"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**RegularJoe1985** · 05-18-19 17:50

Hello,

Anyone seen her? Any feedback?

https://www.seeking.com/member/57d81...0-acf4271fcb08

Thanks,

**DirtyDeeds38** · 05-18-19 10:49

Originally Posted by YayaGogo [View Original Post]

With school finishing many many college girls are flooding SA as they move back home for the summer. This week I've had initial M&G's with not one but TWO different 18 year old girls (one by a matter of weeks) brand new to the site that claim that they are virgins. I'm very cynical of such claims and am wondering if anyone on here is getting the same line on recent meets?

They're both very attractive and claim they want to 'get it out of the way' with someone experienced (and no pressure to perform well) so they can enjoy sex like other girls their age do when they go back to school. Normally I wouldn't believe the possibility considering this is SA but the first has already closed her account after only one week and we've made plans to do the deed next week WITHOUT any allowance and the other is eager to meet next week as well (possible no allowance as well as she doesn't want her first time to feel transactional).

Am I finding legitimate unicorns here or is this a new technique posted on SB sites. Anyone else seeing this? I wouldn't believe it normally but they are both giddy about the prospect and are saying no allowance needed. Just a nice lunch and good vibes are enough for now and we can start an arrangement afterwards.

Yaya.

I stay away from the girls under 21, I prefer they have experience and that way, they are sure they know what they are doing. Also, if there is any drinking, it's ok. You have to be very careful of sophisticated scams and SA. If you're going to go this route, trying to deflower a barely 18 girl, you best have some consent waivers signed and probably even notarized. You will also need to go beyond just checking her I'd. Check out her surrounding life. No ay in hell for you to eye ball any girls these days and be able to tell if she is 16 or 18, etc. 16 or 25 even for that matter. Make sure everything she tells you is adding up.

I've read a story of an actual mother who put her underage daughter up to meeting an older sugar daddy so they could sue him. This shit really happens out there. And no, chances are she not a true virgin. No baby goes from virgin to just fucking some old man off of SA. It's 99-1 odds a bullshit story and you need to find out the motive behind it before you go sticking your dick in little Ms. "innocent".

We all love the younger women, been that way since the beginning of time, but you have to step side and think with the big head for a bit.

**BookerTNelson** · 05-18-19 06:30

Originally Posted by YayaGogo [View Original Post]

With school finishing many many college girls are flooding SA as they move back home for the summer. This week I've had initial M&G's with not one but TWO different 18 year old girls (one by a matter of weeks) brand new to the site that claim that they are virgins. I'm very cynical of such claims and am wondering if anyone on here is getting the same line on recent meets?

They're both very attractive and claim they want to 'get it out of the way' with someone experienced (and no pressure to perform well) so they can enjoy sex like other girls their age do when they go back to school. Normally I wouldn't believe the possibility considering this is SA but the first has already closed her account after only one week and we've made plans to do the deed next week WITHOUT any allowance and the other is eager to meet next week as well (possible no allowance as well as she doesn't want her first time to feel transactional).

Am I finding legitimate unicorns here or is this a new technique posted on SB sites. Anyone else seeing this? I wouldn't believe it normally but they are both giddy about the prospect and are saying no allowance needed. Just a nice lunch and good vibes are enough for now and we can start an arrangement afterwards.

Yaya.

While I've had 6 M&G's this week and was able to close 3 of those in the FC this week, it was definitely because school is out and they're looking for job alternatives. Once they do the deed, that's when you should get your hopes up that you've found a unicorn or a gem.

**Truncated** · 05-18-19 06:01

Originally Posted by YayaGogo [View Original Post]

Am I finding legitimate unicorns here or is this a new technique posted on SB sites. Anyone else seeing this? I wouldn't believe it normally but they are both giddy about the prospect and are saying no allowance needed. Just a nice lunch and good vibes are enough for now and we can start an arrangement afterwards.

Yaya.

Find yourself a trustworthy SB who knows the ropes. Get her to show you the networking that goes on between these girls via ******, email lists, and meetings over drinks. I know of one group of SBs who meet monthly in Raleigh to discuss the bowl.

That will sober you up fast.

No, they aren't virgins.

They probably aren't even 18.

No, they aren't giddy about some random old guy taking their virginity.

They just want cash, and are using a longer con to get it from you.

**EvilTmp** · 05-17-19 22:02

Originally Posted by YayaGogo [View Original Post]

With school finishing many many college girls are flooding SA as they move back home for the summer. This week I've had initial M&G's with not one but TWO different 18 year old girls (one by a matter of weeks) brand new to the site that claim that they are virgins. I'm very cynical of such claims and am wondering if anyone on here is getting the same line on recent meets?

They're both very attractive and claim they want to 'get it out of the way' with someone experienced (and no pressure to perform well) so they can enjoy sex like other girls their age do when they go back to school. Normally I wouldn't believe the possibility considering this is SA but the first has already closed her account after only one week and we've made plans to do the deed next week WITHOUT any allowance and the other is eager to meet next week as well (possible no allowance as well as she doesn't want her first time to feel transactional).

Am I finding legitimate unicorns here or is this a new technique posted on SB sites. Anyone else seeing this? I wouldn't believe it normally but they are both giddy about the prospect and are saying no allowance needed. Just a nice lunch and good vibes are enough for now and we can start an arrangement afterwards.

Yaya.

I think everyone here is rooting for you but also, at the same time, we'll believe it when you report back on them actually going through with it. Talk is extremely cheap on SA. Go, conquer, and report back!

**YayaGogo** · 05-17-19 15:49

With school finishing many many college girls are flooding SA as they move back home for the summer. This week I've had initial M&G's with not one but TWO different 18 year old girls (one by a matter of weeks) brand new to the site that claim that they are virgins. I'm very cynical of such claims and am wondering if anyone on here is getting the same line on recent meets?

They're both very attractive and claim they want to 'get it out of the way' with someone experienced (and no pressure to perform well) so they can enjoy sex like other girls their age do when they go back to school. Normally I wouldn't believe the possibility considering this is SA but the first has already closed her account after only one week and we've made plans to do the deed next week WITHOUT any allowance and the other is eager to meet next week as well (possible no allowance as well as she doesn't want her first time to feel transactional).

Am I finding legitimate unicorns here or is this a new technique posted on SB sites. Anyone else seeing this? I wouldn't believe it normally but they are both giddy about the prospect and are saying no allowance needed. Just a nice lunch and good vibes are enough for now and we can start an arrangement afterwards.

Yaya.

**DogBert77** · 05-15-19 16:51

Originally Posted by DogBert77 [View Original Post]

Got this notice from SA:

"Unusual activity detected!

Your account is currently under review by a team of fraud specialists. We have detected some unusual activity on this account. Your permissions have been altered while the investigation lasts.

During this time you will not be able to contact other users or pay for any services. If you feel that this is a mistake, or if you have any information to add regarding this process, please contact us at customer support.

If you have any other questions please review our Frequently Asked Questions. ".

I log in from a different IP address every time because I use a VPN. I also pay with a different gift card every month. Other than that, not sure what "unusual activity" there is. They asked me to change my password about a month ago. Anyone have any thoughts?

I'm back on SA! Very strange, got a form email this morning telling me my suspension has been ended. "Keep in mind that additional violations could result in permanent suspension of your account. " Never a clue as to what my suspicious activity or violations might have been.

**DogBert77** · 05-14-19 18:50

Got this notice from SA:

"Unusual activity detected!

Your account is currently under review by a team of fraud specialists. We have detected some unusual activity on this account. Your permissions have been altered while the investigation lasts.

During this time you will not be able to contact other users or pay for any services. If you feel that this is a mistake, or if you have any information to add regarding this process, please contact us at customer support.

If you have any other questions please review our Frequently Asked Questions. ".

I log in from a different IP address every time because I use a VPN. I also pay with a different gift card every month. Other than that, not sure what "unusual activity" there is. They asked me to change my password about a month ago. Anyone have any thoughts?

**S2568** · 05-14-19 18:13

Hey anyone communicating with this one and any response from yet.

She looks real and hot but not sure if she is just there checking things out any info appreciated, PM if you need to.

Found her social media page too.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3a321...1-07282cd056ce

**DWinthrop** · 05-14-19 12:27

Anyone ever enjoy this sweetie? She seems DTF but insists on cover. Trying to get our schedules to align has been tough. PM or post if you have any previous experience. I asked if she's done this before and her answer was "Many times".

https://www.seeking.com/member/80c9c...7-93dc79430522

**EvilTmp** · 05-13-19 16:50

Originally Posted by BigOne73 [View Original Post]

If you're getting a lot of ghosts and blocks, it's because the girls have figured out you're a VET. I've had 12 girls this week ask me if I'm a vet in the first few sentences of messaging. They keep track of us through a list of some kind. They read this usasex forum daily and update each other on their list. They notify each other when we change our profiles. Sometimes they pretend that they don't know we're vets just to compile information on us. Most of the girls on SA know who I am by now, so I don't even try to pretend I'm someone else. It's all the same girls over and over anyways.

My take on this is that these girls are players and they know that newbies are more easily hoodwinked than experienced guys. They can claim they always get $800 per meet without the guy bursting into laughter. Newbies are more likely to go along with the bs.

**BookerTNelson** · 05-13-19 15:29

Originally Posted by LoVecchio [View Original Post]

That's possible, I suppose, although I am upfront about the fact that I am a vet. I tell them (truthfully) in my first or second message that I've had a number of long-term arrangements, lasting as long as two years. My rationale is that many of them are concerned that guys are just looking for "one and done" rather than the ongoing arrangements that many of them want (and that keep them from feeling like they are pros). If they were turned off by the fact that I had experience, I would have expected them to ghost me much earlier.

Just as that bit of info calms those that fear you only want a one time things, hearing "Two years" can also turn off those who look at that as something that isn't NSA and more along the lines of long term situation. You have to keep in mind that 99.9% of the prospects I meet claim that a man has tried to make them a long term option or creeped them out by how serious he was trying to get. I personally don't mention my past SB's unless they ask and at that point I'll share pieces of info as appropriate.

**LoVecchio** · 05-13-19 10:13

Originally Posted by BigOne73 [View Original Post]

If you're getting a lot of ghosts and blocks, it's because the girls have figured out you're a VET. I've had 12 girls this week ask me if I'm a vet in the first few sentences of messaging. They keep track of us through a list of some kind. They read this usasex forum daily and update each other on their list. They notify each other when we change our profiles. Sometimes they pretend that they don't know we're vets just to compile information on us. Most of the girls on SA know who I am by now, so I don't even try to pretend I'm someone else. It's all the same girls over and over anyways.

That's possible, I suppose, although I am upfront about the fact that I am a vet. I tell them (truthfully) in my first or second message that I've had a number of long-term arrangements, lasting as long as two years. My rationale is that many of them are concerned that guys are just looking for "one and done" rather than the ongoing arrangements that many of them want (and that keep them from feeling like they are pros). If they were turned off by the fact that I had experience, I would have expected them to ghost me much earlier.

**Bill Cullen** · 05-13-19 08:27

Originally Posted by NavenRJohnson [View Original Post]

Anyone have any experience with this one? Seems like a pro.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d8cfd...5-901b51f42e1c

Agree with your conclusion. I haven't decided if I'm going to meet her or not.

**ErkTheOne** · 05-13-19 07:48

Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]

I met a girl today for a M&G who is stationed at a Military base about 15 miles from me. According to her, she is attached to a technology unit, not a combat unit. She is asking for full discretion and possibly hanging out at my place or at a hotel. The other restriction is that she has to get back to base by midnight. She is a nice looking girl, and DTF. I have a feeling she would be great in the sack. She mentioned about financial help, but didn't try to negotiate any amounts. I am really interested in her and planning on a date later this week. My question to you guys- any additional potential risk with a military SB than a civilian SB? Anyone out there who had experience with a military SB?

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

I communicated with someone a while back who claimed to be in a similar situation. After getting into some details about setting up a meeting, then started to claim that they needed money to get approval papers to leave base etc. Long story short, it was clearly a scam and I moved on. Just another reminder to never send anything ahead of time.