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[Alkalinedio]

Some red flags I look for also to weed out these "working pros" are all the hotel selfies, or motel selfies. You can't miss those old school air conditioners near the floor under the window those are classic AC's at the motels I used to use in Compton like the Bradfield, Lark, etc way back in the early 2000's. Any motel or hotel selfie I'm out, any girls with face tattoos I'm out, and if they start shooting off prices from the first few texts I'm out. Those will usually always be a pro-type of encounter. I try to meet for coffee or something first and if they are really newbies they are usually cool with that, then one thing leads to another and it's a non-pro experience. This is purely my encounters I'm sure they are different for everyone but usually, I get a feel after few texts and a mandatory phone call to see how they sound and talk. I had one girl the other day reply to me and sent her number, she was 18 and a barista she claims, was cool on the phone. Her account was made like 3 days prior (but probably had previous accounts based on how she spoke on text later on) claimed she met her first guy the night before and gave him a BBBJ CIM. I said ok let's meet for coffee after she gets off work, she said cool. Then, we hang up and she starts into "what are you looking for" and then said she has a lot of other customers LOLLLLLL hitting her up, as soon as she said that word customer I told her you're not a barista, you are a hooker and I was done and blocked her. Just my recent experience, she was definitely not new to it quoting prices and using the word customer. I told her good luck and blocked her.

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Guys have always ruined everything. Years ago you never heard the escort terminology used from a Sugar baby. Then escort guys show up an you get them asking for specific price for a blow job or how much for an hour. Its been around so long now it's standard. Escorts found their way to the sites and and guys knowing they were escorts immediately dubbed them babies. Working from motels, quoting quickies or specific acts LOL. Yeah guys ruin everything.

[TheHuntsman]

By the mere fact that this girl agreed to show up at a hotel room without having met you, she must be a pro. That being said, her reaction is understandable, as there are tricks that will refuse to provide the allowance after a trip to the FC.

I'd recommend not booking the room until you've actually met the girl and know if you're into each other. Otherwise you have no idea who will show up, and it can become a "bait and switch" or a "cash and dash" situation.

We had actually done a m&g 2 weeks ago and been texting daily. Idk maybe it's just the entitlement idk.

[FirstClass1]

I mentioned I've been talking to this girl the last 2 wks and we agreed upon 4. 5. Today we were supposed to get a room. I booked the room this morning and just a few minutes ago went to the ATM. The bank reported unusual activity so it locked my card. I log in to the app and verify recent transactions. Meanwhile I'm texting her that I'm running late do to an issue. Go back to the ATM and my card is locked again. I call the bank and while I'm on hold I text her the situation. She went cold blooded fast. She said this is a red flag, get my money, we agreed upon cash, I'm not going anywhere till you have it, this is so unattractive. Finally I clear it up with the bank the service for booking the room was out of state and that caused it. Anyway after everything she said I told her never mind that I'm going home. She said that's it your blocked and thanks for wasting my time. Maybe it was a blessing instead. No way I'm begging someone to let me pay them.

By the mere fact that this girl agreed to show up at a hotel room without having met you, she must be a pro. That being said, her reaction is understandable, as there are tricks that will refuse to provide the allowance after a trip to the FC.

I'd recommend not booking the room until you've actually met the girl and know if you're into each other. Otherwise you have no idea who will show up, and it can become a "bait and switch" or a "cash and dash" situation.

[John HandCock]

Maybe I'm wrong, but I think the problem is an influx of John's, used to the escort scene. There they are trained to never say no. The "p*ssy sets the price" is the mantra.

They take this stupid approach with them to SA, and don't realize that arrangements are negotiable.

Anyone think there is some truth to this?

Guys have always ruined everything. Years ago you never heard the escort terminology used from a Sugar baby. Then escort guys show up an you get them asking for specific price for a blow job or how much for an hour. Its been around so long now it's standard. Escorts found their way to the sites and and guys knowing they were escorts immediately dubbed them babies. Working from motels, quoting quickies or specific acts LOL. Yeah guys ruin everything.

[FirstClass1]

Maybe I'm wrong, but I think the problem is an influx of John's, used to the escort scene. There they are trained to never say no. The "p*ssy sets the price" is the mantra.

They take this stupid approach with them to SA, and don't realize that arrangements are negotiable.

Anyone think there is some truth to this?

I believe you are correct.

One can argue that many tricks are a variation of the simp, that is, they allow the girl. Or more specifically, the girl's "boyfriend" pimp. To set the price to play, and the rules to do so. On the other hand, an SD is aware that he has the ultimate say: should the woman truly want the consistent allowance and pleasant company of a successful man, she will accommodate his desires.

That being said, many of us are willing to go with a higher allowance for an especially beautiful and passionate woman, particularly because it means pricing out most of the bottom feeders: the knuckle dragging tricks that want SBs but also go bare with high volume intravenous-using escorts, potbellied streetwalkers on Fig, unwashed homeless on Skid Row, and other dysgenic, high-risk human refuse. It is the same reason why people who can afford it go to Equinox rather than Planet Fitness, or Spago rather than Dominos: the quality and the exclusivity.

There will always be outliers, and you may find a fresh beautiful novice who will agree to a modest allowance. And as always vet the girl to your own standards: plain, fat and frumpy girls with baggage who ask for 500+ deserve to be sent away with laughter.

[TheHuntsman]

I mentioned I've been talking to this girl the last 2 wks and we agreed upon 4. 5. Today we were supposed to get a room. I booked the room this morning and just a few minutes ago went to the ATM. The bank reported unusual activity so it locked my card. I log in to the app and verify recent transactions. Meanwhile I'm texting her that I'm running late do to an issue. Go back to the ATM and my card is locked again. I call the bank and while I'm on hold I text her the situation. She went cold blooded fast. She said this is a red flag, get my money, we agreed upon cash, I'm not going anywhere till you have it, this is so unattractive. Finally I clear it up with the bank the service for booking the room was out of state and that caused it. Anyway after everything she said I told her never mind that I'm going home. She said that's it your blocked and thanks for wasting my time. Maybe it was a blessing instead. No way I'm begging someone to let me pay them.

[LooknFobbfscip]

FirstClass1, instead of decreasing your inbox space I'll tell you here. I should have excluded the word still at the bottom of my latest DM to you.

[PussyPumper]

Everyone I've messaged has GPS it seems. Even the average looking ones. This is just sad, man. How did it get this bad?

Maybe I'm wrong, but I think the problem is an influx of John's, used to the escort scene. There they are trained to never say no. The "p*ssy sets the price" is the mantra.

They take this stupid approach with them to SA, and don't realize that arrangements are negotiable.

Anyone think there is some truth to this?

[JackMiles]

There are guys willing to pay the high price. It causes inflation for the average joe.

You're absolutely right. I mean 5's are asking for 5. Come on now!

[OcasianBoy]

Everyone I've messaged has GPS it seems. Even the average looking ones. This is just sad, man. How did it get this bad?

There are guys willing to pay the high price. It causes inflation for the average joe.

[FirstClass1]

Sometimes they really are the girl next store, or just a wild child raver girl, a broke girl, a girl just sick of young guys, and sometimes an experienced pro with maybe a softer more generous personality. But the best advice I can give is to just dive right in. Get burned a few times. So what? Because once you figure it out, you may find it's exactly what you were really looking for all along.

Agreed. No two arrangements are alike, as both people bring their different backgrounds and objectives to the table. That being said, when both come together in good faith, looking for the promise of a great connection. Be it purely physical or with good chemistry and compatibility. It is a fantastic experience.

Hardened, soulless tricks like taser guy below may do better with the bargain basement, gutter trash than clean normal girls, but the various sugar platforms will offer something for everyone. Sugaring offers the opportunity to connect with gorgeous young women and have a far more satisfying time than can be offered by any pro.

[JackMiles]

Everyone I've messaged has GPS it seems. Even the average looking ones. This is just sad, man. How did it get this bad?

[HollywoodGuy]

"Have you seen my wishlist? View Here".

So I guess this is defaulting into every profile now.

[HollywoodGuy]

Mongering habits don't fully translate into sugaring. When mongering scenarios happen within a sugar context, know that you're dealing with a pro

This crosses my mind quite often. So many SD's start off some where else, the AMP, the street, or wherever. While there is a lot of cross over, the goal for most SD's, the guys that don't really partake elsewhere, is to find the newbiest girl possible, the kind you would never meet anywhere else. You really need to come at these girls a bit differently. Trying to explain it all is a bit too much, and there are so many stories on other threads on this platform to learn from. While any girl that accepts money for sex can be referred to as a prostitute. There is a different vibe that can be found sugaring. For me is was just about going on too many dates to count until I found the groove I was looking for. Sometimes they really are the girl next store, or just a wild child raver girl, a broke girl, a girl just sick of young guys, and sometimes an experienced pro with maybe a softer more generous personality. But the best advice I can give is to just dive right in. Get burned a few times. So what? Because once you figure it out, you may find it's exactly what you were really looking for all along.

[FirstClass1]

Sup everyone. Long time lurker, first time poster. Thought I start contributing.

Thanks for your contribution, and for sharing your story. While some cretins will try to drag you for what you've shared, I think it's more helpful to see where you can prevent such a scenario from reoccurring.

I strongly recommend any newcomers to the Sugar Bowl to visit the Richmond, Virginia forum's sugaring threads. Contributors from around the country have shared exhaustive, step by step advice on how to have successful sugar dates, as well as how to prevent various unpleasant situations. Knowing this is essential to preventing the countless rob and scam scenarios that are found on all dating platforms today.

Mongering habits don't fully translate into sugaring. When mongering scenarios happen within a sugar context, know that you're dealing with a pro, very likely a rob.

Sugar babies don't have menus, only hardened prostitutes set all sorts of rules. A non pro will have her preferences, and will accommodate you if she's into you.

As you mentioned, never give any money before the action: tricks do this, but not SDs. There's absolutely no reason to send money electronically before a date. Turning down a cash allowance is an obvious red flag.

Trust your instincts: anyone proposing a first date in a shady hotel is a pro, and possibly also a rob. A normal girl will be concerned for her safety, and will often want to meet in a public setting at first. A pro knows her pimp is a phone call away and is used to daily drama.

Mongers may settle for a bait and switch, an SD would immediately end the date. You did well in doing a video call before the date, but it's a pointless measure if you "settle" for a different girl, who is obviously part of a crew.

Thankfully you were able to recover your cash in this situation. I recommend reporting these rob profiles before blocking, so that the crews are kept at least partially in check.