View Original Post]

I never give sugar babies my full name except a unicorn that turned into a girlfriend years ago. (It's a shame she moved, but I digress.) However I have often given out my real first name. Do you think that's risky? Do the rest of you give your real first name or use a fake one when chatting with the prospects on Seeking?

Depends on how common your first name is. It's John or Jack or Pete you probably don't have anything to worry about. I used to try and use an alias, but inevitable if I was seeing someone multiple times they'd see my name, either on my credit card when I paid for dinner or I'd just be telling a story and slip and say my name while telling it.

I'd be more concerned if my name was rarer or unique.

**GoneForGood97** · 02-04-23 21:57

Originally Posted by Apollo007 [View Original Post]

She was asking for this 3-4 months ago, so I know someone has some info please?

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...4-3f7cec0e296b

Supply and demand. You're in Atlanta. Black SBs are a dime a dozen, as cute if not cuter, and will cost you less.

Everyone knows I generally do 2-300, but with ebony SBs I'll usually shoot between 150-250. It's not because they're worth more or less, it's just supply and demand. No reason to every pay $500 for an ebony in Atlanta, and I'd never pay $500 for an Asian in Chinatown. Literally no reason to.