"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Gca393** · 11-24-20 09:25

https://www.seeking.com/member/77c51...2-85b73ac3bb80

Anyone seen this one? Any info on this one would be appreciated.

**Hal1957** · 11-24-20 08:54

I think sometimes it gets to be a bidding war. You agreed to 300 but the other guy went 450 now she wants 600? Maybe several guys bidding? Bottom line, a deal is a deal. Break a deal, spin the wheel. Next.

Originally Posted by DArrow404 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/5bbb8...1-fcc26b3a440f

Time waster and GPS.

We spent a week texting before meeting up for drinks. We agreed to 300 (she can't host) and planned to meet up the following weekend. A couple days later, she texts asking if we can discuss the allowance; she asks for 600 and I'm WTF. I had previously asked her first what she wanted for an allowance but she made me go first which I did which she was ok with. Not sure if that was calculated or not, but man what a waste of time and effort.

**Ripvan12** · 11-24-20 02:44

Originally Posted by DArrow404 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/5bbb8...1-fcc26b3a440f

Time waster and GPS.

We spent a week texting before meeting up for drinks. We agreed to 300 (she can't host) and planned to meet up the following weekend. A couple days later, she texts asking if we can discuss the allowance; she asks for 600 and I'm WTF. I had previously asked her first what she wanted for an allowance but she made me go first which I did which she was ok with. Not sure if that was calculated or not, but man what a waste of time and effort.

Had the same thing happen to me last week with a sweet 19 year old. The only difference was I got to cross the finish line. Met face to face and offered 300 per meet. She was down with it and offered no rebuttal. We hangout and The next morning when we wake up she asks if I can add an extra 100. I didn't gift the additional request. Someone in this forum once said most women are terrible negotiators face to face and are extremely good at giving you a rack rate via text message. The game. Ripper.

**SeekingHead** · 11-23-20 22:00

Originally Posted by DArrow404 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/5bbb8...1-fcc26b3a440f

Time waster and GPS.

We spent a week texting before meeting up for drinks. We agreed to 300 (she can't host) and planned to meet up the following weekend. A couple days later, she texts asking if we can discuss the allowance; she asks for 600 and I'm WTF. I had previously asked her first what she wanted for an allowance but she made me go first which I did which she was ok with. Not sure if that was calculated or not, but man what a waste of time and effort.

I've had that happen a couple of times. Agree to an allowance then the girl plays dumb about the amount when it's date time. Just move on not much else you can do or any of us.

**DArrow404** · 11-23-20 20:41

https://www.seeking.com/member/5bbb8...1-fcc26b3a440f

Time waster and GPS.

We spent a week texting before meeting up for drinks. We agreed to 300 (she can't host) and planned to meet up the following weekend. A couple days later, she texts asking if we can discuss the allowance; she asks for 600 and I'm WTF. I had previously asked her first what she wanted for an allowance but she made me go first which I did which she was ok with. Not sure if that was calculated or not, but man what a waste of time and effort.

**Sgt Soros** · 11-23-20 09:44

Originally Posted by Jims2321 [View Original Post]

For what its worth. If the lady is open to seeing other members I am sure she will let you know.

The situation with SouthernHockeyGirl got out of hand because of the member in question was basically an asshole, insulting and being a general creep. I have spend several hours talking with her about this. She is aware of this website and for what its worth is chalks it up to bunch of horny men trading stories. She is still on SA, and still engaging in sugaring. But this episode has made her a lot more discerning who she will meet with. So unless the lady in question is completely conformable with direct contact by a board member and the member is okay with the repercussions of another member possibly fucking it up, then by all means feel free to share info. I for one after this last about am not will to risk it.

Stay safe,

JimS2321.

This is terrible, I wish there was a way to out this creep.

**BearsBuddy** · 11-23-20 09:07

https://www.seeking.com/member/e876e...d-aad374f3852d

Starts at $750/ meet. Trying to get some details but too much for me.

**TheFiveHole** · 11-22-20 15:59

Originally Posted by Jims2321 [View Original Post]

For what its worth. If the lady is open to seeing other members I am sure she will let you know.

The situation with SouthernHockeyGirl got out of hand because of the member in question was basically an asshole, insulting and being a general creep. I have spend several hours talking with her about this. She is aware of this website and for what its worth is chalks it up to bunch of horny men trading stories. She is still on SA, and still engaging in sugaring. But this episode has made her a lot more discerning who she will meet with. So unless the lady in question is completely conformable with direct contact by a board member and the member is okay with the repercussions of another member possibly fucking it up, then by all means feel free to share info. I for one after this last about am not will to risk it.

Stay safe,

JimS2321.

Yeah. Hockey asked me about this as well. And from what she said there was a guy that send her pics of her family and some really creepster shit. Scared the girl quite a bit. And it's not that she's opposed to sharing her info or meeting new dudes, however this dude went too far when she said no. Really pissed me off too as Hockey is a great time. Clean fun giving and smart not to mention that mouth. Though maybe a bit too trusting / naive to how some dudes can be. IMHO. However still one of the best I've met on SA. Hope this doesn't scare her off.

**GoneForGood97** · 11-20-20 16:17

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

If the girl has give permission to be contacted then there is no issue. What has been asked is to give out a girl's number without her knowledge. I don't think that's appropriate.

If girls agreed to be contacted by strangers, then members wouldn't be burned.

Sorry I should've been more clear. If someone asks me for a girls number, and I were feeling inclined, I would text the girl, work up a bit of conversation, then ask. If she says no, I reply back on the board "Sorry, she doesn't want to share her number. " If she says yes, then I'll respond to them with the info, or send the mongers info to her.

My main point is that if someone asks, I don't automatically say no.

**The Bobster** · 11-20-20 15:56

When someone on this board that ripped off one of my friends writes about getting ripped off themselves. Karma's a *****, huh dude?

**SoonerFan72** · 11-20-20 15:33

Originally Posted by BrownSugaTwo [View Original Post]

Let's say you met a young girl on SA. You go out to dinner, etc. Nothing physical. It fizzles out.

Then, you meet her Mom on SA (confirmed via FB). Mom and daughter live in the same town, and you can tell the Mom will want to go out places, etc. Basically, there's a non-zero chance that you can meet the daughter while in an arrangement with the Mom (or Mom could show daughter your picture, since you know Mom and daughter are close).

Do you tell the Mom upfront that you went out with her daughter?

Asking for a friend.

I'd say its one of two scenarios.

One, I highly doubt that they are both on SA, and don't know about each other being on there. If they are close, its not a coincidence. If that's the case, they arent going to care that you have been out with the daughter. And two, if they don't know each other is on the site, they daughter isn't going to out herself in front of mom if she sees the two of you together. In fact, if they don't know that you know they are related, just play dumb, like how would you know anyways? Either way, just go see if they will do a threesome with you. LMAO.

**Jims2321** · 11-20-20 12:00

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

If the girl has give permission to be contacted then there is no issue. What has been asked is to give out a girl's number without her knowledge. I don't think that's appropriate.

If girls agreed to be contacted by strangers, then members wouldn't be burned.

For what its worth. If the lady is open to seeing other members I am sure she will let you know.

The situation with SouthernHockeyGirl got out of hand because of the member in question was basically an asshole, insulting and being a general creep. I have spend several hours talking with her about this. She is aware of this website and for what its worth is chalks it up to bunch of horny men trading stories. She is still on SA, and still engaging in sugaring. But this episode has made her a lot more discerning who she will meet with. So unless the lady in question is completely conformable with direct contact by a board member and the member is okay with the repercussions of another member possibly fucking it up, then by all means feel free to share info. I for one after this last about am not will to risk it.

Stay safe,

JimS2321.

**Jims2321** · 11-20-20 11:51

Originally Posted by YeOldHornDawg [View Original Post]

Just roll the dice and see what happens. In the unlikely event the daughter makes some kind of connection, she'll more than likely keep it to herself.

Bottom line, you have a greater chance of fucking it up by coming clean than you do keeping your mouth shut.

But man, what if you had gone all the way with the daughter? You're entering some Dear Penthouse territory.

Whatever you do, don't accidentally say daughter's name when in an intimate moment with mom.

And if opportunity knocks for mom / daughter threesome, well its was fated to be!

**YeOldHornDawg** · 11-20-20 11:34

Originally Posted by BrownSugaTwo [View Original Post]

Let's say you met a young girl on SA. You go out to dinner, etc. Nothing physical. It fizzles out.

Then, you meet her Mom on SA (confirmed via FB). Mom and daughter live in the same town, and you can tell the Mom will want to go out places, etc. Basically, there's a non-zero chance that you can meet the daughter while in an arrangement with the Mom (or Mom could show daughter your picture, since you know Mom and daughter are close).

Do you tell the Mom upfront that you went out with her daughter?

Asking for a friend.

Just roll the dice and see what happens. In the unlikely event the daughter makes some kind of connection, she'll more than likely keep it to herself.

Bottom line, you have a greater chance of fucking it up by coming clean than you do keeping your mouth shut.

But man, what if you had gone all the way with the daughter? You're entering some Dear Penthouse territory.

Whatever you do, don't accidentally say daughter's name when in an intimate moment with mom.