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[Hamilton4]

Yesterday morning, I reached out to Crystal69 for the first time. She responded before I had even set my phone down! I commented on her quick response and she replied "that is because you actually responded (to her ad) the way I wish everybody would. " She went on to say "I think that this should be the thing senior members share on posts. " Now, of course, this forum is not about keeping the providers happy, but I do think it's largely about keeping everyone comfortable and safe. Furthermore, I realize every provider is different just like every client is different, and I realize that lots of us have different methods which work for us.

Posts like this have been written many times before on this board and there are many great forum members with far more experience than me and I certainly welcome their feedback on this. For initial contact, this is what works for me and have often been complimented on.

Hi (provider's name), I am (whatever your hobby name is). I hope you're having a great day! My USA handle (SM / RM) is (USA handle). I would like to meet you at (day, be specific) at (your incall / my hotel etc) around (time, I try to be specific but indicate there might be a little wiggle room) if you are available? I think an (hour, etc.) would be great.

Here are my references: & _ .

I look forward to meeting you.

If you have no references, seek out reputable, Newbie Friendly providers. Often their ad or website will have screening procedures. Figure out exactly how much personal information you are willing to share, and SHARE IT ALL FROM THE BEGINNING. A frequently reviewed provider has absolutely no motivation to abuse this trust. Don't try to play it slow or cool. Always be respectful, never be lewd. And for God's sake, if the ad says text, then text. If it says email, then email. Etc. After seeing just 2 or 3 reputable providers, your references may become most, if not all, of the information you'll need to share. Until then, suck it up. A provider who doesn't properly screen can be a red flag to meif her own safety isn't important to her, how important will mine be? Or it makes me wonder if she actually has no intention of seeing the date through, maybe it's a scam or set-up.

Anyone have anything to add?

Casey.

Thank you Casey for taking the time to share your thoughts. Well said and you definitely make the provider feel as if she is of value as a human being. Often times I think that "some" mongers come across as if we're doing the provider a favor when in fact it is a two way street. Again, I say "some" mongers because I know there are a lot of us that treat the providers very well. At the end of the day we are all just people traveling different paths but the main point is that we are all people and each one of us is of value and one no more than another.

Once again, thanks for your thoughts and gentle reminder.

Be safe!

Hamilton4.

[Casey9]

Yesterday morning, I reached out to Crystal69 for the first time. She responded before I had even set my phone down! I commented on her quick response and she replied "that is because you actually responded (to her ad) the way I wish everybody would. " She went on to say "I think that this should be the thing senior members share on posts. " Now, of course, this forum is not about keeping the providers happy, but I do think it's largely about keeping everyone comfortable and safe. Furthermore, I realize every provider is different just like every client is different, and I realize that lots of us have different methods which work for us.

Posts like this have been written many times before on this board and there are many great forum members with far more experience than me and I certainly welcome their feedback on this. For initial contact, this is what works for me and have often been complimented on.

Hi (provider's name), I am (whatever your hobby name is). I hope you're having a great day! My USA handle (SM / RM) is (USA handle). I would like to meet you at (day, be specific) at (your incall / my hotel etc) around (time, I try to be specific but indicate there might be a little wiggle room) if you are available? I think an (hour, etc.) would be great.

Here are my references: & _ .

I look forward to meeting you.

If you have no references, seek out reputable, Newbie Friendly providers. Often their ad or website will have screening procedures. Figure out exactly how much personal information you are willing to share, and SHARE IT ALL FROM THE BEGINNING. A frequently reviewed provider has absolutely no motivation to abuse this trust. Don't try to play it slow or cool. Always be respectful, never be lewd. And for God's sake, if the ad says text, then text. If it says email, then email. Etc. After seeing just 2 or 3 reputable providers, your references may become most, if not all, of the information you'll need to share. Until then, suck it up. A provider who doesn't properly screen can be a red flag to me—if her own safety isn't important to her, how important will mine be? Or it makes me wonder if she actually has no intention of seeing the date through, maybe it's a scam or set-up.

Anyone have anything to add?

Casey.

[Chow2000]

I had a non-hobby date with her a while ago and followed up enough afterward to know she had a stroke at some point. She's still alive, but no idea about her hobby status.

Thanks for updates. Yeah I saw her several times after her hospital visit. Didn't seem to change anything service wise atleast. I know she said something about having financial situation etc with moving. Would be great to connect again with her as I have seen her for years then silent. Thanks and good lookin our!

[Smitten]

I had a non-hobby date with her a while ago and followed up enough afterward to know she had a stroke at some point. She's still alive, but no idea about her hobby status.

That's sad to hear and wish her well. I might be thinking of someone else, but thought she had a kid not that long ago?

[Ding A Ling]

Hey guys anyone know whatever happens to the redhead kat? She was in maitland winterpark area, had seen her for years and now haven't heard anything for months. Just wondering if anyone had any info or new contact info? Thanks.

I miss her, she was so much fun and had a great sense of humor.

[ShadowMover]

Disney is much better than Universal for dreams in my experience, have received many a BBBJ on Haunted Mansion and Tomorrowland Transit Authority rides, LOL.

Hey I think this was my 400th post!
SYM

Hey congratulations on 400, ,I did have random luck on picking up a cute little latin late 20's just off Kirkman on international, she was walking looked a little lost near Red Lobster. I ask if she needed a ride she first said no, then started to talk so we got some lunch. She seemed cool. I did give her that ride and she did give me needed road head for being so nice. You never know who you dealing with good or bad. Be safe.

[SevenYearMitch]

Magical Dream
Coming to Florida on a little vacation and staying at Universal, anyone ever have a dream there?

Disney is much better than Universal for dreams in my experience, have received many a BBBJ on Haunted Mansion and Tomorrowland Transit Authority rides, LOL.

Hey I think this was my 400th post!
SYM

[OrlandoLurker]

Hey guys anyone know whatever happens to the redhead kat? She was in maitland winterpark area, had seen her for years and now haven't heard anything for months. Just wondering if anyone had any info or new contact info? Thanks.

I had a non-hobby date with her a while ago and followed up enough afterward to know she had a stroke at some point. She's still alive, but no idea about her hobby status.

[Chow2000]

Hey guys anyone know whatever happens to the redhead kat? She was in maitland winterpark area, had seen her for years and now haven't heard anything for months. Just wondering if anyone had any info or new contact info? Thanks.

[Member #6415]

Coming to Florida on a little vacation and staying at Universal, anyone ever have a dream there?

[FLAdventurer]

Thanks for the international site. Didn't know about it. Guess I just need to make a new account and signup?

I have been to Amsterdam couple months ago, Budapest sounds interesting. I usually spend 2 days in 4 different countries and fly between them. Thanks for the info always looking for the best international spots!

Budapest and the outlying cities are incredible, as is the food and thermal spa's.

Go to our sister site and under Budapest, I have done a blog that lays out a lot of information on mongering in Hungary.

For about $70 for an hour, you can be with what dreams are made of.

Go to www.internationalsexguide.info.

Prague is pretty cool too.

I suggest you stay in Pest, not Buda

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[Chow2000]

We have a sister site, www.internationasexguide.info.

Most people start with the red light districts in Amsterdam and other communities in the Netherlands. Germany and Belgium are also talent rich.

Prague is great, been there many times. Lots of information on the ISG boards about all of these places but I can also answer any questions you have. Look for privats in Prague. Apartments with a few girls run by a manager. Quality is fairly consistent. Better stuff by finding providers that are on their own.

My favorite is Budapest and all of the outlying cities in Hungary. Best bang for the buck!

If I were wanting to sample Europe, I would go by train and start with Amsterdam for a couple of days, then the adjacent communities of Aachen and Koln, then on to Prague, and finally Budapest. It would change your life forever.

Agreed on Budapest, great city, great food, great pussy. I'd go there anytime.

Trains in Europe are awesome but the low cost airlines are giving them a run for the money.

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Thanks for the international site. Didn't know about it. Guess I just need to make a new account and signup?

I have been to Amsterdam couple months ago, Budapest sounds interesting. I usually spend 2 days in 4 different countries and fly between them. Thanks for the info always looking for the best international spots!

[FLAdventurer]

Hey guys wasn't sure where to post this so starting here. I'm going to Europe in a couple weeks and was wanting to see if anyone here had experience with hobbling in European countries and any recommendations. I have been to the fkk clubs in Germany but thinking of trying some girls in Prague possibly? Heard they are hot and great prices there. I'll be traveling around the countries so any suggestions would be great! Or if anyone has any idea of where I should go to look for a forum like this site but for international? Thanks for your guidance as always and hope to get some ideas! I'll make sure to grabb some photos and reviews in the upcoming weeks!

We have a sister site, www.internationasexguide.info.

Most people start with the red light districts in Amsterdam and other communities in the Netherlands. Germany and Belgium are also talent rich.

Prague is great, been there many times. Lots of information on the ISG boards about all of these places but I can also answer any questions you have. Look for privats in Prague. Apartments with a few girls run by a manager. Quality is fairly consistent. Better stuff by finding providers that are on their own.

My favorite is Budapest and all of the outlying cities in Hungary. Best bang for the buck!

If I were wanting to sample Europe, I would go by train and start with Amsterdam for a couple of days, then the adjacent communities of Aachen and Koln, then on to Prague, and finally Budapest. It would change your life forever.

Agreed on Budapest, great city, great food, great pussy. I'd go there anytime.

Trains in Europe are awesome but the low cost airlines are giving them a run for the money.

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[WordCraft]

If you don't want to be triggered, then don't read this [Deleted by Admin]

Nobody needs to rebut the post because I'm not going to let you inflame the forum. Go find some other site to troll. I have more than enough assholes already and don't need more.

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[TheRonChapman]

Here it is my first post with nothing resourceful to share with the community- For you guys that have been in the game for years kudos to ya'll, this is like an elite club and membership is rough to get in. I could sit here and post fake reviews, or add my pointless 2 cents to other monger comments just to build up site cred just so I can have an experience with a reputable provider, or I could put myself out on the trail and risk everything for a non-memorable shag in a Dawoo Lanus just so I could have something to type. "OBT past the homeless guy by the blue mailbox, picked up BBW named Cinnamon, drove her to her dealer, almost got shot, then. BBBJ, DATY, licked her track marks. 15 called it a night, it was rad. " WTF there has to be an easier way to skip the training wheels and jump into a first time experience safely, believe me guys I'm not trying to steal all the good looking trim, I just need three minutes and I'm out of the way no bubbles no troubles. I apologize in advance, not trying to upset anyone, I've read and learned tons here. Just venting. Anyway if there is a dedicated newbie pool that I should be swimming in gladly point it out and I'll head there with my tail between my legs.

1. Read and research. Pull up the typical fishing pond in the inter web, google the number and images. Search names in the forums for the town you are looking. I believe there is no reason what so ever to see a girl you don't know what they look like, what they offer and if there is any negative history. Plenty of girls that will see you without a reference. Maybe not the best ones, but at least they are legit and you can have a good time.

2. Report on those. Be honest but you don't have to write a Dear Penthouse story. Provide a link!

3. A warning will build as much credit as a review. So if you get one to stay away from let everyone know.

4. Jump in on general subject matter. Give your opinion. Makes others feel that you are legit and to an extent, trustworthy. (never 100% trust anyone).

5. Do enough reading that you know who has a good handle on things and ask simple questions. Don't pry too much, but enough to begin a dialog.

6. Do not post only "any body seen this one" posts. I mean c'Mon., guys get called out all the time when they have 20 posts and they are all inquiries.

7. When you se a girl that for whatever reason you click with, give her a gift or a tip the next time you see her and ask her if she will be a reference for you. Helps if they are somewhat known and advertise. Then use your reference to see someone on the next tier up. Generally way better girls and once you have one of their referrals you can see whom ever you want.

8. Look for guys at that point that are not as far along as you and help them publicly, it will be reciprocated.

Hope this helps.

I set the date on this post for a week in the future so it stays at the top of the tread for awhile. I also added the bold font to #5

Read, read, and commit to memory, this is great advice and an example to Senior Members on how to help the new guys be better members.

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