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08-24-22 21:57 #30716
Posts: 466Originally Posted by TheAbc [View Original Post]
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08-24-22 21:44 #30715
Posts: 1834Originally Posted by FuriousPork [View Original Post]
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08-24-22 21:30 #30714
Posts: 11Bookers for newbs
Always wanted to try k girl scene. Any thoughts for newbie to try out a booker? Or any other recommendations. Thanks.
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08-24-22 21:28 #30713
Posts: 1834Originally Posted by LilDuk [View Original Post]
I very much doubt that the vast majority of mongers treat kgirls poorly or sees them only as sex dolls or less than human beings. If the bookers are doing their job correctly, these types of individuals are usually weeded out during vetting or BL shortly after a session or two with kgirls. Small infractions are rarely heard about and / or disseminated in the community. More often than not, only the extreme cases bubble up to the top and reach the forums (broken ribs, fake currency, theft, nonconsensual filming, etc.). While each incident is tragic, the small amount of similarly severe cases is often taken at face value and mischaracterized as rampant in the scene. Which it is not, this is just selection bias. Taking a step back, given the amount of agencies and kgirls across the LA / OC area and however many hundreds of sessions that occur everyday over however many years these incidents occur, the percentage of this happening to kgirls is miniscule. I'm not discounting how horrible it is, but we all need to take into consideration the likelihood also. For instance, in our lifetime we have close to a 1% chance of dying in a car crash but most of us still choose to commute and drive cars.
As for the later aspect, every monger possesses an idealized concept of what they perceive as good service. This becomes a grading rubric each kgirl will be tested against. How well they mesh and score will determine what kind of reviews will posted after the fact. Given the circumstance and dynamics involved, critiquing a kgirl's performance is integral, if not mandatory, to the whole process. You are paying for a service and not with chump change either. If, for example, I'm shelling out $300 at two restaurants: one has great ambiance, knowledgeable wait staff, and great food while another has wailing kids running amok, servers that clearly hate their job, and food not much better than the Sizzler's around the corner, I sure am going to be complaining to management and posting a review reflective of what I experience on Yelp, Google reviews, Tripadvisor, or similar platforms.
Ultimately, I don't think we mongers as a whole are treating kgirls unfairly. With how donations are pretty similar regardless of where you go (not including upcharges), kgirls demonstrating exceptional characteristics / service and those that fall short should equally be called out to benefit the community and give bookers notice on what we want and like. Moreover, upcharges were a consequence and byproduct of kgirls themselves and the bookers ran with it. The delineation between upcharge and not upcharge girls and all issues arising because of it is their damn own fault. In your words "Eric (and I would add all kgirls) are solely here for the money, not sex". I agree with that statement but I would also add that we mongers are here solely (most of us anyways) for the sex, not the inadequacies originating from said kgirl that affects it. We're all consenting adults here. The ability of certain kgirls to be able to cope with fucking strangers day in and day out, to have the mental fortitude to deliver consistent service to the majority of her clients, and to not drag drama into the session is the linchpin in separating the superstars and the duds. I don't think, even for a second, that evaluating a service I paid for dehumanizes the people involve. We all (should) know and be aware that it boils down to a transaction and a service, bought and paid for. I can be polite, cordial, and courteous while objectively evaluating how well you please me. I have faith that most of us here can too. And it should no way indicate that we are callous or otherwise for doing so. If this still sounds dehumanizing or offensive to you, then we just have to agree to disagree. I can't speak for others but, personally, I pursue the good fucks and don't treat the dud fucks any less than the good ones.
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08-24-22 21:10 #30712
Posts: 931Originally Posted by LilDuk [View Original Post]
https://therationalmale.com/
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08-24-22 19:50 #30711
Posts: 2Cosplay
Does anyone know if any girl or agency have cosplays, uniforms or similar?
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08-24-22 18:57 #30710
Posts: 1834Originally Posted by Panda1203 [View Original Post]
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08-24-22 16:54 #30709
Posts: 2368Pussy and money
Like most things in life, it's not "either or," but rather "both. " That is, I see this hobby a transaction *and* one where two people have the potential to reduce each other to mere objects: Pussy and money. Right or wrong, that's just the way it is.
Considering the lack of parity between markets, I'd hate to see us compound a litany of reasons for kgirls to look elsewhere. So I don't hold it against anyone for erring on the side of caution in that regard.
"We lost another kgirl because we were too gentle," said no one ever.
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08-24-22 16:53 #30708
Posts: 34Originally Posted by LC310 [View Original Post]
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08-24-22 16:33 #30707
Posts: 566Originally Posted by LilDuk [View Original Post]
I suggest you establish some non sex worker female relationships. It will do you good.
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08-24-22 16:21 #30706
Posts: 34Originally Posted by TheAbc [View Original Post]
Try treating sex workers like humans first then you can get everything you want. They will stop upcharging you or straight up refusing you. Mongers these days are refusing to work for free services because they would rather pay money. I wonder why k-girls are trying to extract money through upcharges. If k-girls are into you, they won't really ask you to pay money. A lot of k-girls I met tend to ask me out on dates and they pay for the entire date. The k-girl scene is somewhat alive but most mongers don't really want to put in time and money. They rather want hos on the side and hos do what all hos do. Ask for more money.
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08-24-22 16:11 #30705
Posts: 566Erica
Don't fall in love with the sex workers.
That is all.
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08-24-22 15:58 #30704
Posts: 931Originally Posted by LilDuk [View Original Post]
Here's the definition of a white knight. I've posted the link only once awhile ago when we had a spat with those idiots at TER.
"White knightism manifests itself in a variety of ways, but probably the most common manifestation is running to the "protection" or "defense"—of usually a stranger—just because she's female, with little or no consideration other factors. Online, that often translates into attacking another guy when you think he's unfairly criticized or "bullied" a girl, or a certain group of women. The key part is that you're standing up for what's essentially a complete stranger because she's a woman and therefore, in your eyes, defenseless. Hence the name. You're the knight in shining armor coming to the rescue of a damsel in distress. ".
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08-24-22 15:57 #30703
Posts: 34Originally Posted by LC310 [View Original Post]
K-girls don't move to bay area because they are afraid of being found out. Most Koreans turn blind eye on sex workers in Korean red districts. We don't really care. Sex work was a big part of korean history ( 기생). K-Girls want to stay in LA because there is big korean community here. Food culture is prolly most important reason why you don't see k-girls in middle of US. Most of k-girls are in heavily populated Korean community. But in the end, they move away to bay area where they can make more money and have less stress. Bay area community doesn't demand bb. K girls just happen to offer it more because they know that these bay area whales will buy them all the things they want. In LA, most mongers aren't whales and they complain whenever there is upcharge.
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08-24-22 15:28 #30702
Posts: 566SoCal vs NoCal
Originally Posted by LilDuk [View Original Post]
I have heard from two different K-girls that SoCal makes them nervous because of the size of the Korean population and the chance they may get found out.
Look at the population of Koreans in California by county and do a risk assessment on where you would want to work and not be found out, but there are also clients with money.
Guys are guys wherever they work from cuddle bunnies to bat swinging pornstar wannabes. They know the deal and they know that the way to the fattest bank account is being a good actress and making everyone feel they got what they came for and hopefully returns as it is the easiest way to reduce their work stress and know what they are going to earn. A girl with 100 once a month clients knows minimum earnings and what to prepare for with each session. That's a lot less stressful than each client being a mystery and potentially a one and done.
Bottom line is that they are independent contract-ish workers for an agency and they need to manage their risk (physical/mental/emotional/etc) while maximizing their earnings.