"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Harley32** · 09-27-20 19:19

Originally Posted by DukeRaoul [View Original Post]

I'm not talking about pregnancy. I'm talking about other kinds of "parting gifts".

If you're worried about that, you shouldn't be going bare.

**BoJackSugarman** · 09-27-20 15:53

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

I think the most balanced advice would be they are def more risk then a random girl from the population but (possibly) less than an escort. My rule of thumb is that the more dtf a girl is the. Ore the risk. So if you message a girl and she is willing to meet in a hotel room the first time, I would go bare on that. If you meet a girl who won't do that and will need a dinner date etc first presumably the risk will be lower. I always strap initially until I can get a gauge of where she lands in the spectrum and then relax as I see fit.

However, you will find a range of opinions on the matter. A lot of guys go bare on all of them which is specifically why I don't LOL.

Hope that helps. Basically, try and judge how many miles she has had on her and take risk accordingly.

I meant I would NOT go bare on the hotel girl sorry that was a typo.

**BoJackSugarman** · 09-27-20 15:51

Originally Posted by DukeRaoul [View Original Post]

I'm not talking about pregnancy. I'm talking about other kinds of "parting gifts".

I think the most balanced advice would be they are def more risk then a random girl from the population but (possibly) less than an escort. My rule of thumb is that the more dtf a girl is the. Ore the risk. So if you message a girl and she is willing to meet in a hotel room the first time, I would go bare on that. If you meet a girl who won't do that and will need a dinner date etc first presumably the risk will be lower. I always strap initially until I can get a gauge of where she lands in the spectrum and then relax as I see fit.

However, you will find a range of opinions on the matter. A lot of guys go bare on all of them which is specifically why I don't LOL.

Hope that helps. Basically, try and judge how many miles she has had on her and take risk accordingly.

**Duke Raoul** · 09-27-20 11:16

I'm not talking about pregnancy. I'm talking about other kinds of "parting gifts".

Originally Posted by Harley32 [View Original Post]

It's pretty common. You should consider your risk if she should become pregnant. Have you asked her about what she uses for birth control? If she were to get pregnant and has any way of tracking you down, you'd be on the hook for child support. And it's surprisingly easy for someone to get some identifying information about you that could be used once the courts get involved, license plate number, pic of you, known date, time & room number of a hotel. The state has the authority to get all those records.

There are options of course, don't finish in a way that risks that even though that's not foolproof. Plan B. Conceptrol. A spermacidal gel that you insert before starting.

**PunkedLife** · 09-27-20 11:07

Originally Posted by UptownShawty [View Original Post]

This one had me get a room, then ask for travel fee.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ca455...f-7895e64fcfdc

Yah I wouldn't get a room until she actually shows up. You'd think that when money is involved the flakiness would cease but nah women are just time wasters by nature.

**SeekingHead** · 09-27-20 10:29

Originally Posted by Harley32 [View Original Post]

It's pretty common. You should consider your risk if she should become pregnant. Have you asked her about what she uses for birth control? If she were to get pregnant and has any way of tracking you down, you'd be on the hook for child support. And it's surprisingly easy for someone to get some identifying information about you that could be used once the courts get involved, license plate number, pic of you, known date, time & room number of a hotel. The state has the authority to get all those records.

There are options of course, don't finish in a way that risks that even though that's not foolproof. Plan B. Conceptrol. A spermacidal gel that you insert before starting.

Go get snipped, no reason not to once you already have all the kids you want or can afford!

**Harley32** · 09-27-20 10:15

Originally Posted by DukeRaoul [View Original Post]

I'm in process of getting something set up with an SB and she might be ok with no protection. What's been the experience with the group with "parting gifts", as it were? How common have you found that to be? Just trying to gauge my risk.

It's pretty common. You should consider your risk if she should become pregnant. Have you asked her about what she uses for birth control? If she were to get pregnant and has any way of tracking you down, you'd be on the hook for child support. And it's surprisingly easy for someone to get some identifying information about you that could be used once the courts get involved, license plate number, pic of you, known date, time & room number of a hotel. The state has the authority to get all those records.

There are options of course, don't finish in a way that risks that even though that's not foolproof. Plan B. Conceptrol. A spermacidal gel that you insert before starting.

**Duke Raoul** · 09-27-20 08:22

I'm in process of getting something set up with an SB and she might be ok with no protection. What's been the experience with the group with "parting gifts", as it were? How common have you found that to be? Just trying to gauge my risk.

**HaneDales** · 09-27-20 01:21

Clear your inbox.

Originally Posted by ElPerron [View Original Post]

This one hit me with the 300 no sense bs, BJ or anything else is on the table for extra, no thanks, I think I already talked with this one before she used to have an other profile.

**ElPerron** · 09-26-20 22:58

This one hit me with the 300 no sense bs, BJ or anything else is on the table for extra, no thanks, I think I already talked with this one before she used to have an other profile.

**ElPerron** · 09-26-20 22:52

This one contacted me on SA, broken Espanish, willing to meet asap but kinda to businesses like to me, looks like she just moving from listcrawler her profile is brand new.

**Bobt45** · 09-26-20 22:03

Originally Posted by Harley32 [View Original Post]

Has anyone seen this lady? Her profile is new but that's a pic from a hotel so she's probably a retread.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6ae1d...c-c5192e8028ed

Never met her but she's definitely been on SA. That last pic in the gold, red, and blue costume was on her last profile. No idea why she closed one and opened another. Maybe she was a pic seller, no idea there.

Bob.

**Harley32** · 09-26-20 17:15

Has anyone seen this lady? Her profile is new but that's a pic from a hotel so she's probably a retread.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6ae1d...c-c5192e8028ed

**HaneDales** · 09-26-20 13:57

I think I've shared her number with about 4-5 trusted folks. I think beyond this it's best not to spook her. I'll share with why'all other girls in the future I'm happy to release.

Originally Posted by HaneDales [View Original Post]

I have a UTR, I'm willing to share. She's 5'6 at 110 ish who I've met initially off SA. From my conversation with her she's only on SA to meet new folks when she is struggling. I'm just not seeing her as much but I did ask if it was okay to share her digits with a few trusted friends. She doesn't host but can meet with standard 200 ppm. I'm willing to trade for her for a girl. Just message me if you are interested.

**HaneDales** · 09-26-20 08:50

I have a UTR, I'm willing to share. She's 5'6 at 110 ish who I've met initially off SA. From my conversation with her she's only on SA to meet new folks when she is struggling. I'm just not seeing her as much but I did ask if it was okay to share her digits with a few trusted friends. She doesn't host but can meet with standard 200 ppm. I'm willing to trade for her for a girl. Just message me if you are interested.